Lost my grandpa, and now I'm gonna lose my dog

[HurryUpAndDrink]

1st off save the insults and the shit, Im not even gonna react to that BS, don't have time. This is aimed at the people who like to give advice to others and who have a clearer mind than myself.

My grandpa finally passed away from pancreatitis and they are now selling the farm, my grandma is moving in with my aunt and my dog, Wanda, was supposed to come back to live with me... this was decided by me and my family on funeral's day. Wanda can't move in with my aunt and grandma cause they have a Golden Retriever, they fight too much, both are females.

So now I get a text from my mom, yes, a motherfucking text telling me they have decided Wanda is to be given away to one of my aunt's neighbors so my grandma can see her... like that shit is an excuse??? grandma can come to visit me and her anytime she wants so I clearly pushed in pissed off and they flat out tell me I cannot take care of her in my current mental conditions and that she will be better off with someone else... my dog is turning 13 years old, she should stay with us so close to passing, not with a penetrating stranger.


I have decided to stop talking to my family if they carry on with this. My decision is final. I wish my father would have died instead of my grandfather...

[firedawg]

Bro
Don't wish death on ANYONE
Especially your Pops JFC

[19th Hole]

You can;t handle reality.
Do another 8 ball.

[Cuse0323]

Going through something similar with a dog. He got sent to my sisters when I got sent away to rehab. That was hard enough but at least I could be updated on him. Now I find out she is gonna give him to a rescue organization and I won’t see him ever again. He’s turning 14 this April.

Anyway, I got drunk and made a big deal of it, let them know how much it was gonna hurt me. We’re gonna work on getting him down with me now. Hopefully works out.

I hope they have a change of heart. I refuse to live while not knowing what’s happening to my guy. Took care of him for 13 years with him sleeping next to me in bed. I turned down good opportunities to make sure he was taken care of. I know how strong a feeling one can have for a dog. Hopefully you can change their mind. I’d say be calm about it but that may be too late. Shit, I wasn’t calm either so fck it.

[playersonly69]

Both of them probably cant stand being around you!
Now you post lies just to generate some sympathy! you really are a sad human being! Guys NO ONE died around him

. He is just crying WOLF again

[maggiethebestdog]

Lol
This guy can't be for real
Nobody is this big of a loser

[Matt17]

Sorry to hear man, lost my mom and my dog in 2018, my condolences.

[HurryUpAndDrink]

Going through something similar with a dog. He got sent to my sisters when I got sent away to rehab. That was hard enough but at least I could be updated on him. Now I find out she is gonna give him to a rescue organization and I won’t see him ever again. He’s turning 14 this April.

Anyway, I got drunk and made a big deal of it, let them know how much it was gonna hurt me. We’re gonna work on getting him down with me now. Hopefully works out.

I hope they have a change of heart. I refuse to live while not knowing what’s happening to my guy. Took care of him for 13 years with him sleeping next to me in bed. I turned down good opportunities to make sure he was taken care of. I know how strong a feeling one can have for a dog. Hopefully you can change their mind. I’d say be calm about it but that may be too late. Shit, I wasn’t calm either so fck it.

Cuser, thats my same situation pretty much wow. Man, you are an awesome dude and I am grateful you post here...

My worse fear with this is, 2 things:

1) My dog will think I abandoned her, she does not like strangers, doing that to her is the worse thing it can happen...

2) When she passes away, I wanna bury her, I wanna be there holding her paw... I wanna have a place to visit when I want to be close to her...



penetrate my family man seriously, they think they can keep being shitty to me and I will just be nice and keep close... penetrate em, already told them they are dead to me, they have no right to tell me shit ever again or mourn me when I pass away

[HurryUpAndDrink]

Bro
Don't wish death on ANYONE
Especially your Pops JFC

My father was a child beater piece of shit, penetrate him.

My grandfather was my real dad...

[firedawg]

Honestly
I've tried to stick by Hurry lately
But damn man

You make it hard

[firedawg]

My father was a child beater piece of shit, penetrate him.

My grandfather was my real dad...

