I want to know if this girl has a boyfriend - best way to ask?

[stevek173]

I think she might, but I am not sure. We chat a lot and she's pretty cute but i really don't know her very well. When she sees me her face lights up though.

What is a good line? I was thinking in mid conversation "So how is your boyfriend?" Then it's either "pretty good blah blah blah" or "I don't have a boyfriend".

Decent rapport with her so far, she does like to flirt but it could be just that.

[minet123]

DO you have a boyfriend ?
Don't complicate

[Grandmaster B]

"does ur b/f allow you to talk to other guys?"

thank me later

[tltaylor89]

Ask around the question you are asking.

[BAUS]

Do NOT ask that question. Just assume she is single until otherwise notified. Even if she is not single, keep pretending she is.

Ask her out for a drink. Simple as that.

BAUS

[mike1234]

"What's your story? - husband, kids, boyfriend?"

[The Bet Master]

Facebook

[chilidog]

I agree with Baus. If she hasn't said otherwise, just assume that she is single. If there's no ring on her finger, then anything goes. It's not your responsibility to make sure that she is/isn't in a relationship before you pursue her.

[stevek173]

I also agree with Baus. Nice one dude.

[Grandmaster B]

I agree with Baus. If she hasn't said otherwise, just assume that she is single. If there's no ring on her finger, then anything goes. It's not your responsibility to make sure that she is/isn't in a relationship before you pursue her.

thats the dumbest advice ive read on the internet in 2010

[dwaechte]

Dude, we need more info? How do you know her? When/where do you talk?

Guys above are probably right... if you ask if she has a bf you're only limiting yourself because if she does and is up for cheating it limits things and makes it awkward because you know.

[TexansFan]

Ask her whose banging her right now.

[jjgold]

just ask her this......................

Are you fukkin anyone??

[stevek173]

Dude, we need more info? How do you know her? When/where do you talk?

Guys above are probably right... if you ask if she has a bf you're only limiting yourself because if she does and is up for cheating it limits things and makes it awkward because you know.

She works at a store I frequent and a few times she has been out on her cigarette break and I walked up and spoke to her and her face just lights up when I do.

Tonight the flirting reached a little higher of a level.

Not there is a small element to the situation in that this store is the only local one that carries the brand of cigarette I need to not make an ass otu of myself.

I think the next time I talk to her when it's just me and her I might pass her my #. I did **** up and tell her I have a GF I have to clean that up.

[k13]

Ask her if she has a boyfriend, if she says yes...

Do you want a better one?

[stevek173]

just ask her this......................

Are you fukkin anyone??

LOL. She might actually be cool with this, but no can do.

[obamaismyuncle]

who cares if she does? ask her if she wants to ****, if she says OK, well then even if she does have one, he's not too important

[stevek173]

Ask her if she has a boyfriend, if she says yes...

Do you want a better one?

man I hear you bro but I spent all of September getting a dame out of a relationship, getting her to be mine and then getting mind ****** when she couldn't let the ex go. I am NOT going through that again. If they have a bf I am done.

[BAUS]

You simply don't need to ask her that question.

Ask her out for a drink. And when you meet up with her, do NOT ask her who she is banging, dating, etc. It does not matter. You are just having a drink with her.

BAUS

[Deuce]

Doesn't matter, they are all unloyal, shady, and selfish.

[stevek173]

You simply don't need to ask her that question.

Ask her out for a drink. And when you meet up with her, do NOT ask her who she is banging, dating, etc. It does not matter. You are just having a drink with her.

BAUS

I like it

[sixersfan]

Since she hasn't mentioned anything yet that's a good sign. Ask her for a coffee and go from there. If she mentions she has a boyfriend say 'oh great so when's the wedding?' If she hesitates with her response then good news for you her interest level isn't exactly sky high with the bf. Usually if the women is super keen on the bf she would be all excited and say 'I can't wait to get married blah blah blah'

It's amazing how many women are in a relationship/casual relationship but will drop him in a flash if the right guy comes along.

[BAUS]

Ask her if she has a boyfriend, if she says yes... Do you want a better one?

Wrong approach. No win situation.

If she says "yes", it's over.
If she says "no", it implies you want to be her boyfriend. And you do not want that. You just want to meet up with her for a drink.

BAUS

[stevek173]

Since she hasn't mentioned anything yet that's a good sign. Ask her for a coffee and go from there. If she mentions she has a boyfriend say 'oh great so when's the wedding?' If she hesitates with her response then good news for you her interest level isn't exactly sky high with the bf. Usually if the women is super keen on the bf she would be all excited and say 'I can't wait to get married blah blah blah'

It's amazing how many women are in a relationship/casual relationship but will drop him in a flash if the right guy comes along.

Right right. And when I said I had a gf she said "Oh, you have a girlfriend now?" so again I have to clean that up. Otherwise I think it could be clear sailing.

[bobbyfk]

She works at a store I frequent and a few times she has been out on her cigarette break and I walked up and spoke to her and her face just lights up when I do.

Tonight the flirting reached a little higher of a level.

Not there is a small element to the situation in that this store is the only local one that carries the brand of cigarette I need to not make an ass otu of myself.

I think the next time I talk to her when it's just me and her I might pass her my #. I did **** up and tell her I have a GF I have to clean that up.

this the same girl that saw you with your fly down?

[JohnGalt2341]

Wait until you are having sex with her and then bring it up real casually... preferably while doing doggy.

[Salmon Steak]

Smoking cigarettes will give you cancer. Also, life is short. Be confident and tell her about a party you are going to or a bar or something. See if she will come. If not find another girl. Do not give her your number though. She will likely not call you and she will think you are a puss. Telling her you have a girlfriend is not the worst move b/c girls like the challenge... it makes them feel pretty to steal another girls man.

[noyb]

it depends. pics please.

[Salmon Steak]

yeah, and you dont want to be her boyfriend baus is right.

[stevek173]

this the same girl that saw you with your fly down?

As a matter of fact it is. VERY sharp Bobby

[brxbmbers42]

ask her if she is currently taking a meatpole on the regular from anyone else.

[stevek173]

Ok so moving on with it, is this smooth? I bought some items tonight that she bagged.

I will take a receipt, write my name and number on it, and I will say, "this fell out of my bag when I came home...I think it's yours"

is this a good move?

[PittsburghPlayer]

Are you in high school or some shit? If not be a man, show some balls and ask her out. I can not imagine anyone over 17 needing help asking a woman out.

[bobbyfk]

As a matter of fact it is. VERY sharp Bobby

[sixersfan]

Remember it's only cheating if you have sex with someone a second time... All jokes aside don't ever expect too much from a woman, you can waste a lot of time/money getting your hopes up. Remember there's one of you and billions of females out there. Pretty favorable odds if you ask me!