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  • easyliving
    SBR Hall of Famer
    • 06-25-12
    • 8876

    #1
    Had an "affair" with a married woman
    I was heading to the local park to enjoy the fireworks and as I was looking for a place to sit I ran into a friend from high school. She recognized me and seeing she was alone I decided to sit with her. So we start talking and catch up on things, and she has done very well for herself working as an RN. I ask her why she is here alone and she says her fiancee is visiting his family in PA. Anyways once the fireworks end I offer her to grab a drink together and she tells me she knows a great bar nearby. We head to the bar which is packed and we start drinking. She is downing 1 cocktail after another. We talk for a while their and finally decide to head out. At this point she is drunk and can barely walk. I offer to drop her off home and tell her she can pick her car up tomorrow. She asks me who I live with and I tell her I live alone. In a surprising manner she asks if she could spend the night at my place and I reluctantly agree. Once we get to my place she starts crying and telling me how she hates her fiancees family and that they have never liked her and will make her life only more difficult once they marry as her fiancee is really close with the rest of his family. At this point I try to comfort her and 1 thing leads to another and we end up having sex.

    The next morning she wakes me up with her crying and yelling. When I ask her whats wrong she tells me she is not engaged but has been married for 3 years. I tell her I don't believe it and start yelling at her. She says she wishes it was a lie. I tell her to get dressed and drop her off to her car without saying another word.
  • ParlayininHTown
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    • 06-27-10
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    #2
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    • thestrategist
      SBR Hustler
      • 07-01-14
      • 81

      #3
      I would have banged her again in the morning....
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      • Libanese
        SBR High Roller
        • 06-30-14
        • 220

        #4
        If this is a true story (and I hope it's not) it's guys Iike you that give men a bad name.

        Not sure if the point of your story was to "brag" or hoping for feedback.

        Regardless, I recommend you grow up a little and keep in mind having sex with drunk attached women is not a sign of prowess, it's a sign of desperation.

        Of course this whole story could be crap and if that's the case, work on your erotic storytelling.

        This makes 50 Shades Of Gray look like Tolstoy.
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        • Ghenghis Kahn
          SBR Posting Legend
          • 01-02-12
          • 19734

          #5
          pics?
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          • easyliving
            SBR Hall of Famer
            • 06-25-12
            • 8876

            #6
            Originally posted by Ghenghis Kahn
            pics?
            of what?
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            • Booya711
              BARRELED IN @ SBR!
              • 12-20-11
              • 27329

              #7
              Easy....I have only had two wives in my lifetime and neither of them were mine.....

              What happened to your diabetic chick??
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              • easyliving
                SBR Hall of Famer
                • 06-25-12
                • 8876

                #8
                Originally posted by Booya711
                Easy....I have only had two wives in my lifetime and neither of them were mine.....

                What happened to your diabetic chick??
                cut her loose a while ago.
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                • Kermit
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                  • 09-27-10
                  • 32555

                  #9
                  When I was 21 I had a fling with a married woman that I worked with, she was 22. Her husband was cheating on her left and right. They had no children, so I didn't see a problem with it.
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                  • Booya711
                    BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                    • 12-20-11
                    • 27329

                    #10
                    Originally posted by easyliving
                    cut her loose a while ago.
                    Actually don't blame you....paying by the hour is much more efficient
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                    • Vegas39
                      BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                      • 09-22-11
                      • 30686

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Booya711
                      Actually don't blame you....paying by the hour is much more efficient
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                      • MickeyMan
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                        • 10-20-09
                        • 5091

                        #12
                        Why did you yell at her
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                        • onemoregoal
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                          • 02-04-13
                          • 8149

                          #13
                          For a while i fukked, at the time older women, 40ish, not so old now...
                          She was married to a really old rich guy, like 75+.
                          I wasnt really attracted to her, but i thought the old guy should expect/deserve this on a regular basis.
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                          • onemoregoal
                            SBR Hall of Famer
                            • 02-04-13
                            • 8149

                            #14
                            look how witty i am, not even top50.
                            fukk u JJ.
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                            • easyliving
                              SBR Hall of Famer
                              • 06-25-12
                              • 8876

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Libanese
                              If this is a true story (and I hope it's not) it's guys Iike you that give men a bad name.

                              Not sure if the point of your story was to "brag" or hoping for feedback.

                              Regardless, I recommend you grow up a little and keep in mind having sex with drunk attached women is not a sign of prowess, it's a sign of desperation.

                              Of course this whole story could be crap and if that's the case, work on your erotic storytelling.

