SERIOUS QUESTION --- IS IT wrong for a 31 year old man to want a 17 year old girl ?

**nobs** · 04-26-11, 06:58 PM

I just want to add.

This girl is 17 1/2 years old. She is mixed. She is so freaking beautiful, and she has probably had sex more times than I have. So this aint some innocent little child, but just the same she is 17.

**CanuckG** · 04-26-11, 06:58 PM

Stay away...especially if co-workers

**brahmabull117** · 04-26-11, 06:59 PM

no there's obviously nothing wrong with it

a pedophile is a man who likes 8 or 9 year old kids. Most 17 year olds nowadays are fully developed anyways and might as well be adults

I would tell you that it's not worth the legal risk to pursue a relationship. Wait till they're 18

oh and also, they're absolutely horrendous material for relationships. But I think you know that anyways

**BettingWizard** · 04-26-11, 06:59 PM

to have sex with? no.

relationship? yes.

**RudyRuetigger** · 04-26-11, 06:59 PM

dont expect to move up

**stevex** · 04-26-11, 06:59 PM

Chris Hansen won't approve, that's for sure.

**nobs** · 04-26-11, 06:59 PM

worse, she is subordinate. I am her boss. But I am her friend too. Just bought her a birthday present, Thats all

**No coincidences** · 04-26-11, 07:00 PM

Originally posted by nobs

I am asking the question seriously, because I am currently in some trouble at work for liking a 17 year old girl. We are friends, and I bought her a birthday present which my superiors found out about and they think its a huge deal. Yes, I like this girl in that way. Yes, I do work with a 17 year old girl. And yes, matters are made worse because I am her boss.

Be serious please, but can you tell me am I some sicko or are they blowing thus up out of proportion ? Of course, either way they win because they are the owners of the company, but i am just wondering, I am so sick that I, a 31 year old man am attracted to a 17 year old female?

And just to let you know, nothing has happened between us. I just bought her a birthday present and it got back to the owners, and they way they act you would think I boned this girl on company property.

TIA

So nothing has happened, but you'd like for that to change....

You do know about statutory rape laws, right?

**brahmabull117** · 04-26-11, 07:00 PM

Originally posted by CanuckG

Stay away...especially if co-workers

yup, sounds like an easy recipe for the OP to get fired

**Footballtime** · 04-26-11, 07:00 PM

Well i can say as a grown man, 14 years is to much of a difference at both of you ages, now if you were 50 and her 36, i would have a different opinion. I have children that age, and if my daughter ever brought a 31 year old man home, there would be problems. Nothing wrong with the present...................... But i would leave it at that, Nothing more!

**BettingWizard** · 04-26-11, 07:00 PM

Originally posted by No coincidences

So nothing has happened, but you'd like for that to change....

You do know about statutory rape laws, right?

you don't go to jail for screwing a 17.5 year old

**nobs** · 04-26-11, 07:00 PM

Originally posted by brahmabull117

no there's obviously nothing wrong with it

a pedophile is a man who likes 8 or 9 year old kids. Most 17 year olds nowadays are fully developed anyways and might as well be adults

I would tell you that it's not worth the legal risk to pursue a relationship. Wait till they're 18

oh and also, they're absolutely horrendous material for relationships. But I think you know that anyways

This is exactly how I feel. Too me a sick ass pedophile is someone liking little kids. This girl aint no little kid.

**Br0nxer** · 04-26-11, 07:01 PM

Originally posted by nobs

I am asking the question seriously, because I am currently in some trouble at work for liking a 17 year old girl. We are friends, and I bought her a birthday present which my superiors found out about and they think its a huge deal. Yes, I like this girl in that way. Yes, I do work with a 17 year old girl. And yes, matters are made worse because I am her boss.

Be serious please, but can you tell me am I some sicko or are they blowing thus up out of proportion ? Of course, either way they win because they are the owners of the company, but i am just wondering, I am so sick that I, a 31 year old man am attracted to a 17 year old female?

And just to let you know, nothing has happened between us. I just bought her a birthday present and it got back to the owners, and they way they act you would think I boned this girl on company property.

TIA

**brahmabull117** · 04-26-11, 07:01 PM

Originally posted by nobs

worse, she is subordinate. I am her boss. But I am her friend too. Just bought her a birthday present, Thats all

nothing wrong with that at all

just make it sound like you bought a gift for your friend

but yes, stay far away from her. You will get fired easily if the company feels that you are acting inappropriately

**brahmabull117** · 04-26-11, 07:02 PM

Originally posted by BettingWizard

you don't go to jail for screwing a 17.5 year old

statutory rape is hard to prove, but yes you can go to jail for screwing a 17.5 year old if her parents want to press charges

**No coincidences** · 04-26-11, 07:02 PM

Originally posted by BettingWizard

you don't go to jail for screwing a 17.5 year old

Depends on the state.

