I like Sarah McLachlan

[MoneySportsGuy]

hey same here my man, its going to be full on competition. I heard sportsgirl has some nasty elbow so I am going to bring a facemask, goggles, and umm a mouthpiece.

[mofome]

Yes it does ...

http://www.sbrforum.com/Handicappers...ncy-Allen.aspx

i have the sudden urge to touch myself in all the wrong places.

[MoneySportsGuy]

yeah just crazy all the @$@$@ that happend. just amazing too I mean 5 years and then BOOM. makes you wonder about people and take a step back. I'll have to tell you all about it over drinks sometime.

[MoneySportsGuy]

haha yeah it was in my city Chicago!! All an accident and Dave and the band had nothing to do with that but ya wow how bad that must of been for those tourists...

yeah that was nuts man haha remember that story so nasty. anyways how is Chicago? I am going to get up there myself soon, got a friend used to be in majors starting some stuff up there going to get in touch with him and see about something in the sports field.

[mofome]

Yes it does ...

http://www.sbrforum.com/Handicappers...ncy-Allen.aspx

http://www.sbrforum.com/Handicappers/121-Joe-Vandercook.aspx

[Robyn]

Scary how two people who were at one time very close, can become complete strangers over time.

[Sportsgirl]

http://www.sbrforum.com/Handicappers...andercook.aspx

Looks like a match.

[Sportsgirl]

Scary how two people who were at one time very close, can become complete strangers over time.

But not us

[mofome]

yeah just crazy all the @$@$@ that happend. just amazing too I mean 5 years and then BOOM. makes you wonder about people and take a step back. I'll have to tell you all about it over drinks sometime.

how recent was this? break ups are hard man, any time you want to talk, please feel free. Im writing a book about perspective, relationships, appreciation, and things of that nature. I love to talk with people even if they feel the need to repeat themselves a million times. The fact is, no matter how hard we try, we can't out think our heart. Time is the only thing that allows things to get better and i'll be there if you ever just want to talk to get from one moment to the next. Thats all you can do. I can't imagine losing someone after 5 years.

[mofome]

Scary how two people who were at one time very close, can become complete strangers over time.

Thats the truth.

[MoneySportsGuy]

Scary how two people who were at one time very close, can become complete strangers over time.

Oh Robyn, if I told you the full story you would not believe it. Or even half the story.


Still trying to make sense of it, and its annoying because its really impossible to do that. Talked with so many of my friends family etc that knew her, me , random people and it just doesnt add up. Which is tough to hear, that some things you just dont know. Grrr

[Robyn]

i'm not naked anymore.

[mofome]

i'm not naked anymore.

thread killer.

[Robyn]

Oh Robyn, if I told you the full story you would not believe it. Or even half the story.


Still trying to make sense of it, and its annoying because its really impossible to do that. Talked with so many of my friends family etc that knew her, me , random people and it just doesnt add up. Which is tough to hear, that some things you just dont know. Grrr

That's why communication is so important. The minute you sense something may be wrong, it should be discussed.

Lemme guess...she met someone online?

[Robyn]

thread killer.

ok, i'm naked again. but only spiritually. not physically.

[Sportsgirl]

how recent was this? break ups are hard man, any time you want to talk, please feel free. Im writing a book about perspective, relationships, appreciation, and things of that nature. I love to talk with people even if they feel the need to repeat themselves a million times. The fact is, no matter how hard we try, we can't out think our heart. Time is the only thing that allows things to get better and i'll be there if you ever just want to talk to get from one moment to the next. Thats all you can do. I can't imagine losing someone after 5 years.

It has been my experience that time heals all wounds. things that are not meant to be, aren't. And when you step back, take time, you see that , while things didn't work out, it was ultimatley the best thing.

[5 star bomb]

yeah that was nuts man haha remember that story so nasty. anyways how is Chicago? I am going to get up there myself soon, got a friend used to be in majors starting some stuff up there going to get in touch with him and see about something in the sports field.

