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  • BrickJames
    SBR Hall of Famer
    • 05-05-11
    • 9749

    #36
    Originally posted by eaglesfan371
    I have been commenting on big bear dating drama for months now. Same post similar stories repeatedly.

    I don’t find going to a bar and getting to know someone over drinks fun. I suggest dates based on personality. Girl was nerdy and very introverted, so painting fit her. If she was extroverted, would have chosen dancing. I find activity dates have more success than drinks or coffee.
    Alcohol makes girls fuk, its proven.
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    • Big Bear
      SBR Aristocracy
      • 11-01-11
      • 43253

      #37
      Originally posted by eaglesfan371
      No your bud is in a relationship, you’re just trying to fuk. STOP texting her first. How many times do WE have to tell you. Let her come to you if the dik was as bomb as u suggest.

      The date I went on yesterday, girl immediately send me her number and we talk briefly before bed. Today I did not text her and she sends me two words at 3pm. What the hell am I supposed to say to two words. Answer is I don’t. Takes two to have a conversation and we all know every girl seeing many guys. The longer you don’t talk the more they’re like damn he hasn’t talked to me, and poses a challenge. If they’re actually into you, this is where they become more interested. They want a challenge, someone who isn’t going to always respond, blow up their phones or seems free all the time.
      Aight bro I’m really doing it this time. No more reaching out.

      I’m also quitting weed for a month starting today
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      • eaglesfan371
        SBR MVP
        • 01-08-19
        • 4079

        #38
        Originally posted by Big Bear
        Aight bro I’m really doing it this time. No more reaching out.

        I’m also quitting weed for a month starting today
        Did anything ever happen after the one night stand with that girl who said she only wanted to be friends and said "I chose you out of many guys, feel lucky". Then said don't be weird when you said good morning or some shit.
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        • BrickJames
          SBR Hall of Famer
          • 05-05-11
          • 9749

          #39
          Originally posted by eaglesfan371
          Did anything ever happen after the one night stand with that girl who said she only wanted to be friends and said "I chose you out of many guys, feel lucky". Then said don't be weird when you said good morning or some shit.
          Bottom line is if a chick let's you know she is seeing other guys you are an extreme "cuck".

          By any standards that is not ok.

          Any real man would not put up with a woman telling him that she sees other men.

          Carry on. F@gs
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          • BrickJames
            SBR Hall of Famer
            • 05-05-11
            • 9749

            #40
            Big Bear, go buy yourself some tampax tampons. The super absorbent ones.

            Eagles, please find the lowest Bridge possible. I don't want you to kill yourself I just want you to be paralyzed and in a wheelchair.
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            • Big Bear
              SBR Aristocracy
              • 11-01-11
              • 43253

              #41
              Originally posted by eaglesfan371
              Did anything ever happen after the one night stand with that girl who said she only wanted to be friends and said "I chose you out of many guys, feel lucky". Then said don't be weird when you said good morning or some shit.
              same girl.

              so she actually text me and came over last night late. I thought it was a booty call but when she got there she looked upset like she might have been crying earlier but she said she was just tired.

              we had a glass of wine and vaped some weed and talked for awhile and then she put her feet on my lap and went to sleep on the couch.

              No idea what to think now lol

              We got to talking before that and she basically admitted to having guys directed to her instagram from the dating site profiles and she said her profile is public but they have to request to be a friend to send her a message. She said she had like 350 of them this weekend and denied all of them.

              I’m like so you only do it for attention it’s some sort of feeling of power that you like? and she basically said well yeah kinda. She said all girls are like that

              I’m like hmm I wouldn’t understand that I’m a dude and she’s like yeah you wouldn’t but I’m used to being treated like a princess

              so I guess she doesn’t plan on ghosting me but maybe she wants to slow things down or maybe she just wasn’t in the mood

              she slept on the couch I slept in my room

              so that was kind of odd I mean she has a really good personality. I could see myself dating her but all that being said I guess the play is still to just totally back off and let her come around when she wants to

              women are hard to understand

              I think part of it is when you get high with someone it kind of has a bonding effect
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              • allabout the $$$
                SBR Hall of Famer
                • 04-17-10
                • 9843

                #42
                you are fukkin friend zoned time to move on!
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                • Big Bear
                  SBR Aristocracy
                  • 11-01-11
                  • 43253

                  #43
                  Originally posted by allabout the $$$
                  you are fukkin friend zoned time to move on!
                  lmao maybe so who knows
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                  • Big Bear
                    SBR Aristocracy
                    • 11-01-11
                    • 43253

                    #44
                    I was trying really hard not to validate her.

                    she was like how have your dates been going? only thing I slipped up and said was that she didn’t have much competition and that there were not many quality women on the apps

                    that’s just being real though
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                    • bigtymer56
                      SBR MVP
                      • 07-31-12
                      • 4742

                      #45
                      Originally posted by Big Bear
                      I was trying really hard not to validate her.

                      she was like how have your dates been going? only thing I slipped up and said was that she didn’t have much competition and that there were not many quality women on the apps

                      that’s just being real though
                      Lmao, that's a huge slip up.
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                      • Big Bear
                        SBR Aristocracy
                        • 11-01-11
                        • 43253

                        #46
                        Originally posted by bigtymer56
                        Lmao, that's a huge slip up.
                        it’s actually true though. what I’ve noticed is hot women don’t need dating apps to get a dude. All they have to do is leave their house.

