I want to know if this girl has a boyfriend - best way to ask?

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  • EDDIE MONEY LINE
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    • 02-24-10
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    #71
    Originally posted by BAUS
    Do NOT ask that question. Just assume she is single until otherwise notified. Even if she is not single, keep pretending she is. Ask her out for a drink. Simple as that. BAUS
    Baus is 100% correct with this...who gives a shyt if she has a boyfriend. Act as if she doesn't. She will tell you if she does then ur out anyways...Guys who ask look like a bittccccch anyways...'ugh, do u have a boyfriend?" such as weak question, shows no confidence.
    Go at her like she's yours, and your in if she likes you! TRUST
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    • Lint Pockets
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      • 01-19-10
      • 1211

      #72
      how about you just stop making these retarded threads just for attention like you always do on here. THANKS!
      sbr
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      • zuluhead1``1
        SBR Wise Guy
        • 11-07-10
        • 733

        #73
        I like the level of testosterone in this thread. Even if she does have a bf, f**k it, steal her. We are all barbarians anyway. Biggest stick, my friend, biggest stick.
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        • jjgold
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          • 07-20-05
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          #74
          I am afraid to ask girls out, always was and always will be

          its an art
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          • Flying Dutchman
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            • 05-17-09
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            #75
            Originally posted by stevek173
            She has a black belt in Tae Kwon Do. Puts me in leg locks and then abuses my junk like I am a teenager. It's ******* great.

            At the same time this stuff about her ex threatening to do background checks on me I could do without. I don't think she is enabling them and I am serious about being faithful, but I am bracing myself for the scenario of her enabling them to pull the crap they have on other guys.

            I think she is cool, just setting up reserves is all man.
            Abusing junk: that's F'ing great, a keeper if you ask me.

            Background checks: do you have something you have to worry about? BTW, anybody can run a check on you these days if they know your real name and a few more particulars. What I'm saying is, do one on him, find something and then let him know that you know...mutual assured destruction (MAD) is a worthy concept; kept the world from destroying itself for 40 years,

            ...reserves are good so long as the "junk abuser" doesn't find out.

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            • stevek173
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              #76
              Originally posted by Lint Pockets
              how about you just stop making these retarded threads just for attention like you always do on here. THANKS!
              WHOAH

              Just a reminder of who you are talking to guy



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              • stevek173
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                • 03-29-08
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                #77
                Originally posted by jjgold
                I am afraid to ask girls out, always was and always will be

                its an art
                It really is
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                • stevek173
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                  #78
                  Originally posted by Flying Dutchman
                  Abusing junk: that's F'ing great, a keeper if you ask me.

                  Background checks: do you have something you have to worry about? BTW, anybody can run a check on you these days if they know your real name and a few more particulars. What I'm saying is, do one on him, find something and then let him know that you know...mutual assured destruction (MAD) is a worthy concept; kept the world from destroying itself for 40 years,

                  ...reserves are good so long as the "junk abuser" doesn't find out.
                  Nope nothing. just a dui from 13 years ago that she 100% knows about. I am a notary you don't get that with a shifty background.

                  I won't do anything on him. If he brings it to my face, so be it. Just don't want her to enable scumbags to annoy me. If she does, it doesn't work. But I'm not saying she is, I just have my eye on it.

                  Agreed on the tube tied abusing junk being keeper material.
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                  • zuluhead1``1
                    SBR Wise Guy
                    • 11-07-10
                    • 733

                    #79
                    Originally posted by stevek173
                    Nope nothing. just a dui from 13 years ago that she 100% knows about. I am a notary you don't get that with a shifty background.

                    I won't do anything on him. If he brings it to my face, so be it. Just don't want her to enable scumbags to annoy me. If she does, it doesn't work. But I'm not saying she is, I just have my eye on it.

                    Agreed on the tube tied abusing junk being keeper material.
                    A notary huh? That's big time.
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                    • stevek173
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                      #80
                      Originally posted by zuluhead1``1
                      A notary huh? That's big time.
                      Not my job just something I have, but it's something that you can't get with a bad background was my point.

                      Ever get pulled over, show a cop your notary card and get out of your ticket? I did like 20 times.

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                      • zuluhead1``1
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                        • 11-07-10
                        • 733

                        #81
                        Im just yanking your chain
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                        • slimpickins
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                          • 08-12-10
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                          #82
                          BAUS's advise is solid all around.
                          if the girl thinks you want to be her boyfriend cause u talked a couple of times you are going to come accross like a bigger loser than you may be already.
                          Why don't you ask her to go steady while you are at it.

                          All you are asking is for her to have a drink with her, don't tell her your intentions and don't ask hers.
                          If she likes you she will go have a drink with you regardless of her relationship status.
                          Where it goes from there is up to you, just act normal and see what happens.

                          Cheers,
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                          • stefank
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                            • 11-23-10
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                            #83
                            The best way is to never ask. Why would you ask something which is not helping your intentions. Maybe she has one and she's off to finish with it. Just don't push it and will be ok.
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                            • stevek173
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                              #84
                              Agreed.
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                              • trixtrix
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                                #85
                                subtlety is key, something like "hi, do you think your boyfriend might mind if we f-ck?"
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                                • zuluhead1``1
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                                  • 11-07-10
                                  • 733

                                  #86
                                  Be a badass about it. Something like "Let's go f**k"

                                  "But I have a boyfriend."

