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  • Big Bear
    SBR Aristocracy
    • 11-01-11
    • 43253

    #71
    anyway i'm not trying to sound like a little bitch i just wanted all of your opinions on my situation. Basically i've decided not to call her anymore. I'm really fighting that urge though. I feel like even if i called and got her to hang out with me or get back together with me ... she would have total control of the relationship since right now it looks like i need her more than she needs me.

    so hopefully by not calling her she will miss me and come back to me. I think its really the only option i have.
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    • Ra77er
      SBR Posting Legend
      • 06-20-11
      • 10969

      #72
      If possible get yourself involved with something to keep your mind busy, the worst thing you can do is sit around the house eating rocky road and watching Dawson's Creek reruns. Call some friends up, go out on the town, strip club, sporting event, casino, work on a side project etc....I know the feeling and its painful, god bless.
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      • BettingWizard
        SBR Hall of Famer
        • 11-28-09
        • 6522

        #73
        Originally posted by Big Bear
        anyway i'm not trying to sound like a little bitch i just wanted all of your opinions on my situation. Basically i've decided not to call her anymore. I'm really fighting that urge though. I feel like even if i called and got her to hang out with me or get back together with me ... she would have total control of the relationship since right now it looks like i need her more than she needs me.

        so hopefully by not calling her she will miss me and come back to me. I think its really the only option i have.
        she came over for break-up sex.

        yes, do not call her at all...........there are better out there, just move on. 1 year from now you will wonder why you even sweated this chick.
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        • Tchocky
          SBR MVP
          • 02-14-06
          • 2371

          #74
          Feel for you. Just give her her space. Hopefully, she comes back. If she doesn't, then you need to move on.
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          • LostBankroll
            Restricted User
            • 02-10-10
            • 4538

            #75
            the bitch is out doing one of these parties with her girlfriends... dancingbear.com
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            • paranoyd androyd
              SBR Hall of Famer
              • 10-01-11
              • 6459

              #76
              Originally posted by Big Bear
              Here is a little update. we broke up Tuesday she calls me Thursday comes over spends the night things went well but we didnt talk about anything serious. I woke up went to work before she woke up. I havent heard from her since. we did make plans to hang out today on thursday when i saw her but she didnt call me today...
              She's playing with your emotions now, cut her off full stop.
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              • thetrinity
                SBR Posting Legend
                • 01-25-11
                • 22430

                #77
                sounds like shes seeing how bad you need her to me.
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                • Ghenghis Kahn
                  SBR Posting Legend
                  • 01-02-12
                  • 19734

                  #78
                  Originally posted by Big Bear
                  this is a girl i love and want to marry and i was planning on asking her to marry me this fall on a trip we had planned. The reason i havent asked her to marry me yet is until now i havent had been in a good position financially and ofcourse ya know i want to be sure before i pop the question.
                  listen you know that saying, "she loves you but she's not in love with you"? it sounds like she still cares for you but she's ready to move on for now. you guys are still young and she probably wants to see what's out there. if things were meant for you to be together, it'll happen eventually. but for now, just forget about her. you'll go through some heartache, depression, self doubt or what not but this will make you grow up and make you into a better person.

                  best thing for you to do right now is hang out with your friends and go find a rebound...
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                  • Big Bear
                    SBR Aristocracy
                    • 11-01-11
                    • 43253

                    #79
                    i'm really fighting that urge to call. I would just hate to call and have her not answer my calll and make my self look needy for no reason. On the other hand I feel like if i call maybe she will want to make plans with me.

                    Is there any time frame where it would be okay to call?

                    I just hope she is not taking the attitude "He will call me if he wants to hangout" or if i wait like 3 weeks and by that time she might already be dating someone else.

                    But if i don't call her , eventually she will miss me and call me if she actually loves me right?
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                    • BettingWizard
                      SBR Hall of Famer
                      • 11-28-09
                      • 6522

                      #80
                      dont. call. her. ever. again.
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                      • YorkHunt
                        SBR Hall of Famer
                        • 12-11-10
                        • 7496

                        #81
                        move on
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                        • probettor1
                          SBR MVP
                          • 04-22-11
                          • 1985

                          #82
                          I've been there bro, every time they say they want to be along is because they are banging someone. Could be a girl or a guy. She might be willing to try threesomes with her girl/guy friends too, every girl is into that nowdays. Make sure to tell her you are available in that case. Other thing, saying you are 28 years old already like you are old make me think you are a big pussy. Randy Couture is 48 and is still crushing heads. You are never too old to pay child support. And believe me you will or you will be miserable. The first wife is always a failure.