                        Pretty much the only hot women on dating apps in the summer are on there for all the attention they get.
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                        • eaglesfan371
                          SBR MVP
                          • 01-08-19
                          • 4079

                          #47
                          Originally posted by Big Bear
                          I was trying really hard not to validate her.

                          she was like how have your dates been going? only thing I slipped up and said was that she didn’t have much competition and that there were not many quality women on the apps

                          that’s just being real though
                          Bruh women want what other women want. Never put yourself down Jesus. Sounds like friendzone to me tbh.
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                          • eaglesfan371
                            SBR MVP
                            • 01-08-19
                            • 4079

                            #48
                            Originally posted by Big Bear
                            it’s actually true though. what I’ve noticed is hot women don’t need dating apps to get a dude. All they have to do is leave their house.

                            Pretty much the only hot women on dating apps in the summer are on there for all the attention they get.
                            Men are so desperate these days that as a woman you could be a fat pig, wear a tight dress and find a guy at a bar to go home with you 9/10 times.
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                            • Big Bear
                              SBR Aristocracy
                              • 11-01-11
                              • 43253

                              #49
                              Originally posted by eaglesfan371
                              Bruh women want what other women want. Never put yourself down Jesus. Sounds like friendzone to me tbh.
                              I didn’t put myself down

                              I was just honest

                              I don’t date women I am not really interested in. I got a lot on my plate with work
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                              • Big Bear
                                SBR Aristocracy
                                • 11-01-11
                                • 43253

                                #50
                                so ole girl text me at 2:30am last night saying hey wanna come get me?

                                I didnt see it until today

                                should i just ignore or how would yall respond
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                                • allabout the $$$
                                  SBR Hall of Famer
                                  • 04-17-10
                                  • 9843

                                  #51
                                  Originally posted by Big Bear
                                  so ole girl text me at 2:30am last night saying hey wanna come get me?

                                  I didnt see it until today

                                  should i just ignore or how would yall respond
                                  sorry i couldnt get back to you last night i had company over
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                                  • Big Bear
                                    SBR Aristocracy
                                    • 11-01-11
                                    • 43253

                                    #52
                                    Originally posted by allabout the $$$
                                    sorry i couldnt get back to you last night i had company over

                                    went with let me know next time you want to something, hopefully I’ll be awake lol

                                    and ofcourse no response

                                    i sure as hell aint asking her out though
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                                    • allabout the $$$
                                      SBR Hall of Famer
                                      • 04-17-10
                                      • 9843

                                      #53
                                      Originally posted by Big Bear
                                      went with let me know next time you want to something, hopefully I’ll be awake lol

                                      and ofcourse no response

                                      i sure as hell aint asking her out though
                                      you are an idiot

                                      women want what someone else has! you telling her you had company was a big fukk you to her! seriously wake the fukk up and stop being a bitch
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                                      • Big Bear
                                        SBR Aristocracy
                                        • 11-01-11
                                        • 43253

                                        #54
                                        Originally posted by allabout the $$$
                                        you are an idiot

                                        women want what someone else has! you telling her you had company was a big fukk you to her! seriously wake the fukk up and stop being a bitch
                                        but I’m not trying to say fukk you

                                        I don’t play games I’m a genuine guy
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                                        • allabout the $$$
                                          SBR Hall of Famer
                                          • 04-17-10
                                          • 9843

                                          #55
                                          Originally posted by Big Bear
                                          but I’m not trying to say fukk you

                                          I don’t play games I’m a genuine guy
                                          and this is why she shits on you. grow a set of balls and man up.
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                                          • eaglesfan371
                                            SBR MVP
                                            • 01-08-19
                                            • 4079

                                            #56
                                            Originally posted by Big Bear
                                            but I’m not trying to say fukk you

                                            I don’t play games I’m a genuine guy
                                            "I'm a nice guy"

                                            LOL

                                            dude cmon play the game, man up all about $$$ is right
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                                            • Big Bear
                                              SBR Aristocracy
                                              • 11-01-11
                                              • 43253

