Need your help boys: Do I tell her I cheated?

**The Seer** · 01-17-08, 02:52 PM

Originally posted by BAUS

Probably tonight. I'm thinking the best approach is to just dump her and tell her nothing about the Vegas slut. I don't feel that into her anymore anyway.

BAUS

On a serious note, if that is the way you feel then go ahead and dump her. Don't string her along. Also, don't tell her about the trip then because later on you might have a change of heart and she would never get back then. Never burn bridges anymore than you have to.

**TexansFan** · 01-17-08, 02:52 PM

I really wouldn't worry about it because she's probably getting some on the side as well.

**BAUS** · 01-17-08, 03:00 PM

Originally posted by The Seer

On a serious note, if that is the way you feel then go ahead and dump her. Don't string her along. Also, don't tell her about the trip then because later on you might have a change of heart and she would never get back then. Never burn bridges anymore than you have to.

If I tell her the truth I will inevitably run into her friends all the time and they will scold me. If I just dump her citing lack of interest I can avoid all that.

Sharp post Seer.

BAUS

**swede96** · 01-17-08, 03:01 PM

I know you're ignoring me, but her friends will scold you (and interrogate you) for dumping her because you're not into her too. Avoid them at all costs no matter what you do.

**The Seer** · 01-17-08, 03:06 PM

Originally posted by BAUS

If I tell her the truth I will inevitably run into her friends all the time and they will scold me. If I just dump her citing lack of interest I can avoid all that.

Sharp post Seer.

BAUS

Really, what could they say then? Well he's a jerk, he just wasn't into Jen (or whatever her name is). If you told the truth, they would say he is an asshole. He went off and screwed some skank in LV. The first one wouldn't destroy your rep with chicks. As a matter of fact, you may even get in with some of her friends.

**ShamsWoof10** · 01-17-08, 03:11 PM

Originally posted by The Seer

Really, what could they say then? Well he's a jerk, he just wasn't into Jen (or whatever her name is). If you told the truth, they would say he is an asshole. He went off and screwed some skank in LV. The first one wouldn't destroy your rep with chicks. As a matter of fact, you may even get in with some of her friends.

There is a possibility of this I completely agree...

**BAUS** · 01-17-08, 03:15 PM

Originally posted by swede96

I know you're ignoring me, but her friends will scold you (and interrogate you) for dumping her because you're not into her too. Avoid them at all costs no matter what you do.

I suppose I could get scolded for not being into her, but that's ridiculous. If I dump her, I sure won't be telling her about the LV skank. That would just close too many doors.

BAUS

**swede96** · 01-17-08, 03:17 PM

I guess. I just feel for her. I've been her. It will be easier for her to get over you if she thinks you're an asshole. But I understand you not wanting to look like an asshole to eveyone she knows.

**seaborneq** · 01-17-08, 04:45 PM

Dammit, BAUS I told you to do this on the first page. You could have stopped all of this nonsense if you had done what I said a long time ago. I guess we had to go through numerous threads to find out who the assholes and losers are.

**BadNina** · 01-17-08, 05:05 PM

BAUS, you are going to look like an ass no matter how this plays out. If you tell her, her friends will think you are an ass. If you don't tell her and just break up citing lack of interest, her friends will think you are an ass. If you stay with her and give her crotchrot, her friends will think you are an ass. That's just the way it works in a female friend circle.

**pico** · 01-17-08, 06:05 PM

Originally posted by BadNina

BAUS, you are going to look like an ass no matter how this plays out. If you tell her, her friends will think you are an ass. If you don't tell her and just break up citing lack of interest, her friends will think you are an ass. If you stay with her and give her crotchrot, her friends will think you are an ass. That's just the way it works in a female friend circle.

in that case, buddy, your best route is pretend nothing happened...don't get tested and just keep barebacking her. if one day symptom arrise, try to blame it on her...maybe she is cheating on you also.

**BadNina** · 01-17-08, 06:08 PM

Originally posted by picoman

in that case, buddy, your best route is pretend nothing happened...don't get tested and just keep barebacking her. if one day symptom arrise, try to blame it on her...maybe she is cheating on you also.

And that would just make him an ass.

**pico** · 01-17-08, 06:10 PM

Originally posted by BadNina

And that would just make him an ass.

if no symptom arrise, then he is in the clear. then he is not an ass...at least in front of her friends

**purecarnagge** · 01-17-08, 07:08 PM

BAUS you never said you were willing to dump her upon coming back. We could have made this a nice 2 page thread and been done with this...

If your not into her, get rid of her.

Just for comic relief if you dump her you gotta go back to her a week later after your test comes back and get sum...you did go get tested didn't you?

**thebigguy** · 01-17-08, 08:06 PM

Please keep us posted.

**seaborneq** · 01-17-08, 09:09 PM

No, please don't keep us posted.

**BadNina** · 01-17-08, 10:24 PM

Originally posted by picoman

if no symptom arrise, then he is in the clear. then he is not an ass...at least in front of her friends

If it walks like an ass and talks like an ass, it's an ass no matter what.

**pico** · 01-17-08, 10:31 PM

Originally posted by BadNina

If it walks like an ass and talks like an ass, it's an ass no matter what.

i am not saying he is not an ass. there are plenty of ****ed up nice girls for some reason keep dating assholes. i think if the girl's dad is an asshole, she'll probably date and marry an asshole. don't feel bad, it is her own fault for dating him in the first place...it is the only way for her to smarten up...hopefully she won't get HIV or Herpies.

