[stevek173]

In all seriousness.

She is kind of cute (no pictures, sorry). A few years older then me, possibly smarter. We met on the dating site. It went to Facebook, then FB chat. Good job, no kids, down to earth and cool. Funny too.

Has started calling me "trouble". Tells me I am not approaching the friend zone at least.

Gave me her digits last night. I didn't text her last night 1) to not appear to anxious and 2) went out.

I do think if I don't text her tonight I will be showing a lack of interest which is not the case.

Hate if you want I don't care. Serious and helpful replies are appreciated.

[Deuce]

Steve, at your age, don't play games.

Games are for teenagers. Not being a dick, being serious.

[opie1988]

Regardless of what people say in here.......just keep it classy. A little humor is always good as well.
'
Just tell her you've enjoyed the little you've gotten to know her, and would love to take her to dinner sometime.
You're a smart guy. It sounds like you dig her.

Good luck, my brother!

Stevie....this was officially my 1000th post here at SBR! It was an honor to do it in your thread!

[EDDIE MONEY LINE]

trouble is always a good thing...girls love trouble and the prospect of trouble and excitment

Def. text something...could be as little as "was just thinking about u, what you upto?"

[milwaukee mike]

asking other guys for advice? especially the kind of guys that hang around here?
quit being a oyster and grow some balls - and by oyster i think you know what i really meant

[nosniboR11]

stevie become a pro,

[chilidog]

Are you 12? You don't know how to handle women by now?? WTF. Grow up, man. Seriously, asking other men how you should play this? You should check to make sure that your balls are still firmly attached.

[VegasInsider]

Text or call her, see what she's doing.

[big0mar]

Text her

Don't ask her to do anything

Just say some fun things you are doing

End the conversation

Text her tomorrow, tell her about something fun you are doing, and tell her she can join if she wants

Don't ask her to do anything, she will think you are desperate

[icecapper]

Older girls are tough to manipulate, i'd stay away. Haha

[sickler]

Wait two days after she gives you her number to text her.

[chilidog]

Older girls are tough to manipulate, i'd stay away. Haha

All females are rather easy to manipulate.

[cant call it]

Tell her your mom wants you to get out of the house since you haven't seen the sunlight in eleven years, mom has some grooving to do and dont want you there for it so you are trying to find something to do.

[LLXC]

Call don't text?

[stevek173]

Text her

Don't ask her to do anything

Just say some fun things you are doing

End the conversation

Text her tomorrow, tell her about something fun you are doing, and tell her she can join if she wants

Don't ask her to do anything, she will think you are desperate

I like this.

I appreciate all the feedback. I actually talked to her on FB, dropped her my # and told her she can feel free to text me as well. 1st one to text loses control of the situation, and I am not budging.

[jjgold]

You get more tangled up with women more than any guy I have ever seen

175 what are you looking for??

It seems your on tilt with women

[BatemanPatrickl]

Steve was that website Plenty of Fish DOT com? How big is tha fish?

[stevek173]

Never been on that site actually.

J in the long run someone to settle down with.

Wouldn't mind tearing through some more skanks until I find that though, as long as they are at lease somewhat attractive.

I like the 2 I have dialogue going with now. Getting better at the games. I hate games...but there is no choice.

[milwaukee mike]

steve, serious question here.
sbr has given you all those points/money and you can't throw one of their sponsors $200 to be a pro?

sorry in advance if you have answered this 100 times already.

[bradthebloke]

i wouldnt text her for the first time on a fri night. looks like you have nothing to do

[minet123]

This always works

"I miss your smile"

(I guess it only works if you have met them in person)

[poochiecollins]

asking other guys for advice? especially the kind of guys that hang around here? quit being a oyster and grow some balls - and by oyster i think you know what i really meant

Some guys here will be "winners" by accident... a lot of people.

Are you 12? You don't know how to handle women by now?? WTF. Grow up, man. Seriously, asking other men how you should play this? You should check to make sure that your balls are still firmly attached.

A lot of people of both genders are suboptimal on how to date and/or dealing with the opposite sex up through old ages; don't be so closed-minded and arrogant.

[stevek173]

steve, serious question here.
sbr has given you all those points/money and you can't throw one of their sponsors $200 to be a pro?

sorry in advance if you have answered this 100 times already.

All good man. My book is not liked or respected by SBR or their users. To this point it didn't really affect me, I am a person who does not care what others think of what I do. I ate the extra juice on freeplays and what not. I am a creature of habit. They send to me no problem and I cash no problem. When I have something good going I don't like to mess with it; especially the way the online climate is in the USA - if it's a new place you don't know, if they send you a check - is your bank going to honor it? They might even close down your account? It's crazy, but true.

So as opposed to going someplace new where a possible withdrawal might not work out, I kept doing what I have been doing.

Might change that soon, maybe when I have enough for my next freeplay purchase or something.

[Ace_of_Spades]

Steve, have you ever touch a female before? Do you know what a vagina is?

[poochiecollins]

Steve, at your age, don't play games. Games are for teenagers. Not being a dick, being serious.

I disagree. "Games" can make things more fun. It raises risk/reward, so they can draw people together more or blow things up. Attracting someone can be compared to doing well at a job in a sense, where being attractive/good and being in/with the right job/person will involve some things you like doing and some things you won't. "Games" can smooth over the things one doesn't like, possibly even turning them into things you -do- like.

[zr2786]

Steve: When you text her, the first you should say to her is BITCH make me a sandwich!

[downsouth]

asks her is she has any interest in getting together to play a game of cowboys and indians.

[EXhoosier10]

tell her you want to hang out. stop playin games

[Maverick22]

I think any advice depends on what you all talked about previously.

Take her the batting cage/arcade. Tell her you want a chick, that does more than sit around and look good. She needs to be able to 'do stuff'

Practicality first Then tell her to fix you a sandwich.

PS: Dating sucks. It is a big game, and people lose out because of that. Don't take this new girl to dinner She hasn't earned it yet.

[sharper2]

just come off as casual and chill, if you come off as clingy that's usually an instant break off for girls

[Chugs]

3 letters will tell you all you need to know...

DTF?

[meader99]

It's all about the "chase" Steve. Make it last as long as possible, because once you catch her, it's all downhill after that.

[COYLO]

" do you spit or swallow" works every time

[kiln]

If she is the kind of woman who won't mind you referring to her as a "broad" why don't you just club her over the head with a club and drag her back to your cave?

[stevek173]

I sent her this at 1 am because I was blasted

"drunk text"

no response, and I don't really give a shit. Well I do a little.