What sense does having kid(s) make?

TexansFan · 05-03-11, 08:40 PM

To each his own, but I wouldn't trade my kids for all the money in the world. Now, if they happened to be some of the dipshits that post at this site then I understand.

Iced · 05-03-11, 08:40 PM

I assume you're a broke stressed out [expletive] that's living paycheck to paycheck.

I agree with the sentiment of having kids makes no sense though -- just not for monetary reasons. The first twelve years of their life are useless, they just pee, poop, cry, and play with toys and what-not. Once they are old enough to have an actual conversation with, they really aren't that interesting. Dogs are better, they always show affection and they're pretty cool all-around. And yes, they cost much less.

paco · 05-03-11, 08:44 PM

No use having all the money in the world if u don't have anyone to share it with.

Love my kids, best decision i ever made.

wtf · 05-03-11, 08:46 PM

yea if your a robot no sense in having a child

rake922 · 05-03-11, 08:50 PM

bettilimbroke is in a rut

opie1988 · 05-03-11, 08:53 PM

Have one.....you'll "get" it.

If you don't "get" it.....then you're a hopeless prikk anyways.

William Walters · 05-03-11, 08:58 PM

Opie beat me to it. Basically, until you have a child...........you just wont understand.

You can ask questions. We can answer. We could go through this process all night. Wouldn't help you truly understand. Its just something you have to experience.

VegasRandy · 05-03-11, 08:58 PM

Don't have a kid.

Don't want a kid.

Don't live paycheck to paycheck.

Think kids are great.

Have 16 Nieces and Nephews and think they are all lots of fun.

Just don't want kids. Not for me.

Masu485 · 05-03-11, 09:07 PM

People just want to feel like they're doing the "right" thing (ex: biological imperatives twisted by the human element). This is why people say 'congratulations' when a woman announces she's pregnant. It is not an accomplishment, it's not a miracle. You made a baby, any bitch in heat can do that.

Parents also always justify it by saying no matter what they made the right decision and they wouldn't trade their kids for the world. They say this even if the kids were accidents or unplanned, even if the kids ruined the relationship, etc...These people are deluded and obviously cannot think rationally about it, as there is too much emotion involved. How do you know your life wouldn't be better if you didn't have kids? There's no way for you to tell. In most cases, your life would probably be better if you didn't have kids, especially if you could not afford it (and nowadays, with the decline of the middle class, only the upper classes are able to comfortably).

The only person I've actually heard say she regrets having her kids was Octomom, and it took a LOT of coaxing to get it out of her. I know there are millions of parents who feel the same way as her, but they just can't cope with the guilt of making the wrong decision, so they cover it up by saying 'no matter what, i made the right choice, i wouldn't change it for anything, etc...'

I don't think most people should be having kids because they can't handle it emotionally or financially. Not everyone should have a right to be a parent either. But it's just another one of those social norms which people HAVE NO RATIONAL argument for, but just accept and take it in stride. If people questioned and argued about things rationally, there wouldn't be half the problems in the world today.

bettilimbroke999 · 05-03-11, 09:22 PM

So no one can explain why they decided to have kids or why they like having kids instead of 300k in the bank, their response is always you have to "experience it" and thats interesting bc you have to understand once you've "experienced it" you're stuck with the kid either way

Its not like you can have the kid, experience the dirty diapers and crying baby all day for yourself and going broke supporting it and be like **** this and shove it back in the girls hole

Interesting how you guys suggest experiencing it to "find out" by crossing the point of no return why it makes sense rather than offering any reasons why I should part with 300k over the next 20 years and all my personal freedom and free time

You guys sound like the religious nuts that knock on my door a couple times a year, yea youll "find out" how spot on this religion is and how great your rewards are righttttt after ya die, hmm well can I talk to the lord for a couple secs to make sure this is legit, NO, well why not, well hes umm busy right now ya know hes creating that eternal paradise for ya that your gonna get if ya just donate 10% of your income or more and really doesnt have any extra time, now look for 20% of your income hes gonna give ya a paradise that ya really cant believe I mean this is the kinda paradise your gonna really be glad you bought, basically ya get the normal eternal heaven that every serial killer that finds god gets PLUS everyday 5 new supermodels will come and empty your dick, now the 10% paradise is good but Gods a little short on dollars due to some expensive out of court settlements of a couple hundred child molestation lawsuits so hes offerin an incentive to come off that extra scrilla

opie1988 · 05-03-11, 09:28 PM

2 observations I've gleaned from your above posts.....