**swede96** · 01-18-08, 09:41 AM

Come on...it's not entirely her fault for dating him...you men folk can be smooooooth talkers.

I'm so glad I have the best dad in the world....

**BAUS** · 01-19-08, 03:48 AM

Webber, I know you want to see a pic of the girl I banged so here it is.

Enjoy coach. I know your prick is hard!!

BAUS

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**Roach23** · 01-19-08, 05:51 AM

i only read the 1st 11 posts but this forum is full of white folks.

**Dark Horse** · 01-19-08, 07:07 AM

Originally posted by seaborneq

Dammit, BAUS I told you to do this on the first page. You could have stopped all of this nonsense if you had done what I said a long time ago. I guess we had to go through numerous threads to find out who the assholes and losers are.

Works for me. I had no idea that this forum had attracted such a collection of moronic low-lives, with their 'you can always blame a disease on her'. I have never, on any forum, seen a thread with such total disrespect towards women. Has SBR become the place for little worms without honor and without backbone?

**ShamsWoof10** · 01-19-08, 09:35 AM

Originally posted by Roach23

i only read the 1st 11 posts but this forum is full of white folks.

Boy...not much gets past this guy...

Not bad "BAUS"... It looks like you had a good time...

**JoshW** · 01-19-08, 10:10 AM

The number of people not using condems for random hookups is amazing. To each his own.

**ShamsWoof10** · 01-19-08, 10:22 AM

Originally posted by lakerfan

The number of people not using condems for random hookups is amazing. To each his own.

Yeah you'd think the whole country would have "AIDS" by now

You can toss me in the amazing brackett I rarely used them...

**seaborneq** · 01-19-08, 03:17 PM

Originally posted by Dark Horse

Works for me. I had no idea that this forum had attracted such a collection of moronic low-lives, with their 'you can always blame a disease on her'. I have never, on any forum, seen a thread with such total disrespect towards women. Has SBR become the place for little worms without honor and without backbone?

DH, yes this forum is finally saturated with moronic low lives. And all the good pickers have left, so what does that leave. Nothing.

**THE HITMAN** · 01-19-08, 08:18 PM

Never tell, you will damage the relationship, probably lose her trust and she will probably do the same thing to get even with you.
Just make up an excuse..........tell her the last time you were together that you were so hard that you strained your lil peter,(it can happen, I've done it) it hurt all the time you were in Vegas so between that and not being with her you had a lousy time there, and you need to get it checked out with a Doc. She will agree, but instead of getting it checked out, just get tested instead and put your mind at ease. So now, you bought yourself a bit of time..............with that time, instead of screwing, go through the motions. Have a nice dinner, tell her how nice she looks, etc. Take her after, seductively take her clothes off, run a nice hot bath for her, lay candles out, give her a nice sensual massage and spend a lot of time munching on her fur burger. She'll love it and if she really cares for you, she will even be sympathetic to boot !
GL

**swede96** · 01-21-08, 10:33 AM

Originally posted by Dark Horse

Works for me. I had no idea that this forum had attracted such a collection of moronic low-lives, with their 'you can always blame a disease on her'. I have never, on any forum, seen a thread with such total disrespect towards women. Has SBR become the place for little worms without honor and without backbone?

**swede96** · 01-21-08, 10:34 AM

Originally posted by THE HITMAN

Never tell, you will damage the relationship, probably lose her trust and she will probably do the same thing to get even with you.

I don't think it will ever cease to anaze me that so many men feel that coming clean is what damages the relationship, not sticking your dick in whatever moves.

**Stumpage** · 01-21-08, 10:43 AM

So.....Did you tell her?.....

**RageWizard** · 01-21-08, 10:51 AM

Originally posted by swede96

I don't think it will ever cease to anaze me that so many men feel that coming clean is what damages the relationship, not sticking your dick in whatever moves.

I'm shocked that you are "anaze"d, that's pretty much how guys operate. Then when it blows up in their face, they go drinking with the guys and start again. I never and have not ever cheated on any of my wives (I'm not a Mormon, but have had 2 married episodes), or girlfriends, but I have several friends who cheating is like a daily occurance. I have to hand it to them, they have to keep their story straight and sometimes they have their wingman vouch for their stories that are sometimes so laughable that I can't believe that the otherwise smart women that they are with don't see right through the B.S.

**swede96** · 01-21-08, 11:40 AM

Thank you for ALWAYS catching my typos. You're a dear.

I guess we want to believe you guys are good. We're suckes like that.

**RageWizard** · 01-21-08, 11:58 AM

Originally posted by swede96

Thank you for ALWAYS catching my typos. You're a dear.

I guess we want to believe you guys are good. We're suckes like that.

Sorry, I don't try to come off as an asshole, but according to my wife, that's what I do best, along with solving steel forming problems. I know that many of my own post have several problems whether grammical, spelling, or even a cynical view of the world is ending attitude. Please feel free to hammer me hard when my errors are spotted, and I will try to refrain from my assholisms in the future.

**swede96** · 01-21-08, 12:11 PM

LOL...it's fine...I'm not offended. I make fun of myself most of the time.

**purecarnagge** · 01-21-08, 03:59 PM

So BAUS your out of time what did you do? We need answers not suggestions for you.