Guys Im trying to be serious now for a minute.
I am considering telling her that I would like to get to know her better outside of work. I dont think thats any reason to be embarrassed even if she were to decline.
The thing that concerns me is today we had a talk again and it seems she is reluctant to meet with me stating "5 minutes only" and things like that. I asked her for a favor which she said she couldnt do saying I "dont deserve any special treatment" which honestly hurt, because I am by far the best producer in the building.
She also threw in that she hopes she understands what she is doing is what she things is the most career oriented and smart, and she cant have rumors going around the building and whatnot, which leads me to believe she may take a similar stance if I asked her out.
Its a pretty crazy unique situation and I really like this girl a ton. Im pretty sure she would decline any advances but this honestly beyond miserable.
I cant talk to anyone in real life about it for obvious reasons so in some weird way it feels good to get it out here.
I would welcome any solid and serious advice on this matter.
I am considering telling her that I would like to get to know her better outside of work. I dont think thats any reason to be embarrassed even if she were to decline.
The thing that concerns me is today we had a talk again and it seems she is reluctant to meet with me stating "5 minutes only" and things like that. I asked her for a favor which she said she couldnt do saying I "dont deserve any special treatment" which honestly hurt, because I am by far the best producer in the building.
She also threw in that she hopes she understands what she is doing is what she things is the most career oriented and smart, and she cant have rumors going around the building and whatnot, which leads me to believe she may take a similar stance if I asked her out.
Its a pretty crazy unique situation and I really like this girl a ton. Im pretty sure she would decline any advances but this honestly beyond miserable.
I cant talk to anyone in real life about it for obvious reasons so in some weird way it feels good to get it out here.
I would welcome any solid and serious advice on this matter.
