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  • Masu485
    SBR Hall of Famer
    • 08-14-08
    • 7700

    #1
    Friends are just pieces of SHIT!
    I don't know what it is. Maybe no one respects me, but I find it extremely annoying how in about a month, I've been screwed over by almost everyone I know regarding plans to go out. I have like 3 or 4 'groups' I chill with.

    1. A few weeks ago, my cousin says he's coming into town and bringing a couple of mutual friends, along with 3 or 4 girls. The whole week we're talking about what club we'll be going to on Saturday. Of course, I get kind of pumped for this. Then Saturday comes, no call. Time is passing by, and at 11 I get frustrated and call him. He tells me he's still out of town because no one wanted to drive to my town so they were partying up there. It made me furious. I had previously cancelled going to a house party up north, in order to hang with my cousin, then he pulls this. And of course, this house party was considered the best party anyone had ever been to. It was basically stripping and random hookups. My kind of party. Angry that the night was dead for me, and also angry that he wouldn't even have called.

    2. I started going clubbing with this guy from my gym recently. It is kind of fun, but this guy is the opposite problem. He gives me no advance warning, he just shows up at my place and tells me to hurry up. And it's usually on a weird day like Monday or Wednesday when I'm not expecting it. Nothing I hate more than being rushed, but I still end up going because I like to go out.

    3. Yesterday, a friend calls me and says he has 3 tickets to a club thing tonight and asks if I wanted to go with him and his girlfriend. So of course I say yes, but having been screwed by this guy in the past, I didn't want to depend on it. He says he'll pass by around 9 but he'll call before. So of course again, the time passes by, and at this point I don't even get ready because in my heart I know he'll just forget and won't pass by. So here we are 2 hours later, no call to cancel, nothing. I just went on FB to see if I could find a clue to where he is, and on his girlfriend's wall I see her friend telling her and my friend to hurry up because they're gonna be late for a house party.

    So depressed as hell, I just closed the page, knowing where that piece of shit ran off to now. And again, no call to cancel or anything. Even considering we made plans he should have been courteous to ask if I'd be allowed to join that house party, but I'm sure he didn't ask. So once again, here I am on a Friday with nothing to do. I don't know why, maybe I just suck at plans, but I'm considering just cutting all these people out of my life and be left with nothing. I'd be happier.
  • excel
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    • 03-25-10
    • 4270

    #2
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    • King Mayan
      SBR Posting Legend
      • 09-22-10
      • 21326

      #3
      You have to learn to bust solo missions.. How old are you??
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      • FrozenMAN
        SBR MVP
        • 01-23-09
        • 4334

        #4
        the worst is the no call bullshit and you're left hanging there as there were plans but they fell apart...i know how that shit goes, it's the worst!
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        • FuzzyDunlop
          SBR MVP
          • 01-15-11
          • 2422

          #5
          Everyone of those situations involve a club, why?
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          • tatommack
            SBR MVP
            • 10-10-08
            • 4171

            #6
            I wish that's all my friends have done to me. I want my best friend dead.
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            • Dirty Sanchez
              SBR Posting Legend
              • 03-01-10
              • 16031

              #7
              Dude...get a life...sack up and stop letting people crap on you or you'll grow up and people will be calling you jj

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              • Monitor-Tan
                SBR MVP
                • 02-20-11
                • 4460

                #8
                Originally posted by Dirty Sanchez
                Dude...get a life...sack up and stop letting people crap on you or you'll grow up and people will be calling you jj



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                • TR88
                  Restricted User
                  • 06-10-10
                  • 9364

                  #9
                  Originally posted by tatommack
                  I wish that's all my friends have done to me. I want my best friend dead.
                  by this sentence doubt you have a best friend pal...jsut saying
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                  • romecloneout
                    SBR MVP
                    • 02-06-11
                    • 2243

                    #10
                    hahaha grow a sack guy... no wonder no one wants to hang out with you...u seem like that nerdy/creepy guy that everyone talks to because they feel sorry for you.....haha
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                    • Masu485
                      SBR Hall of Famer
                      • 08-14-08
                      • 7700

                      #11
                      I'm cutting them all out. I'm not going through this BS again. It wouldn't even been as bad if they called to cancel and said they weren't going out because they had work the next day or something. But to make plans with me and then just not call and end up doing something fun while I'm sitting here makes me livid.
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                      • Masu485
                        SBR Hall of Famer
                        • 08-14-08
                        • 7700

                        #12
                        Originally posted by romecloneout
                        hahaha grow a sack guy... no wonder no one wants to hang out with you...u seem like that nerdy/creepy guy that everyone talks to because they feel sorry for you.....haha
                        I know I come off that way, but I'm not. I've just always had trust issues so never believed in having a 'best friend' or home boy or anything. I'm part of different social groups, but never a 'main member', if that makes sense. Most people just hang with one social group of their best friends every week, so it's easy to make plans. It's more 'what are we doing Friday', instead of 'which group am I chilling with Friday?'
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                        • JohnGalt2341
                          SBR Hall of Famer
                          • 12-31-09
                          • 9138

                          #13
                          Originally posted by King Mayan
                          You have to learn to bust solo missions..
                          THIS!

