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  • Big Bear
    SBR Aristocracy
    • 11-01-11
    • 43253

    #1
    Need some dating advice
    Alright so I’m getting divorced.

    I can file at the end of the month. After that it’s only a matter of getting my ex served with the papers

    Question is since it’s coming up in like 3 weeks should I just say I’m already divorced to women I meet?

    I am a fan of honesty and would answer honestly if asked (I think)

    but I feel stigmatized saying I’m separated and many times it makes it hard for me to come across as a high value male when I am separated.

    i was unemployed too.. some chicks seemed turned off when I told them that

    luckily I found a new sales job and I am supposed to start today. Best part about it I get to work from home. It’s a 1099 position though but uncapped commission
  • shari91
    BARRELED IN @ SBR!
    • 02-23-10
    • 32661

    #2
    Only an arsehole would stigmatise you for being separated and you shouldn't want to date them anyway. Just explain the situation as you have here, emphasise how there's no hope of getting back with your ex as that's really what a woman would worry about, let her know that there'll be no drama (hopefully) and that should be enough.
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    • eaglesfan371
      SBR MVP
      • 01-08-19
      • 4079

      #3
      LOL didn’t you post asking about dating advice 2-3 months ago, some girl who was playing hard to get?

      So I’m guessing you’ve been attempting to have several affairs or you’ve been separated for awhile.
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      • cincinnatikid513
        SBR Aristocracy
        • 11-23-17
        • 45360

        #4
        if you have money and anything but jj golds micropenis you have a chance
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        • ByeShea
          SBR Hall of Famer
          • 06-30-08
          • 8126

          #5
          Originally posted by eaglesfan371
          LOL didn’t you post asking about dating advice 2-3 months ago, some girl who was playing hard to get?

          So I’m guessing you’ve been attempting to have several affairs or you’ve been separated for awhile.
          Players play. He dangled his dong with a sympathy story and reeled in Shari - only took 21 minutes. #timestamped
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          • Big Bear
            SBR Aristocracy
            • 11-01-11
            • 43253

            #6
            Originally posted by eaglesfan371
            LOL didn’t you post asking about dating advice 2-3 months ago, some girl who was playing hard to get?

            So I’m guessing you’ve been attempting to have several affairs or you’ve been separated for awhile.
            It’s not an affair if I’m separated is it?

            makes no sense why it would be. My ex moved out last April.

            just a waiting game at this point. Once divorced I expect to do quite well with the ladies. I’ve been dating since August and been telling all of them the whole story.. it’s like boxing with an arm tied behind your back

            my game is strong. I been getting dates with chicks 10 years younger while saying I’m separated, unemployed and have kids with me half the time. Once I get stabilized it’s going to be on this summer. Especially if I make enough to buy a boat. Bitches will flake like crazy but I’m thinking if I invite them on a boat I can get them and their hottest friends to commit a week in advance
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            • Bert102
              SBR Sharp
              • 04-11-16
              • 377

              #7
              Act like a god by sticking it out on your own for a while. Don’t look for another organism, find out about yourself (not saying don’t get laid)... don’t jump to another relationship because a,b, and c...
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              • Foxx
                SBR Hall of Famer
                • 05-25-11
                • 5832

                #8
                Originally posted by Big Bear
                Especially if I make enough to buy a boat. Bitches will flake like crazy but I’m thinking if I invite them on a boat I can get them and their hottest friends to commit a week in advance
                Got to like the implications of a boat:

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                • JIBBBY
                  SBR Aristocracy
                  • 12-10-09
                  • 83686

                  #9
                  Dating websites and Church are easy ways to meet nice chicks..

                  Bars and clubs if you are younger can work also.

                  Dress nice, have a job, and act as if.. Be confident and strike up silly conversations with chicks.. Some will shut you down and blow you off and don't take it personally.. It's a numbers game. The more you try and speak the better you get at it.

