It doesn't take 2 days to get all of the confirmations after the first one. Once you get the first confirmation, your transaction should either credit immediately if they only need one or in less than an hour if they need more (Coinbase is the strictest that I know of requiring 6 confirmations).
What it sounds like happened is it took 2 days to get a miner to place the transaction you're referring to into a block in order to get that first confirmation. I'm guessing the transaction had an extremely small transaction fee attached that the miners didn't want to take at the time since there were other transactions with higher fees attached. If it was sent from your book, blame them for sending it with such a low fee.
If you're sending the transaction from your own wallet, do some research and see what the going rate is when u send it to get it sent in the next 1 or 2 blocks:
https://bitcoinfees.earn.com/
Of the books I've withdrawn from (Bovada, 5Dimes, BetOnline, Nitrogen), they all sent me a payout with a reasonable fee attached so it confirmed within 1 or 2 blocks. If it took 2 days for a transaction sent by your book to get that first confirmation, they obviously see your payout as a low priority and you may need to consider complaining to them for causing a loss like that or finding another book who will make sure your Bitcoin is confirmed promptly.
With regards to wondering where are all the people who lost when the price dropped; you only lost if you cashed out and sold when the price dipped below the price you acquired it. It's like the stock market, everything is only on paper until you cash out. Some people here probably bought at $15k and are underwater, but they haven't lost yet because they haven't sold it for a loss and the price can rebound.
I sold all of my alts in December and cashed out for a profit and held onto some bitcoin which is now below what I bought ($12k price), but I'm still up overall including the payout I got earlier in the month from 5Dimes because of the profit from the alts. There's some people who didn't have the stomach to watch it drop more and sold out early and took heavy losses, but there's also people who are still holding on and haven't realized any losses yet since they haven't sold.