What is the best way to get over an ex?

[Mjh702]

warrior, I'm not 400 pounds, I can actually get women, I don't have to make that up.

And then warrior went silent

[darkhat]

sucks man. I just up my drinking and get very depressed. I'd say the answer is you need to move in a direction of your passions and see where the rest of the cards lay at that point.

"It's only after you've lost everything that you're free to do anything."

[paranoyd androyd]

since you're the one who ended it, it shouldn't take long

[crustyme]

well, maybe because your bs stories are boring as hell and just clogs the forum with more attention seeking non-sense.

[PickWinnerAllDay]

well, maybe because your bs stories are boring as hell and just clogs the forum with more attention seeking non-sense.

If no one was interested in the thread, I doubt there would be 40 responses so quickly? Why do you have to be such a bitter piece of shit? If you don't like the thread title, don't open it.

[Masu485]

I love how my wisdom goes ignored. This board mimics society in general, with people trying so hard to stay ignorant in order to mesh with societal conformity.

[Smoke]

Stab her

[PickWinnerAllDay]

You were actually right. Unless you get into some other fake relationship, chances are you will NEVER get over the ex. It's so funny seeing people think they got over someone just because they are with someone new. Sure, they may be not thinking about the ex specifically, but all the new person did was replace the same space the ex had during your relationship. I hear women say the same garbage all the time "If your man isn't treating you right, leave him, move on, find someone else" etc... Well the women who say this are all in relationships. They will NEVER get over a man until someone comes in to replace him, then they spout off all these stupid lines like "Always forgive your ex because even though he treated you badly, it made you stronger" and other complete BS lines like that. If they were single, they would never ever say that.

It's not even a matter of getting over someone specifically, it's a matter of not letting your biological imperative take over. Here's a big piece of advice. No one falls for someone because they want to. They are just fulfilling their biological imperative of finding a mate. So that part of your brain that is controlled by that JUST NEEDS TO BE FILLED. I guarantee, you will probably go out with some other girl in a few months, and you will end up liking her more than your ex, REGARDLESS of the quality of the relationship. This is because the part of your brain that needs to fulfill your biological imperative is satisfied. You found a mate that is potentially willing to reproduce with you. It doesn't matter if she was better or worse than your ex. If you break up with someone, and never meet anyone else, you will still want your ex for the rest of your life!

This is exactly why you can never get over someone without committing suicide, or entering into another fake relationship with someone else. This is also part of the reason why all relationships are fake. You honestly think these people go from one relationship to the next and by coincidence the one they are currently in is the best one? They just convince themselves it is.

If it were that simple, why do I miss some exes and wish other exes would have never been born?

[Marigold HD]

I recommend to just stay active. And that means stay away from women for awhile. Don't just stay home and think about the past. Work overtime, play sports, go to gym, even Vegas is a good idea. Stuff that keeps your mind busy that's all.

Good luck

[Masu485]

If it were that simple, why do I miss some exes and wish other exes would have never been born?

Very good question! But hindsight is 20/20. Emotions are very powerful and in a way control us all. When someone is in a relationship with someone, even if they don't really like the person, they often stay. This is a good example of how emotions can control and even hijack rational thought. There can be numerous reasons why you miss some exes. chances are you miss exes more when you are single. Why? They didn't coincidentally change into better people when you happen to be single.

If you want to stab other exes, obviously there must have been some sort of trauma there to have caused that feeling, but even so, oftentimes we find that wanting to kill an ex just in fact DOES mean that you never got over them.

[allabout the $$$]

best advice is to `stay single and bang some broads ur 24 years old and been in 6 or 7 long relationships? stay single for a few years and just bang everything that walks go on vacations dont have to answer to anyone just live the good life. is it fun to have a regular partner yes it is BUT at your age knowing what i know now stay single and mingle bro. you only live once. enjoy these years as you will never get them back

[BOA12]

Men in general do not handle emotional situations very well especially when things go horribly wrong. My adv ice is donot start another relationship until u get back from vegas or until you have gotten over her. And remember men tend to repete their miss takes over and over because women believe that they were put on this earth to make men better people wether they need to be want to be or should. The best u can hope for is to be content because most aren't happy unless u are miserable(see what women believe 2 lines up)

[Fa11en]

Change your handle every week until the pain goes away.

[PhillyFlyers]

Even if you hate them, the first few weeks after breaking up are rough. Used to seeing someone, getting regular action, having someone make you a sandwich or give you a neck massage. What is the best way to get over them? I'm debating going to Vegas for the sweet 16 and elite 8 and that'll be a good way to get over it, but it is 50/50 whether I'll be able to do all the stuff I need to get done in time to be able to make that happen on Wednesday.

So guys, what is the best way to move on?

To answer your question, the best to get over someone you have been in a relationship with for an extended period of time is to get back out there asap and start dating multiple women.

Be active socially.

[Full Time Hobo]

Hang out with Friends
Do things that will take your mind off of her.
Time is the only thing that will help.

[Br0nxer]

Time and lots of it. You will never be over that broad, ever. You will always have feelings for her. Time is the only thing.

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