What is the best way to get over an ex?

[PickWinnerAllDay]

Even if you hate them, the first few weeks after breaking up are rough. Used to seeing someone, getting regular action, having someone make you a sandwich or give you a neck massage. What is the best way to get over them? I'm debating going to Vegas for the sweet 16 and elite 8 and that'll be a good way to get over it, but it is 50/50 whether I'll be able to do all the stuff I need to get done in time to be able to make that happen on Wednesday.

So guys, what is the best way to move on?

[Br0nxer]

do what that UVA lacrosse player did

[InTheDrink]

only way to truly get over it is to kill yourself

[PickWinnerAllDay]

only way to truly get over it is to kill yourself

Funny, but suicide isn't really a laughing matter regardless of how you feel about someone.

[PickWinnerAllDay]

do what that UVA lacrosse player did

That is rough man, that prikk deserves to rot in jail for taking out a quality woman.

[MoneyLineDawg]

What happened man?

Vegas would be a great idea, but just going out and getting hammered with your friends at a place with a lot of single chicks can't hurt

[InTheDrink]

Funny, but suicide isn't really a laughing matter regardless of how you feel about someone.

what made you think i was joking?

[Living The Dream]

Sleep with as many girls as you can and eventually you will get over her.

[PAULYPOKER]

Look in the mirror and say to yourself, I was lucky to fool her as long as I did.............

[JayHorne3]

bang her best friend... it works

[onlooker]

Don't get another girlfriend. Just play the bitches. Once you smash another girl, your feelings will be gone. Just keep the bitches rotating. You will be fine.

[Ernie Mccracken]

only way to truly get over it is to kill yourself

A+ post would read again.

[Masu485]

what made you think i was joking?

You were actually right. Unless you get into some other fake relationship, chances are you will NEVER get over the ex. It's so funny seeing people think they got over someone just because they are with someone new. Sure, they may be not thinking about the ex specifically, but all the new person did was replace the same space the ex had during your relationship. I hear women say the same garbage all the time "If your man isn't treating you right, leave him, move on, find someone else" etc... Well the women who say this are all in relationships. They will NEVER get over a man until someone comes in to replace him, then they spout off all these stupid lines like "Always forgive your ex because even though he treated you badly, it made you stronger" and other complete BS lines like that. If they were single, they would never ever say that.

It's not even a matter of getting over someone specifically, it's a matter of not letting your biological imperative take over. Here's a big piece of advice. No one falls for someone because they want to. They are just fulfilling their biological imperative of finding a mate. So that part of your brain that is controlled by that JUST NEEDS TO BE FILLED. I guarantee, you will probably go out with some other girl in a few months, and you will end up liking her more than your ex, REGARDLESS of the quality of the relationship. This is because the part of your brain that needs to fulfill your biological imperative is satisfied. You found a mate that is potentially willing to reproduce with you. It doesn't matter if she was better or worse than your ex. If you break up with someone, and never meet anyone else, you will still want your ex for the rest of your life!

This is exactly why you can never get over someone without committing suicide, or entering into another fake relationship with someone else. This is also part of the reason why all relationships are fake. You honestly think these people go from one relationship to the next and by coincidence the one they are currently in is the best one? They just convince themselves it is.

[Deuce]

Time and lots of it. You will never be over that broad, ever. You will always have feelings for her. Time is the only thing.

[InTheDrink]

You were actually right. Unless you get into some other fake relationship, chances are you will NEVER get over the ex. It's so funny seeing people think they got over someone just because they are with someone new. Sure, they may be not thinking about the ex specifically, but all the new person did was replace the same space the ex had during your relationship. I hear women say the same garbage all the time "If your man isn't treating you right, leave him, move on, find someone else" etc... Well the women who say this are all in relationships. They will NEVER get over a man until someone comes in to replace him, then they spout off all these stupid lines like "Always forgive your ex because even though he treated you badly, it made you stronger" and other complete BS lines like that. If they were single, they would never ever say that.

It's not even a matter of getting over someone specifically, it's a matter of not letting your biological imperative take over. Here's a big piece of advice. No one falls for someone because they want to. They are just fulfilling their biological imperative of finding a mate. So that part of your brain that is controlled by that JUST NEEDS TO BE FILLED. I guarantee, you will probably go out with some other girl in a few months, and you will end up liking her more than your ex, REGARDLESS of the quality of the relationship. This is because the part of your brain that needs to fulfill your biological imperative is satisfied. You found a mate that is potentially willing to reproduce with you. It doesn't matter if she was better or worse than your ex.

