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[bradthebloke]

think while the 21 year old was out maybe some guy called her, she wanted to leave so quick because she was gonna go to his place or out with him. did she text you back when you told her good night? if not, she was out with someone. the 19 year old is just playing those games lil girls play. its why i wont date anyone under 28 or so. usually past that shit by then. I once had a 19 year old bitch tell me come to her house, she gave me the address and when i got there the address was an empty lot in between 2 houses. yeah!

[Gradius]

MoneyShot: I think the 21-year old hustled you, although it is hard to tell. She probably went lighter than most women (who you could probably see it coming if you are potentially aware of it). If you contact her again and nothing happens, she probably hustled you, but if she contacts you again, then there is probably genuine interest (although she could also be stringing you along).

The 19-year old sound crazy, although that seems pretty run of the mill for POF.

[Plaza23]

And also... can anyone tell me what I did wrong with the 21 year old? The banker? I mean... is she playing hard to get? Something happened to her when she went out to smoke that 2nd time... she was gone longer than usual... it had to of been 10 minutes. But if she met another guy there... or whatever... why would we walk to the garage together... and leave. Of course... I'm not going to stalk her and see if she left??? I don't know if she did or not? I watched her get in her car... and that was it. But... what would change a girl's mind for on a dime? Unreal.

Because it wasnt a date. If you both drove and met up at the same place, that isnt a date. If you wanted to score, you needed to take her on a real date where you pick her up, you plan something out, and you take the offensive. This broad just wanted free drinks and you were the bloke that gave them to her (assuming you paid).

Also, I agree with the other guy that you need to dress better if you expect to get some action. Showing up in a T Shirt doesnt work for a guy your age if you want premium tail. It just doesnt. It might work for the guys that are those girls ages, but not for an older guy. You need to dress to impress - because thats the appeal of an older man to a younger chic. Younger girl looks at an older guy and thinks he's mature, had life experiences, dresses well, is basically a professional when it comes to dating. They dont want an older guy that is dressing like the douch bag frat boys that constantly hit on them. They want something different, thats why they talked to you in the first place.

You just gotta put more effort out to slay the hotter girls. You cant put the same amount of effort out to each girl because its not going to work. Some of the skanks that you met in your earlier threads were easy peasy 30 somethings that are the easiest women on the planet. Showing up in a T shirt is probably fine for them.

But a hot girl that works at a bank, probably sees well dressed men everyday - and you show up looking like that. Forget about it. That was probably your one chance. It sucks. Lesson learned.

[FlipsideRM]

think while the 21 year old was out maybe some guy called her, she wanted to leave so quick because she was gonna go to his place or out with him. did she text you back when you told her good night? if not, she was out with someone. the 19 year old is just playing those games lil girls play. its why i wont date anyone under 28 or so. usually past that shit by then. I once had a 19 year old bitch tell me come to her house, she gave me the address and when i got there the address was an empty lot in between 2 houses. yeah!

This was probably the case

[FlipsideRM]

Because it wasnt a date. If you both drove and met up at the same place, that isnt a date. If you wanted to score, you needed to take her on a real date where you pick her up, you plan something out, and you take the offensive. This broad just wanted free drinks and you were the bloke that gave them to her (assuming you paid).

Also, I agree with the other guy that you need to dress better if you expect to get some action. Showing up in a T Shirt doesnt work for a guy your age if you want premium tail. It just doesnt. It might work for the guys that are those girls ages, but not for an older guy. You need to dress to impress - because thats the appeal of an older man to a younger chic. Younger girl looks at an older guy and thinks he's mature, had life experiences, dresses well, is basically a professional when it comes to dating. They dont want an older guy that is dressing like the douch bag frat boys that constantly hit on them. They want something different, thats why they talked to you in the first place.

You just gotta put more effort out to slay the hotter girls. You cant put the same amount of effort out to each girl because its not going to work. Some of the skanks that you met in your earlier threads were easy peasy 30 somethings that are the easiest women on the planet. Showing up in a T shirt is probably fine for them.

But a hot girl that works at a bank, probably sees well dressed men everyday - and you show up looking like that. Forget about it. That was probably your one chance. It sucks. Lesson learned.

