Dating a stripper ...... Is it really worth the headache ?

[A.M.S.]

Been dating a stripper for about 4 months... It's been a bumpy ride so far.,.... And do the pros really outweigh the cons ...
She did graduate from college so thought she was some what normal...

[Swaggy P]

good for one night stands or short term relationships only.

[hehfest]

Make her your wife!

[firstclass]

pic ?

[Bostongambler]

Does she use a pole?

[pavyracer]

What is the cause of your headache?

[Pinoy-T-X]

Male or female?

[BrickJames]

It's like riding a crotch rocket, they are sexy as hell, fun as shit to ride, you are the envy of all your friends but at the end of the day they are extremely dangerous and could kill you or severely injure you at any moment.

[Big Bear]

hmmm yeah I mean being a stripper is just a job like any other

but I would say does she make you happy?

if the answer is yes, keep seeing her

[BrickJames]

hmmm yeah I mean being a stripper is just a job like any other

but I would say does she make you happy?

if the answer is yes, keep seeing her

It's far from a job like any other, I've dated a bunch of strippers.

Guys go in there trying to have a good time they have drugs and money.

It takes a woman with strong will to strip and be good at it, otherwise they'll end up getting ran through by half the town and hooked on drugs and addicted to alcohol.

[Big Bear]

It's far from a job like any other, I've dated a bunch of strippers.

Guys go in there trying to have a good time they have drugs and money.

It takes a woman with strong will to strip and be good at it, otherwise they'll end up getting ran through by half the town and hooked on drugs and addicted to alcohol.

right

so if you are going to date a stripper you have to trust her and you can’t be the jealous type

I’m just saying I don’t like to judge

I could see a chick just being about her money and I respect the grind

[BrickJames]

Most of all they get addicted to fast money and attention from Men, I still know this one chick who lives about an hour away from the city and has a husband and works as an elementary school teacher, she told her chump dick husband that she got a part-time job in the cities as a nurse.

She drives down every weekend to strip and get drunk and swanged out by the ballers.

He doesn't even know she ever was a stripper. Guy is a complete lame-o

[ace7550]

pic ?

pic please...

[BrickJames]

right

so if you are going to date a stripper you have to trust her and you can’t be the jealous type

I’m just saying I don’t like to judge

I could see a chick just being about her money and I respect the grind

No you have to be ruthless with them, have the password to their phone and all their accounts, be prepared to slap a bitch if she gets out of line.

Most of them love that dominating shit, the second you give them an inch they will take a mile. Definitely can't be timid

[pologq]

what is the headache part? trusting her? don't.

sorry but to me it is what it is. have good sex, she might be chill for hanging out and seeing movies or the ballgame but that is it.

be assertive, don't chase her either. let her initiate some convos and texts. let her want to see you.

[eaglesfan371]

The ex-stripper I dated for a couple months was a coke addict in recovery, tatted yet had that innocent look to her (not at all though). While yes, the sex was amazing, wasn't too much fun when I felt a burning sensation a couple months after we ended and my then gf tells me she tested positive for chlamydia...

Cons outweigh the benefits.

[BrickJames]

The ex-stripper I dated for a couple months was a coke addict in recovery, tatted yet had that innocent look to her (not at all though). While yes, the sex was amazing, wasn't too much fun when I felt a burning sensation a couple months after we ended and my then gf tells me she tested positive for chlamydia...

Cons outweigh the benefits.

Unless you have complete control over her you definitely need to wear a condom.

[BrickJames]

Think about it, they seduce and con guys out of money for a living.

More likely than not there's at least a couple other guys piping her down regularly.

[jtoler]

many moons ago remember once it being hard to get rid of a stripper. long story short was out at a joint with friends and a cousin with his guys anyway I just happen to talk to one, she was so nice looking lol. anyway I was intoxicated and was playing around we exchanged numbers and shot the crap. I didnt take it seriously even to hook up I wasnt into it wasnt gonna be free me dont thinks anyway. anyway over time for the next three yrs she texted sporadically letting me know she was in town at what hotel, prob had a pimp, got to a point Id just ignore the texts I doubt she even remembered me and since this was "business" just one of many, some of these chicks are just legal prostitutes or until they get caught even doing that. just not my style couldnt be in anything serious with one have a few other stories but that was longer than expected

[BrickJames]

Also, when dating a stripper make her pay for more than her fair share at minimum, the second you start tricking and trying to act like a big shot with your money it just reminds her of all the losers in the club and you become another dollar sign.

The only thing they have to be proud of stripping is the money they earn. So let them take you out let them pay let them be proud.

