Need Booty Call Advice

[BrickJames]

I have been commenting on big bear dating drama for months now. Same post similar stories repeatedly.

I don’t find going to a bar and getting to know someone over drinks fun. I suggest dates based on personality. Girl was nerdy and very introverted, so painting fit her. If she was extroverted, would have chosen dancing. I find activity dates have more success than drinks or coffee.

Alcohol makes girls fuk, its proven.

[Big Bear]

No your bud is in a relationship, you’re just trying to fuk. STOP texting her first. How many times do WE have to tell you. Let her come to you if the dik was as bomb as u suggest.

The date I went on yesterday, girl immediately send me her number and we talk briefly before bed. Today I did not text her and she sends me two words at 3pm. What the hell am I supposed to say to two words. Answer is I don’t. Takes two to have a conversation and we all know every girl seeing many guys. The longer you don’t talk the more they’re like damn he hasn’t talked to me, and poses a challenge. If they’re actually into you, this is where they become more interested. They want a challenge, someone who isn’t going to always respond, blow up their phones or seems free all the time.

Aight bro I’m really doing it this time. No more reaching out.

I’m also quitting weed for a month starting today

[eaglesfan371]

Aight bro I’m really doing it this time. No more reaching out.

I’m also quitting weed for a month starting today

Did anything ever happen after the one night stand with that girl who said she only wanted to be friends and said "I chose you out of many guys, feel lucky". Then said don't be weird when you said good morning or some shit.

[BrickJames]

Did anything ever happen after the one night stand with that girl who said she only wanted to be friends and said "I chose you out of many guys, feel lucky". Then said don't be weird when you said good morning or some shit.

Bottom line is if a chick let's you know she is seeing other guys you are an extreme "cuck".

By any standards that is not ok.

Any real man would not put up with a woman telling him that she sees other men.

Carry on. F@gs

[BrickJames]

Big Bear, go buy yourself some tampax tampons. The super absorbent ones.

Eagles, please find the lowest Bridge possible. I don't want you to kill yourself I just want you to be paralyzed and in a wheelchair.

[Big Bear]

Did anything ever happen after the one night stand with that girl who said she only wanted to be friends and said "I chose you out of many guys, feel lucky". Then said don't be weird when you said good morning or some shit.

same girl.

so she actually text me and came over last night late. I thought it was a booty call but when she got there she looked upset like she might have been crying earlier but she said she was just tired.

we had a glass of wine and vaped some weed and talked for awhile and then she put her feet on my lap and went to sleep on the couch.

No idea what to think now lol

We got to talking before that and she basically admitted to having guys directed to her instagram from the dating site profiles and she said her profile is public but they have to request to be a friend to send her a message. She said she had like 350 of them this weekend and denied all of them.

I’m like so you only do it for attention it’s some sort of feeling of power that you like? and she basically said well yeah kinda. She said all girls are like that

I’m like hmm I wouldn’t understand that I’m a dude and she’s like yeah you wouldn’t but I’m used to being treated like a princess

so I guess she doesn’t plan on ghosting me but maybe she wants to slow things down or maybe she just wasn’t in the mood

she slept on the couch I slept in my room

so that was kind of odd I mean she has a really good personality. I could see myself dating her but all that being said I guess the play is still to just totally back off and let her come around when she wants to

women are hard to understand

I think part of it is when you get high with someone it kind of has a bonding effect

[allabout the $$$]

you are fukkin friend zoned time to move on!

[Big Bear]

you are fukkin friend zoned time to move on!

lmao maybe so who knows

[Big Bear]

I was trying really hard not to validate her.

she was like how have your dates been going? only thing I slipped up and said was that she didn’t have much competition and that there were not many quality women on the apps

that’s just being real though

[bigtymer56]

I was trying really hard not to validate her.

she was like how have your dates been going? only thing I slipped up and said was that she didn’t have much competition and that there were not many quality women on the apps

that’s just being real though

Lmao, that's a huge slip up.

[Big Bear]

Lmao, that's a huge slip up.

it’s actually true though. what I’ve noticed is hot women don’t need dating apps to get a dude. All they have to do is leave their house.

Pretty much the only hot women on dating apps in the summer are on there for all the attention they get.

[eaglesfan371]

I was trying really hard not to validate her.

she was like how have your dates been going? only thing I slipped up and said was that she didn’t have much competition and that there were not many quality women on the apps

that’s just being real though

Bruh women want what other women want. Never put yourself down Jesus. Sounds like friendzone to me tbh.

