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  • eaglesfan371
    SBR MVP
    • 01-08-19
    • 4079

    #1
    Girl situation
    Girl I used to be into years ago is now into me. I’m not into her anymore. She’s given strong advice in past relationships I’ve had and has been a good friend. I just am not attracted to her; very different interests and very immature (one example is she wears multiple bras to make it look like she has big when she’s an A cup...), we’re both 24...

    She keeps asking me to go out to bars with her. Obviously I could be an ass, go and find another girl there but I value this friendship.

    Sure, could penetrate her but 1) she catches feels easily and 2) I’m not interested in her. Rather the friendship remain intact. I do not want fwb with her either. The bra thought is a huge turnoff on its own.

    Thoughts on how to put her down gently? Told her I just want to be friends but she mistakes us talking for a chance I guess. I suggested sure let’s go to the bar with a group...
  • Big Bear
    SBR Aristocracy
    • 11-01-11
    • 43253

    #2
    I mean honestly the worst thing you can do is ignore someone as long as you are in communication with her she should be okay with whatever you tell her.

    I’m saying that from experience. I’ve never had ill feelings toward women who told me they were not interested in me, I’ve only resented the ones who straight up ghost or ignore.

    So I would just tell her how you feel and be like yo I go no problem giving you this dick but I ain’t trying to put a ring on it, nahmean?
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    • eaglesfan371
      SBR MVP
      • 01-08-19
      • 4079

      #3
      That’s the thing

      I don’t want to even fuk her lol
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      • Big Bear
        SBR Aristocracy
        • 11-01-11
        • 43253

        #4
        Originally posted by eaglesfan371
        That’s the thing

        I don’t want to even fuk her lol
        She give good head? lol
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        • eaglesfan371
          SBR MVP
          • 01-08-19
          • 4079

          #5
          Originally posted by Big Bear
          She give good head? lol
          No idea, with her conservativeness probably not.

          Back in college she wanted every guy she considered hooking up with to show her testing papers that they were clean. She would not have more than 2 drinks in a night.

          Give me someone wild, loves traveling, tatted, nipples pierced, and kinky. None of which is her. Thinking about that, no wonder I am single right now, not the best combo for a gf lol.
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          • Big Bear
            SBR Aristocracy
            • 11-01-11
            • 43253

            #6
            I might try to find a tatted up chick and see if they are wild as you say
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            • Heltah Skeltah
              SBR MVP
              • 12-05-17
              • 3499

              #7
              This guy is the worst..what the fck is wrong with you?
              Get some help pal..I really mean that
              What goes thru your head when you start a thread like this?
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              • eaglesfan371
                SBR MVP
                • 01-08-19
                • 4079

                #8
                Originally posted by Heltah Skeltah
                This guy is the worst..what the fck is wrong with you?
                Get some help pal..I really mean that
                What goes thru your head when you start a thread like this?
                How triggered can I make Heltah Skeltah and Mikejamm today.
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                • Plaza23
                  SBR Hall of Famer
                  • 12-29-13
                  • 7392

                  #9
                  Are Big Bear and Eaglesfan371 the same poster? Because Big Bear used to make random posts like this all the time back in the day and he got banned. But then, the traffic died on SBR so they brought him back....
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                  • eaglesfan371
                    SBR MVP
                    • 01-08-19
                    • 4079

                    #10
                    I don’t get the hate tbh. Saloon is meant for shooting the bullshit. Y’all are all in your 30s / 40s, many been thru a lot. I enjoy hearing other peoples’ opinions so I ask for thoughts on situations.

                    If you want sports betting, I post that too. Up over $4000 in my posted plays thread.
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                    • themike78
                      SBR MVP
                      • 07-01-13
                      • 4873

                      #11
                      And then what happened?
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                      • Ratpack
                        SBR MVP
                        • 02-15-12
                        • 4133

                        #12
                        whats her ig will tell you if the juice is worth the squeeze
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                        • TheGoldenGoose
                          SBR MVP
                          • 11-27-12
                          • 3745

                          #13
                          Stupidest post ever on SBR.

                          SAY WHAT???
                          Is there someplace where I can vote the stupidest MFing Thread ever?

