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BrickJamesSBR Hall of Famer
- 05-05-11
- 9749
#36Comment -
Big BearSBR Aristocracy
- 11-01-11
- 43253
#37No your bud is in a relationship, you’re just trying to fuk. STOP texting her first. How many times do WE have to tell you. Let her come to you if the dik was as bomb as u suggest.
The date I went on yesterday, girl immediately send me her number and we talk briefly before bed. Today I did not text her and she sends me two words at 3pm. What the hell am I supposed to say to two words. Answer is I don’t. Takes two to have a conversation and we all know every girl seeing many guys. The longer you don’t talk the more they’re like damn he hasn’t talked to me, and poses a challenge. If they’re actually into you, this is where they become more interested. They want a challenge, someone who isn’t going to always respond, blow up their phones or seems free all the time.
I’m also quitting weed for a month starting todayComment -
eaglesfan371SBR MVP
- 01-08-19
- 4079
#38Did anything ever happen after the one night stand with that girl who said she only wanted to be friends and said "I chose you out of many guys, feel lucky". Then said don't be weird when you said good morning or some shit.Comment -
BrickJamesSBR Hall of Famer
- 05-05-11
- 9749
#39
By any standards that is not ok.
Any real man would not put up with a woman telling him that she sees other men.
Carry on. F@gsComment -
BrickJamesSBR Hall of Famer
- 05-05-11
- 9749
#40Big Bear, go buy yourself some tampax tampons. The super absorbent ones.
Eagles, please find the lowest Bridge possible. I don't want you to kill yourself I just want you to be paralyzed and in a wheelchair.Comment -
Big BearSBR Aristocracy
- 11-01-11
- 43253
#41
so she actually text me and came over last night late. I thought it was a booty call but when she got there she looked upset like she might have been crying earlier but she said she was just tired.
we had a glass of wine and vaped some weed and talked for awhile and then she put her feet on my lap and went to sleep on the couch.
No idea what to think now lol
We got to talking before that and she basically admitted to having guys directed to her instagram from the dating site profiles and she said her profile is public but they have to request to be a friend to send her a message. She said she had like 350 of them this weekend and denied all of them.
I’m like so you only do it for attention it’s some sort of feeling of power that you like? and she basically said well yeah kinda. She said all girls are like that
I’m like hmm I wouldn’t understand that I’m a dude and she’s like yeah you wouldn’t but I’m used to being treated like a princess
so I guess she doesn’t plan on ghosting me but maybe she wants to slow things down or maybe she just wasn’t in the mood
she slept on the couch I slept in my room
so that was kind of odd I mean she has a really good personality. I could see myself dating her but all that being said I guess the play is still to just totally back off and let her come around when she wants to
women are hard to understand
I think part of it is when you get high with someone it kind of has a bonding effectComment -
allabout the $$$SBR Hall of Famer
- 04-17-10
- 9843
#42you are fukkin friend zoned time to move on!Comment -
Big BearSBR Aristocracy
- 11-01-11
- 43253
#44I was trying really hard not to validate her.
she was like how have your dates been going? only thing I slipped up and said was that she didn’t have much competition and that there were not many quality women on the apps
that’s just being real thoughComment -
bigtymer56SBR MVP
- 07-31-12
- 4742
#45Lmao, that's a huge slip up.Comment -
Big BearSBR Aristocracy
- 11-01-11
- 43253
#46it’s actually true though. what I’ve noticed is hot women don’t need dating apps to get a dude. All they have to do is leave their house.
Pretty much the only hot women on dating apps in the summer are on there for all the attention they get.Comment -
eaglesfan371SBR MVP
- 01-08-19
- 4079
#47Bruh women want what other women want. Never put yourself down Jesus. Sounds like friendzone to me tbh.Comment -
eaglesfan371SBR MVP
- 01-08-19
- 4079
#48Men are so desperate these days that as a woman you could be a fat pig, wear a tight dress and find a guy at a bar to go home with you 9/10 times.Comment -
Big BearSBR Aristocracy
- 11-01-11
- 43253
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Big BearSBR Aristocracy
- 11-01-11
- 43253
#50so ole girl text me at 2:30am last night saying hey wanna come get me?
I didnt see it until today
should i just ignore or how would yall respondComment -
Big BearSBR Aristocracy
- 11-01-11
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allabout the $$$SBR Hall of Famer
- 04-17-10
- 9843
#53
women want what someone else has! you telling her you had company was a big fukk you to her! seriously wake the fukk up and stop being a bitchComment -
Big BearSBR Aristocracy
- 11-01-11
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Big BearSBR Aristocracy
- 11-01-11
- 43253
#57been reading books about stoicsm
trying to be selfless
I cant control what others doComment -
Big BearSBR Aristocracy
- 11-01-11
- 43253
#58was listening to this book on audible called the obstacle is the way
It was talking about how life is all about perception
you have the choice of how you look at a situation
basically they call this bread crumbing women do it to keep you thinking about them and they do it for a power trip
they think it will crush a guys self esteem and break their confidence
but you can choose the way you look at it
I feel like what I should do is wait for her to finally come over on her own and be straight up with her
I got a date with a new girl tomorrowComment -
allabout the $$$SBR Hall of Famer
- 04-17-10
- 9843
#59was listening to this book on audible called the obstacle is the way
It was talking about how life is all about perception
you have the choice of how you look at a situation
basically they call this bread crumbing women do it to keep you thinking about them and they do it for a power trip
they think it will crush a guys self esteem and break their confidence
but you can choose the way you look at it
I feel like what I should do is wait for her to finally come over on her own and be straight up with her
I got a date with a new girl tomorrow
your a cuck boyComment -
bigtymer56SBR MVP
- 07-31-12
- 4742
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Big BearSBR Aristocracy
- 11-01-11
- 43253
#62
but foreal if I was awake at 2:30am it would probably be because I was up drinking
the chances of me being awake at 2:30am and sober and ready to come pick someone up are very slim
I see what yall are saying about imply you had another chick over to make her jealous but It’s just not congruent with my personalityComment -
Big BearSBR Aristocracy
- 11-01-11
- 43253
#63so I text her today “I want to see you.Can you meet me at my place at 8pm and we’ll sushi and blaze after”
Just wanted to be completely direct.