                                              #57
                                              been reading books about stoicsm

                                              trying to be selfless

                                              I cant control what others do
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                                              • Big Bear
                                                SBR Aristocracy
                                                • 11-01-11
                                                • 43253

                                                #58
                                                was listening to this book on audible called the obstacle is the way

                                                It was talking about how life is all about perception

                                                you have the choice of how you look at a situation

                                                basically they call this bread crumbing women do it to keep you thinking about them and they do it for a power trip

                                                they think it will crush a guys self esteem and break their confidence

                                                but you can choose the way you look at it


                                                I feel like what I should do is wait for her to finally come over on her own and be straight up with her

                                                I got a date with a new girl tomorrow
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                                                • allabout the $$$
                                                  SBR Hall of Famer
                                                  • 04-17-10
                                                  • 9843

                                                  #59
                                                  Originally posted by Big Bear
                                                  was listening to this book on audible called the obstacle is the way

                                                  It was talking about how life is all about perception

                                                  you have the choice of how you look at a situation

                                                  basically they call this bread crumbing women do it to keep you thinking about them and they do it for a power trip

                                                  they think it will crush a guys self esteem and break their confidence

                                                  but you can choose the way you look at it


                                                  I feel like what I should do is wait for her to finally come over on her own and be straight up with her

                                                  I got a date with a new girl tomorrow
                                                  do whatever you want stop fukkin posting about it.

                                                  your a cuck boy
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                                                  • bigtymer56
                                                    SBR MVP
                                                    • 07-31-12
                                                    • 4742

                                                    #60
                                                    Originally posted by Big Bear
                                                    so ole girl text me at 2:30am last night saying hey wanna come get me?

                                                    I didnt see it until today

                                                    should i just ignore or how would yall respond
                                                    Lol...she didn't want to pay for a cab or Uber to pick her from whatever club she was at so she texted you.
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                                                    • HurryUpAndDrink
                                                      SBR Posting Legend
                                                      • 08-23-13
                                                      • 13017

                                                      #61
                                                      Originally posted by allabout the $$$
                                                      do whatever you want stop fukkin posting about it.

                                                      your a cuck boy
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                                                      • Big Bear
                                                        SBR Aristocracy
                                                        • 11-01-11
                                                        • 43253

                                                        #62
                                                        Originally posted by bigtymer56
                                                        Lol...she didn't want to pay for a cab or Uber to pick her from whatever club she was at so she texted you.
                                                        haha well that and probably to smoke my weed too

                                                        but foreal if I was awake at 2:30am it would probably be because I was up drinking

                                                        the chances of me being awake at 2:30am and sober and ready to come pick someone up are very slim

                                                        I see what yall are saying about imply you had another chick over to make her jealous but It’s just not congruent with my personality
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                                                        • Big Bear
                                                          SBR Aristocracy
                                                          • 11-01-11
                                                          • 43253

                                                          #63
                                                          so I text her today “I want to see you.Can you meet me at my place at 8pm and we’ll sushi and blaze after”


                                                          Just wanted to be completely direct.

                                                          She ofcourse ignored me.

                                                          I’m done with her, I’m never reaching out to her again, period. That’s disrespectful, I’m moving on.

                                                          If she ever does get back in contact I will try It’s all about the Money’s suggestion “I’m sorry I couldn’t get back to you I had company over”

                                                          I wouldn’t have done that but her straight up ignoring me after texting me at 2:30am is not showing me any respect at all.
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                                                          • HurryUpAndDrink
                                                            SBR Posting Legend
                                                            • 08-23-13
                                                            • 13017

                                                            #64
                                                            dude.....................
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                                                            • Big Bear
                                                              SBR Aristocracy
                                                              • 11-01-11
                                                              • 43253

                                                              #65
                                                              Originally posted by HurryUpAndDrink
                                                              dude.....................
                                                              Let me just say this.

                                                              I finally had that ahh ha moment.

                                                              It all makes sense now.

                                                              See I was looking at it from a logical view point. But with women It finally makes sense to me that they are all fukking evil heartless bitches for the most part.

                                                              I was thinking that it might be a turn off if she thought I was fukkin other women but it’s the exact opposite. they actually want to fukk dudes who are fukking other women.

                                                              As soon as you give them any fukking validation they are going to chase the next guys validation.

                                                              I keep thinking that I finally met a nice woman that I can be real with. They are all the same.


                                                              I get it now.

                                                              Next time if there is a next time I am going to either ignore totally, call her out, or say hey sorry I have company etc...

