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  • Big Bear
    SBR Aristocracy
    • 11-01-11
    • 43253

    #1
    Is it weird to go to a bar by yourself?
    Thinking about doing it.

    Any of u guys go have drinks and watch games solo?
  • Bostongambler
    BARRELED IN @ SBR!
    • 02-01-08
    • 35581

    #2
    It's not weird at all. Belly up to a bar grad a bite to eat and some suds and watch a game.
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    • ParlayininHTown
      SBR Hall of Famer
      • 06-27-10
      • 7561

      #3
      Do it, Bear. Go anywhere you feel like by yourself.

      If you're afraid to do it and don't do it, you'll be like me. And being like me is incredibly soul-crushing ...
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      • firekillex
        SBR Hall of Famer
        • 09-18-13
        • 6420

        #4
        All you need to do. Go alone, leave differently
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        • dfish
          SBR MVP
          • 12-17-10
          • 2730

          #5
          I thought you left ?
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          • sourtwist
            SBR Hall of Famer
            • 11-10-12
            • 9364

            #6
            I do it all the time. Cant get people to go out on the reg...I go out at least once or twice a week, and if its just me, so be it. Always make friends.
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            • smokenjoke
              SBR Hall of Famer
              • 10-16-12
              • 8285

              #7
              ^^^
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              • innovation
                SBR Hall of Famer
                • 01-27-12
                • 6218

                #8
                a bear walks into a bar......
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                • compaqDikk
                  SBR Hall of Famer
                  • 10-08-05
                  • 5699

                  #9
                  Originally posted by ParlayininHTown
                  Do it, Bear. Go anywhere you feel like by yourself.

                  If you're afraid to do it and don't do it, you'll be like me. And being like me is incredibly soul-crushing ...
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                  • BTL
                    SBR Rookie
                    • 10-10-14
                    • 46

                    #10
                    Norm!
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                    • warbux
                      SBR Wise Guy
                      • 11-17-13
                      • 896

                      #11
                      i do this all the time but i know most of the people at the bar I frequent, so its not like Im just sitting there by myself like a schmuck
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                      • mngambler
                        SBR MVP
                        • 08-01-11
                        • 2890

                        #12
                        Originally posted by warbux
                        i do this all the time but i know most of the people at the bar I frequent, so its not like Im just sitting there by myself like a schmuck
                        ^^same here, it really depends on the bar..if its a local watering hole and your just bellying up to grab a burger and watch the game its totally fine, on the other hand sitting in a "club" in the corner by yourself is def. weird imho
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                        • muldoon
                          SBR MVP
                          • 01-04-10
                          • 4397

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Big Bear
                          Thinking about doing it.

                          Any of u guys go have drinks and watch games solo?

                          If you get frustrated with the bar, make a huge deal and let everyone know you won't return to that establishment.

                          Then go back in 2 days.
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                          • boeing power
                            SBR Hall of Famer
                            • 03-23-10
                            • 9698

                            #14
                            Originally posted by muldoon
                            If you get frustrated with the bar, make a huge deal and let everyone know you won't return to that establishment.

                            Then go back in 2 days.
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                            • Auto Donk
                              SBR Aristocracy
                              • 09-03-13
                              • 43558

                              #15
                              no, in two instances I can think of:

                              1. you're gay and going in to a gaybay to knock off some random, anonymous ass, or

                              2. you're meeting some chick there you hit up on line (which probably doesn't even qualify).

                              so, yes, it's pretty fck'd and immediately earns your "creeper" status among all the groups of babes that are present..... only chance to save the day is to say you're meeting your brother, friend, etc., and say he's running late and then later had to cancel. Use the brother excuse, and say he's the ceo of his own software company, then her golddiggin' ass will presume you might have some jack too.......
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                              • Bostongambler
                                BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                • 02-01-08
                                • 35581

                                #16
                                I'm at Cheesecake Factory right now having a little bite and a few suds
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                                • Vegas39
                                  BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                  • 09-22-11
                                  • 30686

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by muldoon
                                  If you get frustrated with the bar, make a huge deal and let everyone know you won't return to that establishment.

                                  Then go back in 2 days.
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                                  • scumbag
                                    SBR MVP
                                    • 11-02-13
                                    • 3504

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by Auto Donk
                                    no, in two instances I can think of:

                                    1. you're gay and going in to a gaybay to knock off some random, anonymous ass, or

                                    2. you're meeting some chick there you hit up on line (which probably doesn't even qualify).

                                    so, yes, it's pretty fck'd and immediately earns your "creeper" status among all the groups of babes that are present..... only chance to save the day is to say you're meeting your brother, friend, etc., and say he's running late and then later had to cancel. Use the brother excuse, and say he's the ceo of his own software company, then her golddiggin' ass will presume you might have some jack too.......
                                    retarded advice.

