Falling in love with a girl with kids

ProfaneReality · 11-09-10, 02:09 PM

Originally posted by stevek173

Ex is a dick but at least he has a girl so he won't go all psychotic when he finds out he is with 173.

woops ?

stevek173 · 11-09-10, 02:12 PM

ROFL must have been freudian.

SamsNCharge99 · 11-09-10, 02:13 PM

steve doesn't need GA, he needs Sex Annoyomous like Will Ferrell in Blades of Glory

chilidog · 11-09-10, 02:14 PM

Sounds like you got a good thing going then. If you two are that compatible, then you have to accept her kids as well. Just remember that you will never be #1 in her life.

EDDIE MONEY LINE · 11-09-10, 02:15 PM

steve needs to find the other half of his brain

tim0402 · 11-09-10, 02:17 PM

she sounds too good to be true, mention some negatives about her..

well the fact that she drinks a lot is one..

blackbeSSt · 11-09-10, 02:21 PM

Originally posted by stevek173

Nothing I can do about it.

3 kids. Divorce. Ex is a dick but at least he has a girl so he won't go all psychotic when she finds out he is with 173.

Girl has everything in common with me. Bets. Drinks like a fish. Same alcohol - LITERALLY - keeps the same shit in her fridge (M Lite, Yuengling and Pinnacle Vodka). Same Music. Same movies. And I know she isn't making any of it up because I ask her before she tells me anything. ******* Bloody Mary's with hot sauce in them.

Freak in the sack like me. Has a black belt in Tae Kwon Do and can kick my ass at any moment which I think is hot as hell. On Sunday - ******* red zone channel just like me.

It's freakish.

Oh and ******* hot! Jesus.

And always horny as hell just like my nympho ass.

I'm curious as to your input on this situation boys. I dated 1 girl with a kid in the past and I dumped her because she treated him like shit. This one fully takes care of them, has my respect and I could fully see myself going all the way with her. The whole shabang. Ready made family for 173. I'd say i'm scared but I'm really not, it's just too euphoric.

Feel free to chime in with insight.

translation...........

frizzelli · 11-09-10, 02:33 PM

Have her sell her kids on Ebay and life will be good.

stevek173 · 11-09-10, 02:39 PM

Originally posted by chilidog

Sounds like you got a good thing going then. If you two are that compatible, then you have to accept her kids as well. Just remember that you will never be #1 in her life.

I agree, and I agree. I can accept that. My job is so crazy and time consuming that it's probably a good thing.

stevek173 · 11-09-10, 02:40 PM

Originally posted by tim0402

she sounds too good to be true, mention some negatives about her..

well the fact that she drinks a lot is one..

Drawing a blank man. And the drinking thing is good - I pound too, but only during non working hours just like her.

And we are both pretty successful.

stevek173 · 11-09-10, 02:41 PM

Originally posted by SamsNCharge99

steve doesn't need GA, he needs Sex Annoyomous like Will Ferrell in Blades of Glory

I have been thinking more about this. But shit if I have a gf who is the same way it works right?

jjgold · 11-09-10, 03:28 PM

Stevey did you fuk her yet??

Killer_Demo · 11-09-10, 03:31 PM

sounds like u wanna be step-dad...wrong move pal

dante1 · 11-09-10, 03:35 PM

Some day you will all learn that "love is a hard on". No such thing as romantic love, you will see.

Now love for family and kids that is real, love for your comrade in arms that is real, love for siblings real too. Love for country real, but love for a woman that is bs. You just want to bang her. Get over it, marry her if she makes you horny and you can take the kids.

D3 Mighty Ducks · 11-09-10, 03:36 PM

GTFO of the relationship before its to late.

will2survive · 11-09-10, 03:43 PM

My girlfriend has a 7 year old son--She's bipolar and he's ADHD.You don't find things out until later.(things that she wants to keep hidden).THEY'RE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR A FATHER-LIKE FIGURE FOR THEIR KID.75 PERCENT OF THE TIME THERE'S A CATCH.When they say there not a sexual freak,they want action on the first night.

It's all dependent upon the kid: are they nice,crazy(troubled),etc.
Is the woman NEEDY,SMOTHERING or is she independent and not secretly crazy with issues.DON'T JUMP INTO ANYTHING.MAKE SURE THAT YOU KNOW THE PERSON INSIDE AND OUT AND CAN YOU TOLERATE A KID THAT'S NOT YOURS AND MIGHT BE LOOKING "FOR MOM'S ATTENTION",AND BE DEFIANT.---GOOD LUCK

Dad · 11-09-10, 03:45 PM

She drinks like a fish? How old is the kid? Does he live with her or Dad?

ACoochy · 11-09-10, 03:52 PM

Originally posted by stevek173

I have been thinking more about this. But shit if I have a gf who is the same way it works right?

Been there and doing this myself Stevey.....
Depends on how things go after the lust phase wears off....Maintaining the intimacy and affection u both share for one another after this period of the rship can be hard work but as u probably already know by now that in life nothing simply comes to you, you gotta be willing to put in the effort thats required, esp of a lady with 3 kids...

However if u mutually feel as though its something that can work then i say go for it as true happiness is something that not many ppl find....GL pal

stevek173 · 11-09-10, 05:19 PM

Originally posted by jjgold

Stevey did you fuk her yet??

Yes many times, including the 1st night.

stevek173 · 11-09-10, 05:22 PM

Originally posted by will2survive

My girlfriend has a 7 year old son--She's bipolar and he's ADHD.You don't find things out until later.(things that she wants to keep hidden).THEY'RE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR A FATHER-LIKE FIGURE FOR THEIR KID.75 PERCENT OF THE TIME THERE'S A CATCH.When they say there not a sexual freak,they want action on the first night.

It's all dependent upon the kid: are they nice,crazy(troubled),etc.
Is the woman NEEDY,SMOTHERING or is she independent and not secretly crazy with issues.DON'T JUMP INTO ANYTHING.MAKE SURE THAT YOU KNOW THE PERSON INSIDE AND OUT AND CAN YOU TOLERATE A KID THAT'S NOT YOURS AND MIGHT BE LOOKING "FOR MOM'S ATTENTION",AND BE DEFIANT.---GOOD LUCK

She has not been smothering at all. In fact, I start most of our interactions. She is very independent, makes good money and has a ton of cool friends. Now when if I move up, I bet that changes, which would be fine. All I know about the kid so far is that she says he is cool and he is a gamer, like me. He is 11. The other 2 are infants, 3 and 1.

stevek173 · 11-09-10, 05:23 PM

Originally posted by Dad

She drinks like a fish? How old is the kid? Does he live with her or Dad?

has a great apartment. Huge, all kinds of cool shit. Drinks after they go to sleep or when her ex has them.

stevek173 · 11-09-10, 05:25 PM

Originally posted by ACoochy

Been there and doing this myself Stevey.....
Depends on how things go after the lust phase wears off....Maintaining the intimacy and affection u both share for one another after this period of the rship can be hard work but as u probably already know by now that in life nothing simply comes to you, you gotta be willing to put in the effort thats required, esp of a lady with 3 kids...

However if u mutually feel as though its something that can work then i say go for it as true happiness is something that not many ppl find....GL pal

Very well put man, and ty for the warm wishes. It is scary at times but we are just that into eachother...so far.

durito · 11-09-10, 06:34 PM

stevie keep this shit for the other board, we your family there

tim0402 · 11-10-10, 03:16 AM

if shes such a great catch why did the guy she have 3 kids with let her go??? lol

love is making you blind dude.