Advice: Dating an 18 year old woman

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  • Buckandadime
    SBR Hall of Famer
    • 04-21-15
    • 8874

    #36
    Do you walk her to the bus stop?
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    • KVB
      SBR Aristocracy
      • 05-29-14
      • 74866

      #37
      Originally posted by HurryUpAndDrink
      I never once exploited her... but I get what you are saying

      If anything I'm the one paying her bills and getting death threats cause I fixed what her daddy couldnt cause he's a pussy
      It's a fine line and emotions can get in the way. I really don't know shit about the situation but I'm glad you can appreciate what I'm trying to say here.

      It's worth asking yourself what a real man will do in this situation. I don't have an answer, but I think you can step back and assess a little better for yourself.

      Be good Hurry and stay safe.

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      • Buckandadime
        SBR Hall of Famer
        • 04-21-15
        • 8874

        #38
        Originally posted by HurryUpAndDrink
        I never once exploited her... but I get what you are saying

        If anything I'm the one paying her bills and getting death threats cause I fixed what her daddy couldnt cause he's a pussy
        How are you not exploiting or taking advantage of her if your dating her and talking about marriage?
        You certainly have the inside track of how to manipulate her feelings...
        Your a punk..
        Plain and simple..
        Do you help her with her homework?
        Visit during recess?
        Helping is fine and admirable..
        Your grooming...
        Fukkin punk..
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        • HurryUpAndDrink
          SBR Posting Legend
          • 08-23-13
          • 13017

          #39
          Originally posted by KVB
          It's a fine line and emotions can get in the way. I really don't know shit about the situation but I'm glad you can appreciate what I'm trying to say here.

          It's worth asking yourself what a real man will do in this situation. I don't have an answer, but I think you can step back and assess a little better for yourself.

          Be good Hurry and stay safe.


          true man, you too

          testing times everywhere right now!
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          • Buckandadime
            SBR Hall of Famer
            • 04-21-15
            • 8874

            #40
            Originally posted by HurryUpAndDrink
            we see each other 2 times a week

            she met my mother

            I help her with whatever she ask me you kunt and none of it is your business


            FUCKK U
            What a fukkin tool..
            Post this shit on a public forum and then have the ignorance to say it's none of my business...
            I can appreciate a mature woman with Daddy issues..
            She's mature enough to have lived life..
            You however, don't want to give this little girl a chance to..
            You snag her while she's still in school..
            Easier to groom and take advantage of I suppose..
            Keep posting shit and then tell people it's none of their business..
            Fukkin loser, you made it our business..
            Being all proud and shit that you have a vulnerable high school girl you can take advantage of..
            Does she have a little sister?
            Is that your objective?
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            • icon
              SBR MVP
              • 01-09-18
              • 3396

              #41
              Originally posted by HurryUpAndDrink
              This is crazy,
              TLDR; humblebrag that he is banging an 18 yr old and you guys are not.
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              • DroopyDog
                SBR MVP
                • 11-03-16
                • 1255

                #42
                Curious to know how a 33 year old befriends a teenager in a non predator way

                no hate, just curious
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                • KnuckleHeadz
                  SBR Hall of Famer
                  • 12-11-19
                  • 8212

                  #43
                  Originally posted by HurryUpAndDrink
                  we see each other 2 times a week

                  she met my mother

                  I help her with whatever she ask me you kunt and none of it is your business


                  FUCKK U

                  None of it’s anyone’s business??? You posted all this info here in the for place to brag you sick dope fiend. No we know why you go into this business you so that you can pick off easy and vulnerable teenagers whom haven’t the mind of an adult as they’ve been abused since kids.
                  Should have stuck to the AA meetings and pulling this routine on those shot out broads
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                  • hehfest
                    SBR Hall of Famer
                    • 09-28-08
                    • 8085

                    #44
                    Easy hurry. Easy. Most of us in here are trying to give sufficient advice. I don't know where you are, or anything really about you. She's still in high school dude and you're clippin' mid 30's. If she wasn't already damaged, and you met her parents, and they were okay with it.......I'm fine with it. Like other posters have said, she has problems. If you saved her from them, that's pretty cool. Go b*ng a 25 year old instead and let the young girl live there as shelter with no sexual stuff from you. That's all I got. My case is closed. I'm not trying to rip you apart over this.
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                    • Black Coffee
                      SBR MVP
                      • 05-04-19
                      • 1187

                      #45
                      Hung out with a 19 yr old when I was 29/30.. met her at a Fridays... initially she told me she was 22... it was cool for a minute...

