Girls/ladies have now caught up to men in there idealogy of what they want in relationships and such. Call it the tricklle down effect...over the years now you have woman who hate men, think we all are players, only want sex, and now the effects of years of this hapening is going to hinder men currently and for years to come. I always wanted stability in my life and to have that family setting that mom and dad provided for me in a similiar way with marriage/girlfriend. Now, once you hit late 30's and up you meet girls who have had so much bullshit in there lives and bad expereiences we suffer cause of it. If you want to play and not be committed then seek that..don't tell some chick that you really want a LTR and then fluck with her head