World already 2.5 billion people that go hungry, y would u want to add to that?? Think about it as for every child you ppl have over 200 kids around the world will go without because of ur selfish actions
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Inkwell77
SBR MVP
02-03-11
3227
#37
Thinking life is about having a kid is narrow minded.
Life is about many many things. I would argue a person who goes through their life helping hundreds of people has done much more for society and this world than a person has done by having a kid. Having a kid is nothing to be proud of and no one should be congratulated for having a kid. Raising a kid to be a productive member of society is something to be proud of! And that deed should be commended!
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dom75
SBR Wise Guy
10-11-10
779
#38
somwhere in your 30's.... howevr just keep in mind that once you have a child they will be staying with you for atleast 20 years.
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Blondie
SBR MVP
06-19-08
2823
#39
I am not sure if there is a perfect age that can be generalized for everyone. People mature at different ages, want different things in life, and have different aspirations for their future. The perfect age would depend on each of these factors and others.
If you want to travel around the world when you are young then you would not want to have a child in your early 20's, but if you want to be young enough to enjoy your grandkids and be able to travel etc when you are older then you would want to start sooner than if not.
It's all about when the person is ready to take on the massive responsibility..
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Duff85
SBR MVP
06-15-10
2920
#40
Was very nearly 26 when we had our first (this year). Guessing i'll be around 28 when we have our second. Nothing I achieve in my life will come close to being a Dad.
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seaborneq
SBR Posting Legend
09-08-06
22556
#41
As late as possible, enjoy life first, then enjoy your child(ren). Only the privledged few get to enjoy parenthood without giving up something else..
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King Mayan
SBR Posting Legend
09-22-10
21330
#42
18.. You'll become a man quick. A lot of Sacrifice but the love of a child is the greatest thing in the world.
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Bluehorseshoe
SBR Posting Legend
07-13-06
15057
#43
"The perfect age to have a child..............."
"Let me think about that."
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Pokerjoe
SBR Wise Guy
04-17-09
704
#44
Originally posted by Djstucky
Around 30...don't really think it matters if someone is 29 or 31...teens and early 20'sto immature...need to be a kid not have one...not to mention fun things to do before having the additional responsibility...if you wait too long not enough energy to keep up...don't want to be 70 watching you son/daughter graduate...
Bingo.
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FourLengthsClear
SBR MVP
12-29-10
3808
#45
Originally posted by gauchojake
never
i have 2. it's not for men. girls love that shit. spread your seed and get out.
..... and people wonder why western societies are falling apart!
I was 26 and 28 when my two kids were born which was just about the right time for us. A lot depends on the individuals and their circumstances though.
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Big Bear
SBR Aristocracy
11-01-11
43253
#46
Originally posted by jjgold
no age
destruction of a mans life financially and mentally
not a world for children anymore
not a world for children anymore? JJ you crack me up man where do you come up with this shit?