Need your help boys: Do I tell her I cheated?

[BAUS]

Ronald's account of the happenings is 100% accurate. The room was a little musty afterward.

BAUS

[ShamsWoof10]

My bad you don't have a family it's just a girlfriend... You did say she is into you more then you are into her... I know that feeling on both sides...

It's really not that big of a deal in all reality as long as health is ok... Do whatever you feel would be best for both of you.. If it's not going to workout it won't for more reasons then this... You saying you are not into her like she is into you is telling.. She'd probably be more pissed about that!

[BAUS]

Woof,

I think you are right. Maybe I should just dump her tonight...

BAUS

[Charger42]

Man, if you are in a hurry, go to the closest college or university and get tested at their medical center. Usually they have a doctor that just specializes in that and you can skip the wait.

[BAUS]

I was tested in October and given a clean bill of health. They did blood test, cock swab, urine test, and visual exam.

The results take 5 business days where I live. Not a lot of options here.

BAUS

[robmpink]

This is sad when you have to go to a forum instead of making your own decision. Are you insecure? Also, I would be worried for you, not her.

[BAUS]

These poll results confuse me though. I wish I had a clear answer.

BAUS

[ShamsWoof10]

Nothing wrong with getting multiple perspectives...

[BAUS]

This is sad when you have to go to a forum instead of making your own decision. Are you insecure? Also, I would be worried for you, not her.

No, but I like input from my learned forum brothers. What other way could I get advice from 100+ dudes (and a couple broads)?

BAUS

[BAUS]

Once again, I will say I like her enough to care about giving her some disease. She will be over here in less than 2 hours....wtf do I tell her when she wants to bang?

BAUS

[Lucas]

show her this forum!

[pico]

Once again, I will say I like her enough to care about giving her some disease. She will be over here in less than 2 hours....wtf do I tell her when she wants to bang?

BAUS

tell her you have a headache. or you can say it is that time of the month again

[BAUS]

show her this forum!

Lucas, I have read your thoughts on this issue and I don't understand you man. Where do you live man? Over here in North America guys like to bang girls for fun.

BAUS

[Doc JS]

Once again, I will say I like her enough to care about giving her some disease. She will be over here in less than 2 hours....wtf do I tell her when she wants to bang?

If she wants to bang and you can't wear a condom, then you have to come clean, no pun intended, and tell her the truth.

To risk giving the nice girl an STD becuase you couldn't keep your dick in your pants or at least wear a condom in Vegas is wrong. Period. End of discussion.

BOL!!

Doc

[Lucas]

Lucas, I have read your thoughts on this issue and I don't understand you man. Where do you live man? Over here in North America guys like to bang girls for fun.

BAUS

i am afraid i live in europe
well i do not care what people do, to make my decisions i hope, i also like to bang, but i do not do things "just for fun"... never; it is better to think first and you had to know this will be problem; i usually try to think with brain

i just think it is not good to lie to the people who give you mirror, if someone who i **** asks me about this, i would tell truth, that is all, you ****ed some girl, because you are BAUS, will you tell her you like RnB while you listen to DnB? there is nothing to be afraid of

anyways you will not understand what i am trying to say, it is not about sexual behavior, it is about approach to reality, about to say "i am who i am and **** off"

i would tell her good bye because I am pig and find a girl that will tolerate LV trips. probably it is hard, but for sure possible, but maybe you rather whing on forums and pretend, truly i do not know, i wish you.. whatever you want

[robmpink]

No, but I like input from my learned forum brothers. What other way could I get advice from 100+ dudes (and a couple broads)?

BAUS

The majority of people end up doing what they want to do anyway. People do this for attention. No one really cares if you tell her or don't tell. Be a ****in man and make up your mind. You could have 30 people here say that you should tell her. Chances are that if you want to bang her you will no matter what advice you get here.

[BAUS]

Europe is cool. I banged a girl in Poland and it was one of the best I have ever had.

BAUS

[Lucas]

Europe is cool. I banged a girl in Poland and it was one of the best I have ever had.

BAUS

here is a nice polish girl just for you

[BAUS]

The majority of people end up doing what they want to do anyway. People do this for attention. No one really cares if you tell her or don't tell. Be a ****in man and make up your mind. You could have 30 people here say that you should tell her. Chances are that if you want to bang her you will no matter what advice you get here.

This is true. Maybe I should just tell her the truth, end this relationship, and we can both move on.

BAUS

[ShamsWoof10]

This is true. Maybe I should just tell her the truth, end this relationship, and we can both move on.

BAUS

This could be bro. but it's also MUCH MUCH MUCH easier said then done...

There is a possiblity you could be throwing away someone you might actually end up likeing and having a good relationship with... I can't tell you how many times I have seen this happen and guys/girls cheat in the beginning then would sorta hang around for a while and the next thing you know they are in love and married with kids...

If I had to name friends in the past that cheated on their G/BF in the earlier stages and not said anything to them then ended up happily married I would have to take my shoes off...

Don't try too hard to do any one thing... Let it work itself out! It will anyway...

[zootiehead]

too fukkin funny

[Junkyard Dog]

bauser-thesexman.com

[buztah]

too fukkin funny

[thebigguy]

I love Promiscuous Women! They just do not like me.

Ask your lady whether she would like to be a swinger?

Promiscuity refers to sexual behaviour of a man or woman who engages in sexual relations with multiple partners on a casual and/or regular basis.

