if she is checking you out to justify her hiding stuff and told you to get rid of a friend. it is obvious she banged your friend and now feels bad about it/afraid the truth will come out.
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The answer is HELL NO!!Comment -
I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks its not acceptable.Comment -
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No is not ok, but if you get caught out there it is your own fault. I personally don't use fb, twitter or any of that crap. I program my phone numbers on personal cell for random girls to be attached to family and people from work. This way a girl gets nosy, I can say it is my cousin or co-worker. Keep a who's who on my work phone so I don't get confused and she isn't getting that as it is locked and in my briefcase.Comment -
If you've only noticed it a couple times and you haven't done anything to warrant a search of your phone, just let it go. About a year back, I noticed my now fiancee checking my phone a few times. I wasn't doing anything weird or wrong though. Turned out to be nothing. If it continues, then for sure you need to confront her/do something about it. I wouldn't make a big deal about it just yet if I were you.Comment -
she dont touch mine & i dont go thru hers, seems easy enough
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laker shouldnt your wife be on your friends list on facebook, if not shouldnt she be on facebook and she would see anyway even if she didnt log into your facebook???Comment -
it's crazy to think how easy to invade someones privacy anymore. Cell phones/internet make privacy way to hard to keep. Have to always be careful... insecurities take over people all day, everyday, everwhere... Just a fact of life. That being said at least now you know she is checking up on you. Gives you advantage in a sense even though it sucks.Comment -
Maybe she was just trying to find out what your plays for tomorrow were, LB
Seriously though.. no its not acceptable. Unless I had reason to be suspicious, I would never do that. Shows a lack of trust/respectComment -
No, it's not acceptable.
But let's not go crazy here and say that it's just women who do this. I've had my cell phone msgs checked, my vmail checked, and my email and Facebook hacked into by guys. Even had one of those keystroke checker things put on my laptop. Some people are just insecure while others are doing the nasty on the side themselves so they become overly suspicious of their partners and know all the signs to look for.Comment -
If you love her, it does not matter one bit. If she starts making fun of your bets. Then dump her.Comment -
It's never cool for somebody to go through your personal shit. If you have an open relationship with your wife then there shouldn't be any secrets and she should trust you enough to let you have your personal life without trying to micromanage shit.Comment -
Completely unacceptable. Not that I have anything to hide, but if my girl snooped into my messages, I am kicking her ass to the curb.Comment -
LB - If this is the first time she has done it, have a nice dinner together and just talk to her about it and find out what she was thinking/ feeling. There might be some kind of issue that made her feel insecure. If you allow her to tell you how she felt without judging or getting upset, then you can let her know that you absolutely will not put up with that sh*t again.
If that doesnt work - take a couple-friendly vacation to Mexico and come back single with a suitcase full of cash ready for MLB playoffsComment -
She's probably just wondering why you're always fukking around with your phone. She doesn't understand that we're all just checking scores for games
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My wife is constantly suspicious of my phone even though I've never hid anythingComment -
Am I the only one who doesn't give a fukk? My girl doesn't check my shit but it's an open book if she wants to. I have absolutely nothing to worry about. Maybe my porn usage though. She wouldn't give a fukk about that either.Comment -
Very unacceptable.
LB, if you want to hide your porn make sure you bookmark that shit under a folder like "fishing" or "garage tools", that's the last thing she will open on your phone. I've already had to make serious privacy changes in my life cause of my gf. I understand she wants to be sure our relationship is perfect but every man needs a bit of alone time with their cell phones in a public bathroom (right?). I remember the good old days at my parents house where I had a room and a computer that no one would access without permission.Comment -
just **** around and when she finds it tell her don't go looking for things you don't want to find.Comment -
This .. she has never checked on mine .. (unless I've been away from home and asked her to open up my facebook and get me a contact number or something) and I've never checked hers .. (apart from when she calls me from work and tells me that I need to go onto her facebook and feed her farm animals or some such shit) but if she wanted to ... my computer is always on and available .. as is hers... I guess if the trust is there ... then there is no need to "check" on each other ... if she went into your account - she does not trust you .. simple as that. (Proved by the "get rid of this person" ultimatum)Comment -
Absolutely not
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Bunch of paranoid fukks. If it develops into a pattern, then you should be concerned. But just catching her once isn't a big deal. Confronting her about something so insignificant as this could lead to unnecessary problems/fights. Just keep a closer eye on it. If she keeps going for your phone when you (aren't looking) then do something.Comment -
Everyone in my phone only has one letter with their name, if I have people with the same name a # is put beside it, like B1, B2 nobody knows but me.Comment -
if they are snooping, then there are trust issues. maybe some couples counseling in your future.
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if you do things on facebook and twitter expect everyone to see them, ask Weiner !!!1Comment -
I personally have a bigger problem with a bunch of grown men chit-chatting with others from gay-ass sites like Facebook.
I mean, for fukks sake....isn't this place nerdy enough for all of us?
I've never understood the attraction for things like facebook, twitter, or any of that. Why the fukk would I want some douchebag I was friends with in 5th grade looking me up?
Personally, I like to keep my face out of books.
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no!Comment -
I don't care, nothing too terrible on there. Just don't come back and complain about how many times I use the word f#ck in regular conversation with my buddies.Comment -
Most men are creeps and cheat on their wives
I definatley think wives and girlfirend should checkComment -
i don't care about thatComment