                          Tie that biatch's mouth onto your tail pipe and step on the gas my nigg@r.

                          GTFO and GTFO quick. Damn. Where do they grow you people???
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                          • themike78
                            SBR MVP
                            • 07-01-13
                            • 4873

                            #14
                            Originally posted by TheGoldenGoose
                            Stupidest post ever on SBR.

                            SAY WHAT???
                            Is there someplace where I can vote the stupidest MFing Thread ever?

                            Tie that biatch's mouth onto your tail pipe and step on the gas my nigg@r.

                            GTFO and GTFO quick. Damn. Where do they grow you people???
                            Lol. This guy is looking for dating advice on a gambling forum. And the funniest part is he thinks people are going to help him.
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                            • Big Bear
                              SBR Aristocracy
                              • 11-01-11
                              • 43253

                              #15
                              Originally posted by eaglesfan371
                              I don’t get the hate tbh. Saloon is meant for shooting the bullshit. Y’all are all in your 30s / 40s, many been thru a lot. I enjoy hearing other peoples’ opinions so I ask for thoughts on situations.

                              If you want sports betting, I post that too. Up over $4000 in my posted plays thread.
                              Exactly. This is the SALOON it is supposed to be threads about anything we want.

                              Players Talk is where you go if you want to talk sports.

                              and to Plaza... SBR doesn’t like players talk getting a bunch of random threads but it’s all good in the saloon.


                              I would be posting about sports in PT but I don’t have any money to bet at the moment.
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                              • Big Bear
                                SBR Aristocracy
                                • 11-01-11
                                • 43253

                                #16
                                Originally posted by themike78
                                And then what happened?
                                lol
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                                • TheGoldenGoose
                                  SBR MVP
                                  • 11-27-12
                                  • 3745

                                  #17
                                  "(one example is she wears multiple bras to make it look like she has big when she’s an A cup...)"

                                  Always keep an eye on her crotch...

                                  If her snakes starts growing you got REAL problems.
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                                  • Big Bear
                                    SBR Aristocracy
                                    • 11-01-11
                                    • 43253

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by TheGoldenGoose
                                    "(one example is she wears multiple bras to make it look like she has big when she’s an A cup...)"

                                    Always keep an eye on her crotch...

                                    If her snakes starts growing you got REAL problems.
                                    This is one of my worst fears.

                                    these trannys are getting more and more sophisticated

                                    I almost fell for one and almost drove 2 hours to go on a date with her/him

                                    She fooled me with a couple of the pics but I saw this one pic that you could def see where she was a dude b/c of the Jaw

                                    Careful fellas go out with the wrong person and you may end up with the long end of the stick if you know what I mean
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                                    • HurryUpAndDrink
                                      SBR Posting Legend
                                      • 08-23-13
                                      • 13017

                                      #19
                                      thread sucks
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                                      • eaglesfan371
                                        SBR MVP
                                        • 01-08-19
                                        • 4079

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by Big Bear
                                        This is one of my worst fears.

                                        these trannys are getting more and more sophisticated

                                        I almost fell for one and almost drove 2 hours to go on a date with her/him

                                        She fooled me with a couple of the pics but I saw this one pic that you could def see where she was a dude b/c of the Jaw

                                        Careful fellas go out with the wrong person and you may end up with the long end of the stick if you know what I mean
                                        I actually got hit with an interesting situation Tinder. Post op trans female, they had decided at age 13 they were not a guy, went on estrogen and hormones, got a tit job AND dick removed / pussy created. Declined going out but it was an intriguing conversation.
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                                        • KVB
                                          SBR Aristocracy
                                          • 05-29-14
                                          • 74817

                                          #21
                                          You should have fukked the manufactured pussy and reported back.

                                          Now that thread would have potential.

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                                          • Big Bear
                                            SBR Aristocracy
                                            • 11-01-11
                                            • 43253

                                            #22
                                            Eagles you got any advice for me

                                            alright so lately I haven't been matching with any "hot" women on the apps.

                                            I told myself awhile ago I wasn't going to settle or lower my standards...

                                            well I get a lot of interest from chicks that are somewhat fat I mean I guess you could call them "Mopeds" b/c they are fun to ride but you don't want to be seen with one.