[ace7550]

many moons ago remember once it being hard to get rid of a stripper. long story short was out at a joint with friends and a cousin with his guys anyway I just happen to talk to one, she was so nice looking lol. anyway I was intoxicated and was playing around we exchanged numbers and shot the crap. I didnt take it seriously even to hook up I wasnt into it wasnt gonna be free me dont thinks anyway. anyway over time for the next three yrs she texted sporadically letting me know she was in town at what hotel, prob had a pimp, got to a point Id just ignore the texts I doubt she even remembered me and since this was "business" just one of many, some of these chicks are just legal prostitutes or until they get caught even doing that. just not my style couldnt be in anything serious with one have a few other stories but that was longer than expected

So wait, were you paying this chick or did she just randomly come to town and tell you to come pound her out?

[jtoler]

So wait, were you paying this chick or did she just randomly come to town and tell you to come pound her out?

we exchanged numbers while she was on stage that little convo lasted maybe 2 minutes at most. only time I ever saw her or verbally talked to her was that night no sex occurred. after that about every 3 months or so she would text saying "whats up" and what hotel she was at or something. I figured this strip club prob have different groups of different chicks from out of town dance there to keep fresh faces around my cousin that night was telling me those chicks are from memphis he was trying to tell me cuz dont get involved with those broads, he didnt need to tell me that though, eventually I would text back quit effing texting me but since Im sure she didnt actually remember me specifically the texts would still occur randomly, lasted about 3 yrs. I aint mad at the hustle and had I been in college still as fine as she was I prob would have at least had a convo with her lol who knows I used to like to see where chicks head was at thinking I was psychoanalyzing chicks

[BrickJames]

we exchanged numbers while she was on stage that little convo lasted maybe 2 minutes at most. only time I ever saw her or verbally talked to her was that night no sex occurred. after that about every 3 months or so she would text saying "whats up" and what hotel she was at or something. I figured this strip club prob have different groups of different chicks from out of town dance there to keep fresh faces around my cousin that night was telling me those chicks are from memphis he was trying to tell me cuz dont get involved with those broads, he didnt need to tell me that though, eventually I would text back quit effing texting me but since Im sure she didnt actually remember me specifically the texts would still occur randomly, lasted about 3 yrs. I aint mad at the hustle and had I been in college still as fine as she was I prob would have at least had a convo with her lol who knows I used to like to see where chicks head was at thinking I was psychoanalyzing chicks

So this bitch was twerking on stage and gave you her number? In front of the whole club?

[hehfest]

Take her to confession then make her your wife!

[BrickJames]

Take her to confession then make her your wife!

Just shove cack down her throat 6 times a day and make her submit.

[jtoler]

So this bitch was twerking on stage and gave you her number? In front of the whole club?

not really, kinda standing there with the other girls while music playing but the club wasnt big besides maybe 5 girls on stage there was no more than 15-20 patrons. Ive only been to maybe 5 strip joints in my life only one seemed huge but it was more of a dance club anyway. first time I ever went to one I was barely 21 and coworkers took me there so u this idea in your head from movies I felt creepy going in, it was lunch time lol there was only one girl "dancing" or whatever she was doing only maybe 4 other guys were in there we got a table and I quickly found out you had to order beer or something to sit and we did. that was very boring the chick didnt look particularly good we didnt stay long and that put a bad spin on strip clubs for me from the start

[BigJay]

They are all crazy fun for about 3-4 months max.

After that they are just batshit crazy and not worth the trouble.

The reality is they were batshit crazy all along but you put up with it because the sex is so great. After the novelty of that wears off their insanity is just too much to put up with.

[hehfest]

This thread is in danger in making me laugh as much as the Okey buddy Nigerian woman thread. Keep up the good work.

[hehfest]

Just be careful she doesn't set you up somehow: I'm serious! Those girls are schemers.

[pologq]

very rarely is a stripper all there. it is not like Trading Places where she invests in bonds and can retire in her 40's.

they are cons, rooster teases, flirts, money whores, etc.

no matter how good you think she is just remember that.

[VeggieDog]

Dude. You fuk one, not date one. JFC, did you Dad not teach you anything?

[BrickJames]

very rarely is a stripper all there. it is not like Trading Places where she invests in bonds and can retire in her 40's.

they are cons, rooster teases, flirts, money whores, etc.

no matter how good you think she is just remember that.

.....and right around age 32 reality comes crashing down.

The party is over, most of the time they have squandered all their money away and are left with no job skills and addiction, a bastard child and an apartment downtown with high rent.

[pologq]

.....and right around age 32 reality comes crashing down.

The party is over, most of the time they have squandered all their money away and are left with no job skills and addiction, a bastard child and an apartment downtown with high rent.

very true. looks fade, no skils for anything else.

[DISTROYA]

very rarely is a stripper all there. it is not like Trading Places where she invests in bonds and can retire in her 40's.

they are cons, rooster teases, flirts, money whores, etc.

no matter how good you think she is just remember that.

Jamie Lee!

[PaperTrail07]

Toss Bartenders on the list....unless you run that relationship....shit for the birds lol...