So I find out my wife was checking my blackberry out the other night while I was passed out. She went onto my facebook and checked out my messages. I find this to be unacceptable. Please don't give me the if you have nothing to hide crap. I just find it sad that women can't mind their own business. I am a stronger believer in personal independence. Thoughts?
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Absolutely the wrong thing to do. Sure I understand that "if you got nothing to hide" aspect of it, but your wife shouldnt have anything to suspect either. If my wife did that I would be beyond pissed. If you meant for her to see it, you would show her.
Total invasion of privacy, lack of trust and respect.
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Absolutely not, I dated a chick once that was going through my text messages when I was asleep, chewed her out and dumped her right on the spot. Different from you I actually had shit to hide but either way is not alright for her to go through your stuff without your knowledge.Comment -
Unless she has a reason (something you've done in the past) then yes it's bullshit. You should have her trust as long as you don't abuse it.Comment -
maybe your wife is fukking around on you
seems fishy.Comment -
Absolutely not.
I caught my aunt going through my text messages last christmas. The bitch even had the nerve to ask me who "sara" was and told me that if I leave my phone laying around, it was fair game to go through it.Comment -
she might have something to hide and is looking to see if you do too in order to justify herselfComment -
The funny part is she actually told me to get rid of one of my friends. Women always feel this need to tell their men what to do. Maybe if they just chilled out .Comment -
Every guy will say no it's not alright and it's not, maybe Nina can chime in with her infinite wisdom.Comment -
a guy pretending to be a girl doesn't count.
Originally posted by Cuse0323Comment -
Yea, but who here has/would do it?Comment -
You think that's the case with Nina? I don't, but maybe.Originally posted by MendozaLine
Just think she's a worthless C.Comment -
Absolutely not everybody. If she your wife she should trust youComment -
If you did that to her, would she be pissed?Originally posted by lakerboyComment -
Hell no its not ok this picture sums it up.
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thats fuked upComment -
Fuk No!
No one should ever go through another persons "personal" stuff, no matter if your a woman or a man.
After reading this, go and put a screen lock on your phone. So a code is needed to get on it. If you "are" cheating on her, you need to step your game up, by doing this simple step first.Comment -
Yes if your married
Men should not be trusted and women know this
Good Job lakerboy's wife
Heck I do not trust this guy and I do not live with himComment -
Hang on, on one hand ur talking about being a believer in independence yet you have a GFOriginally posted by lakerboy
98% of women are insecure LB, as if u hadnt realised this going into the r'ship 
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Can't fault her for checking. Us men, especially degen gamblers are like dogs, gambling, doing dirt, looking for hoes etc. Question is what does she do when she finds out about your dark side.....Comment -
Women are worse then we are. More roguish and sneaky. Trust me.Originally posted by jjgoldComment -
Originally posted by jjgold
What the fuk do you know about women? Sex is like a card game to you....if you've got a good hand, you don't need a partner
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Originally posted by ACoochyHang on, on one hand ur talking about being a believer in independence yet you have a GF 98% of women are insecure LB, as if u hadnt realised this going into the r'ship
Where did I say I had a gf?
Women are insecure yes but invasion of privacy is not good. I don't care if your married. Your privacy is important.Comment -
any male that states its okay obviously does not wear the pants in his relationship....hence JJ
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no it'sn ot okay and it implies a lack of trust definitelyComment -
lakeshow, are you a complete moron or what ... broads, not even your fukking mother, can be trusted all the time... and you sure as shit cant expect nutty ass bi polar women to trust you...
do yourself a favor... clean out your messages everyday and log out of your email accts. and facebook shit before going home every day... and maybe change your password on a regular basis ...sure its a pain in the ass, but as soon as she sees a message from some broad that she deems out of line, its going to be your ass... and believe me, they wont stop checking your phone or email to see if you are fukking up...Comment -
How can you blame them? Any man who realizes his women should be checking up on him probably does wear the pants because real men know and recognize they are dogs. I am a dog for life my man and any women who can deal with my shit should know what she is getting involved with.Originally posted by iceminers26any male that states its okay obviously does not wear the pants in his relationship....hence JJComment -
A marriage without trust and some sense of privacy is doomed.
Hell, most of the ones with trust and privacy are fukked.Comment -
Raydog this is the first time in 8 years of marriage she touched my phone while I was sleeping. I guess I have to wrap it up in saran wrap and stick it up my ass when I go to sleep. I have nothing to hide what bothers me is the nosy bullshit.Comment -
damn, now that i think about it..i let my broad use my phone for about an hour the other day... no telling what she saw in that fukker... nevermind lakeshow, dont listen to me....im dumb as a fukking brick myself buddy!
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Blackberries don't have a screen lock feature?Originally posted by lakerboyComment -
I agree with laker here, I also give my GF the freedom to do as she pleases in this regard.
It works both ways.Comment -
I erase all my text messages every couple hours or so. Problem solved. Also obviously don't keep chicks numbers in there
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Originally posted by onlooker
lol Lakerboy doesnt know what "locks" mean. Be it in gambling or blackberries.Comment -
Who cares what they find! What are they going to do if they find something? Leave?Comment
