So wondering what would you do if in my situation.
I told my wife about this as i do not hide anything from her. I do not go on facebook much and saw a messenger thing for requests . So looked at one think it is someone my mom knows.
Then i saw another under it did not know the name. When i clicked on it i realized it was an Ex that i have not had anything to do with in close to 29 years i guess.
When i was with her we were almost married. She cheated on me before the wedding. I tried to still make it work but she was a compulsive liar. Once she told me she was not able to get pregnant because the doctor told her so. I was young and believed her and of course she got pregnant and said " Now you can never leave me because i am pregnant with your baby" .
As harsh as this sounds i talked her into an abortion because she could not hold a job down and i was doing everything.
So i end it then after she is gone i find out from the neighbors that she was bringing in guys as i was working . I also found out the money i gave her to pay the bills she put a little to not have the utilities shut off and took the rest to bars to drink with guys. So when i found out i knew it was right i dumped her.
Anyway through the years she tried finding me. Sent me a facebook request which i ignored. Would run into my family and ask where i was they would always cover most did not like her for what she did.
Anyway fast forward to yesterday . I click on the name i did not know turns out its her the last name different so shes married.
She sends a picture of a girl and says basically this is my 29 year old daughter and i missed out on her entire life and i was not able to have her aborted since she was away from me.
I figure this is most like another compulsive lie . But there i guess is a slim 1% chance it could be true i guess .
I did not respond because she would see all my info and i do not want her showing up at my work she is that nuts. But i feel bad if by some longshot it is true.
Now she has cheated i do not know with how many so this could be anyones kid. Plus it has been 29 years she never even asked for child support and a chance for her to get money is not like her. And why wait 29 years to do this. She told me once "No matter who your with i will always get you back " so this could just be a ploy .
But it slightly bothers me because if true i feel bad for the girl.Unless she just grabbed a random picture or something.
What would you do. I think i should just leave it alone huh?