[eaglesfan371]

it’s actually true though. what I’ve noticed is hot women don’t need dating apps to get a dude. All they have to do is leave their house.

Pretty much the only hot women on dating apps in the summer are on there for all the attention they get.

Men are so desperate these days that as a woman you could be a fat pig, wear a tight dress and find a guy at a bar to go home with you 9/10 times.

[Big Bear]

Bruh women want what other women want. Never put yourself down Jesus. Sounds like friendzone to me tbh.

I didn’t put myself down

I was just honest

I don’t date women I am not really interested in. I got a lot on my plate with work

[Big Bear]

so ole girl text me at 2:30am last night saying hey wanna come get me?

I didnt see it until today

should i just ignore or how would yall respond

[allabout the $$$]

so ole girl text me at 2:30am last night saying hey wanna come get me?

I didnt see it until today

should i just ignore or how would yall respond

sorry i couldnt get back to you last night i had company over

[Big Bear]

sorry i couldnt get back to you last night i had company over

went with let me know next time you want to something, hopefully I’ll be awake lol

and ofcourse no response

i sure as hell aint asking her out though

[allabout the $$$]

went with let me know next time you want to something, hopefully I’ll be awake lol

and ofcourse no response

i sure as hell aint asking her out though

you are an idiot

women want what someone else has! you telling her you had company was a big fukk you to her! seriously wake the fukk up and stop being a bitch

[Big Bear]

you are an idiot

women want what someone else has! you telling her you had company was a big fukk you to her! seriously wake the fukk up and stop being a bitch

but I’m not trying to say fukk you

I don’t play games I’m a genuine guy

[allabout the $$$]

but I’m not trying to say fukk you

I don’t play games I’m a genuine guy

and this is why she shits on you. grow a set of balls and man up.

[eaglesfan371]

but I’m not trying to say fukk you

I don’t play games I’m a genuine guy

"I'm a nice guy"

LOL

dude cmon play the game, man up all about $$$ is right

[Big Bear]

been reading books about stoicsm

trying to be selfless

I cant control what others do

[Big Bear]

was listening to this book on audible called the obstacle is the way

It was talking about how life is all about perception

you have the choice of how you look at a situation

basically they call this bread crumbing women do it to keep you thinking about them and they do it for a power trip

they think it will crush a guys self esteem and break their confidence

but you can choose the way you look at it


I feel like what I should do is wait for her to finally come over on her own and be straight up with her

I got a date with a new girl tomorrow

[allabout the $$$]

was listening to this book on audible called the obstacle is the way

It was talking about how life is all about perception

you have the choice of how you look at a situation

basically they call this bread crumbing women do it to keep you thinking about them and they do it for a power trip

they think it will crush a guys self esteem and break their confidence

but you can choose the way you look at it


I feel like what I should do is wait for her to finally come over on her own and be straight up with her

I got a date with a new girl tomorrow

do whatever you want stop fukkin posting about it.

your a cuck boy

[bigtymer56]

so ole girl text me at 2:30am last night saying hey wanna come get me?

I didnt see it until today

should i just ignore or how would yall respond

Lol...she didn't want to pay for a cab or Uber to pick her from whatever club she was at so she texted you.

[HurryUpAndDrink]

do whatever you want stop fukkin posting about it.

your a cuck boy

[Big Bear]

Lol...she didn't want to pay for a cab or Uber to pick her from whatever club she was at so she texted you.

haha well that and probably to smoke my weed too

but foreal if I was awake at 2:30am it would probably be because I was up drinking

the chances of me being awake at 2:30am and sober and ready to come pick someone up are very slim

I see what yall are saying about imply you had another chick over to make her jealous but It’s just not congruent with my personality

[Big Bear]

so I text her today “I want to see you.Can you meet me at my place at 8pm and we’ll sushi and blaze after”


Just wanted to be completely direct.

She ofcourse ignored me.

I’m done with her, I’m never reaching out to her again, period. That’s disrespectful, I’m moving on.

If she ever does get back in contact I will try It’s all about the Money’s suggestion “I’m sorry I couldn’t get back to you I had company over”

I wouldn’t have done that but her straight up ignoring me after texting me at 2:30am is not showing me any respect at all.

[HurryUpAndDrink]

dude.....................

[Big Bear]

dude.....................

Let me just say this.

I finally had that ahh ha moment.