I agree, button down and slacks at the very least. Espeically since she said the place was "nice"

[Plaza23]

"I made it home. I was surprised you wanted to leave so soon. I had a wonderful time. Thank you so much. You're definitely my type."

OH MY......lmfao

Agree. Dont say stuff like that unless you banged her.

You didnt even get a kiss and you are thanking her? Seriously? No... You should have said something like "Made it home...till next time" and that be that.

[FlipsideRM]

Agree. Dont say stuff like that unless you banged her.

You didnt even get a kiss and you are thanking her? Seriously? No... You should have said something like "Made it home...till next time" and that be that.

This.

What you said there moneyshot oozes of desperate/weird after a casual meeting at a bar. Thank you so much, you're definitely my type? Really bro lol?

[TheMoneyShot]

I love how people keep hammering my quotes. I have my own style... and I know what I'm doing. You guys act like I talk sesame street or something? I'm strong... I show power when I need too. You can't be a TOTAL DIK to a girl like that.... no way you'll get action from her. I knew going in with the 21 year old I wasn't going to score. I don't even feel used. I knew what I was doing. Out of 100 dates I've gone on... a 21 year old picks a fancy place?? Like I knew????

Why the hell would I get all dressed up for a 2 hour date? Are you guys on crack?

it's summer time... its muggy out. She's the idiot that recommended this spot. Cold weather... or Winter time... ok... but not right now.


And you guys don't know the wording that she was telling me etc. If she's nice... I'm nice. If you're a bitch... I give it right back. Maybe she's testing me to see how clingy I am? I'm not texting her... not saying anything else. If she comes back... she comes back.

[TheMoneyShot]

This.

What you said there moneyshot oozes of desperate/weird after a casual meeting at a bar. Thank you so much, you're definitely my type? Really bro lol?

How is it just a casual meeting when the girl was blowing up my phone non-stop for 48 hours? That's casual? When someone blows up a phone... it's more than casual. Must be looking for something. But like I said... it's all good.

[FlipsideRM]

How is it just a casual meeting when the girl was blowing up my phone non-stop for 48 hours? That's casual? When someone blows up a phone... it's more than casual. Must be looking for something. But like I said... it's all good.

More than casual is dinner imo. Meeting up at a bar wreaks of casual, are you serious?

[Russian Rocket]

Agree. Dont say stuff like that unless you banged her.

You didnt even get a kiss and you are thanking her? Seriously? No... You should have said something like "Made it home...till next time" and that be that.

Money is a true Gentelman...real men thank a woman regardless whether they fukked her or not...that's just how the REAL men act

[FlipsideRM]

Money is a true Gentelman...real men thank a woman regardless whether they fukked her or not...that's just how the REAL men act

To each their own. I'm not saying be a dick but "thank you so much, you're definitely my type" is creepy/desperate coming from an older man speaking to a younger female

[Plaza23]

Regardless... it's just a simple meeting. That's all I thought this was. ..

give me your CC I'll show you how it's done. And she gets the bartender's attention an orders us drinks.
She goes yeah... I just got hit on and these guys bought me drinks. I said... isn't that something. Not even jealous in the least bit. I think it's cool. She quickly goes... hey... I have to work tomorrow we need to get outta here.

I had to read this thru this long message and take out the 3 things that caught my eye.

#1. Its never a "simple meeting" when meeting a girl that you might like for the first time. Never. You cant treat it like that. You gotta bring your A+ game especially since you had a good idea of how hot she was by the pics you had seen. You never get a 2nd chance to make a first impression. Its that simple.

#2. So it was the girl that was SHOWING YOU (who is way older than her), how its really done as far as getting drinks? This really makes you look weak. You are the older MAN, you are supposed to be the one that is smooth, gets things done, and makes it work. This girl is acting like the alpha in this relationship and its only the first meeting. Forget about it. I'm surprised she just didnt leave your butt when you showed up in the T shirt, and then didnt even get the bartender's respect to get the drinks. Why would a hot girl want to be with a guy like that? She's showing you that you are clearly not on her level. You needed to show that you were in control.

#3. That work excuse was bogus. She went out with someone else after the date with you did not go as she planned. Or, she was just using you to get buzzed because she meeting up with her real date/friends later.

You just came off too weak last night.

A - Dress Better
B - Put more effort in
C - Be in control.

