Let's say you are walking down the street with your girlfriend/wife beside you on a busy street and this 6 foot about 185 pound average built African American grabs your girls behind and keeps walking the opposite direction. Your girl or wife looks at you in shock. What is your exact reaction? This happened to a friend of mine and I would like to know if he did the right thing by not confronting the African American. What would you do? Or say?
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Being an African myself, I would have fought the guy.He disrespected you and your girlfriend.Comment -
If he had a weapon I wouldn't have done shit. On the other hand, if he didnt, then I wouldnt have said one word to him and would have proceeded to punching him right in his grillComment -
If i had a weapon myself I would punch himComment -
I wouldn't think he would keep his weapon in the open, but what about the unknown possibility of him having a weapon? You hit him and then he takes out his weapon and it's too late, you are laying on the sidewalk bleeding profusely from your chest. This is how murders happen. I'm thinking if there's a better analytical approach to this situation to know your odds. I would probably walk away.Comment -
A comment that quickly escalatesComment -
Walking by crazies all the time, surprised this type of event does not happen more oftenComment -
Great discussion here, Seaweed.
First of all, you have to be very careful with the African American. They can be unpredictable at times. The best thing to do is to smile at them, and offer a Red Lobster coupon if you have one. I carry them around for this exact circumstance. You just never know when they might come in handy.
If the African American pulls out a weapon, your best bet may be to offer up your girlfriend and just walk away. You may never see her again, and if you do, she may return to you a bit bowlegged, but at least you get out of the situation intact.
Is this the incident you briefly mentioned that happened out West? I hope your colleague is okay.Comment -
Yeah, it's the same incident I mentioned to you earlier. You really provide some thought-provoking alternative approaches to the situation.
Oh, and my colleague is fine. He walked away without a scratch. However, I think his girlfriend got really upset at him for walking away. Girls can be pretty selfish I guess.Comment -
what a pussy.
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I'd apologize for that white ass being too flat for his taste.Comment -
In the right state of mind/time/place I might shoot him in the knee if I felt he was a total dirtbagComment -
I would grab his ballsComment -
My boyfriend will grab his ballsComment -
Seaweed,id break out the Nunchuks and just go Bruce Lee on his ass. The guy would run amile.Comment -
All depends on your physical make up. If you don't take shit from nobody, doesn't matter if you get your ass kicked or killed, you stood for what you felt was right. If you were a scaredy cat all your life and ran from confrontations, you would've went your merry way. Still alive and not hurt at least physically, but you would be hurt mentally.Comment -
I could whoop his ass but why risk fighting with some random fuk to begin with? Pride is the dumbest thing on earth and a shared common trait amongst poor people.
Gun is the way to go, then if he would have persisted you could have done the world a favor and shot him.Comment -
This could be a conversation you have with the girlfriend hopefully before this type of thing happens. How does she see the situation? Is she all about defending her honor, or is she gonna think you're a retard for escalating the situation. Cater your response to your girlfriend s needs, not your needs
Usually, the response from a black as your hot girl passes is more like "DAMMMNNNN!!!!!", rather than physical contact towards your girl.Comment -
Not many of you answered the question honestly, most of you are penetrating tools anyway.
The idea of whether or not a weapon would be involved would never even cross my mind in the heat of the moment because the situation at hand would be a bang bang action and reaction type of thing.
Like someone else said, it depends what type of person you are, and whether you like to get shit on regularly without doing anything about it. A real man would go to battle first and ask questions later, after all, he sexually assaulted your girl. If he did it to you, some of you here, carpe, would appreciate the attention and chase the afro down the street to drop his drawers.
If you let people walk all over you, it will wear you down and annihilate your self esteem. Sometimes you have to stand up for yourself, and this would be one of those times.
And BTW, this is not a black and white thing. I think seaweed is trying to make it seem as if it makes a difference who did it.Comment -
I think your friend handled the situation the best way given the circumstances. He doesn't know if the guy had a weapon, and the last thing you want to happen is to get into a situation where you're spilling someone's (possibly HIV infected) blood with witnesses and security cameras all around you.
Now if he would have just grabbed your girl and stood there that's a different story.Comment -
Seaweed, I think you may have a shot with your friend's girl. If he didn't do anything when a stranger groped her, you could probably nail her without repercussions.Comment -
Id go fkn ape shitComment -
Was the black guy with someone or alone. I can see him doing it with someone with him however crazy this is. Alot comes into factor but couldnt see myself just walking away quietly.Comment
