Serious Question, Need Advice, Very Serious, Jokes Aside, Friend ready to ki....

[NHL Pro Capper]

First off I want to say this is not a joke. I have obviously gotten into some troll wars on this site, but this is completely real. I cannot talk about this with anyone aside from our close circle, and complete strangers i will never meet.

I do not know 100% certain that the brother is the father, but what he told me, and the lab results he got back, it's 99% the brother. I just spoke with another mutual friend that spoke with his parents at the motel. My friends mother went over to the house to speak to the wife and to find out what the whole story is. His father is staying with him right now. As for the brother they have no idea where he is.

My friends and I agree to be there to help him in anyway, but because there is children involved, we are not going to do anything violent. I would love to smash his head in, but I/we don't know all the facts. The only concern I have is my friend's feelings and mental state. He knows we are here for him.

I have known this woman for 8 years. I know that women are mostly whores, and always want the bigger better deal but what scares the hell out of me is I would NEVER suspect her. She never goes out, she's very suzy homemaker type. Maybe she could be forgiven if it was a one time thing, but what i don't understand is how can she have a SECOND child with this guy. What kind of evil runs threw a women's head KNOWING that the man she "loves" is just there to raise another man's children. I am so sick to my stomach.

[GUMMO77]

You had me a C cup

[frizzelli]

First off I want to say this is not a joke. I have obviously gotten into some troll wars on this site, but this is completely real. I cannot talk about this with anyone aside from our close circle, and complete strangers i will never meet. I do not know 100% certain that the brother is the father, but what he told me, and the lab results he got back, it's 99% the brother. I just spoke with another mutual friend that spoke with his parents at the motel. My friends mother went over to the house to speak to the wife and to find out what the whole story is. His father is staying with him right now. As for the brother they have no idea where he is. My friends and I agree to be there to help him in anyway, but because there is children involved, we are not going to do anything violent. I would love to smash his head in, but I/we don't know all the facts. The only concern I have is my friend's feelings and mental state. He knows we are here for him. I have known this woman for 8 years. I know that women are mostly whores, and always want the bigger better deal but what scares the hell out of me is I would NEVER suspect her. She never goes out, she's very suzy homemaker type. Maybe she could be forgiven if it was a one time thing, but what i don't understand is how can she have a SECOND child with this guy. What kind of evil runs threw a women's head KNOWING that the man she "loves" is just there to raise another man's children. I am so sick to my stomach.

Give me a fukkin fade pal.

[High3rEl3m3nt]

NHL,

I just can't get over the fact that he sent a blood sample, a strand of hair, and a toothbrush in to two different labs. Most paternity labs require a specific protocol so that they can produce more conclusive results. A toothbrush could have been used by two different siblings. I am not doubting the story, but am wondering if the "lab" is credible enough to make definitive conclusions. If the brother and wife deny, he needs to do a proper DNA testing, which would involve swabbing each individual.

[GUMMO77]

Now I don't know you, so help me out please. When you are talking about her C cups do you mean


something like this?





or

more along the lines of these?

[baazigar]

all that matters are the kids. do good for them and everything will work out. fauck the girl and the other douche.

[King Mayan]

I wish this would happen to me... I'll be chilling with big booty hoes in brazil with no child responsibilities..

Take him to Vegas.

[Bongo]

He should sue the brother for past and future child support...

then go out shopping for a new Mercedes.

[SEAHAWKHARRY]

Be there for him and as soon as possible take him to Vegas to lay off steam

[wtf]

get the two cheaters to fuk on video and sell the porn on the web

one of those cheater web sites

[Mr KLC]

This is a situation that is going to take a lot of time to heal. His "supposed" roots with this girl go more than a decade, so he isn't getting over this overnight. If it were a one time thing, I would say forgiveness is an option, but we know this has gone on for at least 6 years. If this girl felt bad about it, it wouldn't go on this long. Eventually he needs to kick her to the curb, because this relationship is a fantasy. The kids are not a fantasy, though. Its going to be up to him how he wants to continue that relationship, but if the brother has been spending quality time with the 5 year old, he can still play the "uncle" role if he chooses to go that route. Me personally, I would stay with the "father" role, since this kid is looking at him as Daddy now. The 11 month old is not as bad an issue. The thing is, he's going to have to get with the wife and brother eventually to figure out how to make these relationships with the kids work.

I would guess that if the brother has been OK with being the sloppy seconds with the wife, then he would probably end up moving in with her eventually, especially if the family treats him like an outcast. Whether he does or not, the trust factor is probably beyond repair with both of these individuals, and all three of them are going to have to learn to be adults, when it comes to these kids, for the rest of their lives.