                          This one goes with many years of experience: If a girl dump you once, will dump you twice, and the 2nd time goes with the child support included.
                          Just go out there and get a new pussie and stop whinning. You are just afraid to go out there. Did u forget how good it feels to bang a new pussie?
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                          • downsouth
                            SBR Posting Legend
                            • 01-13-11
                            • 11580

                            #83
                            Originally posted by Big Bear
                            i'm really fighting that urge to call. I would just hate to call and have her not answer my calll and make my self look needy for no reason. On the other hand I feel like if i call maybe she will want to make plans with me.

                            Is there any time frame where it would be okay to call?

                            I just hope she is not taking the attitude "He will call me if he wants to hangout" or if i wait like 3 weeks and by that time she might already be dating someone else.

                            But if i don't call her , eventually she will miss me and call me if she actually loves me right?
                            Call her right away and invite her over. But make sure you are crying when she arrives, also would help if you were wearing only tighty whities and had ice cream spilled all over your face and chest. Mixed with tears it puts off the ultimate sadness phermone and is sure to win you some pathetic points.
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                            • probettor1
                              SBR MVP
                              • 04-22-11
                              • 1985

                              #84
                              Originally posted by Big Bear
                              i'm really fighting that urge to call. I would just hate to call and have her not answer my calll and make my self look needy for no reason. On the other hand I feel like if i call maybe she will want to make plans with me.

                              Is there any time frame where it would be okay to call?

                              I just hope she is not taking the attitude "He will call me if he wants to hangout" or if i wait like 3 weeks and by that time she might already be dating someone else.

                              But if i don't call her , eventually she will miss me and call me if she actually loves me right?
                              Are you nuts, you are a ******* pussie, whats wrong with you? love you? She dumped you idiot. No woman love a pussie. A woman in love is like a worm, they will lick your shoes and wipe your ass smiling.
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                              • probettor1
                                SBR MVP
                                • 04-22-11
                                • 1985

                                #85
                                Originally posted by downsouth
                                Call her right away and invite her over. But make sure you are crying when she arrives, also would help if you were wearing only tighty whities and had ice cream spilled all over your face and chest. Mixed with tears it puts off the ultimate sadness phermone and is sure to win you some pathetic points.
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                                • paranoyd androyd
                                  SBR Hall of Famer
                                  • 10-01-11
                                  • 6459

                                  #86
                                  fukkin probettor
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                                  • probettor1
                                    SBR MVP
                                    • 04-22-11
                                    • 1985

                                    #87
                                    Love? I'm in love with Scarlett Johanssen, but I have a problem, she doesn't want to fuk with me. And this is the same problem you have with your ex. being in love with Scarlett Johanssen is as stupid as you being in love with your ex. Well I bet scarlett is way hotter than your ex. and scarlett never tried me. So in your case I'd say is way more stupid.
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                                    • probettor1
                                      SBR MVP
                                      • 04-22-11
                                      • 1985

                                      #88
                                      Women are like bets, you only bet when you are going to win. And there are thousand of games to choose. You get stuck with one team you are done. Move on and win your bet. You only win if you get laid.
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                                      • probettor1
                                        SBR MVP
                                        • 04-22-11
                                        • 1985

                                        #89
                                        The problem is that we see too many romantic movies. I love my wife, great sex, never complains, neved mad, works hard, sexy, beautiful. But if she wants to move on tomorrow and try new things I would be happy for her. Love someone means wishing this person the best, if the best for her is moving on then why would i try to stop her?
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                                        • probettor1
                                          SBR MVP
                                          • 04-22-11
                                          • 1985

                                          #90
                                          Can you please give me you ex phone number? better a guy that you kind of know than a complete stranger. It wont bother me if she bang you now and then while I'm doing her, that is a plus.
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                                          • probettor1
                                            SBR MVP
                                            • 04-22-11
                                            • 1985

                                            #91
                                            Originally posted by Ra77er
                                            If possible get yourself involved with something to keep your mind busy, the worst thing you can do is sit around the house eating rocky road and watching Dawson's Creek reruns. Call some friends up, go out on the town, strip club, sporting event, casino, work on a side project etc....I know the feeling and its painful, god bless.
                                            Sorry, this is all crap. Nice, romantic but crap. You just need a new pussie. You dont trade the queen with a pawn. pussie with pussie.
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                                            • clynnm17
                                              SBR MVP
                                              • 09-08-10
                                              • 1360

                                              #92
                                              I gonna start a thread that says how do I get rid of mine
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                                              • probettor1
                                                SBR MVP
                                                • 04-22-11
                                                • 1985

                                                #93
                                                Originally posted by clynnm17
                                                I gonna start a thread that says how do I get rid of mine

                                                Post her phone number, we are hungry here. especially if she in the one in your picture.
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                                                • Ghenghis Kahn
                                                  SBR Posting Legend
                                                  • 01-02-12
                                                  • 19734

                                                  #94
                                                  Originally posted by Big Bear
                                                  i'm really fighting that urge to call. I would just hate to call and have her not answer my calll and make my self look needy for no reason. On the other hand I feel like if i call maybe she will want to make plans with me.