                          Best I can do is give you 100 SBR points if you can beat me at a game of Reversi 6x6.

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                          • King Mayan
                            SBR Posting Legend
                            • 09-22-10
                            • 21326

                            #14
                            Where you from masu??
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                            • Masu485
                              SBR Hall of Famer
                              • 08-14-08
                              • 7700

                              #15
                              Originally posted by King Mayan
                              Where you from masu??
                              Mayan, I'm from montreal.
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                              • manny24
                                SBR Posting Legend
                                • 10-22-07
                                • 20046

                                #16
                                Originally posted by tatommack
                                I wish that's all my friends have done to me. I want my best friend dead.
                                i remember your story bro that was a messed up situation hope it is a little better now.
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                                • iceminers26
                                  SBR Posting Legend
                                  • 10-13-08
                                  • 15600

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by Masu485
                                  Mayan, I'm from montreal.
                                  why not just go to Super Sexe and drain your sorrows there
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                                  • Masu485
                                    SBR Hall of Famer
                                    • 08-14-08
                                    • 7700

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by iceminers26
                                    why not just go to Super Sexe and drain your sorrows there
                                    I should. I wish Nicky would leave his apartment now and then.

                                    I've made up my mind though, next weekend I'm going out alone with the sole purpose of meeting new people. Im not waiting for any of these shitheads and if they call me, I'll tell them I'm busy with more important things.

                                    The only reason Im not going apeshit is because I fukked both my cousin's ex and my friend's gf so I just remind myself of that so I can feel like I deserve to be treated like shit by them.
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                                    • iceminers26
                                      SBR Posting Legend
                                      • 10-13-08
                                      • 15600

                                      #19
                                      A couple college buds and I took a trip to Montreal about 8 years back, was a great time... there is a boat load to do up there, great bars, great ripper joint, casino, women, just an all out good time. Been meaning to go back, just haven't yet but will soon.
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                                      • BookiesBernanke
                                        SBR Wise Guy
                                        • 12-09-10
                                        • 849

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by Masu485
                                        I should. I wish Nicky would leave his apartment now and then. I've made up my mind though, next weekend I'm going out alone with the sole purpose of meeting new people. Im not waiting for any of these shitheads and if they call me, I'll tell them I'm busy with more important things. The only reason Im not going apeshit is because I fukked both my cousin's ex and my friend's gf so I just remind myself of that so I can feel like I deserve to be treated like shit by them.
                                        Did you fukk your mom too? That would make you feel better when she asks you to take out the trash
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                                        • Killer_Demo
                                          SBR Hall of Famer
                                          • 06-15-08
                                          • 8409

                                          #21
                                          get em back with success...i bet they will be blowing up your cell when your successful
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                                          • laclippers504
                                            SBR MVP
                                            • 08-21-06
                                            • 4553

                                            #22
                                            I'm getting sued by someone I thought was my best friend....you don't got it that bad man
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                                            • ACoochy
                                              SBR Posting Legend
                                              • 08-19-09
                                              • 13949

                                              #23
                                              Op treat them as though they are acquaintances. H8 to say but they were never ur friends to begin with...
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                                              • hugh_morris
                                                SBR MVP
                                                • 11-17-09
                                                • 2039

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by laclippers504
                                                I'm getting sued by someone I thought was my best friend....you don't got it that bad man
                                                well, thats a greasy, shitty thing to do to your best friend...just sue him for suing you...friends dont sue friends...thats fukked...
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                                                • Ninersnut
                                                  SBR MVP
                                                  • 05-20-10
                                                  • 3730

                                                  #25
                                                  Sounds like some HS bullshit. Get better friends.
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                                                  • Sdotbold
                                                    SBR MVP
                                                    • 12-24-09
                                                    • 1444

                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by King Mayan
                                                    You have to learn to bust solo missions.. How old are you??
                                                    I have had some of the greatest nights of my life when I headed out solo. Night never ended solo though. ( whether it was a hooker or not ,lol)

                                                    I'm older now with my own family , so I don't get out much anymore. But mayan is right, get out on ur own , u won't regret it. Don't Montreal have great titty bars?
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                                                    • babyjesus
                                                      SBR Wise Guy
                                                      • 03-17-11
                                                      • 994

                                                      #27
                                                      fuk eveyone else. sounds like u need to surround urself with better ppl
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                                                      • jjgold
                                                        SBR Aristocracy
                                                        • 07-20-05
                                                        • 388179

                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by Masu485
                                                        I don't know what it is. Maybe no one respects me, but I find it extremely annoying how in about a month, I've been screwed over by almost everyone I know regarding plans to go out. I have like 3 or 4 'groups' I chill with.