It's still your dad man
Don't wish that shit on ANYONE

[dante1]

you lost your granddad and you wish your dad dead and you are worried about a dog. really, do I have this right? I love dogs too but your family really guy. I sympathize even if you are BS, but a dog vs family. maybe you aren't in the right frame of mind.


take a step back and think about this for a minute.

[HurryUpAndDrink]

Honestly
I've tried to stick by Hurry lately
But damn man

You make it hard

man seriously? I hate my dad so what? you dont know him

a dad is just a title, thank god you and your son get along, I never had that

[5mike5]

I dont blame ya about your pet, somebody tries takeing 1 of my girls they have to go through me first

[Cuse0323]

I hear ya. I absolutely have to be there for him when it’s time, and he already thinks I abandoned him so I’d like to change that. I’m not gonna just get on back to a normal life not knowing if he’s dead or alive or some asshole is beating him cause he’s basically blind and has to go to the bathroom a lot.

No one can take better care of him than me. Except financially, but my sister threw this dog on me when she couldn’t take care of him after a year so I didn’t ask for it, but this is how it is. Only thing I have left in this world. I’d disown my family too if they did what yours are doing. Sorry man. Really hope they can be talked out of it. Luckily my mom knows I’m serious about not going on without him. Bitch move or not, it’s the truth.

And just cause your dad is blood doesn’t mean you have to automatically love him more than a dog. Fck that nonsense. Family doesn’t just deserve loyalty by default.

[d2bets]

If in fact YOU own this dog and you want your dog, then get your dog. It's yours. Why would it be up to anyone else?

Strange as it sounds, an animal is personal property.

If whoever has your property won't return, then tell them you'll file a lawsuit and be prepared to file it.

[USCPHILLYGUY]

Drinker with all due respect I don’t think you’re in any position to take care of a pet. Let the dog go live so your grand mom can see it. You can visit as well.

Dawg relax man. Guys going through some things. Go have a drink and watch that 80” plasma

[playersonly69]

This is actually sort of funny! I mean Hurrups DESPERATE attempt to regain some favor and sympathy. Guys NO ONE died

[HurryUpAndDrink]

you lost your granddad and you wish your dad dead and you are worried about a dog. really, do I have this right? I love dogs too but your family really guy. I sympathize even if you are BS, but a dog vs family. maybe you aren't in the right frame of mind.


take a step back and think about this for a minute.

penetrate my dad he was never in my equation, he has been dead to me for ages...

but my grandpa is dead, being mourning him for months since we knew he was terminal, I dont have the strenght to mourn him no more... now I have to worry about my dog man.

my grandpa would have liked for her to stay with me, my dad promised him before passing they were taking her back to me.

My dad is such a piece of shit he is doing this out of spite, he wants me to beg him to overturn that decision. penetrate HIM!

[5mike5]

This is actually sort of funny! I mean Hurrups DESPERATE attempt to regain some favor and sympathy. Guys NO ONE died

Shut up u moron. U have 0 credit anywhere.

[maggiethebestdog]

Hey Hurry, I am a psychic medium who can talk to the dead
Your Grandpa told me he wants you to join him in heaven ASAP

I am also a pet psychic who can communicate with living animals
Your dog told me she would rather live in an alley in back of a Vietnamese restaurant that just ran out of the daily special than be around your stinky arse for one more day

Hope that helps
I usually charge $5,0000 for a session like this, but I will not charge you since you have no job or money
I feel good just helping people with my gift

[playersonly69]

Good stuff Maggie

[pablo222]

Sorry you lost your Grandpa.

[DOM_Toretto]

Here’s my 2 cents.

It’s a dog. A dog is a dog, not a human fukkin being. Do not lose or ruin relationships with human beings - let alone your family - over an animal. Especially now when you and your family are in grieving over a family member, you need each other now more than ever.

Peace.

[HurryUpAndDrink]

If in fact YOU own this dog and you want your dog, then get your dog. It's yours. Why would it be up to anyone else?

Strange as it sounds, an animal is personal property.

If whoever has your property won't return, then tell them you'll file a lawsuit and be prepared to file it.

This is Costa Rica, laws are made of paper and they mean shit.

