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  • thechaoz
    SBR Posting Legend
    • 10-23-09
    • 12154

    #36
    Originally posted by magaman
    what state is that?
    wa/nj
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    • thechaoz
      SBR Posting Legend
      • 10-23-09
      • 12154

      #37
      A lot of betas/cuckolds at sbr apparently
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      • dante1
        BARRELED IN @ SBR!
        • 10-31-05
        • 38647

        #38
        Originally posted by maggiethebestdog
        Just because you were a dikk doesn't mean your ex wasn't a dumb --
        Assholes usually attract eachother
        Your kid will be divorced before age 40
        Men are pathetic, women even worse
        Just don't get married and have kids
        Divorce and lack of 2 sane parents creates school shooters



        how astute, the dog boy and his philosophical lesson for today. I really like the "assholes usually attract each other". I imagine you are surrounded by such individuals. "just don't get married and have kids" is an awkward phrase to say the least. And your conclusion, your last phrase is based on actual science I assume.

        this handjob always manages to prove his worth, doesn't he.
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        • Auto Donk
          SBR Aristocracy
          • 09-03-13
          • 43558

          #39
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          • aliceinchains
            SBR High Roller
            • 01-07-18
            • 112

            #40
            thank u for convincing me once again that marriage is not a good idea...i feel gratitude
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            • SharpAngles
              SBR Hall of Famer
              • 04-15-14
              • 9467

              #41
              Damn OP, 36 large? I feel much better about my $5k retainer and $10k of debt the bitch ran up in my name that the judge let her off the hook for.
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              • High3rEl3m3nt
                SBR Hall of Famer
                • 09-28-10
                • 8022

                #42
                She ran up some massive credit card debt and I had to take half too--didn't count that in the figure.
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                • maggiethebestdog
                  SBR Hall of Famer
                  • 12-21-13
                  • 6700

                  #43
                  Originally posted by dante1
                  how astute, the dog boy and his philosophical lesson for today. I really like the "assholes usually attract each other". I imagine you are surrounded by such individuals. "just don't get married and have kids" is an awkward phrase to say the least. And your conclusion, your last phrase is based on actual science I assume.

                  this handjob always manages to prove his worth, doesn't he.
                  You said you were an asshole
                  So I say it and that makes me the bad guy???
                  Humans are too imperfect for marriage
                  That is the most obvious thing imaginable, except to an unrealistic person like you who will fall for that fairytale over and over again

                  Are you saying that lack of quality marriages and the lack of effective parenting isn't the cause of society's epic downfall??? Oh wait, guns are the reason. I forgot.
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                  • BrickJames
                    SBR Hall of Famer
                    • 05-05-11
                    • 9749

                    #44
                    Good thread.

                    I would have married my ex and was planning on it. Luckily for me she let her true colors show before it got that far.

                    She had basically duped me into thinking she was really cool to be around but I realize she was actually a really bitch. Like a No Holds Barred bitch.

                    It was actually kind of sexy sometimes. But most times it was annoying and very stressful.

                    Looking back I'm so glad I didn't marry her it would have been a disaster.

                    I have a way better woman now.
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                    • gauchojake
                      BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                      • 09-17-10
                      • 34116

                      #45
                      Originally posted by High3rEl3m3nt
                      She ran up some massive credit card debt and I had to take half too--didn't count that in the figure.


                      Did you attempt to use her addiction in court/mediation or did you take the high road?
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                      • High3rEl3m3nt
                        SBR Hall of Famer
                        • 09-28-10
                        • 8022

                        #46
                        She weaved a story that attempted to justify everything. I did bring it up to my attorney and the retired judge, who handled our mediation. The problem is that during the beginning part of the divorce process she was all civil and maintaining that 50/50 with our little one was what she wanted. So I didn't play dirty--seems like whoever plays dirtiest first wins, regardless of whether there's any truth to the declaration/response. Or maybe it's just a gender bias thing--one thing that sucks is when the book of lies is thrown at you, and you are forced to defend, it positions you in the seat of "some of this has to be true." Even in the first sit-down between our attorneys and us, her attorney opened with "my client says you are an amazing father and that's rare in these kind of cases." Then, she submits a response that says I am dangerous, she fears for her life, my daughter is scared of me, etc.
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                        • Auto Donk
                          SBR Aristocracy
                          • 09-03-13
                          • 43558

                          #47
                          gotta know how to "finesse" the judge, and it'll go smoothly..... (love those female family law judges)....

