Need Booty Call Advice

[Big Bear]

so what if a girl tells she you she is coming over like literally said I’m on my way

and then text you back that she really wants to so bad but she has to get up early

and then sends another text that saying soon lol

[leetreaper]

This guy is dreaming again

[Stallion]

Use a condom.

[Big Bear]

Use a condom.

I do

Last time she tried to get me to take it off. She goes so I guess you don’t have good pull out game?

My new policy is not to raw dog unless we are exclusive. Most of these young women just want to be casual which is fine but I definitely wrap it up except for BJ’s

[leetreaper]

I do

Last time she tried to get me to take it off. She goes so I guess you don’t have good pull out game?

My new policy is not to raw dog unless we are exclusive. Most of these young women just want to be casual which is fine but I definitely wrap it up except for BJ’s

[BigDofBA]

If you need advice, you’ve come to the wrong place.

[Big Bear]

If you need advice, you’ve come to the wrong place.

Basically what would your play be? Hit her up and try again this weekend or wait a week?


I’ve only hit it once but it was one of my better performances. I’m trying to drop the dikk off next time so I can get her to crave me

[Big Bear]

Here is the text exchange from 2 nights ago

Me: Lets hang out soon

Her: yeah I’m down

Me: when are you free next?

Her: just got back in town, whenever

Me: see ya in 20 min lol

Her: haha don’t tempt me I don’t really want to go home and I just had a red bull

Me: typed her my address but she already knows where I live (we already had sex at my place once)


Her: yeah??

Me: I’ll leave the light on for you

Her: KK On my way

Then 10 minutes later

Her: gah nevermind I want to so bad but I have an early meeting

Her : Soon lol

Me: sounds good just hit me up




So what is the next play? Wait til like next Wednesday and I ask her to go out for drinks with me next Friday? That’s what I’m leaning toward

I want to give her the opportunity to reach out to me this weekend for a late night booty call


i’m afraid if I ask her for a specific day this weekend its bad b/c of 3 reasons
1. Shows I am too available
2. Gives her a chance to turn me down and further gives her validation
3. It gives her the power


It’s this weird dynamic b/c we have hung out 3 times I see her as potential girlfriend material but she had me friendzoned until the last time we hung out.

Anybody got input?

I wish I could just do what I want and speak honestly without worry about how I’m percieved but somehow I got to separate myself from the competition.

This is not the only woman I have hooked up with lately but she is the only one that I would seriously ever want to be my girlfriend

[pattymayo]

penetrate dude you are really overthinking nothing. Don't do anything, if she wants to bang she will make it happen. Pretty simple

[allabout the $$$]

penetrate dude you are really overthinking nothing. Don't do anything, if she wants to bang she will make it happen. Pretty simple

THIS pretty simple

[Itsamazing777]

no do not wait any longer
now is the time to strike

[Big Bear]

penetrate dude you are really overthinking nothing. Don't do anything, if she wants to bang she will make it happen. Pretty simple

I appreciate your advice. Yeah I do have a tendency to overthink things.

I just asked my buddy at work who is in a relationship he suggested I text her today saying how was your 4th? And then ask her out

But I think your advice is better.

[Big Bear]

no do not wait any longer
now is the time to strike

Wait what?

What would your move be?

Ask her out for when?

I actually already made plans with another girl for tonight but this girl tonight is not as special to me

If I ask her out for say Saturday or Sunday and she says she already made plans then it looks like I’m chasing

[allabout the $$$]

Wait what?

What would your move be?

Ask her out for when?

I actually already made plans with another girl for tonight but this girl tonight is not as special to me

If I ask her out for say Saturday or Sunday and she says she already made plans then it looks like I’m chasing

dont listen to this guy. go out with the girl tonight have fun if the other one calls tell her you have plans and you will see her another night.

you have the upper hand in that situation

DO NOT bail on the girl you have a date with

[Big Bear]

Yo I think I’m taking a month off from even thinking about women


The girl I had plans with tonight told me she was sick with the flu cough cough bullshit!!!
We’ve had sex twice and both times were great but this is like the 3rd time in a row she has flaked yet she keeps talking to me after.


and then the one I really like who I would even date potentially who sent me the message on being on her way over to my house and then saying she wasn’t coming well I texted her at like 3 something saying “we should go out for drinks tonight”


No response she didn’t even bother making up a reason why she couldn’t go out with me. That’s just disrespectful


Shit is crazy. I don’t even feel like pursuing women anymore for awhile it’s too much stress

[allabout the $$$]

why did you text her that was a dumb move. stop calling her let her come to you.

[Sanity Check]

Shit is crazy. I don’t even feel like pursuing women anymore for awhile it’s too much stress

If you're fukking them, there is a small chance they could get pregnant with your baby even if you use a condom and the pill.

Squeezing a baby out has to be somewhat painful and stressful.

And so I don't complain too much if they decide to share a little of the pain/stress with me.

Am I the only one that thinks this way?

[MinnesotaFats]

Just leave the light on, door open

Girls love that slutty mystical feeling

[Big Bear]

why did you text her that was a dumb move. stop calling her let her come to you.

man I hate these fukking games but yeah I am not calling or texting her ever again unless she contacts me.

She fukkin set a trap when I asked when she was free she told me oh whenever really..and thing is she is at the beach I saw on instagram. She knew she wasn’t even going to be in town but she wanted me to ask her out just so she could ignore me and play these fukkin games.