                  I'll be dating like crazy this summer myself. Winter is tough..
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                  • TheMetsSuck
                    SBR Hall of Famer
                    • 01-14-12
                    • 6146

                    #10
                    i'd maybe keep the whole unemployed part to yourself on the first few dates. Most girls are desperate for a guy whose in the middle of a divorce with kids who sits on his arse at home all day on a gambling forum unemployed. Fake it until you make it.....
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                    • JIBBBY
                      SBR Aristocracy
                      • 12-10-09
                      • 83686

                      #11
                      Originally posted by TheMetsSuck
                      i'd maybe keep the whole unemployed part to yourself on the first few dates. Most girls are desperate for a guy whose in the middle of a divorce with kids who sits on his arse at home all day on a gambling forum unemployed. Fake it until you make it.....
                      Yup chicks don't like unemployed bums with no income... Keep that on down low for sure.. Hard to date if you are broke also. Going out costs money..
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                      • JMobile
                        SBR Posting Legend
                        • 08-21-10
                        • 19074

                        #12
                        Originally posted by shari91
                        Only an arsehole would stigmatise you for being separated and you shouldn't want to date them anyway. Just explain the situation as you have here, emphasise how there's no hope of getting back with your ex as that's really what a woman would worry about, let her know that there'll be no drama (hopefully) and that should be enough.
                        This.

                        If you consider yourself a 8/10 or above, then the chicks won't care about your story because they only looking for a fling.
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                        • Frank Mills
                          SBR MVP
                          • 09-26-18
                          • 1244

                          #13
                          Somebody wants some attention

                          Originally posted by Big Bear
                          Alright so I’m getting divorced.

                          I can file at the end of the month. After that it’s only a matter of getting my ex served with the papers

                          Question is since it’s coming up in like 3 weeks should I just say I’m already divorced to women I meet?

                          I am a fan of honesty and would answer honestly if asked (I think)

                          but I feel stigmatized saying I’m separated and many times it makes it hard for me to come across as a high value male when I am separated.

                          i was unemployed too.. some chicks seemed turned off when I told them that

                          luckily I found a new sales job and I am supposed to start today. Best part about it I get to work from home. It’s a 1099 position though but uncapped commission
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                          • PittsburghPlayer
                            SBR Hall of Famer
                            • 01-11-10
                            • 6760

                            #14
                            need dating advice too

                            she is 24, 1/2 my age

                            I can still eat that, right?

                            going to no matter what you fukkers say, thanks in advance for your approval
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                            • eaglesfan371
                              SBR MVP
                              • 01-08-19
                              • 4079

                              #15
                              Originally posted by PittsburghPlayer
                              need dating advice too

                              she is 24, 1/2 my age

                              I can still eat that, right?

                              going to no matter what you fukkers say, thanks in advance for your approval
                              Choke her, tie her down, make her your wh0re and have her call you daddy. Younger women enjoy that.
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                              • Bostongambler
                                BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                • 02-01-08
                                • 35581

                                #16
                                Originally posted by eaglesfan371
                                Choke her, tie her down, make her your wh0re and have her call you daddy. Younger women enjoy that.
                                That would be Stevek if she was 20 years younger
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                                • Cuse0323
                                  BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                  • 12-09-09
                                  • 30169

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by Bostongambler
                                  That would be Stevek if she was 20 years younger


                                  Reported.

                                  Though Steve should be reported to the local PD for being off his meds. No joke to the families with children.
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                                  • PittsburghPlayer
                                    SBR Hall of Famer
                                    • 01-11-10
                                    • 6760

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by eaglesfan371
                                    Choke her, tie her down, make her your wh0re and have her call you daddy. Younger women enjoy that.
                                    prefer to tease their clits with my tongue while searching for a g spot

                                    more a soft, feel my way around with my face and dick than a tie `em down man

                                    fukk, no man wants to be tied, why would I?
                                    just came home an hour ago after going out which I NEVER do at night
                                    fukk
                                    getting laid is about to get easy again

                                    oh, and I had only 3 beers/no pot in 4 hours

                                    you fukkers will never catch me fukking with any of your families by driving drunk
                                    or any other manner

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                                    • Big Bear
                                      SBR Aristocracy
                                      • 11-01-11
                                      • 43253

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by TheMetsSuck
                                      i'd maybe keep the whole unemployed part to yourself on the first few dates. Most girls are desperate for a guy whose in the middle of a divorce with kids who sits on his arse at home all day on a gambling forum unemployed. Fake it until you make it.....
                                      LMAO

                                      This one chick wanted me bad until she found out I didn’t have a job. It was my buddys idea for me to tell her that I lied about having a job

                                      I actually do have a job now. Now I just need to do well at it.
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                                      • eaglesfan371
                                        SBR MVP
                                        • 01-08-19
                                        • 4079

                                        #20
                                        Have a talk with any regular partner about their kinks. No matter what they say do not laugh, say that’s weird or comment negative. When a girl opens up her kinky side is when you’ll have the most fun.