Oh its awesome here. Your buddy was in the majors? Who is he? There is a lot of stuff to do here, the summer is just amazing. Winter is still fun but summer in the Windy City dont know if there can be a better place in the world

[Sportsgirl]

Oh Robyn, if I told you the full story you would not believe it. Or even half the story.


Still trying to make sense of it, and its annoying because its really impossible to do that. Talked with so many of my friends family etc that knew her, me , random people and it just doesnt add up. Which is tough to hear, that some things you just dont know. Grrr

Tell me the story. I am an excellent listener if you need one. I will PM you my e-mail if you need to talk.

[Sportsgirl]

i'm not naked anymore.

[MoneySportsGuy]

how recent was this? break ups are hard man, any time you want to talk, please feel free. Im writing a book about perspective, relationships, appreciation, and things of that nature. I love to talk with people even if they feel the need to repeat themselves a million times. The fact is, no matter how hard we try, we can't out think our heart. Time is the only thing that allows things to get better and i'll be there if you ever just want to talk to get from one moment to the next. Thats all you can do. I can't imagine losing someone after 5 years.

yeah I really appreciate it. its just crazy when you hear the full story. and it sucks because its not like bragging, but damn I am a good guy. I am completely unique in so many ways and I love it. its always funny how I'll tell a girl that and then random times, I will get something like, "wow you are right bla bla haha."

but yeah right on about time. this happend back in Sept/Oct and its crazy because feel so much better about stuff now and it still flahes back at times about differnt things.

it was really tough - I'll admit it very emotional and finally December its like a light bulb and realized its all for a reason.

kinda sucks though about being unique, as it seems true when somebody is so great and nice they get screwed over the most. I'll have to defintely tell you about it sometime, love to get another opinon on everything as it seems I have had so so many but to me its never enough because I always love to hear other peoples views, experiences, ideas, opinions because no matter what you can always learn more and make your own life better when you share yourself to those that care

crazy too how it seems I am often guy that is supportive and there for people but its nice to know others have your back as well. great feeling that can never be described how much it means.

[5 star bomb]

It has been my experience that time heals all wounds. things that are not meant to be, aren't. And when you step back, take time, you see that , while things didn't work out, it was ultimatley the best thing.

yea I agree. I had a real rough break up back in 03. I was devastated for like a whole year almost. I wasnt even trying to get a new girl or even talk to them. I was in a bad funk. Finally one day one of my buddies knocked some sense into me and told me to wake the fukk up and get back out there and just find a new lady. I look back at it now and laugh at how stupid I was. But it was the first and only time that I was truly in love with a girl and I was 18 at the time.

[mofome]

It has been my experience that time heals all wounds. things that are not meant to be, aren't. And when you step back, take time, you see that , while things didn't work out, it was ultimatley the best thing.

the intensity of lost love is more powerful than any thought we'll ever have. you just have to have good friends who won't let you beat yourself up while you're down. eventually, you look back and can't believe how badly this person hurt you, you can't even truly recognize just how badly you felt for that time, as much as you can simply identify with the fact that you know you never want to take that risk again. obviously, we all take the risk again because the same loneliness we felt after the break up begins to set in as we get older without a partner. its not as intense an emotion, but its constant for some.

[MoneySportsGuy]

That's why communication is so important. The minute you sense something may be wrong, it should be discussed.

Lemme guess...she met someone online?

I dont think that...but you never know. I still dont know. It completely stopped all talking just one day. Well she stopped talking, and nothing I could do about it.

Your right though communication is key and that is thing realize more and more with her, she never wanted to talk. I mean she finally blew up at me over the phone saying oh she felt this and felt that and that was so big because I was shocked at just some of what she said. And then she did what she always did, "Oh I would say more but I will regret it" and then she would never finish anything. UGH

[Glenn Danzig]

Am I the only one who doesn't know who Sarah Mac is?