[biggie12]

-sounds like he needs to call jerry

[Blax0r]

My advice for your friend would be this:

-Vent, cry, break stuff, let all emotions out, but he can not be alone when he does so.

-Probably this isn't an issue, but make sure he doesn't think it's his fault. The fault is with his wife and brother obviously.

-Get a good divorce lawyer; his alimony and child support payments (1 child only!) should be at the lowest possible values. Hopefully, his brother marries the wife, then he should be mostly free financially.

-Don't bother shielding the kids. They're going to be screwed up regardless; book it as a loss.

-Enjoy life as a young single guy.

[frankzig]

sounds like jerry springer material

[NHL Pro Capper]

So here is the update. My friends mother went to speak to the wife. She broke down and admitted everything, but basically she said the brother manipulated her, and seduced her because my friend was always away working, and he would come over and help her, and take care of her, have dinners, etc... and it "just happened" and she didnt say anything because she did not want to break up the family. She continued the affair because the brother threatened to tell everyone.

I don't really buy it but I can't blame her for lying to save herself. My friend is coming over with his dad in 30 minutes, and a few of our other friends are here and we are gonna watch the Leafs vs Bruins. (I pick Leafs btw at +175). Anyways we are making wings, ordering pizza, and feeding him some good canadian beer.

Keep you posted

[Djstucky]

Well how considerate of her refrain from sharing this information to ensure there wouldn't be family issues...she didn't really say that did she???

[Full Time Hobo]

Wow.
My first instinct is to kill.

Take the kids and get the fuk away from that bitch...
Next time you see the brother beat his ass.

[capitalist pig]

Whats really F uked up is that the poor guy will get stuck having to pay child support for the kids that arent even his, if he leaves her.

later

[Dirty Sanchez]

If bullshitting was against the law there would be plenty of guys on this site doing time

[big0mar]

fukkin loser is staying in a holiday inn?

no wonder

[seaborneq]

This happened on Nip/Tuck. Two guys were best friends, not brothers. The two of them started a plastic surgery practice together and both were there for the child. They always got into it and disagreed, but they worked together for the childs sake. The kid ended up being fukked up, but that is how I would try to handle it and not tell anyone how dysfunctional my life and family are.

[Dirty Sanchez]

Please don't keep us updated....would rather read a jj Gold bedding a Tranny thread

[jjgold]

5 year affair is not a whore
I would not too involved

Its why you do not get close to people

[Big Bear]

Whoa Whoa....DNA from a toothbrush, this is not typical protocol, as most paternity testing places require swabbing of the inner cheek in order to ensure accuracy. I hope you are not making this up for attention. If this is legit, ask him where he sent the samples to and if it's some far off internet company, he needs to get it done right.

i agree with this guy and Dr. Stale. As bad as it seems the best solution is to tell your friend to focus on his kids and tell him the most important thing is he needs to be there for his kids whether theu are his or not.

As far as what to do about his wife and brother I think he should either tell his wife and brother he knows and to never pull that shit again.

but it may be too much to recover from mentally so maybe he should ask for a divorce. I worry that things could get physical if he doesnt keep his cool. Main thing is he needs to take the high road.

[Big Bear]

keep us updated NHL Capper

[Walter Abrams]

Whore.

[Roxxyfish]

I think hes a fellow german dikkhead, at least nhl capper is german

wow, Americans are pussies. it's amazing what has happened to this country

the word is 'soft'

[JMobile]

If true, your friend should settle this in Court.

[firehoyt]

Where the punch line asking for SBR points to send him flowers?

[Jnas]

wow, Americans are pussies. it's amazing what has happened to this country

the word is 'soft'

Yea Americans are pussies thats why our grandfathers saved Europes ass (twice) go back to your hole Frenchy

[NHL Pro Capper]

So today my friend filed for divorce. The brother is long gone. My friend's father spoke to his landlord, said he gave his notice, packed up some things and left. Coward. The wife is still trying to beg him back, it's done. He's now in the "destroy the world" phase. He is so angry. He owns the house and was smart enough to not have it in her name, he bought it before they got married. He is trying to boot her out but there is some law here that you can't throw a mother out of a house with children, and have to go thru this big legal procedure. He told me he will maintain a relationship with his son, not the infant, and will seek full custody of his daughter.

That's it for now. Would love to post a story of how we all kicked the crap out of the brother, and there was a big fight, and another crazy twist, but it's going to be just legal shit after legal shit.

[rsnnh12]

Did the wife admit to it? Or is she too big of a coward to even do that? I'm assuming its the latter, given the situation

[boeing power]

When the dust settles the brother will be back and living with your friends wife

[Big Bear]

atleast your friend did not committ suicide