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  • Philly-Pride33
    SBR MVP
    • 12-18-13
    • 1366

    #1
    Really tough thing I'm going through...
    I'm married but I gotta be honest here I'm talking to 2 other women now.. just friendship only.. I would never cheat.. however I have to say the temptation is there.. never thought my heart could feel something more when I'm already in love.. If anybody has been through this.. not sure how to handle this.. who ever thought 3 women would like me so much...
  • pulledclear
    SBR Hall of Famer
    • 02-19-12
    • 6684

    #2
    Sammy, we call those hallucinations.

    Individuals with schizophrenia may experience hallucinations (most reported are hearing voices), delusions (often bizarre or persecutory in nature), anddisorganized thinking and speech. The latter may range from loss of train of thought, to sentences only loosely connected in meaning, to incoherence known as word salad in severe cases. Social withdrawal, sloppiness of dress and hygiene, and loss of motivation and judgment are all common in schizophrenia.[
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    • PaperTrail07
      SBR Posting Legend
      • 08-29-08
      • 20423

      #3
      Be a man...Tell your wife you are done. If the thoughts are there...action will soon follow...I don't mind a cheater...but HATE liars...
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      • Philly-Pride33
        SBR MVP
        • 12-18-13
        • 1366

        #4
        Originally posted by PaperTrail07
        Be a man...Tell your wife you are done. If the thoughts are there...action will soon follow...I don't mind a cheater...but HATE liars...
        First of all I never lied, we only chat on the phone.. I don't cheat because that's low and sneaky.. I love my wife and never said I want to walk away.. I'm saying that I happen to have feelings for other women
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        • Kermit
          BARRELED IN @ SBR!
          • 09-27-10
          • 32555

          #5
          Sammy, when did you get married? In one of the videos you made last year, you said you were single and that was why you had so much time to cap games.
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          • sweep
            SBR Posting Legend
            • 10-09-10
            • 16753

            #6
            pound all 3, you only live once

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            • innovation
              SBR Hall of Famer
              • 01-27-12
              • 6218

              #7
              Originally posted by Philly-Pride33
              I'm married but I gotta be honest here I'm talking to 2 other MEN now.. just friendship only.. I would never cheat.. however I have to say the temptation is there.. never thought my heart could feel something more when I'm already in love.. If anybody has been through this.. not sure how to handle this...

              yep the pro gay sbr is full of homos you can relate to
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              • pulledclear
                SBR Hall of Famer
                • 02-19-12
                • 6684

                #8
                Sammys "wife" is 90. Dont believe me? Ask him.
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                • Swinging Johnson
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                  • 08-12-09
                  • 7604

                  #9
                  If you would allow your wife to listen to those conversations word for word then you're good. If you wouldn't then you're already cheating.
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                  • warbux
                    SBR Wise Guy
                    • 11-17-13
                    • 896

                    #10
                    sammy woo's women by ripping off his shirt and telling them he talks to god on the phone.
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                    • rthoughton
                      SBR MVP
                      • 12-27-09
                      • 1992

                      #11
                      does your wife know that you have these friendships?
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                      • The Kraken
                        BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                        • 12-25-11
                        • 28918

                        #12
                        Every situation is different. Just went through this myself. We worked through it and thank god we did, the best thing that could have happened. Begin by looking at the man in the mirror and go from there. The grass is rarely greener on the other side.

                        And remember, it always feels good to be liked. Especially by people you didn't know liked you before. Ego boost. Your wife probably made you feel this way at one time. So whats gonna happen in 5 years from now if you were to divorce and remarry? You'll be in the same boat making the dame mistake.

                        New pussy isn't worth it bro.
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                        • SBRMAN23
                          SBR Hall of Famer
                          • 01-07-11
                          • 6906

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Swinging Johnson
                          If you would allow your wife to listen to those conversations word for word then you're good. If you wouldn't then you're already cheating.
                          This is real shittt ^
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                          • Philly-Pride33
                            SBR MVP
                            • 12-18-13
                            • 1366

                            #14
                            Originally posted by sweep
                            pound all 3, you only live once

                            I can't do that.. wouldn't be right.. I believe in karma and you and I both know I'd be getting the worst of it..
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                            • Philly-Pride33
                              SBR MVP
                              • 12-18-13
                              • 1366

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Kermit
                              Sammy, when did you get married? In one of the videos you made last year, you said you were single and that was why you had so much time to cap games.
                              I'm a married man now.. I made those videos last year.. any new ones with have me with a beard and I gained some weight sadly..
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                              • Philly-Pride33
                                SBR MVP
                                • 12-18-13
                                • 1366

                                #16
                                Originally posted by Swinging Johnson
                                If you would allow your wife to listen to those conversations word for word then you're good. If you wouldn't then you're already cheating.
                                OK, good question.. Well, 99% of the talks have been friendship but with one I did talk to her sweet.. so yes I'd be OK if she heard the talks
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                                • Philly-Pride33
                                  SBR MVP
                                  • 12-18-13
                                  • 1366

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by rthoughton
                                  does your wife know that you have these friendships?
                                  Fair question.. by the way happy to see your Eagles pic there.. we're the same for that. NO, she doesn't know about the friendships..but only because I think she wouldn't understand..she has guy friends and it doesn't bother me
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                                  • thunderous
                                    SBR MVP
                                    • 06-05-12
                                    • 1870

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by Swinging Johnson
                                    If you would allow your wife to listen to those conversations word for word then you're good. If you wouldn't then you're already cheating.
                                    Spot on.
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                                    • Philly-Pride33
                                      SBR MVP
                                      • 12-18-13
                                      • 1366

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by The Kraken
                                      Every situation is different. Just went through this myself. We worked through it and thank god we did, the best thing that could have happened. Begin by looking at the man in the mirror and go from there. The grass is rarely greener on the other side.