You obviously have some quality skills in getting these girls numbers and getting them to meet you. Thats usually the hardest part. The easiest parts should be the dates themselves, but last night was a fail on your part.

[Russian Rocket]

To each their own. I'm not saying be a dick but "thank you so much, you're definitely my type" is creepy/desperate coming from an older man speaking to a younger female

Money definitely has a mountain to climb here...he is almost twice as old as her and that's a big issue for HER I think.

[Plaza23]

Why the hell would I get all dressed up for a 2 hour date? Are you guys on crack?

.

Because you are trying to impress someone that would normally never ever look in your direction. So when you get that chance, you put 100% into it.

And how much effort does it take to put on nice clothes? That takes effort? Really?

[Ratpack]

money you should of hooked up with that chick you were sitting next you when this girl was smoking her cig.

A. She was age appropriate.
B. She has a real job as a teacher.
C. She works in the town you live so shes close.
D. You already said she was giving you the lets fu*k face so you should of went back into the bar after you were done with the 21 year old and found this other chick and banged her

[Ghenghis Kahn]

hey money, i like you pal. you're one of my favorite posters on sbr. so i'm gonna be brutally honest.

you need to stop this madness. you need to date chicks that are older than 26 and i'm being generous with that age.

anything below that, you're just asking for trouble.

young chicks like assholes, bad boys, someone that treats them like shit. they're looking for fixer-uppers. they're looking for their next project.

bitches are into drama, especially at that age. and all of them at that age are emotionally unstable. why do you want drama in your life?

i know you just want to bang these chicks but it's obvious you really like the banker chick. who wouldn't? she's fukking cute.

but don't try to anal-lyze these bitches. it's a big waste of time and energy. they can only fukk with your psyche and your confidence.

just remember, these bitches get offered dick daily. they're still in that invincible state. no need to mess with that.

but hey, if the things workout with you and the banker chick, more power to you and disregard this message.

also, people saying oh why didn't you dress up, now why would you dress up to grab a drink?

[FlipsideRM]

just remember, these bitches get offered dick daily. they're still in that invincible state. no need to mess with that.

[TheMoneyShot]

More than casual is dinner imo. Meeting up at a bar wreaks of casual, are you serious?

I'm not going to keep arguing over this with you. I've been on dates when you have dinner... and you blow a $100 bill faster than you can blink. I know what me and her talked about beforehand. I accomplished what I wanted to accomplish. I already calculated everything out. There's different ways to work women... not every method will work the same. My sweet talk worked by getting the date. Ok? How the hell did you think I accomplished this? I was being respectful in person. I would of lost instantly if I told her FUK U bitch and show her an I don't care side to me. Christ... the date would of been over faster if I did. Clearly obvious. Regardless.... the girl has a lot to learn still. She just turned 21 a week ago and she event old me she's excited to be going to bars now "legally". So maybe this was a HIGH for her??? To be flat out honest... my body.. my personality... and my conversation skills got the date. She is a superficial girl. We all get smoked and blind sided without looking... she'll get hers too.

I had to read this thru this long message and take out the 3 things that caught my eye.

#2. So it was the girl that was SHOWING YOU (who is way older than her), how its really done as far as getting drinks? This really makes you look weak. You are the older MAN, you are supposed to be the one that is smooth, gets things done, and makes it work. This girl is acting like the alpha in this relationship and its only the first meeting. Forget about it. I'm surprised she just didnt leave your butt when you showed up in the T shirt, and then didnt even get the bartender's respect to get the drinks. Why would a hot girl want to be with a guy like that? She's showing you that you are clearly not on her level. You needed to show that you were in control.

#3. That work excuse was bogus. She went out with someone else after the date with you did not go as she planned. Or, she was just using you to get buzzed because she meeting up with her real date/friends later.

You just came off too weak last night.

A - Dress Better
B - Put more effort in
C - Be in control.

You obviously have some quality skills in getting these girls numbers and getting them to meet you. Thats usually the hardest part. The easiest parts should be the dates themselves, but last night was a fail on your part.

I don't know why Plaza your busting my nuts for acting like you know what you're talking about?

#2. She is a show off. She is an impatient person. She grabbed the card out of my hand... and literally bumped a few guys out of the way at the end of the bar. That's not my style. She believes she's #1. Furthermore, it was rather humorous to me... if I was an as$hole I would of said... now wait a minute.. don't be doing stupid sh#$ like that and grabbing things out of my hand. Clearly... that's not laying the law down. That date would of ended right there. Like I said... different people have different personalities. The same dating style will NOT WORK on every girl.

