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  • ronald
    SBR MVP
    • 10-31-05
    • 4919

    #1
    Question for all MARRIED or ENGAGED men out there
    How can you do it? Don't you miss the sport of chasing pelt? Do you just cheat and try to have the best of both worlds?

    Going out tonight with a tight little package. Single and ready to roll. Wouldn't have it any other way.

    I think most men just give in.

    Loser mentality.
  • james4512
    SBR MVP
    • 10-27-08
    • 3707

    #2
    you get a girl out of your league, your at a dead end job and your girl has a good job. Single is for the good looking and wealthy which is rare
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    • BettingWizard
      SBR Hall of Famer
      • 11-28-09
      • 6522

      #3
      laziness and social programming.

      marriage is for suckers
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      • ParlayininHTown
        SBR Hall of Famer
        • 06-27-10
        • 7561

        #4
        Ronnie, I'm single, and I absolutely hate it.

        It gets kind of boring doing the same shit over and over and having no one to talk with about anything.

        I suppose if you're not a loner and you have social skills and game, you can get women and really enjoy life as a single man. I have no idea what that side of the coin feels like, but I imagine it's pretty sweet.

        I can't even look a woman in the eye, and I have zero friends, so being single isn't so wonderful. It all depends on who you are and what situation you are in, Ronnie.
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        • Kermit
          BARRELED IN @ SBR!
          • 09-27-10
          • 32555

          #5
          I used to think that way when I was in my 20's, when I turned 30 I knew it was time to settle down. You don't want to be the old guy at the bar with the kids.
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          • sbrhedge
            SBR MVP
            • 01-18-11
            • 1354

            #6
            Originally posted by james4512
            you get a girl out of your league, your at a dead end job and your girl has a good job. Single is for the good looking and wealthy which is rare
            one of the more honest posts i've seen in a while
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            • chipper
              SBR MVP
              • 01-07-10
              • 1994

              #7
              I think whether you are single or married it's one of those "the grass is always greener..." situations. If you are single you crave the idea of having a soulmate t share life with and if you are married you dream about the other chicks and the action you are missing out on.
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              • andywend
                SBR MVP
                • 05-20-07
                • 4805

                #8
                Originally posted by ronald
                How can you do it? Don't you miss the sport of chasing pelt? Do you just cheat and try to have the best of both worlds?

                Going out tonight with a tight little package. Single and ready to roll. Wouldn't have it any other way.

                I think most men just give in.

                Loser mentality.
                There will always be some men that will never get married and they regret it later in life. Here's the best advice anyone can give on whether or not you should marry if the situation arises: If you have to ask the question, "is this girl the right one for me", THEN SHE ISN'T!!! I got married at 26 and just celebrated my 20 year anniversary on Halloween and I have never regretted that decision. Take your time and date the girl for at least 2 years before getting married and its a MUST that you live with her for at least 3 months. Finally, its 100% vital that you both agree on the "having kids situation" and that must be fully discussed before walking down the aisle.
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                • BennyBigNuts
                  SBR Hall of Famer
                  • 04-16-12
                  • 8700

                  #9
                  Most guys get married and keep fukkin everything they can anyways.
                  Business as usual.
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                  • chilidog
                    SBR Posting Legend
                    • 04-05-09
                    • 10305

                    #10
                    Married people have more sex than single people.
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                    • sbrhedge
                      SBR MVP
                      • 01-18-11
                      • 1354

                      #11
                      Originally posted by chilidog
                      Married people have more sex than single people.
                      it depends which group you are referring to - if you include the ones having affairs, mistresses, polygamy, then maybe you have a point.

                      otherwise, one guy i know here used to bang like crazy (4 5 times a day for years) .. then he got married, had a kid, and now he's looking for ways to get out since his wife caught him. his boner is in handcuffs now~
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                      • ronald
                        SBR MVP
                        • 10-31-05
                        • 4919

                        #12
                        Originally posted by james4512
                        you get a girl out of your league, your at a dead end job and your girl has a good job. Single is for the good looking and wealthy which is rare
                        VERY true. You hit the nail on the head here.
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                        • ronald
                          SBR MVP
                          • 10-31-05
                          • 4919

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Kermit
                          I used to think that way when I was in my 20's, when I turned 30 I knew it was time to settle down. You don't want to be the old guy at the bar with the kids.
                          I'm in my 30s and I'm still flying high.

                          I don't go to the bar that often actually.
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                          • ronald
                            SBR MVP
                            • 10-31-05
                            • 4919

                            #14
                            Originally posted by andywend
                            There will always be some men that will never get married and they regret it later in life. Here's the best advice anyone can give on whether or not you should marry if the situation arises: If you have to ask the question, "is this girl the right one for me", THEN SHE ISN'T!!! I got married at 26 and just celebrated my 20 year anniversary on Halloween and I have never regretted that decision. Take your time and date the girl for at least 2 years before getting married and its a MUST that you live with her for at least 3 months. Finally, its 100% vital that you both agree on the "having kids situation" and that must be fully discussed before walking down the aisle.
                            Sound advice. I will take it under advisement.
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                            • ronald
                              SBR MVP
                              • 10-31-05
                              • 4919

                              #15
                              Originally posted by chilidog
                              Married people have more sex than single people.
                              Who cares? Sex is a tool that women use to manipulate men. It's the only tool they have. Resist, and prevail.