[HurryUpAndDrink]

I hear ya. I absolutely have to be there for him when it’s time, and he already thinks I abandoned him so I’d like to change that. I’m not gonna just get on back to a normal life not knowing if he’s dead or alive or some asshole is beating him cause he’s basically blind and has to go to the bathroom a lot.

No one can take better care of him than me. Except financially, but my sister threw this dog on me when she couldn’t take care of him after a year so I didn’t ask for it, but this is how it is. Only thing I have left in this world. I’d disown my family too if they did what yours are doing. Sorry man. Really hope they can be talked out of it. Luckily my mom knows I’m serious about not going on without him. Bitch move or not, it’s the truth.

And just cause your dad is blood doesn’t mean you have to automatically love him more than a dog. Fck that nonsense. Family doesn’t just deserve loyalty by default.

Poor dog man, they deserve to die with family NOT STRANGERS.

My backstabbing POS dad PROMISED my grandpa before he died that Wanda was coming back to me. NO STRANGERS. ME. And he wants to use her as a manipulation tool to force me to talk to him and who knows what the penetrate he wants, told him to eat shit and die in December, and I stand by it. He wants to use my dog as a bargaining tool to regain authority and who knows what the penetrate else with me...

This is what has me beyond livid.

[RudyRuetigger]

time to toughen up

it sucks, trust me

but ive lost both of my grandpas and 5 dogs




just think:

ok bad shit happened....do you want to fix some shit or go on a downward spiral

what would anyone who cares want you to do?

get it together bro

LETS GO

[firedawg]

time to toughen up

it sucks, trust me

but ive lost both of my grandpas and 5 dogs




just think:

ok bad shit happened....do you want to fix some shit or go on a downward spiral

what would anyone who cares want you to do?

get it together bro

LETS GO

Hurry is on thin ICE
DawgPound has the right to boot members at ANYTIME

[Cuse0323]

Poor dog man, they deserve to die with family NOT STRANGERS.

My backstabbing POS dad PROMISED my grandpa before he died that Wanda was coming back to me. NO STRANGERS. ME. And he wants to use her as a manipulation tool to force me to talk to him and who knows what the penetrate he wants, told him to eat shit and die in December, and I stand by it. He wants to use my dog as a bargaining tool to regain authority and who knows what the penetrate else with me...

This is what has me beyond livid.

I’d probably have to cave and do what he wants. Then secure the dog as mine as best I could, and cut off communication. Sucks that there’s no real laws for this there.

[bigtymer56]

Why does your family have YOUR dog in the first place?

[HurryUpAndDrink]

Why does your family have YOUR dog in the first place?

Back in 2008 I lived in the city in a small furnished apartment, worked 48 hrs a week, the dog was eating the house when I wasn't there, my grandfather had this huge farm in the country and he is like my dad. I hate my real dad. So grandpa took her on the condition I bought her the dog food and paid for any vet expenses, I carried that promise... fast forward 10 years grandpa just died, and now my real dad wants to use the dog as LEVERAGE because they are helping my grandma move tomorrow and they are taking the dog elsewhere, and that wasn't the deal, they told me dog was coming with me the day we buried grandpa.

They know I am not in the position to go and take her or something else, no $$$ no car no way to move 100km to bring her home with me. They are breaking our deal which we made after burying pops and now they told me they are giving her away TOMORROW.


My parents promised pops she was coming back to me after he passed. They are disrespecting his wish and penetrating me up in the process.

penetrate THEM.

[pattymayo]

You NEED another outlet to sort out your emotions on this stuff other than SBR. Get help man.

[HurryUpAndDrink]

You NEED another outlet to sort out your emotions on this stuff other than SBR. Get help man.

why? it affects you personally I posted this?

if so, you have bigger issues than me

[pattymayo]

why? it affects you personally I posted this?

if so, you have bigger issues than me

Doesn't affect me one bit.. it's just odd to me that SBR is your go-to place to share some pretty personal stuff.

[maggiethebestdog]

Doesn't affect me one bit.. it's just odd to me that SBR is your go-to place to share some pretty personal stuff.

I have tried to help my buddy Hurry out and so should you
Maybe you could go out on a date with him
That oughta cheer him up
He's having a hard time in the lady friend department, as impossible as that sounds
Ever been coke raped????