                                    ive gone to bars, movies and traveled the world by myself. All of those things i prefer to do alone.

                                    the only thing i wouldnt do alone is go to eat a nice meal. that would just be weird. but going to a bar alone is great because of obvious reasons. travelling is the same.
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                                    • Ralphie Halves
                                      SBR MVP
                                      • 12-13-09
                                      • 4507

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by scumbag
                                      retarded advice.

                                      ive gone to bars, movies and traveled the world by myself. All of those things i prefer to do alone.

                                      the only thing i wouldnt do alone is go to eat a nice meal. that would just be weird. but going to a bar alone is great because of obvious reasons. travelling is the same.
                                      Agree completely.

                                      Traveling especially. If I'm going to buck up for travel, I want to do what I want to do 100% of the time. I'm also not the guy who likes to travel just to stand in line and see major landmarks that I've already seen while I dodge strollers, picture-takers, etc. So that already puts me in a pretty big minority. If I do leave town with a girl, it's usually more of a vacation spot than a place you'd actually want to explore.
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                                      • Bostongambler
                                        BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                        • 02-01-08
                                        • 35581

                                        #20
                                        Now at 99 solo
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                                        • Auto Donk
                                          SBR Aristocracy
                                          • 09-03-13
                                          • 43558

                                          #21
                                          but u can't 69 solo..........
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                                          • Bostongambler
                                            BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                            • 02-01-08
                                            • 35581

                                            #22
                                            Sad part is leaving alone 😱😱😱😱
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                                            • Auto Donk
                                              SBR Aristocracy
                                              • 09-03-13
                                              • 43558

                                              #23
                                              odds of leaving alone, after arriving alone, are pretty much the stone cold lock...... chicks think one thing..... "Creeper"....

                                              and to you Norm's and Cliff Claven losers..... yah, I get rollin' solo to your local dive bar to meet / see other solos feeding their alcoholism, saying "hi" to the same drunks you said "hi" to the week before, or even worse the night before, and then sittin' there watching a few games as all of you creepers lamely hit on the one decent lookin, big tittied barkeep or waitress, and mumble among your drunken selves how your creeper ass would "absolutely tear that shit up" if you took her home............... Nothing wrong with that scenario at all!!!!

                                              (well, at least not until you finally act on your fantasy of bangin' that hot bar employee that's ten-20 years younger than you-- and who wouldn't smile at your or much less give you the time of day if her tip didn't depend on it -- and wind up with a restraining order filed against your loser ass, or even worse, a rape charge)......

                                              Just don't go ballistic on her like that dickweed that clubbed a bitch from the bar, after following her home after closing time, with an empty bottle of Galliano!!!! Or you too will wind up having 30 mins of fame, in the form of an episode of Forensic Files!!!!
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                                              • ByeShea
                                                SBR Hall of Famer
                                                • 06-30-08
                                                • 8119

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by Auto Donk
                                                Use the brother excuse, and say he's the ceo of his own software company, then her golddiggin' ass will presume you might have some jack too.......
                                                Yeah, you're not a total loser because a total loser wouldn't be able to state up front that he can't get a piece of ass by being himself.

                                                You're just a basic loser. Good luck with your story telling, I'm sure you're swimming in it.
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                                                • Auto Donk
                                                  SBR Aristocracy
                                                  • 09-03-13
                                                  • 43558

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by ByeShea
                                                  Yeah, you're not a total loser because a total loser wouldn't be able to state up front that he can't get a piece of ass by being himself.

                                                  You're just a basic loser. Good luck with your story telling, I'm sure you're swimming in it.
                                                  lol......... yah, that's me.... just fyi, you dumb penetrate, many on here have verified who I am, what I and my beautiful wife look like, my profession, etc..... just ask Mr. KLC, for eg....

                                                  follow this advice, dickhead: sometimes it is better to remain silent on an issue and be thought to be a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt...........
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                                                  • ByeShea
                                                    SBR Hall of Famer
                                                    • 06-30-08
                                                    • 8119

                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by Auto Donk
                                                    many on here have verified who I am, what I and my beautiful wife look like, my profession, etc..... just ask Mr. KLC, for eg....
                                                    Oh god. So you're a loser and a compulsive psycho? I think your wife has been posting online again.
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                                                    • lagoonlife
                                                      SBR High Roller
                                                      • 07-03-14
                                                      • 160

                                                      #27
                                                      I think it is weird to not go by yourself. Lol.
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                                                      • konck
                                                        SBR Posting Legend
                                                        • 10-17-06
                                                        • 12554

