What's the longest amount of time it took a girl to text you back
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Dim makSBR Rookie
- 02-07-19
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JMobileSBR Posting Legend
- 08-21-10
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#37Bear, I would send a text a long the lines of "hey, just checking on you and the passing away of your uncle. If you're feeling sad, I learned how to juggle kittens to cheer up, jk. Anyways, hit me up for Thirsty Thursday" or something funny like that.
If she doesn't respond, just do your thing.Comment -
stevek173BARRELED IN @ SBR!
- 03-29-08
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#38Her uncle fuggin died? She's back on with her ex. After a text, leaving a message etc that's the last of your effort. Maybe in like a month shoot a text to go out for drinks but absolutely nothing after that.
EDIT: DO NOT be her emotional rag. If she starts complaing about an ex quickly change the subject or feign attention.
Don't get friend zoned man.Comment -
TheMoneyShotBARRELED IN @ SBR!
- 02-14-07
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#39Simple as this.... let a girl know you're interested in her.... without sounding clingy....
If she doesn't text back... it's all good... move onto the next.
But next week... she'll be texting you back.
It's how it works.Comment -
Taylor21SBR Hustler
- 05-23-13
- 89
#40She basically works 12 hour shifts 5 days a week as a receptionist at a hair saloon and works as a hostess at a busy restaurant. She really has limited time to text or even text if shes at work.. But yeah theres other times she could text and just doesn't. Shes got issues for sure, I wouldn't even be surprised if shes not talking to anyone else... I told her shes in the prime of her life, her whole life is ahead of her being 29.
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PharaohUBSBR MVP
- 01-23-07
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#41Have you suggested a specific activity or just vaguely asked to hang out? Sorry have not read whole thread. I would find a dinner place that chicks like in your town that is a little expensive and tell her you’ve really wanted to try this place and ask her if she wants to go. If she’s hot you’re going to have to spend a little money to get her attention. Buy a bottle of wine. If she rejects offer without offering a rain check for a specific night or ignores you then move on. My current gf is hot, double d, and ten years younger than me. She blew me off on our first date. Eventually we got together and she is already telling me loves me and all that. Don’t rush it. Don’t jump right into a dinner offer. Send her a funny meme or joke and let it sit for a day or 2 then ask her out with an actual plan and activity. It took a month or so of talking every few days and not acting desperate. found out later she was kind of seeing someone else at time on and off. I am glad I didn’t give up and that I brushed it off when she first blew me off. also know when to cut your losses. If she says no to a fancy dinner you do not have a shot to begin with and is probably into someone else already.Last edited by PharaohUB; 02-18-19, 04:08 PM.Comment -
Auto DonkSBR Aristocracy
- 09-03-13
- 43559
#428 1/2"Comment -
Auto DonkSBR Aristocracy
- 09-03-13
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#43This girl basically asked if I was gonna be her knight in shining armor and of course I said yes. She is gorgeous, but has issues with previous boyfriends who abused her.. After the knight in shinning armor thing I basically haven't her from her in a week. We texted for 3 weeks and hungout on a Monday, wed, and Friday. I think things were moving a little to fast and shes on the fence if she wants a relationship with me. I asked her if she likes me and she said "I don't not like you.. I like you". On her Facebook shes one of those girls that says she has a black soul, jokingly obviously, but yeah now has trust issues.
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Taylor21SBR Hustler
- 05-23-13
- 89
#44Have you suggested a specific activity or just vaguely asked to hang out? Sorry have not read whole thread. I would find a dinner place that chicks like in your town that is a little expensive and tell her you’ve really wanted to try this place and ask her if she wants to go. If she’s hot you’re going to have to spend a little money to get her attention. Buy a bottle of wine. If she rejects offer without offering a rain check for a specific night or ignores you then move on. My current gf is hot, double d, and ten years younger than me. She blew me off on our first date. Eventually we got together and she is already telling me loves me and all that. Don’t rush it. Don’t jump right into a dinner offer. Send her a funny meme or joke and let it sit for a day or 2 then ask her out with an actual plan and activity. It took a month or so of talking every few days and not acting desperate. found out later she was kind of seeing someone else at time on and off. I am glad I didn’t give up and that I brushed it off when she first blew me off. also know when to cut your losses. If she says no to a fancy dinner you do not have a shot to begin with and is probably into someone else already.Comment -
Taylor21SBR Hustler
- 05-23-13
- 89
#45Also I would like to add if this girl doesn't text me like ever again, she is the wackest person ever!Comment -
stevek173BARRELED IN @ SBR!
- 03-29-08
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#46Yeah if you don't hear from her write her name and number as "hot slut who puts out" on the local men's room wall.
