Originally posted on 12/19/2012:

The only real way of winning a girl back after you lose her is to completely forget about her and let her feelings for you develop.

You have to instill the thought in her mind that you are completely fine without her, meeting new girls and having a good time WITHOUT her.

Then you need her to see that in some way, either by facebook or twitter or something like that. But dont make it obvious that you are trying to show off your new girl.

Its a longshot but that is the only way. Smothering her will only lower your value and decrease her attraction for you. Trust me, I learned this the hard way.