Long story short I have been eating shit in my love life for the last 6 years due to the woman in question being a BPD evil manipulator and me being half-retard; I decided to end things with this woman but all the women I've been with besides her hardly make me tickle.
I need chemistry, I need fireworks, I need my girl to be fun and interesting. I met this girl at an NYE party, the chemistry is tremendous, we texted all day most days that week. The bad news? She was with my friend at said party, but is nothing serious (my friend is penetrating everything that moves and zero willing to go serious, she knows this), bros before hoes I know, but this guy doesn't even want her and I already went out with her a couple of times and it was intense.
I mean, I have done this before, sorta, I took the honest approach before and it backfired (telling my friend before anything even happens), my former best friend gave me green light to penetrate a couple of his ex-girlfriends only for him to seek revenge out of nowhere 3 years later, by bedding my now, ex-girlfriend!
I don't know if I'm getting serious with her so why confess if there is no certainty or we are not "official"... on the other hand dating her in secret works for me, my friends are party people and I am precisely dating healthy woman to help in my goal of staying clean.
She is 21, fun and gorgeous, she practices Jiu-Jitsu. We have somewhat different interests but our life goals seem very compatible, I don't want to penetrate my buddy over, but I don't want him to penetrate her over either,
I found something special, but it's compromised by the friend code. Am I ******? what would you do?
I need chemistry, I need fireworks, I need my girl to be fun and interesting. I met this girl at an NYE party, the chemistry is tremendous, we texted all day most days that week. The bad news? She was with my friend at said party, but is nothing serious (my friend is penetrating everything that moves and zero willing to go serious, she knows this), bros before hoes I know, but this guy doesn't even want her and I already went out with her a couple of times and it was intense.
I mean, I have done this before, sorta, I took the honest approach before and it backfired (telling my friend before anything even happens), my former best friend gave me green light to penetrate a couple of his ex-girlfriends only for him to seek revenge out of nowhere 3 years later, by bedding my now, ex-girlfriend!
I don't know if I'm getting serious with her so why confess if there is no certainty or we are not "official"... on the other hand dating her in secret works for me, my friends are party people and I am precisely dating healthy woman to help in my goal of staying clean.
She is 21, fun and gorgeous, she practices Jiu-Jitsu. We have somewhat different interests but our life goals seem very compatible, I don't want to penetrate my buddy over, but I don't want him to penetrate her over either,
I found something special, but it's compromised by the friend code. Am I ******? what would you do?
