My 3rd friend just lost his child...

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  • Living The Dream
    SBR MVP
    • 12-23-09
    • 4521

    #1
    My 3rd friend just lost his child...
    I just don't know how you have the strength to bury a child. This is now my 3rd friend in the last 2 years to bury a child. I just found out she passed. She was 16. My other friends lost an 8 year old son and a 14 year old son.

    I am so bummed out right now. Each time this has happened I still wonder how they get through it.

    I am at a loss for words. What do you say to someone that lost his only child and little girl....
  • bobby heenan
    SBR MVP
    • 03-20-09
    • 4120

    #2
    sounds like hell....thats the worst....what happened? gotta be even more difficult when its an only child and there is prob no shot at having more
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    • UntilTheNDofTimE
      SBR Hall of Famer
      • 05-29-08
      • 9285

      #3
      im 5 years out of high school and have heard of 2 people i went to high school passing. Even not having a deep relationship with either one its very sad. I wouldnt know what to say if it was a friends kid too. Thats even worse. How did they pass? Was it like car accident/tragic event of that sort or of another sort?
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      • dogthebountyman
        SBR High Roller
        • 03-14-12
        • 189

        #4
        tell them to make another one.
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        • spankie
          SBR Hall of Famer
          • 02-10-11
          • 9992

          #5
          you rank your friends?
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          • Living The Dream
            SBR MVP
            • 12-23-09
            • 4521

            #6
            She had cystic fibrosis. She had a collapsed lung about 3 months ago and has been fighting it. This girl raced a junior dragster and won the championships every year. She was amazing. She and her father went on a hunting trip a couple years ago and actually hunted with Tony Stewart and have a great picture with him in their hunting gear.

            This girl accomplished more in her short time than a ton of people I know over many years...

            I am heartbroken for his family
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            • Living The Dream
              SBR MVP
              • 12-23-09
              • 4521

              #7
              Originally posted by spankie
              you rank your friends?
              What in the fukk is this supposed to mean you pos.
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              • bobby heenan
                SBR MVP
                • 03-20-09
                • 4120

                #8
                Originally posted by Living The Dream
                She had cystic fibrosis. She had a collapsed lung about 3 months ago and has been fighting it. This girl raced a junior dragster and won the championships every year. She was amazing. She and her father went on a hunting trip a couple years ago and actually hunted with Tony Stewart and have a great picture with him in their hunting gear.

                This girl accomplished more in her short time than a ton of people I know over many years...

                I am heartbroken for his family
                thats really terrible....there has to be a way to see if each potential parent has the CF gene in them before they create right? i might have to do that if i end up having kids with my girl......that is so unforunate....
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                • Mac4Lyfe
                  SBR Aristocracy
                  • 01-04-09
                  • 48383

                  #9
                  3 funerals in 2 years is dam good if you grew up in the streets... Try going to 3 funerals in the same day.

                  I can name over 2 dozen friends that didn't make it to 18.

                  Sorry to hear about this and I'm not trying to minimize your loss because it sucks and I really hope the family finds strength in such a difficult time.

                  Unfortunately, none of us will get out of here alive...
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                  • Living The Dream
                    SBR MVP
                    • 12-23-09
                    • 4521

                    #10
                    I think there is a way, but its not something you really think about unless it comes up... Like now
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                    • Living The Dream
                      SBR MVP
                      • 12-23-09
                      • 4521

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Mac4Lyfe
                      3 funerals in 2 years is dam good if you grew up in the streets... Try going to 3 funerals in the same day.

                      I can name over 2 dozen friends that didn't make it to 18.

                      Sorry to hear about this and I'm not trying to minimize your loss because it sucks and I really hope the family finds strength in such a difficult time.

                      Unfortunately, none of us will get out of here alive...
                      I do understand what you are saying, but losing a child... I can't even fathom it
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                      • ChuckyTheGoat
                        BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                        • 04-04-11
                        • 37428

                        #12
                        Sorry, man. That sux.

                        Hang tough. You and your buddy will get thru it.
                        Where's the fuckin power box, Carol?
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                        • UntilTheNDofTimE
                          SBR Hall of Famer
                          • 05-29-08
                          • 9285

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Living The Dream
                          I think there is a way, but its not something you really think about unless it comes up... Like now
                          Isnt this what the human genome project was suppose to conclude? A map of every gene in your body and be able to detect if your born with X disease or have X more % likely hood of obtaining X disease.

                          I think stem cell research is based off this. Although its not technology freely published. I bet the wealthy know if their child is born with polio.
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