Had an exchange with pretty cute girl today in convenience store.
After being in a relationship that spans nearly decade I honestly have no idea on "signals" so advice is welcome.
I am walking back form the basketball court and I am a sweaty mess with rum probably coming out of my pores.
She is sitting on the curb smoking.
I open with "Boy this heat huh"
She follows me in with "I know right"
I get some water.
She gives me a "Will there be anything else sweetie"
Now when it comes to the term "sweetie" I there are 3 likely scenarios:
-Older women saying it as a habit
-Younger women saying it to be flirty
-Anyone saying it to be nice
I took it to be the 3rd.
I bounce back with "Yeah you can put an air conditioner in my place"
She gives me a small smile, I chuckle.
On my way home I realized I basically told her that I am poor by saying that.
After being in a relationship that spans nearly decade I honestly have no idea on "signals" so advice is welcome.
I am walking back form the basketball court and I am a sweaty mess with rum probably coming out of my pores.
She is sitting on the curb smoking.
I open with "Boy this heat huh"
She follows me in with "I know right"
I get some water.
She gives me a "Will there be anything else sweetie"
Now when it comes to the term "sweetie" I there are 3 likely scenarios:
-Older women saying it as a habit
-Younger women saying it to be flirty
-Anyone saying it to be nice
I took it to be the 3rd.
I bounce back with "Yeah you can put an air conditioner in my place"
She gives me a small smile, I chuckle.
On my way home I realized I basically told her that I am poor by saying that.