That'll teach her.Comment -
Gaze73SBR MVP
- 01-27-14
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#47You lost her with that shining armor horseshit. Cringe.Comment -
JMobileSBR Posting Legend
- 08-21-10
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#48Post pics to see if she is worth the work.Comment -
eaglesfan371SBR MVP
- 01-08-19
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#49In the past year, a date idea that has never failed to end with sex, a paint bar. Wine + an hour of painting by instructor. It’s fun and so outside the norm of wanna grab drinks, they feel special.Comment -
Auto DonkSBR Aristocracy
- 09-03-13
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#50
guess once your naked with paint squirtin' everywhere, sex isn't far behind........Comment -
PharaohUBSBR MVP
- 01-23-07
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brooks85SBR Aristocracy
- 01-05-09
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#52^bingo, something is up
She basically works 12 hour shifts 5 days a week as a receptionist at a hair saloon and works as a hostess at a busy restaurant. She really has limited time to text or even text if shes at work.. But yeah theres other times she could text and just doesn't. Shes got issues for sure, I wouldn't even be surprised if shes not talking to anyone else... I told her shes in the prime of her life, her whole life is ahead of her being 29.
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Taylor21SBR Hustler
- 05-23-13
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Taylor21SBR Hustler
- 05-23-13
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#55^bingo, something is up
to me that sounds like the kind of jobs I'd expect a girl to be texting all day just like they usually are. Of course, hostess stands at front of the restaurant but I'm sure girls still manage to text. What is she doing as a hostess at 29? That seems odd enough to stay away. That job is usually for teenagers.
Right, I don't work, but have money.. Yeah I don't think she has ambition, although she works 50 hours a week combined at 2 different jobs. She prob makes just over 30k a year.. She dropped out of hs and got her GED. Also she went to beauty school twice and dropped out both times.Comment -
BigJaySBR MVP
- 01-14-12
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#56Comment -
brooks85SBR Aristocracy
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#57^lol
but yeah, sounds like you dodged a bullet.
and don't be the knight in shining armor. Next time a girl ask you to be that laugh in her face and ask "What could you possibly need saving from?"Last edited by brooks85; 02-18-19, 08:02 PM.Comment -
Itsamazing777SBR Posting Legend
- 11-14-12
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#58Too lovey dovey. Be more chill. Let her say that stuff first. My girl works a lot but still texts even when busy a couple hours at most between messages. Weve only been dating a coupme months. Bang her constantlyComment -
dante1BARRELED IN @ SBR!
- 10-31-05
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#59This girl basically asked if I was gonna be her knight in shining armor and of course I said yes. She is gorgeous, but has issues with previous boyfriends who abused her.. After the knight in shinning armor thing I basically haven't her from her in a week. We texted for 3 weeks and hungout on a Monday, wed, and Friday. I think things were moving a little to fast and shes on the fence if she wants a relationship with me. I asked her if she likes me and she said "I don't not like you.. I like you". On her Facebook shes one of those girls that says she has a black soul, jokingly obviously, but yeah now has trust issues.
Taylor I hate to be an ahole my friend and this is not personal at all. I doubt very much this girl wants to be with you, I think she is jerking you around a little. "I don't not like you," is not a sentence you want to hear. and if she admits to a black soul--run the fck away. and I would not personally buy the trust issue bs excuse, she either wants to be with you or she doesn't.
walk away and say nothing to her at all, no text, no phone, if she really cares she will get in touch with you--and even then walk carefully, she may be a real ahole.Comment -
thechaozSBR Posting Legend
- 10-23-09
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#61Taylor I hate to be an ahole my friend and this is not personal at all. I doubt very much this girl wants to be with you, I think she is jerking you around a little. "I don't not like you," is not a sentence you want to hear. and if she admits to a black soul--run the fck away. and I would not personally buy the trust issue bs excuse, she either wants to be with you or she doesn't.
walk away and say nothing to her at all, no text, no phone, if she really cares she will get in touch with you--and even then walk carefully, she may be a real ahole.
Treat her as a side penetrate if the opportunity ever comes around.
DO NOT buy her shit, dinner, coffee, drinks, nothing. If she starts fucken then maybe booze here and there but that's it.
No rides to work, no emotional tampon, gay coffee dates, none of that shit.Comment -
thechaozSBR Posting Legend
- 10-23-09
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captrobeyBARRELED IN @ SBR!
- 09-02-10
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#64She sounds like she is playing games. Way before i was married there was a girl i was interested in. This is going back like 30 years.Would go out with me once in awhile. Did not treat me great . One day i took her to the mountains with a group of friends to a mountain house. And she went over the line and i broke up with her . She thought i would come crawling back to her thinking i was bluffing that she had me wrapped around her finger.