1) I rescind my suggestion. I encourage you NOT to procreate.

2) If above posts are indicative of your IQ.....I think that lifetime 300k figure may be a stretch for you!

spankie · 05-03-11, 09:28 PM

Gee let's see...

a hoe goes around, has 3-4 kids with 3-4 diff daddys, gets $40-50K a year off child support, another $10K a year for foodstamps, another $15K for section 8 housing. . oh yeah and then they get a job for 1 month so they can get EIC on their taxes totalling another 10K. worth more than their entire annual income.

still wondering why?

/next

Slim · 05-03-11, 09:32 PM

Only rich people should be allowed to have kids. I'm sick of these broke fukks i see at the stores that say they can't afford a $1 candy for their kid.

flyingillini · 05-03-11, 09:35 PM

I can't relate to anyone that has kids because I don't have any myself. I have left 3 relationships over the last 10 years because they wanted a kid/marriage. Most all of my friends have kids, my sisters and most people I know have them. I can honestly say, I am never going to have one and never will want one. I am sure those that have kids love them and are happy they have them. I could afford a kid, that is not the issue for me, just not into it...I am very happy doing my own thing and having to worry just about myself...There are two things that would be the worst thing ever for me besides my health going south..... Kids then being married. Not knocking anyone that is married or has a kid, just not for me.

bettilimbroke999 · 05-03-11, 09:46 PM

Smart man illini, I figured the Jews would agree with this thread, they are a little brighter than average, meanwhile the Joe Blows puttin their 300 dollar paycheck on Chicago -10 last night are tryin to justify how smart it was for them to knock their wife up 3 times

flyingillini · 05-03-11, 09:48 PM

Originally posted by bettilimbroke999

Smart man illini, I figured the Jews would agree with this thread, they are a little brighter than average, meanwhile the Joe Blows puttin their 300 dollar paycheck on Chicago -10 last night are tryin to justify how smart it was for them to knock their wife up 3 times

I do like the Shiksas though!

WvGambler · 05-03-11, 09:51 PM

I didnt really want kids until I had one. Then life changed and I felt a feeling of love that I hadnt experienced before.....BUT I didnt want a second kid. Then I had one, and that feeling of love was doubled. My kids are the best thing I have ever done, and they make me happier than I ever thought I could be....but I dont want 3.

bettilimbroke999 · 05-03-11, 09:51 PM

Originally posted by spankie

Gee let's see...

a hoe goes around, has 3-4 kids with 3-4 diff daddys, gets $40-50K a year off child support, another $10K a year for foodstamps, another $15K for section 8 housing. . oh yeah and then they get a job for 1 month so they can get EIC on their taxes totalling another 10K. worth more than their entire annual income.

still wondering why?

/next

Wait wait wait....I didnt specify bc this is a forum full of gambling degenerates like myself which is 99.9% male but I was asking my fellow male posters what sense it made for them to have kids

Yes from a female standpoint there are LOTS of reasons, if a girl ever is gettin boned by a guy with money she needs to make sure to skip that birth control for awhile and help him experience the joys of paying all her bills and child support when all he wanted was a piece of ass

bettilimbroke999 · 05-03-11, 09:58 PM

Originally posted by flyingillini

I do like the Shiksas though!