[Sportsgirl]

yea I agree. I had a real rough break up back in 03. I was devastated for like a whole year almost. I wasnt even trying to get a new girl or even talk to them. I was in a bad funk. Finally one day one of my buddies knocked some sense into me and told me to wake the **** up and get back out there and just find a new lady. I look back at it now and laugh at how stupid I was. But it was the first and only time that I was truly in love with a girl and I was 18 at the time.

Happened to me, too. 9 months of tears - then - boom! I realized it would have been wrong for that relationship to work out, and I lamented having wasted so much time. But you have to go through it to know better.

[MoneySportsGuy]

Oh its awesome here. Your buddy was in the majors? Who is he? There is a lot of stuff to do here, the summer is just amazing. Winter is still fun but summer in the Windy City dont know if there can be a better place in the world

yeah good family friend of ours, John Cangelosi.

he played on the WS Marlins 1997. really awesome guy. I need to get in touch as he was a coach for the Cubs I believe 2nd base a little ways back then I think last he was doing coaching in minor leagues and then stopped to do his own thing.

[Sportsgirl]

the intensity of lost love is more powerful than any thought we'll ever have. you just have to have good friends who won't let you beat yourself up while you're down. eventually, you look back and can't believe how badly this person hurt you, you can't even truly recognize just how badly you felt for that time, as much as you can simply identify with the fact that you know you never want to take that risk again. obviously, we all take the risk again because the same loneliness we felt after the break up begins to set in as we get older without a partner. its not as intense an emotion, but its constant for some.

My best friend at the time said to me:

"You can talk about Pete for 5 minutes and that's it. no more the rest of the night."

She was the best.

I think the thrill of being loved and falling in love draws us in no matter what our past.

[Robyn]

That's where men and women are so completely different. When two people are close, they assume the other knows exactly what they are thinking or going through. Relationships are hard. They are work. And quite often, they beat you down.

[mofome]

yeah I really appreciate it. its just crazy when you hear the full story. and it sucks because its not like bragging, but damn I am a good guy. I am completely unique in so many ways and I love it. its always funny how I'll tell a girl that and then random times, I will get something like, "wow you are right bla bla haha."

but yeah right on about time. this happend back in Sept/Oct and its crazy because feel so much better about stuff now and it still flahes back at times about differnt things.

it was really tough - I'll admit it very emotional and finally December its like a light bulb and realized its all for a reason.

kinda sucks though about being unique, as it seems true when somebody is so great and nice they get screwed over the most. I'll have to defintely tell you about it sometime, love to get another opinon on everything as it seems I have had so so many but to me its never enough because I always love to hear other peoples views, experiences, ideas, opinions because no matter what you can always learn more and make your own life better when you share yourself to those that care

crazy too how it seems I am often guy that is supportive and there for people but its nice to know others have your back as well. great feeling that can never be described how much it means.

my friend, ive spent countless hours being there for my friends when their relationships go wrong. the strongest trait of mine is my empathy. when someone details for me their emotions, i can feel a bit of everything they say and that allows me to better help them cope in the moment. the one thing i care about more than anything is that everyone i know feels happy and has hope for something. hope is important. i could have 1 dollar and be the happiest person in the world if all my friends were well. it is, quite genuinely, the only thing i care about.

as you've depicted a bit in yourself, i see the world differently than most. it allows you different types of fulfillment and may leave you exposed to a more passionate hurt, but its well worth while. i respect your openness and you can contact me at absolutely any time.

[Robyn]

Am I the only one who doesn't know who Sarah Mac is?

She is one of those hairy armpit female singers from the 90's.

[Sportsgirl]

That's where men and women are so completely different. When two people are close, they assume the other knows exactly what they are thinking or going through. Relationships are hard. They are work. And quite often, they beat you down.

They only beat you down if both people aren't working. It is the failure of most relationships when one person, not both, just quits.