                                                        1. A few weeks ago, my cousin says he's coming into town and bringing a couple of mutual friends, along with 3 or 4 girls. The whole week we're talking about what club we'll be going to on Saturday. Of course, I get kind of pumped for this. Then Saturday comes, no call. Time is passing by, and at 11 I get frustrated and call him. He tells me he's still out of town because no one wanted to drive to my town so they were partying up there. It made me furious. I had previously cancelled going to a house party up north, in order to hang with my cousin, then he pulls this. And of course, this house party was considered the best party anyone had ever been to. It was basically stripping and random hookups. My kind of party. Angry that the night was dead for me, and also angry that he wouldn't even have called.

                                                        2. I started going clubbing with this guy from my gym recently. It is kind of fun, but this guy is the opposite problem. He gives me no advance warning, he just shows up at my place and tells me to hurry up. And it's usually on a weird day like Monday or Wednesday when I'm not expecting it. Nothing I hate more than being rushed, but I still end up going because I like to go out.

                                                        3. Yesterday, a friend calls me and says he has 3 tickets to a club thing tonight and asks if I wanted to go with him and his girlfriend. So of course I say yes, but having been screwed by this guy in the past, I didn't want to depend on it. He says he'll pass by around 9 but he'll call before. So of course again, the time passes by, and at this point I don't even get ready because in my heart I know he'll just forget and won't pass by. So here we are 2 hours later, no call to cancel, nothing. I just went on FB to see if I could find a clue to where he is, and on his girlfriend's wall I see her friend telling her and my friend to hurry up because they're gonna be late for a house party.

                                                        So depressed as hell, I just closed the page, knowing where that piece of shit ran off to now. And again, no call to cancel or anything. Even considering we made plans he should have been courteous to ask if I'd be allowed to join that house party, but I'm sure he didn't ask. So once again, here I am on a Friday with nothing to do. I don't know why, maybe I just suck at plans, but I'm considering just cutting all these people out of my life and be left with nothing. I'd be happier.
                                                        I live life not relying on anyone
                                                        no friends
                                                        no girls
                                                        nothing
                                                        be your own fukkin boss

                                                        have acquaintances only
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                                                        • Glitch
                                                          SBR Posting Legend
                                                          • 07-08-09
                                                          • 11795

                                                          #29
                                                          ever tried to be more likeable? arent you the black guy thats racist against blacks? clayton bigsby junior
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                                                          • Ralphie Halves
                                                            SBR MVP
                                                            • 12-13-09
                                                            • 4507

                                                            #30
                                                            Most club goers are flaky inconsiderate fukks. Clean them out of your life altogether and start over. Find a slower crowd, they'll treat you better. This is the transformation I went through when I moved to Vegas, and I've never been happier. I don't go out every single weekend anymore, but you stop caring about that after awhile.
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                                                            • flyingillini
                                                              SBR Aristocracy
                                                              • 12-06-06
                                                              • 41219

                                                              #31
                                                              Sounds like Pecos Bill
                                                              המוסד‎
                                                              המוסד למודיעין ולתפקידים מיוחדים‎
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                                                              • 13th Inning
                                                                SBR Wise Guy
                                                                • 08-05-08
                                                                • 878

                                                                #32
                                                                Isolationism is the only way
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                                                                • bradthebloke
                                                                  SBR MVP
                                                                  • 07-26-09
                                                                  • 3175

                                                                  #33
                                                                  ya i know a guy like that. a real fair weather friend. his gf always dumps him and goes out and bangs half the city while he sits at home depressed. Me and my guys try to cheer him up and just when he finally starts to hang again and go out with us, she comes back in the picture and forces him to call block all of us and says hes not allowed to have friends. hes done this a few times now. Most pussy whipped guy Ive ever seen.
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                                                                  • Masu485
                                                                    SBR Hall of Famer
                                                                    • 08-14-08
                                                                    • 7700

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by jjgold
                                                                    I live life not relying on anyone
                                                                    no friends
                                                                    no girls
                                                                    nothing
                                                                    be your own fukkin boss

                                                                    have acquaintances only
                                                                    I thought this was great advice, until I scrolled up to see that YOU wrote it.
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                                                                    • Avenger
                                                                      SBR MVP
                                                                      • 03-15-11
                                                                      • 2119

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Originally posted by jjgold
                                                                      I live life not relying on anyone no friends no girls nothing be your own fukkin boss have acquaintances only


                                                                      Yet, you're an SBR legend?
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