[MoneySportsGuy]

Yes after reading the first 3 pages, and skipping to last page there is a advice giving JJ video!

My personal advice, you have to be honest with the girl and tell her, because like another poster said, that can give you insight to what boundries you have and what she has as well.

And on top of that, if you did get an STD and not tell her, like another poster said dont ruin the girls life because you couldnt keep it in your pants

Another thing, you sure have balls to **** a girl in Vegas without a condom that is nuts man

Goodluck however it ends, but make sure you are honest because if you are, you might be able to do repair and sure your going to hear stuff that isnt nice, but you know you have to be a man and live with that because its not worth to lie and then have her find out, and trust me, she will, and you do not want a pissed off girl in your life looking to get back at you. YIKES

[BadNina]

If you don't tell her, I hope one day she boils your bunny.

[purecarnagge]

you have to post an update, its been way longer than 2 hours...

[swede96]

My advice as far as the lying is concerned is, just be yourself. If you think of yourself as a liar, if telling the truth would feel unnatural to you, definitely lie. If you think of yourself as an honest person, at least when it comes to matters like this, and lying would feel unnatural, or "not you", definitely tell the truth.

In life, people inclined to be good should be good, and accepts the benefits and consequences of it, and people inclined to be bad should be bad, and accept the benefits and consequences of it.

I think your new pikshur made you smarter.

[swede96]

No dont tell her , who knows what she was doing when you were in Vegas

*snort* Typical. He cheated so she must be? This is exactly why my ex used to grill me on where I was every second. He was humping everything that moved, so he tried to make himself feel better by telling himself that I was.

[swede96]

In this day and age? My civilized opinion?

You are a total asshole to even consider passing on a disease to a girl that fully trusts you.

Taking it a step further, if you knew you had AIDS and would knowingly pass it on, you should be shot.

Agreed, but his pe pee should be cut off with a dull blade first.

[swede96]

What was it again? It doesn't exist?

Yet people are dying left, right, and center.

Pay a visit to Africa.

It's in America too...and I've seen it happen to one of the most caring, loving and loyal people I've ever known.

[swede96]

BAUS- been there done this. This chick is going to meet you at the airport. Pick you up. go get dinner, say how hungry you are. Go check out a movie or something. Then say damn Im exhausted now. find any damn ****ing reason to go home alone and not bang her. But here is the great part about this strategy, and yes this is a strategy. You dodge this chick for the rest of the week. Until you get your test results back. This means finding some dive bar to go hang out in for 5 days or some old buddies that you haven't seen in awhile you do it. When she calls voicemail. Call her back after two days and just be like. I'm sorry I had a emergency come out with blah blah friend or I've been working crazy hours or I'm just stressed out with this I want to see you too. But I really just need to deal with this situation.

Now this is where having a friend that she might know of but not actually know or see or meet or ever run into again will come in handy. For me its my bestfriend from highschool that moved to CA. I live in iowa. So I'm safe. Here is the problem.

YOU DODGE THIS CHICK NO MATTER THE COST.

You don't answer your phone by anyone who might be associated with her aka any friend that might call you on her behalf... Just chill go have fun for 5 days.

If your even thinking about this thread seriously you obviously want to keep having sex with her and care about her enough to delay seeing her for a week. And besides when its all said and done. YOU SPENT ALL THAT TIME WITH HER RIGHT WHEN YOU GOT BACK FROM THE AIRPORT.... So its not like she hasn't seen you in awhile.

If you really didn't care you would just dump her to begin with and find someone else. So its your call, I think you like her more than you admit.

I think I dated you...and I'm glad I kicked your sorry, selfish ass to the curb...jusat sayin'

[swede96]

here is my rational analysis of your predicament...i think it is a bit late now, but i just saw your post.

you have a very nice a girl, and if you tell her you nailed another girl without condom...that will for sure spell doom to your nice relationship.

now think about contracting STD after one encoutner...the probability of that happening is about 30%...if i can remember correctly. So there is 70% that you'll ruin your relationship for nothing. i'd say that is pretty bad odds. if i were you...go on about your business pretend nothing had happened...try to delay having sex with her or use a condom for about 14 days. if you can't do that without causing suspecion, then you might have to risk it. get tested right a way. your results should be back after 14 days. if you test is negative, then you're in the clean...congrats.

Seriously? Where did you get your statistics? And ruining it over nothing? Sticking it it a whore in Vegas IS something.

now if your result is positive for a treatable STD, you have to go clean and explain it to her and tell her to get tested. if you got herpies or hiv, then you're pretty much screwed, but there is still a chance she might not get it, so you have to come clean and tell her to get tested. this is the worst situation, i would hang my self. but telling her now won't change the fact your got some uncurable std.

But it could save HER from getting one. HE'S screwed if he gives her herpes or HIV?! It's about HIM?! What about the fact that he just ruined her life. You know what, if I were that girl, he would be screwed...because if I have herpes or HIV, I have nothing to lose and I'm coming to his house to chop his dick off....and they won't be finding it in a field either...that thing is GONE.

[RageWizard]

Watch out Swedes is on a roll today fellas.

[swede96]

It wasn't the first time I did that in Vegas. I'm really playing with fire by doing this shit. I need to think better sometimes.

BAUS

You shouldn't do it ever buddy. I MANY of my friends have ended up with Chlamydia...they're all VERY clean looking girls who only date VERY clean looking guys. You really never can tell.