It all makes sense now.

See I was looking at it from a logical view point. But with women It finally makes sense to me that they are all fukking evil heartless bitches for the most part.

I was thinking that it might be a turn off if she thought I was fukkin other women but it’s the exact opposite. they actually want to fukk dudes who are fukking other women.

As soon as you give them any fukking validation they are going to chase the next guys validation.

I keep thinking that I finally met a nice woman that I can be real with. They are all the same.


I get it now.

Next time if there is a next time I am going to either ignore totally, call her out, or say hey sorry I have company etc...

It may be too late with this one but it was a good life lesson moving forward

I deleted all my dating apps too

done with online dating I’m going to man the fukk up and start approaching every hot girl i see in public now unless she got a ring on

anyway I appreciate the tough love boys

I admit I was doing it all wrong

I am a nice guy at heart but I can’t let women see that

[thechaoz]

Let me just say this.

I finally had that ahh ha moment.

It all makes sense now.

See I was looking at it from a logical view point. But with women It finally makes sense to me that they are all fukking evil heartless bitches for the most part.

I was thinking that it might be a turn off if she thought I was fukkin other women but it’s the exact opposite. they actually want to fukk dudes who are fukking other women.

As soon as you give them any fukking validation they are going to chase the next guys validation.

I keep thinking that I finally met a nice woman that I can be real with. They are all the same.


I get it now.

Next time if there is a next time I am going to either ignore totally, call her out, or say hey sorry I have company etc...

It may be too late with this one but it was a good life lesson moving forward

I deleted all my dating apps too

done with online dating I’m going to man the fukk up and start approaching every hot girl i see in public now unless she got a ring on

anyway I appreciate the tough love boys

I admit I was doing it all wrong

I am a nice guy at heart but I can’t let women see that

Please go to reddit and start reading the r/redpill material. You're like my brother, but he never tried and is a hopeless cuck like my dad.

I broke up with this cheating bitch in my early 30's and had finally had enough. I read, practiced, failed, read, succeeded, practiced, over and over. You have to change the way your mind works when growing up with a beta father/no father/ overbearing mother. Life has been amazing since.

I respect you for trying but SBR isn't the place to learn. A few guys on here get it like Fats, usc, HUD, all about, etc. There are many others, but I'm just throwing it out there.

Long story short, whatever jts says, do the exact opposite.
Redpill, ask trp has years upon years of resources, books, articles, posts, trip reports. It will all makes sense with your observations during life and click, but it will always be a learning process and that's what makes it great.

This will be my last post on the subject.

GL

[bigtymer56]

Let me just say this.

I finally had that ahh ha moment.

It all makes sense now.

See I was looking at it from a logical view point. But with women It finally makes sense to me that they are all fukking evil heartless bitches for the most part.

I was thinking that it might be a turn off if she thought I was fukkin other women but it’s the exact opposite. they actually want to fukk dudes who are fukking other women.

As soon as you give them any fukking validation they are going to chase the next guys validation.

I keep thinking that I finally met a nice woman that I can be real with. They are all the same.


I get it now.

Next time if there is a next time I am going to either ignore totally, call her out, or say hey sorry I have company etc...

It may be too late with this one but it was a good life lesson moving forward

I deleted all my dating apps too

done with online dating I’m going to man the fukk up and start approaching every hot girl i see in public now unless she got a ring on

anyway I appreciate the tough love boys

I admit I was doing it all wrong

I am a nice guy at heart but I can’t let women see that

Lmao, big difference between a nice guy and letting people disrespect you and your time. Most women don't want to be with a pushover.

[HurryUpAndDrink]

please go to reddit and start reading the r/redpill material. You're like my brother, but he never tried and is a hopeless cuck like my dad.

I broke up with this cheating bitch in my early 30's and had finally had enough. I read, practiced, failed, read, succeeded, practiced, over and over. You have to change the way your mind works when growing up with a beta father/no father/ overbearing mother. Life has been amazing since.

I respect you for trying but sbr isn't the place to learn. A few guys on here get it like fats, usc, hud, all about, etc. There are many others, but i'm just throwing it out there.

Long story short, whatever jts says, do the exact opposite.
Redpill, ask trp has years upon years of resources, books, articles, posts, trip reports. It will all makes sense with your observations during life and click, but it will always be a learning process and that's what makes it great.

This will be my last post on the subject.

Gl

my name is hurryupandsnortblow and i fuckin endorse this post