After a long time of being single and just loving the fact that i can do whatever i want whenever i want. I have decided to join one of the dating sites like match.com or eharmony. havent decided which one yet. Reasoning behind this is i come from a relatively small family and usually visit my parents about once a week.And have just noticed in the last 6-12 months that they have really lost a step and its time to just grow up a little bit. But my question is when going on a blind date how do i handle the gambling issue. do i not say anything in the beginning. if i comtinue to see the girl how long do i wait to talk about it or do i not talk about it.
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DO NOT TALK ABOUT GAMBLING!!!!!!zComment -
theres no reason to bring it up unless thats your only source of incomeComment -
You have a better chance going to your local coffee shop or gym and finding a better girl there. How old are you? Colleges/Universities are prime time spots as well.Comment -
just do facebook, free and 100x more single womenComment -
The chick is going to ask you what you like to do...
TV, movies, music, sports, fitness, reading ( have to throw something like that in there), GAMBLING, drinking. The chick asks you if you gamble say yes. Some chicks like to gamble. If she acts act like it's not a big deal. Chicks want to avoid druggies and alcoholics, a girl you age probably doesn't even know not to date gamblers.
Besides, tell her you'd bet on her.Comment -
its not like you can avoid the subject.
34 year old guy. relatively good looking. why still single and no real relationships to speak of in the last 10-12 years. much easier to just bang wh0res for that time so i can get home to watch the games. of course cant tell her thatComment -
Are you looking for a guy or girl?Comment -
I guess it depends on if you are a recreational gambler or if you rely on it for money and/or betting HUGE sums of money. If it is something that you do for income...you kinda have to tell her. If its a recreational thing...no need to bring it up for a long while.
You can say you enjoy sports...but don't tell her that gambling is part of it. Keep that for a much later conversation, like a few months down the road.Comment -
Don't bring up gambling bro. Only after the hooks are in her real good. I'm 36 and its not so easy for us. I would try the dating websites if I were single. Only reason I have a girl is because I use to sell a lot of coke and was a big baller. I grabbed a russian chick and kept her for 6 years now. I did all the bullshit bro. If you find a good one, hold onto it. Not that many for us.Comment -
My wife didn't know I was a sports gambler till 2 yrs into our marriage. She actually enjoys watching sports when she knows "we" have some $ on the line.Comment -
Gambling is such a bland and distasteful word. Why not something fanciful like: "I'm a financial consultant for a sports firm" or "an intermediary for an investment firm that deals with top-notch sporting prospects." Be creative and deceptive, not honest and naive. Most girls despise gamblers, period. I made the mistake of telling several girls that I dated that I like to gamble, and their entire demeanor just changed into either one of absolute disgust or that shit-faced expression of "WHAT A DAMN LOSER!" But when you tell them shit like the stuff mentioned above, they go: "Wow! That's so cool!"
Don't ever tell anyone you get to close to, not even your parents or best friends who don't gamble, that you gamble!Comment -
who gives a fuk? Are u really asking this question????
Just act like a normal human being, and if u tell her u gamble no big fuckingg deal...if she wants to stress it, then fuckk her.
WOWComment -
def dont mention it unless she ask and then u have to decideComment -
i suggest you tell her unless its a big problem. otherwise keep it a secretComment -
Why would you talk about it? Durr.
FYI Okcupid.com is free and not too bad. I have ****** a couple whackjobs from Match, it's not too bad. Don't do E-Harmony wayyyyyyyy too expensive man.Comment -
yeah tell her that you've lost tens of thousands gamlbing on the first date, and tell us how it turns from there.
seriously, don't mention it.Comment -
Fukk these dudes bronxer. Are you in ny area at all. I could hook you up bro. My girls friend is a 36 year old hot italian broad. Bitch drives a clk benz 2010. Only thing is, she's dumb as shit. She just needs proper guidance. I hook you up homie.Comment -
Lemme know if you get the pm. I never pm anybody before.Comment