                              This makes 50 Shades Of Gray look like Tolstoy.
                              I was under the impression that she was engaged, not married. Nothing wrong with sleeping with a woman who is engaged and likely to break off the engagement.
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                              • easyliving
                                SBR Hall of Famer
                                • 06-25-12
                                • 8876

                                #16
                                Originally posted by Kermit
                                When I was 21 I had a fling with a married woman that I worked with, she was 22. Her husband was cheating on her left and right. They had no children, so I didn't see a problem with it.
                                this makes me feel a whole lot better. No way she had any kids, so you're saying if they have no kids its not an issue.
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                                • Kermit
                                  BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                  • 09-27-10
                                  • 32555

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by easyliving
                                  this makes me feel a whole lot better. No way she had any kids, so you're saying if they have no kids its not an issue.
                                  No kids with the fact that her husband was fukking some woman that he worked with.

                                  If they had kids together, I wouldn't have ever got involved. Her husband had a son with some other woman before they got married.
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                                  • Libanese
                                    SBR High Roller
                                    • 06-30-14
                                    • 220

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by easyliving
                                    I was under the impression that she was engaged, not married. Nothing wrong with sleeping with a woman who is engaged and likely to break off the engagement.

                                    If you slept with her after the relationship ended, that would have been fine.

                                    You knew she was with someone. Regardless of how rocky the relationship was, she was still in it.

                                    Compounded by the fact she was very drunk, I find it sad and desperate you would sleep with her.

                                    Not trying to be a dick to you, I'm just saying I always feel more like a man when I turn down opportunities with drunk and/or attached women.

                                    If a girl woke up the next day after sleeping with me angry or crying, I'm thinking it's time I reassess how I choose who I sleep with.
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                                    • capone1899
                                      SBR MVP
                                      • 06-16-11
                                      • 1054

                                      #19
                                      Who cares if she's engaged or married? You're not the one cheating, she is. You did nothing wrong. You are a single man
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                                      • Libanese
                                        SBR High Roller
                                        • 06-30-14
                                        • 220

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by capone1899
                                        Who cares if she's engaged or married? You're not the one cheating, she is. You did nothing wrong. You are a single man
                                        Hold up. So if I sleep with an obviously drunk girl who probably wouldn't have slept with me sober, I'm doing nothing wrong?

                                        Being a single man doesn't give us the right to nullify morals or respect.

                                        You sleep with a very drunk woman you are wrong.

                                        Capone, if you were married and a guy slept with your wife (or fiancée) I'm guessing you wouldn't have any anger towards the guy?

                                        Before you say "no", I'll save you the effort of lying. You would be pissed. It's human nature. Plain and simple.
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                                        • Plaza23
                                          SBR Hall of Famer
                                          • 12-29-13
                                          • 7392

                                          #21
                                          I think its pretty clear you are a douchebag.

                                          From this story, to losing 2,500 at a carnival, to ditching a girl because she has diabetes - i'm going to nominate you as one of the worst people on this forum.

                                          Seriously, someone needs to slap some sense into you. Hopefully its the husband who takes a bat to your knees. It may be the best thing for you.
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                                          • Killer_Demo
                                            SBR Hall of Famer
                                            • 06-15-08
                                            • 8409

                                            #22
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                                            • RiverBoatGambler
                                              SBR Wise Guy
                                              • 12-29-10
                                              • 627

                                              #23
                                              You guys are a bunch of morons that are crying about this dude smashing the chick.


                                              She was drunk, he was drunk.....sounds like a good time.

                                              I'm a single guy and when I meet a girl I don't ask for her life story. If she says she isn't married, doesn't have a ring, or doesn't mention it, I don't see how it's my fault for sleeping with a chick if she does happen to be married. Usually don't have time to go do a background check on random chicks so kinda have to take what they say for the truth.


                                              And Libanese, lol....I really, really doubt you are just turning a ton of women down
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                                              • ZetaPsi808
                                                SBR Posting Legend
                                                • 09-18-08
                                                • 12119

                                                #24
                                                let's see pics of the girl u banged
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                                                • easyliving
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                                                  • 06-25-12
                                                  • 8876

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by Libanese
                                                  Hold up. So if I sleep with an obviously drunk girl who probably wouldn't have slept with me sober, I'm doing nothing wrong?
                                                  if she didn't want to sleep with me she would not have gotten drunk to begin with. As long as I'm concerned if a woman is willing to drink with me, she is willing to sleep with me once she is drunk.
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                                                  • Libanese
                                                    SBR High Roller
                                                    • 06-30-14
                                                    • 220

                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by RiverBoatGambler
                                                    You guys are a bunch of morons that are crying about this dude smashing the chick.