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                          • High3rEl3m3nt
                            SBR Hall of Famer
                            • 09-28-10
                            • 8022

                            #48
                            Donk you are a slick willy...I come across as Bush Sr. lol
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                            • bonzaii
                              SBR Hall of Famer
                              • 07-07-17
                              • 5000

                              #49
                              Wanna know how you don't worry about a divorce? Get a prenup or dont get married. Otherwise you should have seen it coming.
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                              • High3rEl3m3nt
                                SBR Hall of Famer
                                • 09-28-10
                                • 8022

                                #50
                                Don't marry redheaded Italians

                                Dating women in their 30s is good times so far
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                                • BrickJames
                                  SBR Hall of Famer
                                  • 05-05-11
                                  • 9749

                                  #51
                                  Originally posted by High3rEl3m3nt
                                  Don't marry redheaded Italians

                                  Dating women in their 30s is good times so far
                                  Dating gets much better for men as we get older, there's a big shift in power in your thirties.
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                                  • maggiethebestdog
                                    SBR Hall of Famer
                                    • 12-21-13
                                    • 6700

                                    #52
                                    Originally posted by High3rEl3m3nt
                                    Don't marry redheaded Italians

                                    Dating women in their 30s is good times so far
                                    Wow
                                    You just don't get it
                                    Chicks get crazier every day they are alive
                                    Keep thinking it gets better
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                                    • High3rEl3m3nt
                                      SBR Hall of Famer
                                      • 09-28-10
                                      • 8022

                                      #53
                                      What's the solution? I am enjoying female attention--I know a lot of posters will claim this, but women like me and it's easier than I remembered--I was loyal to the same woman for 7 years. Can't help myself at the moment
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                                      • maggiethebestdog
                                        SBR Hall of Famer
                                        • 12-21-13
                                        • 6700

                                        #54
                                        Originally posted by High3rEl3m3nt
                                        What's the solution? I am enjoying female attention--I know a lot of posters will claim this, but women like me and it's easier than I remembered--I was loyal to the same woman for 7 years. Can't help myself at the moment
                                        All I am saying is that marrying or getting too serious with a chick will never work out
                                        Every guy thinks they are the exception
                                        Just have fun
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                                        • High3rEl3m3nt
                                          SBR Hall of Famer
                                          • 09-28-10
                                          • 8022

                                          #55
                                          I appreciate the advice and that's my goal for right now. Thank you!
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                                          • bhoor
                                            SBR MVP
                                            • 12-17-12
                                            • 2256

                                            #56
                                            Originally posted by dante1
                                            Wanna know a secret, I told almost nobody this but it is absolutely true. Divorce should be a last resort, if you can't live together I get it but a real try should be made.

                                            My secret. In my life I have been with a pretty decent number of women. I was only married once, lived with two different women and had multiple partners, something I am not proud of. But, as I have written on numerous occasions most of us are just not very nice when it comes to women. I regret my divorce, it was one of the huge mistakes I made in life. It was totally uncalled for, it was totally my fault, I lost a good woman. As it ends up she was the very best woman I was ever with. She was drop dead gorgeous, she was easy to get along with, she was a good mother and I was an asshole. I didn't treat her badly but after 12 years I just had to have more. It haunts me every day of my life.