                                        Many girls do enjoy being tied down or restrained. Women are on guard 24/7, often always stressed and sex for them is a way to relax. Not be in a control. Thus, many enjoy being dominated by their partner.
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                                        • stevek173
                                          BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                          • 03-29-08
                                          • 27598

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by PittsburghPlayer
                                          prefer to tease their clits with my tongue while searching for a g spot

                                          more a soft, feel my way around with my face and dick than a tie `em down man

                                          fukk, no man wants to be tied, why would I?
                                          just came home an hour ago after going out which I NEVER do at night
                                          fukk
                                          getting laid is about to get easy again

                                          oh, and I had only 3 beers/no pot in 4 hours

                                          you fukkers will never catch me fukking with any of your families by driving drunk
                                          or any other manner

                                          JFC you are such an idiot, for real

                                          This was bad even for you

                                          Reported
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                                          • stevek173
                                            BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                            • 03-29-08
                                            • 27598

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by Big Bear
                                            Alright so I’m getting divorced.

                                            I can file at the end of the month. After that it’s only a matter of getting my ex served with the papers

                                            Question is since it’s coming up in like 3 weeks should I just say I’m already divorced to women I meet?

                                            I am a fan of honesty and would answer honestly if asked (I think)

                                            but I feel stigmatized saying I’m separated and many times it makes it hard for me to come across as a high value male when I am separated.

                                            i was unemployed too.. some chicks seemed turned off when I told them that

                                            luckily I found a new sales job and I am supposed to start today. Best part about it I get to work from home. It’s a 1099 position though but uncapped commission
                                            I'm normally one for 100% honesty but I think in this case yes you should tell them the divorce is final, sorry to hear you're going through that

                                            Congratulations on the new job!

                                            What do you sell?
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                                            • Auto Donk
                                              SBR Aristocracy
                                              • 09-03-13
                                              • 43558

                                              #23
                                              ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW:


                                              face down,

                                              ass up,

                                              that's the way,

                                              WE LIKE TO FUK!!!!!
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                                              • PittsburghPlayer
                                                SBR Hall of Famer
                                                • 01-11-10
                                                • 6760

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by stevek173
                                                JFC you are such an idiot, for real
                                                This was bad even for you
                                                Reported
                                                Psycho666, it was 4:30am
                                                bad for even me is more and less than is expected from me around here

                                                when are you going to start a thread concerning Shari`s wedding gift? I am a non pro, powerless, but you Psych, with your "recruiting" experience - you could have a positive impact

                                                You do that, punk, and I will donate to a wedding gift, as well as a pro membership for someone that uses points and shit, in the spirit of BigDay, big J`s and brotherhood
                                                but not with you

                                                deal?
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                                                • thechaoz
                                                  SBR Posting Legend
                                                  • 10-23-09
                                                  • 12154

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by Big Bear
                                                  Alright so I’m getting divorced.

                                                  I can file at the end of the month. After that it’s only a matter of getting my ex served with the papers

                                                  Question is since it’s coming up in like 3 weeks should I just say I’m already divorced to women I meet?

                                                  I am a fan of honesty and would answer honestly if asked (I think)

                                                  but I feel stigmatized saying I’m separated and many times it makes it hard for me to come across as a high value male when I am separated.

                                                  i was unemployed too.. some chicks seemed turned off when I told them that

                                                  luckily I found a new sales job and I am supposed to start today. Best part about it I get to work from home. It’s a 1099 position though but uncapped commission
                                                  Never, ever, ever, ever

                                                  ever

                                                  ever

                                                  never

                                                  ever

                                                  Move in with or engage or marry another broad in your life.

                                                  If you agree to these terms I will really spill the know how to get you going big time.

                                                  If you refuse I am unwilling to help you because you will divert from the essential tactics to accomplish the previously mentioned banned activities.
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