                              IN RONALD WE TRUST
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                              • chilidog
                                SBR Posting Legend
                                • 04-05-09
                                • 10305

                                #16
                                Originally posted by ronald
                                Who cares? Sex is a tool that women use to manipulate men. It's the only tool they have. Resist, and prevail.

                                IN RONALD WE TRUST
                                You sound a bit bitter.
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                                • ronald
                                  SBR MVP
                                  • 10-31-05
                                  • 4919

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by chilidog
                                  You sound a bit bitter.
                                  No sir. Just wise.
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                                  • ParlayininHTown
                                    SBR Hall of Famer
                                    • 06-27-10
                                    • 7561

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by ronald
                                    Who cares? Sex is a tool that women use to manipulate men. It's the only tool they have. Resist, and prevail.

                                    IN RONALD WE TRUST

                                    Resist and prevail?



                                    Ronnie, guys who go through long droughts without sex (like me) never prevail. Our confidence is absolutely destroyed and we are wrecked emotionally/mentally because we aren't getting the ego boost we need.
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                                    • thetrinity
                                      SBR Posting Legend
                                      • 01-25-11
                                      • 22430

                                      #19
                                      im 31, ill never get married, never even been close to it actually.

                                      i have 1 friend whos married and it feels like all the life has been sucked out of him.
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                                      • Wojo
                                        SBR MVP
                                        • 03-19-10
                                        • 1764

                                        #20
                                        Marriage is the best thing I could have found. I loved chasing and screwing around. Gawd, it was great! But to have the fun and compionship that I have now is worth every minute of marriage. It's fun to watch women, especially living in Vegas, but I would never leave my wife.
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                                        • ronald
                                          SBR MVP
                                          • 10-31-05
                                          • 4919

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by ParlayininHTown
                                          Resist and prevail?



                                          Ronnie, guys who go through long droughts without sex (like me) never prevail. Our confidence is absolutely destroyed and we are wrecked emotionally/mentally because we aren't getting the ego boost we need.
                                          Sexual activity is a good thing to engage in, but not with the same woman over and over again. That is when they hold the cards.

                                          No repeat offenders.

                                          I have to teach you guys everything.
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                                          • bradthebloke
                                            SBR MVP
                                            • 07-26-09
                                            • 3175

                                            #22
                                            having a chick is okay and all. Ive been with mine for seven years though and GOD I'm tired of banging her. its to the point where I have to think of previous lays just to finish. Im sure some on here can relate
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                                            • Big Bear
                                              SBR Aristocracy
                                              • 11-01-11
                                              • 43253

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by bradthebloke
                                              having a chick is okay and all. Ive been with mine for seven years though and GOD I'm tired of banging her. its to the point where I have to think of previous lays just to finish. Im sure some on here can relate
                                              so what your saying is you want some strange...maybe a girl with some different features
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                                              • chilidog
                                                SBR Posting Legend
                                                • 04-05-09
                                                • 10305

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by ronald
                                                Sexual activity is a good thing to engage in, but not with the same woman over and over again. That is when they hold the cards.

                                                No repeat offenders.

                                                I have to teach you guys everything.
                                                Pussy is pussy. Get control of your ego, maybe boost up your self-esteem a few notches, and you won't need to bed so many chicks just to feel like a man. You sound like a fukkin teenage chump trying to brag to his other pimply-faced friends.
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                                                • PhillyFlyers
                                                  SBR Hall of Famer
                                                  • 09-27-11
                                                  • 8245

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by ronald
                                                  How can you do it? Don't you miss the sport of chasing pelt? Do you just cheat and try to have the best of both worlds?

                                                  Going out tonight with a tight little package. Single and ready to roll. Wouldn't have it any other way.

                                                  I think most men just give in.

                                                  Loser mentality.
                                                  You've got a lot to learn about life, bro.

                                                  When you're single and banging hot chicks it's a great thing but it's hollow.

                                                  When you find the right girl who really and truly loves you for who you are, then you've really got something and you better hold onto it.
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                                                  • Big Bear
                                                    SBR Aristocracy
                                                    • 11-01-11
                                                    • 43253

                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by PhillyFlyers
                                                    You've got a lot to learn about life, bro.

                                                    When you're single and banging hot chicks it's a great thing but it's hollow.

                                                    When you find the right girl who really and truly loves you for who you are, then you've really got something and you better hold onto it.
                                                    you sound like a wise man.
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                                                    • ParlayininHTown
                                                      SBR Hall of Famer
                                                      • 06-27-10
                                                      • 7561

                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by PhillyFlyers
                                                      When you find the right girl who really and truly loves you for who you are, then you've really got something and you better hold onto it.