If I see her again I am going to fukk her hard and tell after stop playing these fukking games or we are done

Devious ass hoez

[bigtymer56]

why did you text her that was a dumb move. stop calling her let her come to you.

This the second or third thread about this. He's going to keep chasing this chick until she moves on.

[allabout the $$$]

man I hate these fukking games but yeah I am not calling or texting her ever again unless she contacts me.

She fukkin set a trap when I asked when she was free she told me oh whenever really..and thing is she is at the beach I saw on instagram. She knew she wasn’t even going to be in town but she wanted me to ask her out just so she could ignore me and play these fukkin games.

If I see her again I am going to fukk her hard and tell after stop playing these fukking games or we are done

Devious ass hoez

Just penetrate her get up and leave don't say a word stop being a bitch

[Big Bear]

Just penetrate her get up and leave don't say a word stop being a bitch

That works too. I just hate being disrespected

[thechaoz]

Playing games

[HurryUpAndDrink]

JFC... dude if u really need help with everything women we have serious problems

[Mr KLC]

Surprised Autodonk hasn't chimed in on this yet. Probably be a couple of days. He was telling us in the poker chat this morning that he and his wife were hooking up with 2 lesbians tonight. He seemed pretty excited.

[Big Bear]

fukk it

going to be bold from now on

no more being a pussy

[stevek173]

Lust is a venial sin so don't be a dick.

[Auto Donk]

bareback her anally for f'n with your head.....


go ass to mouth with the choco stick (if it appears) to let her know you mean business....


in the future, just text back, "put the flaps on the seat, or the feet on the street".....

[Big Bear]

bareback her anally for f'n with your head.....


go ass to mouth with the choco stick (if it appears) to let her know you mean business....


in the future, just text back, "put the flaps on the seat, or the feet on the street".....

haha yeah It’s not nice to mess with a man’s head like that. I honestly think it’s some type of shit test to see how much I’m willing to take before I stop pursuing and or will I actually let her go and not chase her.


she is the hottest girl by far on this datinf app I’m on and I think every other dude chases/stalks her when she wants to end things.

So I’m going strict no contact. Hopefully I get another chance, and if I do I plan on making the most of it.

Looking back with this one I feel like I made all the right moves but sometimes that is not enough.

[eaglesfan371]

I appreciate your advice. Yeah I do have a tendency to overthink things.

I just asked my buddy at work who is in a relationship he suggested I text her today saying how was your 4th? And then ask her out

But I think your advice is better.

No your bud is in a relationship, you’re just trying to fuk. STOP texting her first. How many times do WE have to tell you. Let her come to you if the dik was as bomb as u suggest.

The date I went on yesterday, girl immediately send me her number and we talk briefly before bed. Today I did not text her and she sends me two words at 3pm. What the hell am I supposed to say to two words. Answer is I don’t. Takes two to have a conversation and we all know every girl seeing many guys. The longer you don’t talk the more they’re like damn he hasn’t talked to me, and poses a challenge. If they’re actually into you, this is where they become more interested. They want a challenge, someone who isn’t going to always respond, blow up their phones or seems free all the time.

[allabout the $$$]

No your bud is in a relationship, you’re just trying to fuk. STOP texting her first. How many times do WE have to tell you. Let her come to you if the dik was as bomb as u suggest.

The date I went on yesterday, girl immediately send me her number and we talk briefly before bed. Today I did not text her and she sends me two words at 3pm. What the hell am I supposed to say to two words. Answer is I don’t. Takes two to have a conversation and we all know every girl seeing many guys. The longer you don’t talk the more they’re like damn he hasn’t talked to me, and poses a challenge. If they’re actually into you, this is where they become more interested. They want a challenge, someone who isn’t going to always respond, blow up their phones or seems free all the time.

i agree with most of this shockingly.

Eagles dont say WE you just jumped in here with your comment.

Also how did i know you would bring up your date yesterday

No one gives a shit about your date and what you do on here! who cares if she text you. You took her fukkin painting and you painted a flower you fukking cuck

[BrickJames]

i agree with most of this shockingly.

Eagles dont say WE you just jumped in here with your comment.

Also how did i know you would bring up your date yesterday

No one gives a shit about your date and what you do on here! who cares if she text you. You took her fukkin painting and you painted a flower you fukking cuck

Just take em to a bar, get a few in them, order some shots without asking her first. Dont get to drunk, bed them then uber them.

[BigdaddyQH]

You really have to be kidding me. Either that, or you are one of the dumbest people around. Asking advice about this? Wow. What a puss.

[eaglesfan371]

i agree with most of this shockingly.

Eagles dont say WE you just jumped in here with your comment.

Also how did i know you would bring up your date yesterday

No one gives a shit about your date and what you do on here! who cares if she text you. You took her fukkin painting and you painted a flower you fukking cuck

I have been commenting on big bear dating drama for months now. Same post similar stories repeatedly.

I don’t find going to a bar and getting to know someone over drinks fun. I suggest dates based on personality. Girl was nerdy and very introverted, so painting fit her. If she was extroverted, would have chosen dancing. I find activity dates have more success than drinks or coffee.

[allabout the $$$]

I don’t find going to a bar and getting to know someone over drinks fun. I suggest dates based on personality. Girl was nerdy and very introverted, so painting fit her. If she was extroverted, would have chosen dancing. I find activity dates have more success than drinks or coffee.

And you have how much success dating ?

Time to try a new method because whatever you are doing isnt working