I know, I've watched Millionaire matchmaker, the jew host is always trying to set the jew guys up with the jew girls (always assuming this is what they want) but they always choose the shiksas and the jew girls are like **** that bitch he obviously aint lookin for love if he dont want to marry me and buy me a lamborghini and a 10 carat diamond

Ya see that episode where they had the hot Jewish blonde (didnt even know jews could be blonde but learn somethin new everyday) and 2 jewish millionaire guys who both picked the same shiksa, this jew girl I wanted to bone the **** out of but these jew guys were like repelled by her, honestly the jew girl was the hottest girl there, even after the shiksa picked one guy over the other he still was like well Ill only go out with the jew girl if shes REALLY into it (she obviously wasnt cause he was twice her age compared to the other guy who was her age and much better looking but he was rich so she complied), they went out once and he didnt get any ass and he never called her back

flyingillini · 05-03-11, 10:01 PM

Originally posted by bettilimbroke999

I know, I've watched Millionaire matchmaker, the jew host is always trying to set the jew guys up with the jew girls (always assuming this is what they want) but they always choose the shiksas and the jew girls are like **** that bitch he obviously aint lookin for love if he dont want to marry me and buy me a lamborghini and a 10 carat diamond

Ya see that episode where they had the hot Jewish blonde (didnt even know jews could be blonde but learn somethin new everyday) and 2 jewish millionaire guys who both picked the same shiksa, this jew girl I wanted to bone the **** out of but these jew guys were like repelled by her, even after the shiksa picked one guy over the other he still was like well I guess Ill go out with the jew girl if shes REALLY into it, they went out once and he didnt get any ass and he never called her back

I have never seen that show. I should check it out sometime. I have never dated a Jewish girl, only Shiksa's.

TexansFan · 05-03-11, 10:03 PM

Originally posted by opie1988

2 observations I've gleaned from your above posts.....

1) I rescind my suggestion. I encourage you NOT to procreate.

2) If above posts are indicative of your IQ.....I think that lifetime 300k figure may be a stretch for you!

Good post. This place is filled with morons. Too bad the parents of the op didn't share his feelings.

bettilimbroke999 · 05-03-11, 10:05 PM

Originally posted by WvGambler

I didnt really want kids until I had one. Then life changed and I felt a feeling of love that I hadnt experienced before.....BUT I didnt want a second kid. Then I had one, and that feeling of love was doubled. My kids are the best thing I have ever done, and they make me happier than I ever thought I could be....but I dont want 3.

Yup, I understand its nice to be loved, I had a dog that loved me once and when he got run over it made me sad, had the dog cost 300k he would have never left the pound though

Seriously though cant you get by on the love of your current loved ones that you dont have to support and perhaps your wife that you may already support, I mean how much love do ya need at 300k a pop

bettilimbroke999 · 05-03-11, 10:07 PM

Originally posted by flyingillini

I have never seen that show. I should check it out sometime. I have never dated a Jewish girl, only Shiksa's.

Thats so weird to me ya know, its like reverse racism, Jewish guys like make no effort to date Jewish girls, whilst Jewish girls go out of their way to date a Jew guy, very interesting

flyingillini · 05-03-11, 10:10 PM

Originally posted by bettilimbroke999

Thats so weird to me ya know, its like reverse racism, Jewish guys like make no effort to date Jewish girls, whilst Jewish girls go out of their way to date a Jew guy, very interesting

In all honesty, I just have never met one where I was in a position to date. I have never looked for a girl based on her religion or race.. If it happens it happens, I am not against it, just haven't met one. There are not many Jewish girls around Santa Barbara, have to go to LA probably....Both my sisters and Brother all married non Jews.. Each of them never dated someone Jewish before they were married as well.

bettilimbroke999 · 05-03-11, 10:11 PM

Originally posted by TexansFan

Good post. This place is filled with morons. Too bad the parents of the op didn't share his feelings.