                                                    She was drunk, he was drunk.....sounds like a good time.

                                                    I'm a single guy and when I meet a girl I don't ask for her life story. If she says she isn't married, doesn't have a ring, or doesn't mention it, I don't see how it's my fault for sleeping with a chick if she does happen to be married. Usually don't have time to go do a background check on random chicks so kinda have to take what they say for the truth.


                                                    And Libanese, lol....I really, really doubt you are just turning a ton of women down
                                                    RiverBoatGambler,
                                                    Im going to assume you are a young guy. As you get older and start respecting people a bit more (hopefully) you will see what you wrote makes you sound like a complete tool.

                                                    Most young guys think and act like that. I understand. It doesn't mean I condone it.

                                                    As far as my sex life. I have no need to dick sling or bed notch. I was just giving my past experience.
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                                                    • Killer_Demo
                                                      SBR Hall of Famer
                                                      • 06-15-08
                                                      • 8409

                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by ZetaPsi808
                                                      let's see pics of the girl u banged
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                                                      • TheCentaur
                                                        SBR Hall of Famer
                                                        • 06-28-11
                                                        • 8108

                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by RiverBoatGambler
                                                        You guys are a bunch of morons that are crying about this dude smashing the chick.


                                                        She was drunk, he was drunk.....sounds like a good time.

                                                        I'm a single guy and when I meet a girl I don't ask for her life story. If she says she isn't married, doesn't have a ring, or doesn't mention it, I don't see how it's my fault for sleeping with a chick if she does happen to be married. Usually don't have time to go do a background check on random chicks so kinda have to take what they say for the truth.


                                                        And Libanese, lol....I really, really doubt you are just turning a ton of women down
                                                        Great post

                                                        A lot of you guys seem to think women have no accountability

                                                        OP was drinking too, and was purposely misled into thinking she wasn't married

                                                        I have had this happen to me a few times, them saying they are separated or divorced when they aren't. They know what they are doing and what they want to do. Stop acting like they are helpless little kids
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                                                        • Big Bear
                                                          SBR Aristocracy
                                                          • 11-01-11
                                                          • 43253

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by easyliving
                                                          of what?
                                                          of the sex bro.

                                                          Lets see some action shots!

                                                          I started busted out laughing when i saw ghengis kahn ask for pics lol
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                                                          • Big Bear
                                                            SBR Aristocracy
                                                            • 11-01-11
                                                            • 43253

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by capone1899
                                                            Who cares if she's engaged or married? You're not the one cheating, she is. You did nothing wrong. You are a single man
                                                            yeah i have to agree with that.

                                                            only thing that would suck is if the husband is some nut job and she tells him and then also tells him where you live.
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                                                            • Plaza23
                                                              SBR Hall of Famer
                                                              • 12-29-13
                                                              • 7392

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by easyliving
                                                              if she didn't want to sleep with me she would not have gotten drunk to begin with. .


                                                              That the dumbest shit i have ever heard.
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                                                              • El Nino
                                                                SBR Posting Legend
                                                                • 05-03-12
                                                                • 18426

                                                                #32
                                                                Diabetic chick is a no, girl who you thought was engaged is no problem. Unreal
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                                                                • King Mayan
                                                                  SBR Posting Legend
                                                                  • 09-22-10
                                                                  • 21326

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Good job easy..
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                                                                  • Vegas39
                                                                    BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                                                    • 09-22-11
                                                                    • 30686

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by El Nino
                                                                    Diabetic chick is a no, girl who you thought was engaged is no problem. Unreal
                                                                    if easy's sex life is like his betting luck she had HIV
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                                                                    • Libanese
                                                                      SBR High Roller
                                                                      • 06-30-14
                                                                      • 220

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Easyliving, I pray you don't ever have a daughter.

                                                                      I'm going to TRY to understand your rationale.

                                                                      So you get drunk and if a girl drinks with you long enough, it means she must like you enough to sleep with you.

                                                                      But wait.....we also have to assume that you have never regretted sleeping with someone drunk. Never texted someone drunk. Never posted something on Facebook drunk that you regret.

                                                                      What I'm saying is people do things they normally wouldn't do when they have been drinking. Just because they put themselves in a less than desireable state doesn't mean they WANT it.

                                                                      Granted, women (as well as men) need to be more careful when drinking. That doesn't give you license (morally) to sleep with her.
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