SERIOUS QUESTION --- IS IT wrong for a 31 year old man to want a 17 year old girl ?

[nobs]

if you insist

[Gee]

Yeah, you make good sense. No female is worth getting locked up over. It was bad judgement on my part for sure.

Yeah, I'm glad that it hasn't caused you any huge problems yet.

I do suggest, however, speaking to a psychologist or getting some help at some point.

I read your post before about being attracted to 16-20 year old girls. You also seemed to suggest that you had not had many sexual relationships with people your age.

This is not normal for a 31 year old man.

Here is my backyard diagnosis from what I know about this type of thing. Often people who suffer rejection etc. from their own peer group turn to younger people (and even children), because they do not challenge them as much.

It is the road to pedophilia. Get out while you can.

[Blax0r]

whoa... higher your standards man. she looks older than my wife!

You can do better.

[pacers101]

dude...wtf... where you from, mars hill?

[DeluxeLiner]

nobs you are a piece of crap but that person that created that ruckus because you bought a young friend you work with a present is a crazy person. this bs investigation is ludacris especially since the girl never complained or said there was anything wrong with your freindship when asked.

you were done wrong nobs.

[cjwatsonfan32]

unless shes a double d and a tight one, then get away from it, pervert

[nobs]

Yeah, I'm glad that it hasn't caused you any huge problems yet.

I do suggest, however, speaking to a psychologist or getting some help at some point.

I read your post before about being attracted to 16-20 year old girls. You also seemed to suggest that you had not had many sexual relationships with people your age.

This is not normal for a 31 year old man.

Here is my backyard diagnosis from what I know about this type of thing. Often people who suffer rejection etc. from their own peer group turn to younger people (and even children), because they do not challenge them as much.

It is the road to pedophilia. Get out while you can.

Its just not true that 17-20 year olds dont challende me as much. I have had quiet a few offers from older females that look like the one posted above. I simply want a hotter chick, which 17-20 year old generally are. You are right, that I have never been with a 30+ year old woman. I generally dont find them attractive, and a lot of them have kids, ex husbands, baby daddies. A lot of issues I dont want to deal with.

And most hot 17-20 year old girls know it. they know they are the shit and they can have any guy they want. To say they are not a challenge is just incorrect.

[Lookingtostart]

In England you can bang girls at 16, Netherlands it's even lower.

Vatican City is even lower. The age of consent over there is 12, not joking.

[acarmelo1]

This Thread Gets

[Dr.Gonzo]

Its just not true that 17-20 year olds dont challende me as much. I have had quiet a few offers from older females that look like the one posted above. I simply want a hotter chick, which 17-20 year old generally are. You are right, that I have never been with a 30+ year old woman. I generally dont find them attractive, and a lot of them have kids, ex husbands, baby daddies. A lot of issues I dont want to deal with.

And most hot 17-20 year old girls know it. they know they are the shit and they can have any guy they want. To say they are not a challenge is just incorrect.

You call getting some coke a challenge?
GFTO

You're missing out ignoring the late 20's early 30's. Professionals who have spent too much time studying and building a career who suddenly realize they better get some dick and make up for lost time before they are no longer cute. They will not have kids or ex husbands. Will usually have 100k+ jobs and be gym junkies. I've had my fair share of these. Very nice

[Fa11en]

The OPs apparent lack of emotional and social maturity would make it hard for him to understand your point Gonzo. I definately agree with your analysis and they make a good angle shoot. Post college angst makes for a good lay.

[Dabeergod]

If there is grass on the field....play ball !!!!

But yea, wait another .5 year bud

[nobs]

The OPs apparent lack of emotional and social maturity would make it hard for him to understand your point Gonzo. I definately agree with your analysis and they make a good angle shoot. Post college angst makes for a good lay.

Dude this thread was posted before you even came to SBR. Noone cares about your opinion.

[mp5070]

Any Updates?

[diggler420]

guys in jail

[acarmelo1]

guys in jail

[chemicalbrother]

present was classic 'grooming' behavior.

also thought he immediately saying, 'well she's 17 1/2' when she obviously wasn't that old to receive a birthday present, that shit was 6 months ago, a day after she was still technically 16.

[The Madcap]

if you insist

That's a dude, right?

[The Madcap]

You call getting some coke a challenge?
GFTO

You're missing out ignoring the late 20's early 30's. Professionals who have spent too much time studying and building a career who suddenly realize they better get some dick and make up for lost time before they are no longer cute. They will not have kids or ex husbands. Will usually have 100k+ jobs and be gym junkies. I've had my fair share of these. Very nice

Can't go wrong here.

It's like a real life porn screen category selection page, blondes, redheads, brunettes, asian, ebony, latino, nerdy, athletic....only no jailbait or fatchicks, what's to lose? Might even snag the occasional MILF, who is usually more than willing to understand when you bail it's because "you can't handle her already having a kid." Win-WIN.

[hawley]

The title of this thread should actually be "serious question - wrong for a 17 year old girl to be interested in a 31 year old man"


To which the answer would generally be yes and you should be questioning why this girl has even looked twice at you.

Unless you have plenty going for you the chances are she is either fukkn with you or looking to take you for a ride.

A good looking 17 year old could have heaps of guys, especially if she is willing to spread her legs. Why would she want a dirty old man?


You never actually answered if she was interested in you? Maybe she was just playing a sick little game, after all she is just a kid and she had nothing to lose from the situation. You were the adult and the one in the position of the power - it was your ass on the line.


In answer to your original question; no there is nothing wrong with a 31 year old man wanting a 17 year old, in fact I am sure most 31 year olds would love to trade in their wife / partner for a much younger model. Fortunately most 31 year old men have too much sense to take such a stupid risk.

The chances of you finding a 17 year old that you can have a proper relationship with are slim. What kind of conversations would you have over the dinner table...talk about the latest episode of Jersey Shore or something?

Maybe in 10 years you can bump this thread if you are with a women you met when she was 17 but i would say there is a higher chance of the Dolphins winning the Superbowl this year.

If you want to smash back some fresh pussy do it with a college girl who is closer to 20 and one who you do not work with. Get it out of your system and grow up.

[laclippers504]

Love this thread

[bet420]

some funny ass shit

[TexasTide]

[nyplayer33]

be carefull, some states the legal age consent is 18, new york is 17..if it is legal I don't have an issue with this

[nyplayer33]

There is nothing wrong with it, however if the appearence of it is a concern and it involves your job..then tread carefully