                                  "Oh, well I guess he can watch, just no touching."
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                                  • stevek173
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                                    #87
                                    ROFL how is this thread still on page one. Too funny. Thanks for all the quality advice fellas
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                                    • Flying Dutchman
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                                      #88
                                      So how'ed you get to be a notary with 174 around?

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                                      • louisv516
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                                        • 11-07-10
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                                        #89
                                        Lmao word keep it simple don't stress over no chick....
                                        Originally posted by minet123
                                        DO you have a boyfriend ?
                                        Don't complicate
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                                        • Dirty Sanchez
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                                          • 03-01-10
                                          • 16031

                                          #90
                                          Just lick your eyebrows...if she breaks into a smile....you know you're in
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                                          • Mr. Peepers
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                                            • 09-22-09
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                                            #91
                                            start humping her leg and then go from there
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                                            • unde0087
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                                              • 03-27-08
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                                              #92
                                              not to be a prick but what do you mean? Just ask her, what is the big deal? When I want to know an answer to something I ask a question. Honestly, what is the worst thing that could happen? Her say yes I have a boyfriend.
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                                              • JMobile
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                                                • 08-21-10
                                                • 19078

                                                #93
                                                This thread started on 11/22 and yet you still haven't firgured out what to do?
                                                Dude, in my case I just go for it and tell her;
                                                "Let's go hang out somewhere else, but your boyfriend can't come".
                                                From here it's a slap in the face or your home free.
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                                                • stevek173
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                                                  #94
                                                  Ok so I went back in and the flirting commenced. Was very cool. Left on a good note and decided **** it I am going for it.

                                                  I had lost my phone, which I found, but decided to play off of it. I wrote my phone # on the back of the receipt and walked back over there. I said "Can you do me a big favor? I totally lost my phone, do you mind calling it sometime tonight so I can track it down?"

                                                  She gave me a big smile and said "sure at 10".

                                                  And it is game on then boys.

                                                  Lol at me and that cheesy move. I think she could tell I was full of shit. She didn't mind though.
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                                                  • brxbmbers42
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                                                    • 07-26-10
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                                                    #95
                                                    Originally posted by stevek173
                                                    Ok so I went back in and the flirting commenced. Was very cool. Left on a good note and decided **** it I am going for it.

                                                    I had lost my phone, which I found, but decided to play off of it. I wrote my phone # on the back of the receipt and walked back over there. I said "Can you do me a big favor? I totally lost my phone, do you mind calling it sometime tonight so I can track it down?"

                                                    She gave me a big smile and said "sure at 10".

                                                    And it is game on then boys.

                                                    Lol at me and that cheesy move. I think she could tell I was full of shit. She didn't mind though.
                                                    that was a b1tch move but congrats if it worked.
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                                                    • stevek173
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                                                      #96
                                                      I know it was, but ty. We'll see if she actually calls.
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                                                      • GiveMeaBJ
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                                                        • 09-08-09
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                                                        #97
                                                        Definitely a pussy move. But sometimes pussy moves get pussy. Good luck.
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                                                        • stevek173
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                                                          #98
                                                          Originally posted by GiveMeaBJ
                                                          Definitely a pussy move. But sometimes pussy moves get pussy. Good luck.
                                                          had to be that kind of move, every time I see her her coworkers are there so had to go outside the box and cheese it up.

                                                          Ty
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                                                          • stevek173
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                                                            #99
                                                            She never called. She saw through it.

                                                            Mental note she knows I have a gf I should NOT have done this.

                                                            Mental note don't hit on girls who know you have a girlfriend.

                                                            Mental note chill. Mental note oops.

                                                            I won't be in there again anytime soon. Or I will I don't know.
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                                                            • BigLouie66
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                                                              • 05-09-10
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                                                              #100
                                                              be direct, lifes too short..
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                                                              • stevek173
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                                                                #101
                                                                Originally posted by BigLouie66
                                                                be direct, lifes too short..
                                                                I agree
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                                                                • brxbmbers42
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                                                                  • 07-26-10
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                                                                  #102
                                                                  Originally posted by stevek173
                                                                  She never called. She saw through it.

                                                                  Mental note she knows I have a gf I should NOT have done this.

                                                                  Mental note don't hit on girls who know you have a girlfriend.

                                                                  Mental note chill. Mental note oops.

                                                                  I won't be in there again anytime soon. Or I will I don't know.
                                                                  time to look for a new supermarket. she told all her co-workers. you look like a sucker now. they will all be laughing when you go in there. that was a real bitch move. good luck pal
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                                                                  • stevek173
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                                                                    #103
                                                                    Originally posted by brxbmbers42
                                                                    time to look for a new supermarket. she told all her co-workers. you look like a sucker now. they will all be laughing when you go in there. that was a real bitch move. good luck pal
                                                                    I will go back in without blinking. If they want to laugh at the fact I have balls, that's fine.

                                                                    This is my world and I felt like making a move so I did. One many people are afraid to make.

                                                                    And it is just that simple.
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                                                                    • brxbmbers42
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                                                                      #104
                                                                      Originally posted by stevek173
                                                                      I will go back in without blinking. If they want to laugh at the fact I have balls, that's fine.

                                                                      This is my world and I felt like making a move so I did. One many people are afraid to make.

                                                                      And it is just that simple.
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                                                                      • dr_wolf
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                                                                        • 07-20-10
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                                                                        #105
                                                                        Ask her if she has 18 ,otherwise the boyfriend will be the law.
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