                                            And you wanna know the very worst part of this story, she remarried after about two years and married a real asshole. So we met one night and she started crying and crying and begged me to take her back. At the time I was just having too much fun. In fact, that very same day I had sex with three different women, again something I am not bragging about and believe me I hate myself for it. So naturally I said ask me for anything at all but don't ask me for that. Another reason to hate myself.

                                            For me it was a huge error and brought on only because of my stupidity and because of sex. If you find yourself in this exact same situation, think long and hard before you make a mistake. If you absolutely cannot live together that is a totally different story.
                                            lol! 3 women in a single night. My life span only affords one woman.
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                                            • bhoor
                                              SBR MVP
                                              • 12-17-12
                                              • 2256

                                              #57
                                              Originally posted by maggiethebestdog
                                              All I am saying is that marrying or getting too serious with a chick will never work out
                                              Every guy thinks they are the exception
                                              Just have fun
                                              You're a pessimistic person. There are always some good women, and, yes, men, too.
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                                              • maggiethebestdog
                                                SBR Hall of Famer
                                                • 12-21-13
                                                • 6700

                                                #58
                                                Originally posted by bhoor
                                                You're a pessimistic person. There are always some good women, and, yes, men, too.
                                                Ok
                                                Best of luck with that
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                                                • BOA12
                                                  SBR Posting Legend
                                                  • 02-19-12
                                                  • 20622

                                                  #59
                                                  Originally posted by maggiethebestdog
                                                  All I am saying is that marrying or getting too serious with a chick will never work out
                                                  Every guy thinks they are the exception
                                                  Just have fun
                                                  Men have dreams, Women have missions. Her mission, crush your dream. The story is consistent . Love 'em, don't fall in love.
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                                                  • mngambler
                                                    SBR MVP
                                                    • 08-01-11
                                                    • 2890

                                                    #60
                                                    only suckers or broke diks get married.
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                                                    • maggiethebestdog
                                                      SBR Hall of Famer
                                                      • 12-21-13
                                                      • 6700

                                                      #61
                                                      These poor fukkers just don't get it
                                                      I must admit it took me way too long to figure it out as well
                                                      Now it is so obvious it is ridiculous
                                                      Any happily married man is no longer a man
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                                                      • High3rEl3m3nt
                                                        SBR Hall of Famer
                                                        • 09-28-10
                                                        • 8022

                                                        #62
                                                        Originally posted by BOA12
                                                        Men have dreams, Women have missions. Her mission, crush your dream. The story is consistent . Love 'em, don't fall in love.
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                                                        • TheMoneyShot
                                                          BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                                          • 02-14-07
                                                          • 28672

                                                          #63
                                                          Dating in your 30's is more of a challenge. Higher... you might just have beginners luck.... and again... truly sorry for your divorce... no one needs that aggravation.

                                                          1. Women always want to know what kind of home you have. I went on a few dates... and she wanted to come to my place the same night. It wasn't about sex either... it's a perfect opportunity to stalk you etc. Women are weird. That want to know everything. 99% of the time I never show any chick where I live.

                                                          2. We all lose attraction... especially approaching 40. lol I'm 40 now. The women in my area.... 32-36 range... not so attractive... (in my book) and just looking for a meal ticket.

                                                          3. 90% of the women who I run into... are BROKEN. Any woman who constantly talks about what her ex did... or anything from her past for that matter.... leave em fast. Run.

                                                          A female friend of mine who's 36 finally got divorced when she was like 32. She told me all the time that her and her husband were having problems... almost everyday. Apparently she ran into some old guy who owns a car in Indy Racing??? He's 58 and she's 36 (she got married to him) lol All she ever wanted was a guy who was LOADED. Women are weird... it's practically impossible to keep them happy. Now, she's pregnant with the 58 year old dude's baby.
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                                                          • BrickJames
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                                                            • 05-05-11
                                                            • 9749

                                                            #64
                                                            .......in my experience dating in your thirties get easier for the following reasons.