#3 We officially left the bar at 1:06AM. She has to be at work at 8AM. Her drive is 30 minutes to work from her place. I don't know how fast she does her makeup. I would imagine she had to get up at 6AM to get ready for work.

A - Dress Better. I dress fine... thank you. I'm not getting my best clothing out for an UNSURE situation. A nice outfit wouldn't of SEALED THE DEAL. And if you believe so... you're 100% wrong.

B - Put more effort. I did. I made her feel like a princess. We laughed. We smiled. We joked. Let another guy sh#$ on her. It will eventually happen.

C - Be in control. I was. I did what the situation called for. You aren't going to tie a leash on this girl and win. I tried to merge with her style. That's the only way I had a chance.


RussianRocket is correct. More than likely... it could of been my age. I just tried my best to be young, entertaining, without overdoing it or looking like a fool. That's the only way you're ever going to score someone 17 years younger than you. So like I said.... the fun is over. Football season is around the corner. I'm done with this sh#$. I wanted to show you...... hold everything.... phone just rang.

[FlipsideRM]

She's too young for you bro.

[FlipsideRM]

https://www.backpage.com

Spend the same money you just wasted on that poor girl last night, and you'll end up with a happy ending.

[TheMoneyShot]

The girl on the left just called. She said she wants to hang out tonight... hmmmmmm

She goes I'm having a late dinner with my family now... I want to hang out after I'm eating. She doesn't tell me a time... or a place... or anything. I hate women. Another 21 year old. Great.

[kidcudi92]

hey TMS have you wandered around that christian singles site yet

[gauchojake]

Money your write ups are a thing of beauty. Win lose or draw, always a great read. Fukk the armchair quarterbacks.

[cashmoneyholla]

Money your write ups are a thing of beauty. Win lose or draw, always a great read. Fukk the armchair quarterbacks.

this

[TheMoneyShot]

Well... so the girl in the photo above on the left said to meet her at 10PM. I start driving about 9:30 PM. She goes "I'm honestly wondering if we can do this tomorrow night please? I look like a bum." I text... are you fukking kidding me right now? Then she goes "Really wow"

What the fuk is wrong with 21 year olds this weekend??? I mean... this is the worst bad luck ever. Fuk... get it out of the way before football season starts. Son of a bitch!!!

[FlipsideRM]

Quit wasting your time. Join a singles church group and settle down

[Russian Rocket]

Well... so the girl in the photo above on the left said to meet her at 10PM. I start driving about 9:30 PM. She goes "I'm honestly wondering if we can do this tomorrow night please? I look like a bum." I text... are you fukking kidding me right now? Then she goes "Really wow"

What the fuk is wrong with 21 year olds this weekend??? I mean... this is the worst bad luck ever. Fuk... get it out of the way before football season starts. Son of a bitch!!!

unreal

will you see her tomorrow still or is it all over now?

[gauchojake]

Rocket I went out last night on Main Street and it got ugly. I was actually the responsible one.

[bradthebloke]

so now Secretariat bailed on ya? Money these 20 year olds are just looking for a new shiny toy. They lose interest as soon as you show it. on to the next shiny object. Get a 30 year old. Your sanity will thank ya. Knock em down, brother.

[Russian Rocket]

Rocket I went out last night on Main Street and it got ugly. I was actually the responsible one.

Did you almost kick someone's ass?

[gauchojake]

Did you almost kick someone's ass?

No I'm not quite the badass that most sbr'rs are. It was my buddy's birthday and we got pretty shitty. I saw his wife at trader joes today and she said she found him at 4:30 am asleep in he backyard. I brought him back in the taxi.

[Russian Rocket]

No I'm not quite the badass that most sbr'rs are. It was my buddy's birthday and we got pretty shitty. I saw his wife at trader joes today and she said she found him at 4:30 am asleep in he backyard. I brought him back in the taxi.

classic

[Monitor-Tan]

Post up the nudes!~

[gauchojake]

Apparently one of the other guys was found asleep standing up over the toilet like he was taking a piss. That dude snorted a shitload of yay