                                      And remember, it always feels good to be liked. Especially by people you didn't know liked you before. Ego boost. Your wife probably made you feel this way at one time. So whats gonna happen in 5 years from now if you were to divorce and remarry? You'll be in the same boat making the dame mistake.

                                      New pussy isn't worth it bro.
                                      Great post.. I'll say this It's not about the sex.. I don't like the women I'm talking to just to get that.. I really like talking to them and I make them both happy and they say how funny I am. I don't want to leave my wife, however to be honest.. we don't have sex that often and I have no idea why..
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                                      • chipper
                                        SBR MVP
                                        • 01-07-10
                                        • 1994

                                        #20
                                        Just don't cross the line.... talking/flirting is fine but don't let it go any further. Keep your vows and your promise.
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                                        • Philly-Pride33
                                          SBR MVP
                                          • 12-18-13
                                          • 1366

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by chipper
                                          Just don't cross the line.... talking/flirting is fine but don't let it go any further. Keep your vows and your promise.
                                          Agreed! I won't cross the line because I want to be a faithful spouse and I'd be sad as hell if she fell for another guy and left me...
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                                          • pulledclear
                                            SBR Hall of Famer
                                            • 02-19-12
                                            • 6684

                                            #22
                                            Jesus fck you got fatter??!
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                                            • pulledclear
                                              SBR Hall of Famer
                                              • 02-19-12
                                              • 6684

                                              #23
                                              If his wifes name is Hellen i'll sht my pants!
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                                              • PhillyFlyers
                                                SBR Hall of Famer
                                                • 09-27-11
                                                • 8245

                                                #24
                                                You are married. You shouldn't be romantically involved with other women.

                                                What's so tough? I don't understand.
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                                                • Philly-Pride33
                                                  SBR MVP
                                                  • 12-18-13
                                                  • 1366

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by PhillyFlyers
                                                  You are married. You shouldn't be romantically involved with other women.

                                                  What's so tough? I don't understand.
                                                  Wow, another Philly guy..I'm in my element. I'm NOT romantically involved with any women other than my wife..did you even read my post.. I said I was talking on the phone to 2 women.. just a friendship, but I was feeling something for both of them in a little way.. I know how to be a good husband..
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                                                  • billysink
                                                    Restricted User
                                                    • 03-29-09
                                                    • 5172

                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by Swinging Johnson
                                                    If you would allow your wife to listen to those conversations word for word then you're good. If you wouldn't then you're already cheating.
                                                    Bare bones fukkin truth here.
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                                                    • pulledclear
                                                      SBR Hall of Famer
                                                      • 02-19-12
                                                      • 6684

                                                      #27
                                                      Good lord. Dead as a hammer.
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                                                      • PhillyFlyers
                                                        SBR Hall of Famer
                                                        • 09-27-11
                                                        • 8245

                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by Philly-Pride33
                                                        Wow, another Philly guy..I'm in my element. I'm NOT romantically involved with any women other than my wife..did you even read my post.. I said I was talking on the phone to 2 women.. just a friendship, but I was feeling something for both of them in a little way.. I know how to be a good husband..
                                                        You ARE in your element haha. Philly taking over SBR.

                                                        You said you have romantic feelings for these other 2 women, yes?

                                                        Simple answer, bro.

                                                        You are married. Don't get involved. If your wife was doing what you are doing to her with two other men......how would you feel?
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                                                        • Kermit
                                                          BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                                          • 09-27-10
                                                          • 32555

                                                          #29
                                                          Sammy, where did you meet your wife at?
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                                                          • Philly-Pride33
                                                            SBR MVP
                                                            • 12-18-13
                                                            • 1366

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by Kermit
                                                            Sammy, where did you meet your wife at?
                                                            POF
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                                                            • Philly-Pride33
                                                              SBR MVP
                                                              • 12-18-13
                                                              • 1366

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by PhillyFlyers
                                                              You ARE in your element haha. Philly taking over SBR.

                                                              You said you have romantic feelings for these other 2 women, yes?

                                                              Simple answer, bro.

                                                              You are married. Don't get involved. If your wife was doing what you are doing to her with two other men......how would you feel?
                                                              I hear ya on both counts.. I'd feel like shit..
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                                                              • TiredPro
                                                                SBR Wise Guy
                                                                • 01-17-12
                                                                • 672

                                                                #32
                                                                Make the two other women play your plays for a week. They'll be gone faster than shirt through a goose.......
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                                                                • Cuse0323
                                                                  BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                                                  • 12-09-09
                                                                  • 30169

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Already cheating brah, end the shit and live your life. Your wife deserves that too.
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                                                                  • pulledclear
                                                                    SBR Hall of Famer
                                                                    • 02-19-12
                                                                    • 6684

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Fat fckng Sammy.....married a 90 year old.
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                                                                    • The Kraken
                                                                      BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                                                      • 12-25-11
                                                                      • 28918

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Not having sex? Seems to be bothering you. Start by looking in the mirror. Best advice I ever got. Go from there.
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