                                                        #28
                                                        Dont do it you may hurt your penis that way
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                                                        • Auto Donk
                                                          SBR Aristocracy
                                                          • 09-03-13
                                                          • 43558

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by ByeShea
                                                          Oh god. So you're a loser and a compulsive psycho? I think your wife has been posting online again.
                                                          don't put your shit on her, loser..... but do bring your red ball nose and face paint to the Bash.... she'll bend you over and give you the strap-on pounding you're obviously craving, Bozo!
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                                                          • ByeShea
                                                            SBR Hall of Famer
                                                            • 06-30-08
                                                            • 8119

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by Auto Donk
                                                            don't put your shit on her, loser..... but do bring your red ball nose and face paint to the Bash.... she'll bend you over and give you the strap-on pounding you're obviously craving, Bozo!
                                                            This Bash is gonna be the best one yet!
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                                                            • Auto Donk
                                                              SBR Aristocracy
                                                              • 09-03-13
                                                              • 43558

                                                              #31
                                                              and we'll get triple_d_bet, who is the spittin image of Long Schlong Ron Jeremy, to do a cameo in your "clown takin' it up the ass from hot babe with strapon" video. This will give you instant credibility as a porn star.

                                                              Don't worry, tdb, we'll only shoot you above the waist.... no junk footage, as it would give the video away as "not legit." unless, like LSRJ, you are packing ten inches and want to throw some meat ByeShea's way..... I'm sure he'll eagerly accept it!
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                                                              • Plaza23
                                                                SBR Hall of Famer
                                                                • 12-29-13
                                                                • 7392

                                                                #32
                                                                If you want to find some girls - i dont think going out alone is a bad idea. It seems like I got more action being on my own than with a group of friends. Lot of times in college my friends would want to leave and I'd already be drunk - so I'd tell them "if you wanna go, go. I'm staying". When I'm good and buzzed I can blend in and talk to people i dont even know. I always had more fun that way. Just shooting the shit with the same group of buds gets really old. Alcohol gave me that "dgaf confidence". So if you plan on getting hammered - going out alone is fine. I think some girls get intimidated when they see just a whole group of dudes, but its always been easier for me to talk to someone on an individual level when i am by myself.

                                                                However, if you are going out and not planning to drink much - then I dont see the point of going out alone. You'll be too aware of your alone-ness if you are not buzzed or drunk. And if you just want to watch a game, stay home and watch it. Its way cheaper and more comfortable.
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                                                                • chipper
                                                                  SBR MVP
                                                                  • 01-07-10
                                                                  • 1994

                                                                  #33
                                                                  I don't think it's weird either. Great way to meet new people, catch a game on TV or if you're here in Vegas like I am, it's a great place to play some bartop video poker.
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                                                                  • Auto Donk
                                                                    SBR Aristocracy
                                                                    • 09-03-13
                                                                    • 43558

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by Plaza23
                                                                    If you want to find some girls - i dont think going out alone is a bad idea. It seems like I got more action being on my own than with a group of friends. Lot of times in college my friends would want to leave and I'd already be drunk - so I'd tell them "if you wanna go, go. I'm staying". When I'm good and buzzed I can blend in and talk to people i dont even know. I always had more fun that way. Just shooting the shit with the same group of buds gets really old. Alcohol gave me that "dgaf confidence". So if you plan on getting hammered - going out alone is fine. I think some girls get intimidated when they see just a whole group of dudes, but its always been easier for me to talk to someone on an individual level when i am by myself.

                                                                    However, if you are going out and not planning to drink much - then I dont see the point of going out alone. You'll be too aware of your alone-ness if you are not buzzed or drunk. And if you just want to watch a game, stay home and watch it. Its way cheaper and more comfortable.
                                                                    sounds like a great blue print for a dwi!!! "if you go alone and don't plan on drinking much, it's a waste of time" -- that is some funny shit!

                                                                    oh, I know, you get the two of you a cab..... unless you're in NYC, maybe Chicago, any bitch that sees you're so wasted you need a cab is gonna take a fly by.... your other option, driving drunk, is sure to go over well, get in the car, have her blow into your court-installed breathalyzer device mandated by a prior drunken solo pussyhunt gone awry; impress her as you weave through traffic, side swipe cars, ..... shit, this clip comes to mind (no better way to impress a bitch than by puking on her!!!)

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                                                                    • Spedizzo
                                                                      SBR MVP
                                                                      • 12-16-11
                                                                      • 1557

                                                                      #35
                                                                      not weird at all

                                                                      if you meet a chick just tell her your boy left early
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