                                                              It may be too late with this one but it was a good life lesson moving forward

                                                              I deleted all my dating apps too

                                                              done with online dating I’m going to man the fukk up and start approaching every hot girl i see in public now unless she got a ring on

                                                              anyway I appreciate the tough love boys

                                                              I admit I was doing it all wrong

                                                              I am a nice guy at heart but I can’t let women see that
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                                                              • thechaoz
                                                                SBR Posting Legend
                                                                • 10-23-09
                                                                • 12154

                                                                #66
                                                                Originally posted by Big Bear
                                                                Let me just say this.

                                                                I finally had that ahh ha moment.

                                                                It all makes sense now.

                                                                See I was looking at it from a logical view point. But with women It finally makes sense to me that they are all fukking evil heartless bitches for the most part.

                                                                I was thinking that it might be a turn off if she thought I was fukkin other women but it’s the exact opposite. they actually want to fukk dudes who are fukking other women.

                                                                As soon as you give them any fukking validation they are going to chase the next guys validation.

                                                                I keep thinking that I finally met a nice woman that I can be real with. They are all the same.


                                                                I get it now.

                                                                Next time if there is a next time I am going to either ignore totally, call her out, or say hey sorry I have company etc...

                                                                It may be too late with this one but it was a good life lesson moving forward

                                                                I deleted all my dating apps too

                                                                done with online dating I’m going to man the fukk up and start approaching every hot girl i see in public now unless she got a ring on

                                                                anyway I appreciate the tough love boys

                                                                I admit I was doing it all wrong

                                                                I am a nice guy at heart but I can’t let women see that
                                                                Please go to reddit and start reading the r/redpill material. You're like my brother, but he never tried and is a hopeless cuck like my dad.

                                                                I broke up with this cheating bitch in my early 30's and had finally had enough. I read, practiced, failed, read, succeeded, practiced, over and over. You have to change the way your mind works when growing up with a beta father/no father/ overbearing mother. Life has been amazing since.

                                                                I respect you for trying but SBR isn't the place to learn. A few guys on here get it like Fats, usc, HUD, all about, etc. There are many others, but I'm just throwing it out there.

                                                                Long story short, whatever jts says, do the exact opposite.
                                                                Redpill, ask trp has years upon years of resources, books, articles, posts, trip reports. It will all makes sense with your observations during life and click, but it will always be a learning process and that's what makes it great.

                                                                This will be my last post on the subject.

                                                                GL
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                                                                • bigtymer56
                                                                  SBR MVP
                                                                  • 07-31-12
                                                                  • 4742

                                                                  #67
                                                                  Originally posted by Big Bear
                                                                  Let me just say this.

                                                                  I finally had that ahh ha moment.

                                                                  It all makes sense now.

                                                                  See I was looking at it from a logical view point. But with women It finally makes sense to me that they are all fukking evil heartless bitches for the most part.

                                                                  I was thinking that it might be a turn off if she thought I was fukkin other women but it’s the exact opposite. they actually want to fukk dudes who are fukking other women.

                                                                  As soon as you give them any fukking validation they are going to chase the next guys validation.

                                                                  I keep thinking that I finally met a nice woman that I can be real with. They are all the same.


                                                                  I get it now.

                                                                  Next time if there is a next time I am going to either ignore totally, call her out, or say hey sorry I have company etc...

                                                                  It may be too late with this one but it was a good life lesson moving forward

                                                                  I deleted all my dating apps too

                                                                  done with online dating I’m going to man the fukk up and start approaching every hot girl i see in public now unless she got a ring on

                                                                  anyway I appreciate the tough love boys

                                                                  I admit I was doing it all wrong

                                                                  I am a nice guy at heart but I can’t let women see that
                                                                  Lmao, big difference between a nice guy and letting people disrespect you and your time. Most women don't want to be with a pushover.
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                                                                  • HurryUpAndDrink
                                                                    SBR Posting Legend
                                                                    • 08-23-13
                                                                    • 13017

                                                                    #68
                                                                    Originally posted by thechaoz
                                                                    please go to reddit and start reading the r/redpill material. You're like my brother, but he never tried and is a hopeless cuck like my dad.

                                                                    I broke up with this cheating bitch in my early 30's and had finally had enough. I read, practiced, failed, read, succeeded, practiced, over and over. You have to change the way your mind works when growing up with a beta father/no father/ overbearing mother. Life has been amazing since.

                                                                    I respect you for trying but sbr isn't the place to learn. A few guys on here get it like fats, usc, hud, all about, etc. There are many others, but i'm just throwing it out there.

                                                                    Long story short, whatever jts says, do the exact opposite.
                                                                    Redpill, ask trp has years upon years of resources, books, articles, posts, trip reports. It will all makes sense with your observations during life and click, but it will always be a learning process and that's what makes it great.

                                                                    This will be my last post on the subject.

                                                                    Gl
                                                                    my name is hurryupandsnortblow and i fuckin endorse this post
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