She ofcourse ignored me.
I’m done with her, I’m never reaching out to her again, period. That’s disrespectful, I’m moving on.
If she ever does get back in contact I will try It’s all about the Money’s suggestion “I’m sorry I couldn’t get back to you I had company over”
I wouldn’t have done that but her straight up ignoring me after texting me at 2:30am is not showing me any respect at all.Comment -
HurryUpAndDrinkSBR Posting Legend
- 08-23-13
- 13017
#64dude.....................Comment -
Big BearSBR Aristocracy
- 11-01-11
- 43253
#65Let me just say this.
I finally had that ahh ha moment.
It all makes sense now.
See I was looking at it from a logical view point. But with women It finally makes sense to me that they are all fukking evil heartless bitches for the most part.
I was thinking that it might be a turn off if she thought I was fukkin other women but it’s the exact opposite. they actually want to fukk dudes who are fukking other women.
As soon as you give them any fukking validation they are going to chase the next guys validation.
I keep thinking that I finally met a nice woman that I can be real with. They are all the same.
I get it now.
Next time if there is a next time I am going to either ignore totally, call her out, or say hey sorry I have company etc...
It may be too late with this one but it was a good life lesson moving forward
I deleted all my dating apps too
done with online dating I’m going to man the fukk up and start approaching every hot girl i see in public now unless she got a ring on
anyway I appreciate the tough love boys
I admit I was doing it all wrong
I am a nice guy at heart but I can’t let women see thatComment -
thechaozSBR Posting Legend
- 10-23-09
- 12154
#66Let me just say this.
I finally had that ahh ha moment.
It all makes sense now.
See I was looking at it from a logical view point. But with women It finally makes sense to me that they are all fukking evil heartless bitches for the most part.
I was thinking that it might be a turn off if she thought I was fukkin other women but it’s the exact opposite. they actually want to fukk dudes who are fukking other women.
As soon as you give them any fukking validation they are going to chase the next guys validation.
I keep thinking that I finally met a nice woman that I can be real with. They are all the same.
I get it now.
Next time if there is a next time I am going to either ignore totally, call her out, or say hey sorry I have company etc...
It may be too late with this one but it was a good life lesson moving forward
I deleted all my dating apps too
done with online dating I’m going to man the fukk up and start approaching every hot girl i see in public now unless she got a ring on
anyway I appreciate the tough love boys
I admit I was doing it all wrong
I am a nice guy at heart but I can’t let women see that
I broke up with this cheating bitch in my early 30's and had finally had enough. I read, practiced, failed, read, succeeded, practiced, over and over. You have to change the way your mind works when growing up with a beta father/no father/ overbearing mother. Life has been amazing since.
I respect you for trying but SBR isn't the place to learn. A few guys on here get it like Fats, usc, HUD, all about, etc. There are many others, but I'm just throwing it out there.
Long story short, whatever jts says, do the exact opposite.
Redpill, ask trp has years upon years of resources, books, articles, posts, trip reports. It will all makes sense with your observations during life and click, but it will always be a learning process and that's what makes it great.
This will be my last post on the subject.
GLComment -
bigtymer56SBR MVP
- 07-31-12
- 4742
#67Let me just say this.
I finally had that ahh ha moment.
It all makes sense now.
See I was looking at it from a logical view point. But with women It finally makes sense to me that they are all fukking evil heartless bitches for the most part.
I was thinking that it might be a turn off if she thought I was fukkin other women but it’s the exact opposite. they actually want to fukk dudes who are fukking other women.
As soon as you give them any fukking validation they are going to chase the next guys validation.
I keep thinking that I finally met a nice woman that I can be real with. They are all the same.
I get it now.
Next time if there is a next time I am going to either ignore totally, call her out, or say hey sorry I have company etc...
It may be too late with this one but it was a good life lesson moving forward
I deleted all my dating apps too
done with online dating I’m going to man the fukk up and start approaching every hot girl i see in public now unless she got a ring on
anyway I appreciate the tough love boys
I admit I was doing it all wrong
I am a nice guy at heart but I can’t let women see thatComment -
HurryUpAndDrinkSBR Posting Legend
- 08-23-13
- 13017
#68please go to reddit and start reading the r/redpill material. You're like my brother, but he never tried and is a hopeless cuck like my dad.
I broke up with this cheating bitch in my early 30's and had finally had enough. I read, practiced, failed, read, succeeded, practiced, over and over. You have to change the way your mind works when growing up with a beta father/no father/ overbearing mother. Life has been amazing since.
I respect you for trying but sbr isn't the place to learn. A few guys on here get it like fats, usc, hud, all about, etc. There are many others, but i'm just throwing it out there.
Long story short, whatever jts says, do the exact opposite.
Redpill, ask trp has years upon years of resources, books, articles, posts, trip reports. It will all makes sense with your observations during life and click, but it will always be a learning process and that's what makes it great.
This will be my last post on the subject.
GlComment
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