Guys i got a brother who is 7 years older than me who I am not real close with. Same mother and father. Because of the age difference he went off to college when I was 11 and we never lived under the same roof after that. We have became a little closer in the last 5 years with our parents getting older. see him two or three times a yr at holidays. He had a great job making 10x what i make a year. CFO of a hedge fund company in NYC. Laid off in 2007. Within the last 5 yrs of becoming closer we started exchanging bday gifts. Now keep in mind he has enough money to probably not work until 2020 and be fine. Fukkin guy hasn't given me a gift in return the last 3 yrs. Now if i stop getting him a gift it looks petty but why should i get him a gift when i am not getting one in return. Any input is appreciated.