                                                  Is there any time frame where it would be okay to call?

                                                  I just hope she is not taking the attitude "He will call me if he wants to hangout" or if i wait like 3 weeks and by that time she might already be dating someone else.

                                                  But if i don't call her , eventually she will miss me and call me if she actually loves me right?
                                                  jesus christ pal. get a grip. listen to yourself. you're sounding like a little bitch right now. be a man, not a sobbing teenager. only way to get her back is to say **** it and forget about her. how can she respect you when you don't even respect yourself? stop playing yourself and grow the **** up. if you want respect from her, stop calling her. get that thought out of your head. show some toughness pal, you are not a kid anymore.
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                                                  • Big Bear
                                                    SBR Aristocracy
                                                    • 11-01-11
                                                    • 43253

                                                    #95
                                                    You guys are right I am being a little bitch. I'm depressed as fukk.

                                                    I am done with thread I'll let y'all know if she ever comes back. For now on I will Only post about sports
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                                                    • RubberKettle
                                                      SBR Hall of Famer
                                                      • 12-28-09
                                                      • 6421

                                                      #96
                                                      You putting the oyster on a pedestal mang

                                                      Find a new chick to fuk. They all want time and money
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                                                      • MWade
                                                        SBR Hustler
                                                        • 03-28-11
                                                        • 98

                                                        #97
                                                        **** as many betches as you can she will come back
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                                                        • Thunder Gulch
                                                          SBR Wise Guy
                                                          • 08-30-10
                                                          • 996

                                                          #98
                                                          Go out and start hooking up with her friends, or better yet her younger sister. You have to make yourself the fun, desirable guy instead of the pathetic loser that started this thread. Trying to see her here and there is the absolute worst thing to do. If she sees you when you are out with someone else (better) she may come around, but what's more likely is that you start to have a great time without her and move on.
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                                                          • Thunder Gulch
                                                            SBR Wise Guy
                                                            • 08-30-10
                                                            • 996

                                                            #99
                                                            Originally posted by Big Bear
                                                            i'm really fighting that urge to call. I would just hate to call and have her not answer my calll and make my self look needy for no reason. On the other hand I feel like if i call maybe she will want to make plans with me.

                                                            Is there any time frame where it would be okay to call?

                                                            I just hope she is not taking the attitude "He will call me if he wants to hangout" or if i wait like 3 weeks and by that time she might already be dating someone else.

                                                            But if i don't call her , eventually she will miss me and call me if she actually loves me right?
                                                            Don't call anytime soon. Seriously, a few months...She isn't coming back soon if you pursue her. For her to make the break after 6 years couldn't have been easy (unless you really suck), so she's clear now to play the field. You can't get her back by chasing, you have to change yourself and hope she notices.
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                                                            • Big Bear
                                                              SBR Aristocracy
                                                              • 11-01-11
                                                              • 43253

                                                              #100
                                                              Aight guys I get it. You all think I'm a broke dick pussy bitch fukking loser. Let's end this thread.
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                                                              • visualrealism
                                                                SBR Wise Guy
                                                                • 10-13-11
                                                                • 880

                                                                #101
                                                                probettor1 fuckin hilarious
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                                                                • Rich Boy
                                                                  SBR Hall of Famer
                                                                  • 02-01-09
                                                                  • 9714

                                                                  #102
                                                                  Probettor has a very strong interest in this case, I wonder if he is secretly banging your girl?
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                                                                  • probettor1
                                                                    SBR MVP
                                                                    • 04-22-11
                                                                    • 1985

                                                                    #103
                                                                    Originally posted by Rich Boy
                                                                    Probettor has a very strong interest in this case, I wonder if he is secretly banging your girl?
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                                                                    • downsouth
                                                                      SBR Posting Legend
                                                                      • 01-13-11
                                                                      • 11580

                                                                      #104
                                                                      Originally posted by Big Bear
                                                                      Aight guys I get it. You all think I'm a broke dick pussy bitch fukking loser. Let's end this thread.
                                                                      Did you try crying yet?
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                                                                      • probettor1
                                                                        SBR MVP
                                                                        • 04-22-11
                                                                        • 1985

                                                                        #105
                                                                        Originally posted by Big Bear
                                                                        You guys are right I am being a little bitch. I'm depressed as fukk.

                                                                        I am done with thread I'll let y'all know if she ever comes back. For now on I will Only post about sports
                                                                        depressed as fukk for a girl? You are hidding something. Were you one of those kids playing football in Penn State University?
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