help needed: is my wife cheating on me?

[tony_come]

Grab her phone

and text the number back

"my husband found out" etc...

And wait for his response

[Dark Horse]

It seems like your wife is not trustworthy and playing you for a fool. You don't need the text history. Why fill your mind with that? Just tell her to stop texting the guy. If she doesn't, or objects to that, that's all you need to know. The job situation makes it more complicated. If you decide to give it another shot, your marriage may need professional help. If not, these things happen. If anything they will make you a better judge of character next time around. You're not the first guy that learned this lesson, and you won't be the last.

By the way, if she is sending 10 texts per hour, how on earth do you not notice that? If you're not paying her any attention, you may be partly to blame. Who knows.

[zsr]

Grab her phone

and text the number back

"my husband found out" etc...

And wait for his response

This is a good idea. Try this and report back

[will2survive]

8000 texts is too much. Something is going on and if not, it's still not acceptable. Let her take lie detector test. If she passes, tell her the texting can't continue

[Sam Odom]

make lemonade out of lemons See if they want to do a MMF

[CarpeDime]

is it possible the other guy is gay?

i mean that's a lot of fukkin texting guy, hard to imagine a straight guy would do that

a gay guy though would definitely like texting every 4 minutes for 20 hours straight with some married chick he knows

make sure that's not what's going on guy

[KingJD31]

is it possible the other guy is gay?

i mean that's a lot of fukkin texting guy, hard to imagine a straight guy would do that

a gay guy though would definitely like texting every 4 minutes for 20 hours straight with some married chick he knows

make sure that's not what's going on guy

gotta be gay way too much texting

[Glitch]

If the phone is in your name, call the provider and see if you can obtain a copy. Drill her on it. Tell her it is bull shit that she chats with some other guy for so long. She might just be doing it for the attention. Look at other people she has texted, see if it goes past 20. She may be deleting the texts. It doesn't look good man. Ask her why she never told you that she was talking to him before, find out if he has a girlfriend or wife, then push for a double date. See how she reacts ! The note questions asked, they more she will get tangled if she is lying. Good luck man

this.

[SRBI]

You dudes don't know how to handle your women. Lay down the law plain and simple. It's a man's world baby.

[zsr]

Did you not notice her texting all day every day? Seems like that would be hard to miss

[milkncereal]

if you gotta ask on an internet form if she's cheating, she's cheating. start drinking

[bettilimbroke999]

8000? Is she texting him while he's balls deep?

Oh God (send)

Oh God (send)

Oh God (send)

Im cumming (send)

[Cntax]

cut her loose

[Sam Odom]

if you gotta ask on an internet form if she's cheating, she's cheating. start drinking

She's acting single I'm drinking double
I hide my pain I drown my troubles
My heart is breaking Like the tiny bubbles
She's acting single I'm drinking doubles

[jstblaze]

there is a good chance it has nt officially been consecrated yet. usually once "IT" happens there would not be as much texting as the excitement drops.

this sound sliek two marreid coworkers flirting and letting it build up and not 100% sure they want to actually do it, or not able to find the rigth lie/situation to make it happen yet.

either way, if she did this already, your chance of her changin g isnt likely.

If she isnt satisfied with your marriage at this point, then maybe you coudl amke a difference soemhow if nothing happened yet, but likely she will go back to old ways again in time.

rip into her no matter. real fierce. because whatever is happening is not right, unless he is gay of course.

[Big Bear]

Grab her phone

and text the number back

"my husband found out" etc...

And wait for his response

yeah , genius.

If he says wtf are you talking about? then say he found out what I got him for christmas

[ttwarrior1]

are you exagerating the numbers and why are you using her cell phone?? where do they work, is he single. We need alot more info

[ttwarrior1]

dude if u text back he found out, she will know u did it, why arent' the texts deleted, i smell a shit towel

[mathdotcom]

So many morons in here

She is cheating on you

Start cheating too and begin planning your separation

The real question is why you weren't cheating already

[macoeric]

You know my life is sad when I am looking forward to getting updated on this situation...

Best of luck dude.

[robmpink]

You know my life is sad when I am looking forward to getting updated on this situation...

Best of luck dude.

lol

[roundcake]

the phones are in my name (get discount from work woot) so i was able to create a my verizon acct and actually scroll thru each transaction date/time/number is all i can see... and no exaggeration 8079 texts to be exact...

guy she is texting is divorced

she still claims no cheating

obviously marriage is over, im not that stupid

[griz]

the phones are in my name (get discount from work woot) so i was able to create a my verizon acct and actually scroll thru each transaction date/time/number is all i can see... and no exaggeration 8079 texts to be exact... guy she is texting is divorced she still claims no cheating obviously marriage is over, im not that stupid

have a drink man and throw that bitch out on the street. plenty of young hotties just graduating college that are realizing how bad the economy is out there and would love to mee a guy who makes decent coin and fuk the shit out of him for awhile

[doublej95]

the phones are in my name (get discount from work woot) so i was able to create a my verizon acct and actually scroll thru each transaction date/time/number is all i can see... and no exaggeration 8079 texts to be exact...

guy she is texting is divorced

she still claims no cheating

obviously marriage is over, im not that stupid

Are you still giving her any christmas presents?

[roundcake]

Are you still giving her any christmas presents?

lol

i took the dog and gunna stay w/ familt thru holiday

[paranoyd androyd]

how old are you and the wife?

[RubberKettle]

I'd get some Johnny Walker Blue and post up in the corner this Christmas.

[chilidog]

lol

i took the dog and gunna stay w/ familt thru holiday

Awesome. That just ruined her holidays.

[doublej95]

Awesome. That just ruined her holidays.

probably not, she will invite the other guy over and be fukking on roundcakes bed.

[Holeaway]

lawyer up. happy holidays with your real family.

[dodger33]

Go to a strip club for Christmas!

[face]

sorry to hear roundcake. what are ya gonna do right. do not flip out, take some time off and just think about seperation. good plan just to hang with your family during the holidays. i usually troll and say stupid shit, but i feel for this guy. good luck man

[Pew Pew]

I would hold a gun to her head and demand the real answers.

you're scary

[TheMoneyShot]

Sorry to hear this... the first step I would take since you're married... and I'm sure the cell phones are in your name... turn her damn line off and force her to get her own. You want answers??? She'll talk to you... and tell you everything.

[roundcake]

kicking her to the curb would make me like her... so i cant do that yet, esspecially since she depends on me financially

how long is the slippery slope im staring down