                      She had a couple issues but wanted to get serious. She also told me her dreams of moving to a big city and trying to get into music/acting/etc...

                      She didn't know who she was or what she wanted yet.. Hell, neither did I at 19..

                      I told her that she owed it to herself to go out and experience life...

                      my 2 cents...

                      Keep helping her get by her issues but also keep shopping..

                      Such situations are usually not meant to last...
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                      • PittsburghPlayer
                        SBR Hall of Famer
                        • 01-11-10
                        • 6760

                        #46
                        I got one that even AutoDonkeyKong would find noteworthy

                        was 36 had a car for sale, woman (bullshit, she was 18) calls me to make inquiry - 4 hrs later we are still on the phone, I said we are getting along so well we should meet sometime
                        she said "I told you earlier that I am home alone", and an hr or so later I had my face between her legs and that is when she said these words "oh my god, you can do anything to me"

                        and ftr, she was a solid 9 and she had the cleanest clam I`ve ever eaten, we hooked-up all that summer , never cost me a penny
                        and you fukkers know this is true `cause I am 1/2 hard thinking about it

                        and for some reason I could wicked hold-loads for this, um, woman

                        wait, there`s more
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                        • Grits n' Gravy
                          Restricted User
                          • 06-10-10
                          • 13024

                          #47
                          Originally posted by HurryUpAndDrink
                          Calling her a woman is hardly correct, she's cute but the age gap is so big, I mean she's so innocent. I'm 33. She is super hot in bed and she's having a hard life so I'm helping her with rent and stuff especially now with the Covid-19

                          I mean innocence in the sense her life is so normal. She's still in high school, senior. Lives ALONE as her stepmom kicked her out and her dad is a pussy. She doesn't smoke, she doesn't drink! The other day she was worried cause I had a bottle of vodka. She doesn't like I smoke pot.


                          Thinking about the few GOOD GOOD girls I have shunned away before and how much I regretted it later, I've been thinking about moving this girl with me and maybe marrying her... IDK... kinda rushed (2 months) but I'm thinking in some months or so... she is definitely looking to start a family of her own since her mom died when she was 8.


                          This is crazy, I didn't see this coming
                          If you are over 21 and dating an 18 year old you are a loser in life.

                          33 dating an 18 year old is essentially being a pedo. The age gap isn’t a problem when she is in her mid 20s. At 18, she is still a kid.

                          huad is basically espstien aside from being broke and not dead.....yet.
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                          • PittsburghPlayer
                            SBR Hall of Famer
                            • 01-11-10
                            • 6760

                            #48
                            good thing I wasn`t dating that woman, Grits be kicking my ass right now
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                            • Grits n' Gravy
                              Restricted User
                              • 06-10-10
                              • 13024

                              #49
                              Originally posted by PittsburghPlayer
                              good thing I wasn`t dating that woman, Grits be kicking my ass right now
                              If you had an 18 year old daughter would you want some 30 something loser like huad talking to her?
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                              • PittsburghPlayer
                                SBR Hall of Famer
                                • 01-11-10
                                • 6760

                                #50
                                that`s a relief
                                thought for sure was going to get my head split

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                                • Foxx
                                  SBR Hall of Famer
                                  • 05-25-11
                                  • 5816

                                  #51
                                  Interestingly, just saw on another forum a thread titled "Advice on Dating a 33 yr old Paranoid Drug Addict Degenerate with a Gambling and Alcohol Problem"

                                  I wonder if there is any connection
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                                  • pologq
                                    SBR Posting Legend
                                    • 10-07-12
                                    • 19899

                                    #52
                                    i just am afraid of her using you. if you are sure she is not, then there is still the issue of her finding herself and growing up.

                                    stay friends, be a good person in her life. if she still likes you when she is 25 then maybe considerate marriage.

                                    no way an 18 yr old with troubles in her past is mature enough or ready for marriage and settling down. just be there for her.