This is exactly why you can never get over someone without committing suicide, or entering into another fake relationship with someone else. This is also part of the reason why all relationships are fake. You honestly think these people go from one relationship to the next and by coincidence the one they are currently in is the best one? They just convince themselves it is.

deep stuff bro

well actually i didnt read it but its so long i figure it's gotta be pretty deep

[Brock Landers]

Time and lots of it. You will never be over that broad, ever. You will always have feelings for her. Time is the only thing.

come on Deuce, you never had a chick, you're too busy worried about your next meal than to be concerned about some broad

[Deuce]

come on Deuce, you never had a chick, you're too busy worried about your next meal than to be concerned about some broad

You don't know me like I know you. You think I am a 350lb 6 chinned prick but in reality I am probably more successful than you are. I know for a fact I don't have a child and wife I neglect or thousands of dollars pissed away chasing an addiction that has taken over my life. You're pathetic. Salud.

[Masu485]

deep stuff bro

well actually i didnt read it but its so long i figure it's gotta be pretty deep

Well Cliffnotes:

- You are right, you cannot get over someone unless you kill yourself.
- Another way is to enter a relationship with someone else (although this isn't getting over your ex, as the new person will just replace the same space your ex occupied)
- Biological imperative drives us to like whatever's available
- Relationships are fake

[PickWinnerAllDay]

Time and lots of it. You will never be over that broad, ever. You will always have feelings for her. Time is the only thing.

I've been with 6-7 girls long-term actually... some are easier than others. Dated a girl for 4 years in high school/college, that was the roughest one.

[hawley]

Landers talking shit...classic.

Landers what did you get your kids for xmas?

[Brock Landers]

You don't know me like I know you. You think I am a 350lb 6 chinned prick but in reality I am probably more successful than you are. I know for a fact I don't have a child and wife I neglect or thousands of dollars pissed away chasing an addiction that has taken over my life. You're pathetic. Salud.

damn deuce settle down, i was only pointing out that food is greater than women for you, lets not kid ourselves. i've never neglected my wife or son.

[Deuce]

I've been with 6-7 girls long-term actually... some are easier than others. Dated a girl for 4 years in high school/college, that was the roughest one.

Understood. I am the same way. Long term I have dated roughly 3-4, last one was the roughest. 4 years. She still pops up in my life randomly, makes it worse to be honest. Just need time and space.

[PickWinnerAllDay]

You don't know me like I know you. You think I am a 350lb 6 chinned prick but in reality I am probably more successful than you are. I know for a fact I don't have a child and wife I neglect or thousands of dollars pissed away chasing an addiction that has taken over my life. You're pathetic. Salud.

Ouch, thread taken a turn for the worse.

Right now, I don't miss her, but when I move my stuff out in 2-3 days, I'm guessing I will miss her some. Hopefully not too bad.

[PickWinnerAllDay]

Understood. I am the same way. Long term I have dated roughly 3-4, last one was the roughest. 4 years. She still pops up in my life randomly, makes it worse to be honest. Just need time and space.

Yeah, I hate seeing her around town when I am back in K-town. I could have married that girl, just didn't work out right. We pretty much agreed to not be friends because it would be too hard. She actually sent me a friend request a couple years ago and I ignored it. Don't wanna see her face every time I log into the book.

[hawley]

time

[stuntin909]

vegas sounds like a good idea til you lose all your money and come back broke. then you really wish you were dead.

[Ghenghis Kahn]

go find jj and fellate him. that will make you forget about everything and make you jump over a bridge.

[PickWinnerAllDay]

I'll tell you this though, I'm sick of this damn courting process.

6-7 times I've went through this process... 'oh, you're the one, oh you're special, oh this time it is going to work' and then it never does. Wish I could skip that bullshit next time but all girls want to hear it.

[EaglesPhan36]

Drink heavily. Bang some strange. Get herpes. Pass it on.

[ttwarrior1]

make up a new gf like you do with your other accounts

[PickWinnerAllDay]

make up a new gf like you do with your other accounts

warrior, I'm not 400 pounds, I can actually get women, I don't have to make that up.

[crustyme]

just use your other hand.

[PickWinnerAllDay]

crusyme posted a bitchy response? I'm shocked.

[beerman2619]

warrior, I'm not 400 pounds, I can actually get women, I don't have to make that up.

[Mjh702]

Drink heavily. Bang some strange. Get herpes. Pass it on.

Nice