**BGS 9.5** · 04-26-11, 07:02 PM

Have a seat over here.....

**BettingWizard** · 04-26-11, 07:03 PM

16 is legal in like half the states. 17 is legal in almost all states

**Iced** · 04-26-11, 07:03 PM

There is nothing wrong for a 31 year old man to want a 17 year old girl.

Does society in general view it as weird? Yes.
Is a relationship between a 31 year old and 17 year old weird? A little bit.

It's not weird or wrong if you just want to hook-up or are attracted to her. It's a little bit weird if you get in an actual relationship.

I say stay away just because she's a co-worker though. Not worth it to get fired and in all likelihood she doesn't like you.

**nobs** · 04-26-11, 07:04 PM

yes they want me to have a meeting with them thursday. I dont think I am getting fired because even my boss said she understands. Just told me I need to never get her another present. But my meeting will also be with the owners

**beeps220** · 04-26-11, 07:04 PM

Don't shit where you eat

**brahmabull117** · 04-26-11, 07:04 PM

Originally posted by Iced

There is nothing wrong for a 31 year old man to want a 17 year old girl.

Does society in general view it as weird? Yes.
Is a relationship between a 31 year old and 17 year old weird? A little bit.

It's not weird or wrong if you just want to hook-up or are attracted to her. It's a little bit weird if you get in an actual relationship.

I say stay away just because she's a co-worker though. Not worth it to get fired and in all likelihood she doesn't like you.

exactly

17 year olds are horrendous for a relationship

I'm 22 and would never date anybody under 21

**MarkDee** · 04-26-11, 07:05 PM

Yes, beacuse if she wanted to you'd fuk her.
17 year old have big mouth's and
jail for a sex crime will mean your fukkked alot.

**gohabsgo** · 04-26-11, 07:06 PM

wait till she's 18 to do anything, don't get in trouble legally.

**nobs** · 04-26-11, 07:07 PM

Thanks everyone

**Dirty Sanchez** · 04-26-11, 07:08 PM

Originally posted by nobs

I just want to add.

This girl is 17 1/2 years old. She is mixed. She is so freaking beautiful, and she has probably had sex more times than I have. So this aint some innocent little child, but just the same she is 17.

She probably goes home and calls you fukkin grandpa...wishful thinking

Keep buying her stuff sucker

**MarlinsFan2212** · 04-26-11, 07:11 PM

Seen it in pornos a million times. A girl 20 years younger needs a promo, blows the boss, everyones happy.

17 is a little to young realistically though. I would say keep it at 21+ if your 31.

**nobs** · 04-26-11, 07:12 PM

Originally posted by Dirty Sanchez

She probably goes home and calls you fukkin grandpa...wishful thinking

Keep buying her stuff sucker

yeah you can always count on sanchez for this type of reply

**Dirty Sanchez** · 04-26-11, 07:16 PM

Originally posted by nobs

yeah you can always count on sanchez for this type of reply

Yeah it's just another thread different day...you're starting a thread asking serious religious questions one week...and wantiing to play hide the sausage with a 17 year-old the next.....just another SBR Fantasy brought to you by SBRodds.com...that's SBRodds.com

**daneblazer** · 04-26-11, 07:20 PM

Is it wrong? no. But you better worry about the law.

**nobs** · 04-26-11, 07:22 PM

yeah in that religous thread, the serious religous question was about pre marital sex. I never claimed to be perfect, and I admitted in post #1 in that thread that I need to have sex even though I am not married.

You dont have to be perfect to beleive that there is a God. I am far from perfect, and yes I like sex. and I think in Jesus' time as throughout most of human history, it has been traditional for the guy to be quite a bit older than the girl, so i dont think its inherintly wrong to liek a girl younger than you.

**BRAVES1985** · 04-26-11, 07:30 PM

just wait till she hits 18 then plow her

**JohnGalt2341** · 04-26-11, 07:31 PM

Hell, Jerry Seinfeld was 38 when he started dating that 17 year old... I think her name was Shoshanna. Nobody even blinked an eye. I dated an 18 year old still in High School when I was 25. It felt a little weird to be honest with you... When I was 30 I dated a 19 year old in College. It didn't feel nearly as weird for some reason.

**treece** · 04-26-11, 07:31 PM

if there's hair on their pussy then they're ready to fuk