                                                            1. You're more established in your thirties and making more money.

                                                            2. The women start to need you more than you need them. This is true on many levels, women hate being alone. They also hate the social stigma of people viewing them as being alone.

                                                            3. You've probably already been around the block a couple times and know the difference between having fun and a life partner. Usually the girls that are the most fun are the ones you don't want to spend the rest of your life with and vice versa.
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                                                            • High3rEl3m3nt
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                                                              • 09-28-10
                                                              • 8022

                                                              #65
                                                              May need brickjames and TMS to be my mentors

                                                              Hard to know what's what because I have not been back in the saddle too long.
                                                              So far been on a few dates with women who are older (upper 30s) and a few who are younger (upper 20s to low 30s). So far the forecast shows upper 30s fit the profile that brickjames is saying and lower 30s is all over the map. No flakes so far. I remember reading TMS's legendary threads, but he was operating at another level. I am doing baby steps
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                                                              • BrickJames
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                                                                • 05-05-11
                                                                • 9749

                                                                #66
                                                                chicks in their early 30s are a complete absolute 100% Trainwreck Express. They are a mess.

                                                                Half of their friends are happily married because it's in the first couple years of their marriage and their starting families.

                                                                The other half of their friends are still out being complete whores and drinking every night and going to random guys houses.

                                                                Then they have the pressures of the feminist Society telling them they need to do good in their career which is usually lacking.

                                                                Throw in alcoholism and a pill addiction and you have pretty much every girl in the dating pools that's in her early thirties and single and attractive.

                                                                It really is very tough for them at that age. Which in turn makes it very easy for us. Me I'm 34 and I have all my shit figured out. Bitches love that they're Amazed by it. They feel like if they hang around with you they might get their shit together too! Lol
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                                                                • BrickJames
                                                                  SBR Hall of Famer
                                                                  • 05-05-11
                                                                  • 9749

                                                                  #67
                                                                  ....... not to say I'm an expert but I've never been married never had kids and had a steady flow of girlfriends since I was old enough to fukk.
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                                                                  • BeatTheJerk
                                                                    BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                                                    • 08-19-07
                                                                    • 31794

                                                                    #68
                                                                    Originally posted by BrickJames
                                                                    chicks in their early 30s are a complete absolute 100% Trainwreck Express. They are a mess.

                                                                    Half of their friends are happily married because it's in the first couple years of their marriage and their starting families.

                                                                    The other half of their friends are still out being complete whores and drinking every night and going to random guys houses.

                                                                    Then they have the pressures of the feminist Society telling them they need to do good in their career which is usually lacking.

                                                                    Throw in alcoholism and a pill addiction and you have pretty much every girl in the dating pools that's in her early thirties and single and attractive.

                                                                    It really is very tough for them at that age. Which in turn makes it very easy for us. Me I'm 34 and I have all my shit figured out. Bitches love that they're Amazed by it. They feel like if they hang around with you they might get their shit together too! Lol
                                                                    I wanna be where you are pal ! I've had to lessen my standards a bit (women) because I'm a broke dick most years.
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                                                                    • BrickJames
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                                                                      • 05-05-11
                                                                      • 9749

                                                                      #69
                                                                      Originally posted by BeatTheJerk
                                                                      I wanna be where you are pal ! I've had to lessen my standards a bit (women) because I'm a broke dick most years.
                                                                      Its not about money,

                                                                      Stay dedicated to the gym.

                                                                      Keep credit score high.

                                                                      Always have impeccable hygiene.

                                                                      By yourself new clothes that fit right every once in awhile.
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                                                                      • BeatTheJerk
                                                                        BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                                                        • 08-19-07
                                                                        • 31794

                                                                        #70
                                                                        Gym check
                                                                        Credit score no check
                                                                        Hygiene check
                                                                        clothes/fashion check

                                                                        I forgot to mention live in South Florida, these women are a different breed down here & expect most offerings directly/indirectly for sex. I'm a good looking guy too, but kind of short, not bald though. 5'10"
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