When we went up there she went with her cousin (Who turned out was not her real cousin ) and a Girlfriend of hers. Her GF that she came with ended up hooking up with me. So i basically went and drover there with her in the front seat and on the way back home her FRIEND sat in the front seat because we had hooked up.
She pretty much acted a bitch at times and really took me for granted. I ALWAYS called her before i broke up with her and did EVERYTHING for her.
After she saw we were together at the mountains she called her friend over. She basically wanted to know if she could still be friends with me. She said yes but he is with me now because you pretty much treated him like shit. But if she wanted to go out with us as a group or something that would be fine.
Here is my point where it concerns you . Once i stopped calling her and doing everything for her and showing interest - Her attention to me increased 100 Xs . She called me constantly wanting to get together and called my job so much i almost got fired.
So the best way to see if this girl has any interest in you is to not send any more text. You seem like me a super nice guy. Somewhere out there is the right girl for you. If she does not text you back she does not deserve your attention and time. Do not waste your time on her when there is certainly someone out there that is just waiting to meet someone like you . Before my wife who i have been married 16 years to now, any girl that played games or i caught lying i would dump in a heartbeat. I may not have met my wife if i kept waiting on some girl that was playing games. And you said it yourself about the EX i would be VERY wary of that. You do not want to invest a ton of time into her and just have her run back to the EX . If she has gone back to him so many times she will most likely do it again.Last edited by captrobey; 02-18-19, 10:07 PM.Comment -
Taylor21SBR Hustler
- 05-23-13
- 89
#66She sounds like she is playing games. Way before i was married there was a girl i was interested in. This is going back like 30 years.Would go out with me once in awhile. Did not treat me great . One day i took her to the mountains with a group of friends to a mountain house. And she went over the line and i broke up with her . She thought i would come crawling back to her thinking i was bluffing that she had me wrapped around her finger.
When we went up there she went with her cousin (Who turned out was not her real cousin ) and a Girlfriend of hers. Her GF that she came with ended up hooking up with me. So i basically went and drover there with her in the front seat and on the way back home her FRIEND sat in the front seat because we had hooked up.
She pretty much acted a bitch at times and really took me for granted. I ALWAYS called her before i broke up with her and did EVERYTHING for her.
After she saw we were together at the mountains she called her friend over. She basically wanted to know if she could still be friends with me. She said yes but he is with me now because you pretty much treated him like shit. But if she wanted to go out with us as a group or something that would be fine.
Here is my point where it concerns you . Once i stopped calling her and doing everything for her and showing interest - Her attention to me increased 100 Xs . She called me constantly wanting to get together and called my job so much i almost got fired.
So the best way to see if this girl has any interest in you is to not send any more text. You seem like me a super nice guy. Somewhere out there is the right girl for you. If she does not text you back she does not deserve your attention and time. Do not waste your time on her when there is certainly someone out there that is just waiting to meet someone like you . Before my wife who i have been married 16 years to now, any girl that played games or i caught lying i would dump in a heartbeat. I may not have met my wife if i kept waiting on some girl that was playing games. And you said it yourself about the EX i would be VERY wary of that. You do not want to invest a ton of time into her and just have her run back to the EX . If she has gone back to him so many times she will most likely do it again.Last edited by Taylor21; 02-18-19, 10:33 PM.Comment -
HurryUpAndDrinkSBR Posting Legend
- 08-23-13
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HurryUpAndDrinkSBR Posting Legend
- 08-23-13
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#68Great advice here. Girls will always hit you up if they really want to see you.
Instantly reponding to texts/snapchat/IG makes you look like you have nothing going on and you're waiting around for her.
I always wait AT least an hour to respond. If it's late at night and not a booty call, the next day when I get around to it.
If you are over 30 you are a lost causeComment -
HurryUpAndDrinkSBR Posting Legend
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The KrakenBARRELED IN @ SBR!
- 12-25-11
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#70Yeah I'm not texting her ever again, maybe when she turns 30 in 2 months. I was just so excited to meet someone like her, bc I had/have health issues since June 2017 (neck, jaw, and tinnitus) that I was wayyy too nice towards her. Its hard to meet people, I don't have a conventional 9 to 5 job, my job is different.. I'm just glad I can entertain myself and have hobbies. I bet she will text me back in a week or so (haven't talked to her in 6 days) then I will be a tad stand offish towards her or ask her where shes been or whatever. Also I will say if she texts me back, "oh I thought u found another guy".Comment
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