Do you allow friends to get too close/read

nyplayer33 · 08-19-11, 05:19 AM

This means you don't go into your neighbors house just you and her and sit on sofa waiting for her boyfriend or hubby

chilidog · 08-19-11, 05:48 AM

You should work on your trust & control issues.

mrmarket · 08-19-11, 05:59 AM

Jealousy and possession are sicknesses with no cure.

nyplayer33 · 08-19-11, 07:04 AM

or protect to some degree what you have

nenad · 08-19-11, 07:11 AM

its ok if they orgy otherwise not

chilidog · 08-19-11, 07:38 AM

Originally posted by nyplayer33

or protect to some degree what you have

People are not possessions.

nyplayer33 · 08-19-11, 07:44 AM

how many of your friends wanna screw your friends girls

Dutch · 08-19-11, 08:09 AM

After I got done beating her ass, I'd ask her "Bitch, why the fuk is you sitting at the kitchen table with the neighbor?"

chilidog · 08-19-11, 08:15 AM

Originally posted by nyplayer33

how many of your friends wanna screw your friends girls

Irrelevant. You don't own anybody, thus you can't control anybody. Work on yourself.

pedro803 · 08-19-11, 08:16 AM

I agree with posters above, work on trust and jealousy -- at the same time, you need a girl you feel like you can trust, and who doesn't want to do things to make you feel bad -- really it is something that you should work on together, but it is VERT IMPORTANT to never lose your cool you can make mistakes that you will regret and that will only paint you more into a corner in the future

slatter · 08-19-11, 08:17 AM

If you have to ask...

ncsubowen · 08-19-11, 08:23 AM

I'm with the trust and control issues. Why does it matter? She's allowed to have friends.

I/O · 08-19-11, 08:24 AM

I agree

If you are not comfortable with it, then they should not be together alone. But you have to express this to your significant other.

In my world, it's not HER I wouldn't trust it's the other MALES in the program.

acarmelo1 · 08-19-11, 09:17 AM

I will just tell her "Why arent you on the kitchen making me a sandwhich?, o and by the way now you have to make 2 since we have guest."

757sFinest · 08-19-11, 10:50 AM

Got to have trust. What if you were partying one night and you had to much to drink. You pass out around one and she stays up with your friend until 5. how would that make you feel?

ncat12 · 08-19-11, 01:10 PM

Originally posted by 757sFinest

Got to have trust. What if you were partying one night and you had to much to drink. You pass out around one and she stays up with your friend until 5. how would that make you feel?

.....Exactly and by you showing or being ,tense , jealous you wipe out your chance of getting any strange , she will always have one eye open on you

High3rEl3m3nt · 08-19-11, 06:08 PM

Whoa, I think people are little quick to blame/question this guy, but I think he's got a solid argument. I think there's more to this story than meets the eye. Also, I have to ask, have you ever cheated on a former girlfriend? I only ask because out of all of my guy friends, the ones that are cheaters become the most paranoid ones I have ever seen. Some of them will do the craziest shit to try and see/test their significant others. If this is not you and your alarm is going off, I gotta say trust your gut and don't question yourself. Most likely, if this thread is about something you are experiencing, one of your significant other's guy "friends" is probably hoping to get lucky....just my thoughts.

JimmysEgo · 08-19-11, 07:12 PM

did they have their clothes on?

nyplayer33 · 08-19-11, 07:15 PM

read this..interview from 4 guys who had there girl screw around on them.............read................
What I learned: I learned that physical attraction is more powerful than I had given it credit for, and in the right circumstances anyone would cheat on their significant other. The trick is to recognize this and not put yourself in a position where you are tempted, or you might be led into something that you will regret.

nyplayer33 · 08-19-11, 07:17 PM

people in this thread are dummies

nyplayer33 · 08-19-11, 07:21 PM

so...............since u have no issues with this..any1 who has busty girlfriend..invite me over..ill fold laundry with her and give her some hugs while your at work..hugs are a furthering of friendship..i appluad cultures that whip u for being seen with a guy not your family....in usa you **** a married girl your friends fist pump with you...

nyplayer33 · 08-19-11, 07:25 PM

if any of my friends in there mind wanna fluck my girl..im gonna have to pistol whip them

shari91 · 08-19-11, 07:29 PM

Originally posted by nyplayer33

i appluad cultures that whip u for being seen with a guy not your family

acarmelo1 · 08-20-11, 09:57 AM

Originally posted by nyplayer33

so...............since u have no issues with this..any1 who has busty girlfriend..invite me over..ill fold laundry with her and give her some hugs while your at work..hugs are a furthering of friendship..i appluad cultures that whip u for being seen with a guy not your family....in usa you **** a married girl your friends fist pump with you...

They also Stone Girls for going out showing a little bit of their faces.

People that think like this are just retarded.

So the same thing will be applied to you?

Men that are seen with other women that are not their family should be castrated?

I/O · 08-20-11, 11:10 AM

Originally posted by shari91

Dark Horse · 08-21-11, 04:54 AM

Originally posted by nyplayer33

I don't believe a member of the opposite sex should be allowed in your home unless you 2 are not alone. Example, you come home from work your fiance or significant other is sitting in kitchen with neighbor or friend just the 2 of them..you ok with that???? Family is an exception....so this is friends and neighbors etc. Just feel its respect to not get too close etc...........feedback please

Maybe in the Old Testament.

It's not really an issue between friends. As long as your partner is honest about it and not trying to hide stuff you should be fine. If the neighbor comes over a little too often when you're not there that could be a problem.

Marv001 · 08-21-11, 07:00 AM

Communication and trust are the key, you should always give people the benefit of the doubt until they lose your trust.

jgray · 08-21-11, 09:04 AM

You, sir, are destined to end up either alone or in jail. Jury's still out....

Good luck, though.

Gruntworker · 08-21-11, 12:08 PM

I take it you have no female friends as well...

dxunchuk · 08-21-11, 01:25 PM

you know there is one saying in my country , it cant be translated correctly but meaning is : " trust but check "

I think that healthy jealousy is normal and should be in relationship , for me this situation does not look nice

JimmysEgo · 08-22-11, 01:02 PM

you should cheat first, then you won't be so mad when you find out she cheated on you.

Lint Pockets · 08-22-11, 01:06 PM

i blew a load on your girls face yesterday ... i'm the mexican that lives 4 houses down from you.