Many geniuses in this forum, including myself, but you're not guaranteed to have a kid as incredible as me is my point, my parents took a chance and hit the lotto

wtf · 05-03-11, 10:13 PM

that 300k number is not valid, as it would have been pissed away on MEANINGLESS vacations, drugs, or whatever narcissists are into now days

instead of having a productive functioning member of society and YOUR FAMILY

WvGambler · 05-03-11, 10:14 PM

Originally posted by bettilimbroke999

Yup, I understand its nice to be loved, I had a dog that loved me once and when he got run over it made me sad, had the dog cost 300k he would have never left the pound though

Seriously though cant you get by on the love of your current loved ones that you dont have to support and perhaps your wife that you may already support, I mean how much love do ya need at 300k a pop

Youre missing the point. I didnt have kids because I wanted to be loved. I didnt even have children intentionally. If you are having kids because YOU need to be loved, then you will end up having fukked up kids. There is no problem with not wanting children...but the need to try to convince others that they are "wrong" because they do want kids is a little strange.

And comparing having a pet to my children is only a little insulting

bettilimbroke999 · 05-03-11, 10:15 PM

Originally posted by flyingillini

In all honesty, I just have never met one where I was in a position to date. I have never looked for a girl based on her religion or race.. If it happens it happens, I am not against it, just haven't met one. There are not many Jewish girls around Santa Barbara, have to go to LA probably....

Interesting

BTW do they get pissed that you call them shiksas I mean thats like kinda derogatory isnt it

flyingillini · 05-03-11, 10:17 PM

Originally posted by bettilimbroke999

Interesting

BTW do they get pissed that you call them shiksas I mean thats like kinda derogatory isnt it

It's like asking a Tottenham fan that is Jewish if they have a problem with the Yid Army or Yiddo chants...Nice to see you posting bettilimbroke999, haven't seen you around in a while. Hope all is well!

bettilimbroke999 · 05-03-11, 10:22 PM

Originally posted by WvGambler

Youre missing the point. I didnt have kids because I wanted to be loved. I didnt even have children intentionally. If you are having kids because YOU need to be loved, then you will end up having fukked up kids. There is no problem with not wanting children...but the need to try to convince others that they are "wrong" because they do want kids is a little strange.

And comparing having a pet to my children is only a little insulting

I was being humorous with my dog remark its from an episode of saved by the bell he says he has pets at home that love him

Im sorry but I just feel if you're not rich you're makin a highly questionable economic decision thats all, but if having kids is worth 300k deleted from your savings over the next 20 years than so be it, I just feel kids made sense in an agriculture economy but not in an industrial economy

Back in the farm days bend that old girl over and have her create ya some free help but nowadays it costs 300k a piece and they just sit in front of the computer or playstation 12 hours a day

King Mayan · 05-03-11, 10:23 PM

Dont mind this fukk. He's a disgruntled miserable douche.

bettilimbroke999 · 05-03-11, 10:42 PM

Originally posted by flyingillini

It's like asking a Tottenham fan that is Jewish if they have a problem with the Yid Army or Yiddo chants...Nice to see you posting bettilimbroke999, haven't seen you around in a while. Hope all is well!

Ty illini, it is good to hear from you again as well, all is well with me though I do live in the south so the weather is not so great, I hope all is good with you

I understand what your saying as well, I assume that the Jews that are fans of tottenham (even though I dont follow soccer at all) know that to be part of that army is a good thing but I think that if some general person used Yid to describe some random Jew it would be considered derogatory, I guess its just whatever context if you're like yea I really like shiksas its good and if they say oh so you heard illinis dating a shiksa oy vey, then its prolly not so good, its just one of those whatever the context is type of words I guess

bettilimbroke999 · 05-03-11, 10:48 PM

Originally posted by King Mayan

Dont mind this fukk. He's a disgruntled miserable douche.

Let one of the 15 other Mexicans you live with have a turn on the computer, download rosetta stone and show em a language spoken by ppl with more than lint in their pocket

King Mayan · 05-03-11, 10:50 PM

Originally posted by bettilimbroke999

Let one of the 15 other Mexicans you live with have a turn on the computer, download rosetta stone and show em a language spoken by ppl with more than lint in their pocket

that's all you got fat disgruntled inbred.... Stop being a complaining bitch and take that tampon off.