                                                      As sad as this sounds, this is my one and only dream in life ... If I could accomplish this, I would finally know what happiness feels like.
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                                                      • ronald
                                                        SBR MVP
                                                        • 10-31-05
                                                        • 4919

                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by chilidog
                                                        Pussy is pussy. Get control of your ego, maybe boost up your self-esteem a few notches, and you won't need to bed so many chicks just to feel like a man. You sound like a fukkin teenage chump trying to brag to his other pimply-faced friends.
                                                        False.

                                                        I get bored with same chick over and over.

                                                        Dick stops getting hard.

                                                        I have to listen to my dick.

                                                        Get new tail.

                                                        Get motivated. That is your problem, not mine.
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                                                        • ronald
                                                          SBR MVP
                                                          • 10-31-05
                                                          • 4919

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by ParlayininHTown
                                                          As sad as this sounds, this is my one and only dream in life ... If I could accomplish this, I would finally know what happiness feels like.
                                                          Please tell me you're joking.
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                                                          • zizoudane10
                                                            SBR Hall of Famer
                                                            • 03-27-12
                                                            • 7272

                                                            #30
                                                            Easy to stay with one person for the rest of your life when she's the one.
                                                            Easy to bang with this one person for the rest of your life when she's hot.
                                                            No problem at all.
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                                                            • Doug
                                                              SBR Hall of Famer
                                                              • 08-10-05
                                                              • 6324

                                                              #31
                                                              well over 50% of marriages end in divorce. I hate my marriage personally, It wouldn't be a terrible idea for those wanting children, but most people I know are divorced if they married .

                                                              my wife is divorced and her youngest daughter born in 1985 and her older daughter will be soon and my deceased mother divorced before marrying my father and two of my exes were divorced.


                                                              marriage doesn't work so well in the USA. The divorce rate is easily over 50% and climbing.

                                                              I don't know what to say about it, but the stats don't lie. I don't know very many happily married couples,,,,I do know of many that just endure bad unions in particular if children are involved and I know people that have been divorced 2 or more times. I knew a guy in Vegas that was married under 2 weeks before a divorce/ anullment

                                                              I think my youngest stepdaughter's BF does it right. He's a millionare ( self0made) at least a few times over and has 3 young daughters and never married the mother, he is an excellent father and provider.Step-daughter isn't all that interested in marriage or producing kids as she divorced about 1-2 years ago and isn't really the mother type, but does play that role on occasion to the BF's progeny. she gets to live in a 5,000 sf virtual mansion and work for the BF and make pretty good money like maybe 50k while he pays all the bills.

                                                              I doubt that is a forever type of relationship with a guy that had 3 kids without getting married., but he does provide for them at a very high level.

                                                              I think you should marry if the relationship is looking to be longterm and you might be having kids.

                                                              Whatever floats their boats though !

                                                              a recently divorced hot 28 year old with a rich guy that doesn't seem to approve of marriage even with 3 kids which I consider odd, and I don't think the S/D has any thoughts of being a mother anytime soon, she doesn't really like kids.

                                                              The BF was like the best friend of the husband she divorced, a bit of an odd situation and two people that aren't exactly the marrying type, especially Bill and I don't think the S/d is looking to get married soon after a not too great marriage of a few years.

                                                              I don't really see this as a permanent or 10-20 year relationship. The guy has more leverage here. Even if they broke up, I think he would continue to employ her as a Fed-ex driver for like 50k a year....somebody has to drive these trucks for him, he needs like 12 drivers and she is considered to be one his best drivers so likely to continue working for him even if they split up

                                                              Pretty decent gig for her, some babysitting type of stuff, but you get to live in 5,000 sf minimansion and make 50k and have no real bills....i"m sure she has to put out pretty good for that LOL !

                                                              works for both parties, not sure it works for 10,15, 20 years ?
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                                                              • ParlayininHTown
                                                                SBR Hall of Famer
                                                                • 06-27-10
                                                                • 7561

                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by ronald
                                                                Please tell me you're joking.

                                                                I'll refer you to the first five words of my previous post ...
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                                                                • chilidog
                                                                  SBR Posting Legend
                                                                  • 04-05-09
                                                                  • 10305

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by ronald
                                                                  I get bored with same chick over and over.
                                                                  Dick stops getting hard.
                                                                  That's because you actually think so poorly of yourself that you have to conquer another woman to make you feel good again; to make you feel desired, that another person wants you. Work on your self-esteem, chump.
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                                                                  • ronald
                                                                    SBR MVP
                                                                    • 10-31-05
                                                                    • 4919

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by chilidog
                                                                    That's because you actually think so poorly of yourself that you have to conquer another woman to make you feel good again; to make you feel desired, that another person wants you. Work on your self-esteem, chump.
                                                                    We can just agree to disagree.
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                                                                    • ronald
                                                                      SBR MVP
                                                                      • 10-31-05
                                                                      • 4919

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Once again poster DOUG has crafted a logical and compelling post, which comes as no surprise.

                                                                      Too many guys in this thread are arguing from an emotional standpoint. Quite simply, you don't want to admit that you're barreled in and that you've made a mistake.

                                                                      Happiness comes from within, not from woman.

                                                                      Emotion is exactly what got you into this mess, men.

                                                                      Take heed of DOUG's viewpoints. Yield to the logic of the situation.
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