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    captrobey
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    This Happened Yesterday

    So wondering what would you do if in my situation.

    I told my wife about this as i do not hide anything from her. I do not go on facebook much and saw a messenger thing for requests . So looked at one think it is someone my mom knows.

    Then i saw another under it did not know the name. When i clicked on it i realized it was an Ex that i have not had anything to do with in close to 29 years i guess.

    When i was with her we were almost married. She cheated on me before the wedding. I tried to still make it work but she was a compulsive liar. Once she told me she was not able to get pregnant because the doctor told her so. I was young and believed her and of course she got pregnant and said " Now you can never leave me because i am pregnant with your baby" .

    As harsh as this sounds i talked her into an abortion because she could not hold a job down and i was doing everything.

    So i end it then after she is gone i find out from the neighbors that she was bringing in guys as i was working . I also found out the money i gave her to pay the bills she put a little to not have the utilities shut off and took the rest to bars to drink with guys. So when i found out i knew it was right i dumped her.

    Anyway through the years she tried finding me. Sent me a facebook request which i ignored. Would run into my family and ask where i was they would always cover most did not like her for what she did.

    Anyway fast forward to yesterday . I click on the name i did not know turns out its her the last name different so shes married.

    She sends a picture of a girl and says basically this is my 29 year old daughter and i missed out on her entire life and i was not able to have her aborted since she was away from me.

    I figure this is most like another compulsive lie . But there i guess is a slim 1% chance it could be true i guess .

    I did not respond because she would see all my info and i do not want her showing up at my work she is that nuts. But i feel bad if by some longshot it is true.

    Now she has cheated i do not know with how many so this could be anyones kid. Plus it has been 29 years she never even asked for child support and a chance for her to get money is not like her. And why wait 29 years to do this. She told me once "No matter who your with i will always get you back " so this could just be a ploy .

    But it slightly bothers me because if true i feel bad for the girl.Unless she just grabbed a random picture or something.

    What would you do. I think i should just leave it alone huh?
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    Yeah man I'd block her.

    Sounds like nothing but trouble.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stevek173 View Post
    Yeah man I'd block her.

    Sounds like nothing but trouble.
    Yea that is what i am thinking. If my Ex finds any way to get hold of me i would not be shocked even if she is married top show up where i work she is that nuts.

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    Yeah fuk that man

    Instablock

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    as others have said you should block and don't look back

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    And this is the problem with Facebook.

    Too much drama & cheating

    I know 3 guys who lost their wives to Facebook, and one of those guys got left for another man with 1 leg!

    All of that Internet sweet talk works wonders on the weak

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    Quote Originally Posted by stevek173 View Post


    Yeah fuk that man

    Instablock
    Quote Originally Posted by pologq View Post
    as others have said you should block and don't look back
    Yea already blocked her. Like i said i keep nothing from my wife i thought what if the slim chance it were true but it would be like a 1% chance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hman View Post
    And this is the problem with Facebook.

    Too much drama & cheating

    I know 3 guys who lost their wives to Facebook, and one of those guys got left for another man with 1 leg!

    All of that Internet sweet talk works wonders on the weak
    This is not the first she tried getting to me. About 7 years ago she wanted to be friends on facebook. Probably a separate acct her husband would not see . Obviously i ignored her.I found out later after we broke up and she was married to a guy she had 3 kids . I actually just found this out. My cousin Sharon who worked at a shop she went in there and recognized my cousin . She asked if she knew me and she said yes she is my cousin. After that she started coming in after that to the shop with the 3 kids. She then tried getting my address . Apparently my cousin said something was off with her and made something up so she would not give it to her. After she realized she would not get it she stopped coming into the store.

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    classic sociopath

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    Glad I never ran into one of these types of girls.

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    Yeah I bet you blocked her on Facebook like you block the casino.

    Another fairy tale from this guy.

    An ex trying to track you down after 29 years?? Gimme a fukkin break...faked the abortion??? Cant make this shit up

    Good luck on the million dollar cruise kiddo

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    Quote Originally Posted by romecloneout View Post
    Yeah I bet you blocked her on Facebook like you block the casino.

    Another fairy tale from this guy.

    An ex trying to track you down after 29 years?? Gimme a fukkin break...faked the abortion??? Cant make this shit up

    Good luck on the million dollar cruise kiddo
    You A-Hole why would i talk to her when i am married. All you do is come on my threads and call me a liar stay out of my threads if that is all you are good for. I already posted a bunch of pictures as well as the info from the other trip i qualified for as proof but you are still calling me a liar . I do not like being called a liar so just stay the penetrating hell out of my threads . What do you look for my threads just so you can feel good about yourself by pushing my penetrating buttons.

    Not that it matters here is what was sent but i am sure being the total pos that you are you will say that i made this up too even though i have posted pictures of penetrating everything. Just stay away from my threads you extremely offend me . I am putting in the info from the Medico trip from the cruise i already put pictures this is what i chose and the pictures are from what i chose. Anyone can look at my past threads about this and see it was Medico . This is so people see i am not lying . But as i said you will only say this is all fake even though it obviously is not so just stay away from me i do not want you in my threads .

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    Yo Capto you got your 1st troll man. Us good posters get them sometimes.

    My advice is don't worry about trying to prove anything to him/them, and put him on your ignore list.

    Also - that post w the pic of your daughter is some legit psycho sh*t man.

    f*k that.


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    Quote Originally Posted by stevek173 View Post
    Yo Capto you got your 1st troll man. Us good posters get them sometimes.

    My advice is don't worry about trying to prove anything to him/them, and put him on your ignore list.

    Also - that post w the pic of your daughter is some legit psycho sh*t man.

    f*k that.

    I do not care if i am called stupid for going in Casino because i am . I do not mind harsher advice. I do not and have never liked being called a liar. I pride myself on being honest . But that is Ok because people that are pretty much A-holes to me at one point or another have Karma catch up to them for being an A-hole to someone that does not be mean to anyone.

    Yea at Xmas i told my mom that is where we spent Xmas with so she would not have to be alone. I ordered Honey baked Ham and stuff we just had to heat it all up. Anyways my mom obviously knows what she was like when i was with her. She thought the girl does not look 29 so maybe it is just some picture of some random girl idk. She thought it may be a scam and not really her but idk how someone would know about the abortion stuff.

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    Yeah that's what I thought as well. Way younger than 29 man.

    Some people are like that though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stevek173 View Post
    Yeah that's what I thought as well. Way younger than 29 man.

    Some people are like that though.
    Although it could just be an older picture i guess. But yea she was nuts.

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    My ex just contacted me on Facebook about a month ago, haven't seen her in 10 years, when we were together she never used or touch drugs, heard a rumor she was a meth head but have heard alot if bs rumors, she has a daughter and gave me a sob story and that she will pay me back immediately next week, it was approaching Christmas so was feeling nice so lent her and she disappeared until yesterday to say she it was Christmas and she was depressed and broke and had no money for presents for her daughter

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