                                            I don't want to get an ugly chick pregnant, catch an std, or get one attached to me or fall into the trap of the pussy being good and before I know it i'm just chillin with average chick all the time.

                                            I feel like in life people tend to settle. They settle with jobs they hate, they settle with women who they don't think are hot b/c they are tired of rejection and tired of being alone.

                                            I don't want to be that guy.

                                            This one chick who I lied to says she "doesn't fully trust me" doesn't want me to add stress to her life and doesn't want to date me now but she "may change her mind" lol wtf but man she is SMOOOOOKIN HOT I think I just need to start ballin out of control and then she might want me. I gotta start rollin in the doe


                                            but man where should I go to meet some good looking women? the shopping mall? grocery store? yoga studio? tanning salon?

                                            I need to start stuntin on'em
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                                            • rlouisk
                                              SBR Rookie
                                              • 10-23-10
                                              • 23

                                              #23
                                              Personally the bra thing wouldn't bother me, not into big . But she will want you more if she thinks your not into her. I think you have two choices, give in and go out and maybe you will fall for her again or you just end the relationship if she doesn't understand your feelings or lack of feelings. but really the bra thing shouldn't be a problem, she feels insecure because she thinks most guy judge breast size, you like being with her and were into her once. I say give it a chance with her. And sorry but the bra thing is pretty shallow.
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                                              • stevek173
                                                BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                                • 03-29-08
                                                • 27598

                                                #24
                                                I think you're handling it well. Girls that respect you as a nice guy and are friends I find in my experience are sometimes the best way to meet girls you do want to date, so the nicer the better. Agreed on breaking her heart by going to the bar and hooking up with someone else in front of her being a no go - and you can't bar it with her at all because obviously she'd want to hook up at the end of the night. I guess either telling her to chill or the group thing were your only options if she's going to be persistent.
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                                                • jtoler
                                                  BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                                  • 12-17-13
                                                  • 30967

                                                  #25
                                                  since u know her u should know what type guy she likes start being the opposite type is she's conservative start acting super lib whatever turns her off start being that guy. Ive been in situations like that and it sucks being friends with a chick who wants more but you dont see her in that way
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                                                  • bradthebloke
                                                    SBR MVP
                                                    • 07-26-09
                                                    • 3175

                                                    #26
                                                    start shitting with the door open when she comes over. she'll lose interest.
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                                                    • Bostongambler
                                                      BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                                      • 02-01-08
                                                      • 35581

                                                      #27
                                                      You’re being up front man which is a good trait. There are a lot of dirtbags in this world who would lie and hide facts just so they wouldn’t be lonely. But the facts always have a way of making themselves be seen. Sometimes just in the nic if time. Can you imagine getting ready to get married and then the facts about someone come out and then the girl calls off the wedding just in time and dodged a bullet. Although embarrassing for the guy the woman saves a lifetime of misery. That’s why continue what you are doing Eagle. I like the touch of going out as a group. Hopefully it passes with her. ✌️
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                                                      • HurryUpAndDrink
                                                        SBR Posting Legend
                                                        • 08-23-13
                                                        • 13017

                                                        #28
                                                        I'd show her the last 10 threads you have opened in here, that would do the trick fast
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                                                        • KVB
                                                          SBR Aristocracy
                                                          • 05-29-14
                                                          • 74817

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by bradthebloke
                                                          start shitting with the door open when she comes over. she'll lose interest.
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                                                          • Big Bear
                                                            SBR Aristocracy
                                                            • 11-01-11
                                                            • 43253

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by bradthebloke
                                                            start shitting with the door open when she comes over. she'll lose interest.
                                                            she might not though.
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                                                            • KVB
                                                              SBR Aristocracy
                                                              • 05-29-14
                                                              • 74817

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by Big Bear
                                                              she might not though.
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                                                              • KVB
                                                                SBR Aristocracy
                                                                • 05-29-14
                                                                • 74817

                                                                #32
                                                                The bra thing sounds HAWT!

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                                                                • thechaoz
                                                                  SBR Posting Legend
                                                                  • 10-23-09
                                                                  • 12154

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by Big Bear
                                                                  she might not though.
                                                                  You need to drink
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