                                    i am not judging you for her age. just giving an honest assessment of the situation beyond banging an 18 yr old.
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                                    • Buckandadime
                                      SBR Hall of Famer
                                      • 04-21-15
                                      • 8874

                                      #53
                                      Originally posted by HurryUpAndDrink
                                      75% of you can rot and die, done with this shithole anyway

                                      especiallly gravy who is a NAGGER POS

                                      Runaway punk..
                                      That's what predators do when confronted by men isn't it?
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                                      • Goat Milk
                                        BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                        • 03-24-10
                                        • 25850

                                        #54
                                        Originally posted by Grits n' Gravy
                                        If you had an 18 year old daughter would you want some 30 something loser like huad talking to her?
                                        You're the biggest loser on this forum. Buried you already in my thread. You go around attacking everyone here. Not one poster on this site likes you. You're a disgrace to SBR. Challenged me in NBA? Fukking moron. Showed everyone what a rookie you really are.
                                        Cause Sleep is the Cousin of Death
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                                        • big joe 1212
                                          SBR Posting Legend
                                          • 06-01-08
                                          • 19380

                                          #55
                                          Lies
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                                          • KnuckleHeadz
                                            SBR Hall of Famer
                                            • 12-11-19
                                            • 8212

                                            #56
                                            So car you’ve moved onto Grooming girls, what ever happen to the dog??
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                                            • Heltah Skeltah
                                              SBR MVP
                                              • 12-05-17
                                              • 3499

                                              #57
                                              I don't agree with Grits and Gravy on most things but what he said is spot on. Hurry you looking for some attention I hope and this just went wrong. Anyhow why the fck wpuld you be intrested in an 18 year old? Gotta be something serious wrong wth you!!
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                                              • Buckandadime
                                                SBR Hall of Famer
                                                • 04-21-15
                                                • 8874

                                                #58
                                                Originally posted by HurryUpAndDrink
                                                and if you must know, the image you fuckers saw is NO different than a bathing suit image, PLUS you cant see her face you fuckin bimbos

                                                thats why people stop posting here... this forum is drenched in with some losers that eclipse the nice folks like Daggles and others in this thread
                                                People stop posting here because of creepers like you that play on young high school girls weaknesses and have the audacity to brag about it..
                                                Doesn't matter how you try and spin it..
                                                You are dating a high school girl with real emotional scars that you can manipulate...
                                                Every time you try and defend what you are doing it makes you look even worse..
                                                Are you so creepy that a real woman won't give you the time of day or is it because damaged high school girls are distracted by "My little pony and ice cream?"
                                                Scum...
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                                                • Heltah Skeltah
                                                  SBR MVP
                                                  • 12-05-17
                                                  • 3499

                                                  #59
                                                  Lol at the fckn idiots giving advice on how handle the situation..lol The fckn girl is 18!! You clowns
                                                  Bunch of losers
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                                                  • PharaohUB
                                                    SBR MVP
                                                    • 01-23-07
                                                    • 4866

                                                    #60
                                                    Age not a big deal. Plenty of 40 year olds out there never get past 18 year old maturity level anyway. Just look at Facebook and all the stupid shit these middle aged women say. Two months in probably not thinking about this shit yet. But can she cook and good around the house doing chores? Is she reciprocating your financial assistance with help around the house? Is she polite to waitstaff? Is she nice to you? All those things will be more important when you get out of the initial stage. And if she’s doing those things now then she might be hooked on you anyway and you’re good. What are her goals? If she’s trying to go to college then just enjoy it for now and don’t get too involved it won’t last. She’s probably looking for a meal ticket to get through college. Women are more calculated when it comes to romance than us and they care more about money than you. If she sees you as a meal ticket the signs will be obvious if you pay attention to them. "I want to go to college", "I wish I had a nicer car", etc. I’m about your age and dated some pretty young. Current gf ten years younger. The age difference will always be there but she liked guys 15 years older than her now she probably still will in ten years so wouldn't worry about that. As with any women but most importantly an 18 year old don’t deal with bullshit. If you do because she’s hot she will know she can get away with it the rest of your life. Set the standard now. Make her delete Snapchat. Don't demand access to her phone. It will drive you nuts - she will get hit on. But if she's super secretive and disables notifications when the phone is locked or never lets you borrow her phone to look something up if yours is dead - then she's probably trying to monkey branch and see what else is out there, and you're just bridging the gap for her until she finds something better. Good luck.
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