perfect age to have a child

[battle4life]

over under 30

[Br0nxer]

will you please leave this forum forever loser

[Djstucky]

Around 30...don't really think it matters if someone is 29 or 31...teens and early 20'sto immature...need to be a kid not have one...not to mention fun things to do before having the additional responsibility...if you wait too long not enough energy to keep up...don't want to be 70 watching you son/daughter graduate...

[TR88]

:hmmm:

[TR88]

:jump:

[gauchojake]

never
i have 2. it's not for men. girls love that shit. spread your seed and get out.

[Ace_of_Spades]

Do me a favor and pull the trigger

[jjgold]

no age

destruction of a mans life financially and mentally

not a world for children anymore

[chilidog]

My wife and I are both 33 and just had our first child. I would say it's the perfect age. When you're in your 20s, you're still a kid. You're still figuring out who you are. You're still partying it up. Things start to settle down in your 30s. So that's my vote.

[blackbeSSt]

i was 29 for #1 and 31 for #2

[doublej95]

never.

[str]

If you can't feed them, don't breed them.

Simple as that.

[opie1988]

37.

[Sportsbetting123]

i was 29 for #1 and 31 for #2

Exact same thing for me. I am 40 now and wouldn't change our timing.

[dice]

30/27 years for male/female. Right around 30 is optimal for each in today's world.

[PAULYPOKER]

..............

[dice]

Paulypoker, you need to watch the movie Idiocracy. As time goes forward, the percentage of "duds" relative to the entire populations increases. Also, don't forget Darwin's theory.

[doublej95]

best thing to do is join Big Brother/Big Sisters, take some kid out to wal-mart and buy him a toy, go shoot some hoops and take kid back home.

[Mr KLC]

25 in our family. My grandfather was 25 when he had his first child (a son). My father was 25 when he had his first child (me, a son). I was 25 when I had my first child (a son). That means I should have a grandson in about 6 1/2 years.

[allabout the $$$]

had my first @ 20 and my 2nd @ 25 25 was good at the time 20 was young but now that he is 17 its not bad at all was rough being so young but now we are looking at colleges and i can still relate to alot of the issues he has to a certain extent which is why im kind of glad i had him so young

[WvGambler]

Had my first at 26. Perfect age in my opinion. Don't want to be an old man when I finally get my life back.

[sneakerhead]

When u got hair on ur balls, it's time

[jarvol]

World is already overpopulated. Stop breeding unless you and your mate are both good stock. 99% of couples are not good stock.

[Masu485]

Because of biology's imperative that we all reproduce as much as possible, you can have kids throughout your whole life. In fact, from a biological point of view, the best time to have a child would be when the parents are still young enough to defend it and nurture it. This would mean having children at 17 or 18 years old, and people of the majority of cultures have been doing this for thousands of years. It is only in the 20th C that we see couples holding off childbirth until their mid to late 20s.

In terms of nowadays, I'd say the best time to have a child is never, but no one wants to hear that because they are being controlled by biology. Everyone just wants to have kids for their own selfish reasons. Everyone is a fukking sheep and it makes me sick. When people have kids they think they are creating little miracles, people congratulate them. Newsflash, any bitch in heat can get pregnant, it's not an accomplishment.

[Ricki Roma]

The answer is never..

[daneblazer]

push

[baskets]

If you can't feed them, don't breed them. Simple as that.

lol, the motto of the majority of third world countries is the exact opposite of that.

[opie1988]

What a bunch of selfish, miserable prikks in here.

Imagine if your parents had been as self-absorbed and bitter toward parenthood as you all are now?

If you think having a child is going to cost you lots of money and at times be extremely taxing on your personal life.....then you're 100% right.
It is.

But if you can't see past these "inconveniences", and see the joys of fatherhood that far outweigh the negatives......then you're badly missing out on what life is all about.

[ACoochy]

What a bunch of selfish, miserable prikks in here. Imagine if your parents had been as self-absorbed and bitter toward parenthood as you all are now? If you think having a child is going to cost you lots of money and at times be extremely taxing on your personal life.....then you're 100% right. It is. But if you can't see past these "inconveniences", and see the joys of fatherhood that far outweigh the negatives......then you're badly missing out on what life is all about.

+1...Poor bunch of brokearse degenerates in this thread...Jarvol needs to take a long walk off a short pier imo...

Steering back to topic though. Best time physically for female to have kids is before the age of 20, that way their bodies are still elastic enough to bounce back and can handle the trauma of chld bearing much much easier...Financially though, its a whole different ball game...

[Mr KLC]

What a bunch of selfish, miserable prikks in here.

Imagine if your parents had been as self-absorbed and bitter toward parenthood as you all are now?

If you think having a child is going to cost you lots of money and at times be extremely taxing on your personal life.....then you're 100% right.
It is.

But if you can't see past these "inconveniences", and see the joys of fatherhood that far outweigh the negatives......then you're badly missing out on what life is all about.

Either that or that they can't get laid in the first place.

[onlooker]

I was 24. My thinking is the cut off age is 35. You don't want to be to damn old when the kids are in their teens or even 18 and moving on with their life, so your not retirement age when your "free" of the responsibility of them.

I'm 34 now and my son is 9, and it is great I can horse around with him, throw footballs, play basketball, etc etc. Without being to old to do so. You can enjoy your kids growing ages more, when your at a younger age.

He is like my little brother.

Just my opinion.

[zam77]

Had my first at 26. Perfect age in my opinion. Don't want to be an old man when I finally get my life back.

agreed 100%.

I was 24. My thinking is the cut off age is 35. You don't want to be to damn old when the kids are in their teens or even 18 and moving on with their life, so your not retirement age when your "free" of the responsibility of them. I'm 34 now and my son is 9, and it is great I can horse around with him, throw footballs, play basketball, etc etc. Without being to old to do so. You can enjoy your kids growing ages more, when your at a younger age. He is like my little brother. Just my opinion.

Same ages as you onlooker. Just went to my sons first 4th grade basketball game this morning... where things start getting a bit more competitive and entertaining ya know. He had 4 points, 3 steals and 2 assists. I was so freakin proud of him... a feeling I couldn't replace with anything.

[jjgold]

Depends what your looking for

I see the destruction it can do $$$ to mans life especially if your just middle class or below
Its probably just as risky as gambling in todays world

At least 50% of adults have no business having children for a variety of reasons

[neverstoppers23]

around 25-27

[jjgold]

Crazy as this sounds when Shari 1st came here i got all caught up in here and went a little crazy

I actually told her I wanted a child with her and I think I creeped her out

anyway just was lonely I guess and saw kids around neighborhood and reacted