That is why I have never wanted to get married or have kids. I would get married before I had a kid, both are never going to happen. Having a kid would ruin my life and destroy everything in my life. I am much happier when I am single.
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Hold on, Nicky, you may be safe after all. But be sure to check Federal laws for Canada to be sure.Originally posted by Nickelicious
Québec
Québec, which unlike the other provinces has a Civil Code, has never recognized a common-law partnership as a kind of marriage. However, many laws in Québec explicitly apply to common-law partners (called conjoints de fait) in "de facto unions" (marriages being "de jure unions"), as they do to spouses.[5]
Common-law partners ("conjoints de fait"), however, have no legal rights between them: no alimony, no family patrimony, no compensatory allowance and no matrimonial regime, for example.Comment -
Originally posted by Nickelicious
Excellent work Nickelicious. Thank you for helping my friend Nicky.Comment -
nicky, you are the man, thanks. that's what the notaries told me..
pucker, thanks for looking out for me.. you do know your stuff though..Comment -
Sorry Nicky! Marrying MrsMonkey was great and now with a history of ups and downs even better!!! Since your so concerned, maybe have your cousin move in with you and you can teach him how to beat the closing number!
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you're one of the few monkey.. good for you. monkey, i heard this whole process has been going on now for 3 weeks and i swear, the guy has lost about 22 lbs. he looks sick and has aged a lot in the last 3 weeks. he don't eat anymore, he's sick and won't even come over to watch a game here. and he loves baseball too.. he don't care about anything.. his heart is shattered. he really loved her too.. and him being poor now and her taking all and having another guy is also killing him..Originally posted by MrMonkeySorry Nicky! Marrying MrsMonkey was great and now with a history of ups and downs even better!!! Since your so concerned, maybe have your cousin move in with you and you can teach him how to beat the closing number!
i pray to god i never ever live through this.. and you know what.. i wont'... because i swear to god, i will NEVER get married.... my poor cousin. his life is over. that fukkin gold digger..i'd love to put a hit on her.. if it was my wife, i'd probably do it.. and do the 23 yrs in prison. it'd be well worth it.. fukk herComment -
It took me 2.5 years to get over my wife leaving. Time is the only thing that will help.my poor cousin now wants to die and has nothing else to live forComment -
Originally posted by Richkas
But he WILL get over it.
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While I agree with the basic sentiment that marriage is in most cases a mistake, and to play Devil's advocate here, you kind of have to give her some credit.Originally posted by Nicky Santoro
If she made him happy then that means the life he lived and the things he accomplished may only have been possible with her at his side. Having a child also is a serious payday. While she may not have been working 9-5, she was putting in hours in a different kind of way, raising the kid, making him happy. How can you say she deserves nothing?
I've brought up a pre-nuptial with every girlfriend I've ever had, just to see the reaction. Most treat it like I asked them to get tested for STDs, they are so horrified. It's like accusing them of stealing, which I only understood with my current girlfriend. She is more successful and far more driven than I am, comes from more money than me, and for the most part will be worth more than me for the rest of my life. I brought up a pre-nuptial with her and realized doing so protected her way more than me, the crazy thing is she didn't want to do it. She felt that if you commit yourself to someone, you're giving up more than money/assets, you're giving your time, and if that isn't worth equal amounts to both parties, don't get married.
He got 2 decades of happiness and a son, and while it is a shame the relationship failed, I don't think she's underserving of compensation. Those were her 20 years, too.Comment -
key,
your post was right on the money.. she really was the best mother ever.. she took care of the house and the son so well.. she was by far the best mother i have ever seen.. soccer mom, picks him up from school, prepares his lunches and suppers, house always clean, spoiled him to death.. but she now took it all from him and he loves her to death cause she was a great mom and now he has nothing.. she took over 750,000 from him.. no way she deserves that much.. she never worked a day in her life and my cousin was the one that busted his ass working, and now he lost all taht, and her...
he needs her in his life and he is now begging her to stay and she keeps saying no she wants a divorce. what a fukkin bitch.. i hate her.Comment -
$750,000 for 20 years of having a full-time prostitute, nanny, house cleaner, cook, chauffeur, and surrogate... that seems reasonable, no? Plus, all the time she spent doing those things (for "free) she maybe could have been working or doing something else with her time. Again, I feel bad for your cousin and hope he can get back on his feet, but I mean could you imagine if he left her with nothing? At least he has a career and has established his life. She hasn't been working all this time, hasn't been improving her skills, and hasn't been getting any younger. There's a reason these settlements work out this way; women are at such a huge disadvantage after a divorce. Divorce is messy, pre-nuptials are lovely.Originally posted by Nicky SantoroComment -
Thats about the going rate for a full time piece of pussy for 20 years.she took over 750,000 from him.. no way she deserves that much..
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Thanks Nicky. One thing I know for sure is that the lean and mean Toronto Maple Leafs will run your Montreal Midgets out of the ACC on Oct 1.Originally posted by Nicky Santoro
GOOD TIMES!!!Comment -
i am happily married
have a 5 year old daughter
we count our blessings....not the things we dont have
marriage can be a wonderful thing....just wait until you are 30 to take the leapComment -
Its a huge gamble plain and simple. Divorce rate is pretty tough to look at nowadaysComment -
that's exactly what my cousin told me 5 yrs ago. he said nicky, marriage is a beautiful thing, i am blessed with a great son and a great wife.. and now look.. he lost it all...Originally posted by CaneDawg
of all my 14 married friends i know.. 11 are divorced and the other 3 are miserable. and of the 11 divorced, all 11 lost a lot in the divorce, incl a lot of money.Comment -
My main point is once you get married and if you have kids you are fukkin done and live like a slave forever and like a legal prison
If you are just married and split it is not that bad if you do not have much
If you have lots of money then it does not matter and you can get divorced pay support and alimony but that is for a rare percentageComment
