‘Daddy is a hero and an angel’ BY CHRISTINE ARMARIO Courtesy of Newsday October 27, 2005 In Hunter Youngblood's world, there are good guys and bad guys, heroes and angels. His father is one of the good guys who went to fight the bad guys in Iraq. And when he died in July after being hit by an explosive device, he became both a hero and an angel. "Daddy never gave up," the 4-year-old tells his mother, Laura Youngblood, of South Hempstead. Maybe it was the news report he overheard about the suicide bombings at Baghdad's Palestine Hotel. Or the announcement yesterday that military deaths had now climbed to 2,001 in Iraq. But slowly, his simple understanding of the world is starting to change. "Why did Daddy die?" Laura Youngblood said her son asked her a couple of days ago. "Why couldn't he fly away? Like Batman?" Batman is who his father, Travis Youngblood, a 26-year-old medic with the Marines, was supposed to dress up as and go trick-or-treating with his son for Halloween when he got home after eight months in Iraq. Hunter was going to be Robin. When he and his mother went shopping for costumes a month ago, though, Hunter changed his mind. "Can I be Batman now?" he asked. Laura Youngblood said yes. Hunter had, after all, experienced enough to earn himself the title. "Little by little he understands more and more," she said tearfully. "I can't shield him from the world." In August, Hunter attended his father's funeral at Arlington National Cemetery. It was little Hunter who accepted his father's Purple Heart. "Daddy's present" is what he calls the gold and purple medallion. "He doesn't like anyone else touching it," she said, "because it's his and Daddy gave it to him." It was likewise Hunter who took pictures of his new baby sister, Emma, at the hospital a month ago. "She looks like me," Hunter told his mother then. "And who else?" she asked him. "My Daddy." And when he catches his mother crying in a moment of grief, Hunter comforts her. "Do you miss Daddy?" he asks her then. "Sometimes he says he misses Daddy, too," Laura Youngblood said. "And sometimes he says, 'We'll be OK.'" What Travis Youngblood would have wished for his children usually seems clear to her. He sat his son down before going to Iraq and, in good-guy and bad-guy terms, explained why he was going to war. And when her husband died, it was in simple words that Laura explained his death. Daddy was now an angel. The future, though, and the grieving process don't fit any vocabulary. She still writes to her husband through e-mail and letters, and calls his phone, just to hear his voice. She always gets the same message. "You've reached Travis," he says, "I'm not here." She tells her son and daughter that Daddy is watching over them every day. It's a daunting thing for a child to understand, but somehow, Hunter almost does, she said. "Daddy is a hero and an angel," Hunter tells her. And sometimes, maybe when no one else is around, he says he talks to his daddy. And Daddy says, "We're going to be OK."
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smokenjoke
SBR Hall of Famer
10-16-12
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#39519
Originally posted by Fidel_CashFlow
Id have to hunch over to stab you in ya back Smokey
I do admire your confidence coming from someone standing merely a few feet off the ground and all
Keep thinkin big son !!!!!!
Do you even lift bro.
Oh yeah, you do!!!
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Fidel_CashFlow
SBR Aristocracy
12-03-12
53970
#39520
good stuff PG
sup Smokey
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Fidel_CashFlow
SBR Aristocracy
12-03-12
53970
#39521
Memorial Day is not to be confused with Veterans Day; Memorial Day is a day of remembering the men
and women who died while serving, while Veterans Day celebrates the service of all U.S. military veterans.
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smokenjoke
SBR Hall of Famer
10-16-12
8285
#39522
All good FIDDY. How you? What's the plan for today?
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Fidel_CashFlow
SBR Aristocracy
12-03-12
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#39523
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Fidel_CashFlow
SBR Aristocracy
12-03-12
53970
#39524
Originally posted by smokenjoke
All good FIDDY. How you? What's the plan for today?
hoping to catch a few hours sleep here before long, when I wake up we might go to a BBQ at my cousins
(who can actually BBQ other things besides hotdogs and hamburgers)
whats on your slate ?
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smokenjoke
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10-16-12
8285
#39525
Originally posted by Fidel_CashFlow
hoping to catch a few hours sleep here before long, when I wake up we might go to a BBQ at my cousins
(who can actually BBQ other things besides hotdogs and hamburgers)
whats on your slate ?
The weather man calling for a storm but it looks like he's wrong. So I have some burgers and dogs I'm gonna burn up on the grill and look to see what else I can fire up besides the herbal.
Enjoy your rest. I take it your punching in tonight. I'll catch you on the rebound.
Gentz, good luck & enjoy the day!!!
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Fidel_CashFlow
SBR Aristocracy
12-03-12
53970
#39526
Originally posted by smokenjoke
The weather man calling for a storm but it looks like he's wrong. So I have some burgers and dogs I'm gonna burn up on the grill and look to see what else I can fire up besides the herbal.
Enjoy your rest. I take it your punching in tonight. I'll catch you on the rebound.
Gentz, good luck & enjoy the day!!!
yeah we worried a bit bout the weather also
hopefully it stays away so everyone can get what their intending to done today
win a couple baseball bets for me today while im catching some Zzzzzz
big early card today
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smokenjoke
SBR Hall of Famer
10-16-12
8285
#39544
Originally posted by Fidel_CashFlow
Hello SmokenJoke
Sup Cflow shouldn't you be resting bout this time.
Dont you know lack of sleep stunts your growth¿
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smokenjoke
SBR Hall of Famer
10-16-12
8285
#39545
Originally posted by smokenjoke
Sup Cflow shouldn't you be resting bout this time.
Dont you know lack of sleep stunts your growth¿
Opps, too late
Originally posted by Fidel_CashFlow
Smokey its time we get your love life a jolt again my friend
Get back out there in the field and see what happens
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What's your username on this site¿
Is it "lil Fidel"
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Da Manster!
SBR Posting Legend
07-13-07
17720
#39546
Accept what cannot be changed. Once you accept the fact that life is not fair, you will become more at peace with yourself. Instead of obsessing over how unfair life is, just focus on what you can control and change it for the better.
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CountNo_Account
SBR MVP
12-04-12
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#39547
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CountNo_Account
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12-04-12
3410
#39548
Smokey!!! Rough week, I'm retreating into a temporary but satisfying abandonment of my usual routine and taking a few days of staycation at the crib..