[MoneySportsGuy]

the intensity of lost love is more powerful than any thought we'll ever have. you just have to have good friends who won't let you beat yourself up while you're down. eventually, you look back and can't believe how badly this person hurt you, you can't even truly recognize just how badly you felt for that time, as much as you can simply identify with the fact that you know you never want to take that risk again. obviously, we all take the risk again because the same loneliness we felt after the break up begins to set in as we get older without a partner. its not as intense an emotion, but its constant for some.

yeah I know exactly what your saying. for me the toughest part is that I just dont know and when you analyze things...wow that is really tough and hard on you emotionally and mentally. I mean not even the respect to talk to me once or something? I mean I give myself, and do EVERYTHING for her and her family, and even my family does so much and this is what I get.

really crazy how so many people are out their in the world so sick and just dont give a shitt about anything. so sad to think about.

what really gets me, is dont regret anything, but you just have all the memories, and recently just thinking all the times I should have seen writing on the wall, but you just are like, wow that was 5 years of my life. I mean geez 21 and almost 5 years talk about prime time to be doing things with your life and thing is so much was going on but then when it fails, and not my choice, but your like, wow. what a waste. and yeah its an experience and I learned from it, but damn would have liked to learn the same thing in 3 months and not have all that failure after 5 years.

its true what family and friends say - at least you didnt have a kid from it haha

[Sportsgirl]

my friend, ive spent countless hours being there for my friends when their relationships go wrong. the strongest trait of mine is my empathy. when someone details for me their emotions, i can feel a bit of everything they say and that allows me to better help them cope in the moment. the one thing i care about more than anything is that everyone i know feels happy and has hope for something. hope is important. i could have 1 dollar and be the happiest person in the world if all my friends were well. it is, quite genuinely, the only thing i care about.

as you've depicted a bit in yourself, i see the world differently than most. it allows you different types of fulfillment and may leave you exposed to a more passionate hurt, but its well worth while. i respect your openness and you can contact me at absolutely any time.

I heart you more.

[mofome]

My best friend at the time said to me:

"You can talk about Pete for 5 minutes and that's it. no more the rest of the night."

She was the best.

I think the thrill of being loved and falling in love draws us in no matter what our past.

well your friend and I are very different! ive found that people need to get things off their chest (im the same) and the comfort you offer them in letting them know its ok, is therapeutic.

being 'in love' is amazing. i don't have much experience with it, but its something i look forward to finding again.

[MoneySportsGuy]

my friend, ive spent countless hours being there for my friends when their relationships go wrong. the strongest trait of mine is my empathy. when someone details for me their emotions, i can feel a bit of everything they say and that allows me to better help them cope in the moment. the one thing i care about more than anything is that everyone i know feels happy and has hope for something. hope is important. i could have 1 dollar and be the happiest person in the world if all my friends were well. it is, quite genuinely, the only thing i care about.

as you've depicted a bit in yourself, i see the world differently than most. it allows you different types of fulfillment and may leave you exposed to a more passionate hurt, but its well worth while. i respect your openness and you can contact me at absolutely any time.

man I really appreciate it and what your saying. truely touches my heart and its a good feeling to know others are there. I am just so glad have such a strong supportive family and friends as could not have done it without them.

your right about allowing yourself to see other experiences ideas etc, because you do leearn so much. and its defintely worth it in my opinion as well, because so much has been gained that I could have ever imagined. I am just glad to always be there as well for people, its funny I know some people couldnt stand it, but, I think your like me in this, to me it means the world when somebody is open and honest and lays their heart out like that. I think one reason is simply because I do it myself and yeah it hurts at times but I'll never change, just have to be more cautious possibly in future about somethings. but being there for somebody, just to listen or talk to and share experiences and ideas and your heart, its a beautiful thing indeed.

we'll definitely get in touch about it and it will be some good times learning and laughing