This is not a joke. I need some real serious advice.
Just got home about an hour ago, spent 5 hours with my friend who is ready to kill himself. I am sure I convinced him to settle down and think things over and relax, but could not take the chance. I went over to his parents house and told them everything because it's that or the police. I told his parents where he was and told them to go over there asap. They did. I just can't take the chance that he wouldn't stay composed. It's too serious and he is severely emotionally compromised.
So this is what happened. My friend is 30, married for 6 years. His wife is 29. They have 3 children together, a 5 year old boy, and a 3 year old girl and a 11 month newborn. They have been together since high school. All outside observations would point everything is great with them and that they are loyal to each other. All of us guys would always tease him for being such a gentleman. The guy would never cheat. Even in LV when a bunch of us went for bachelor parties the guy had girls all over him and he just pushed them away. Anyways his wife too, I thought was an angel. She is definitely an 8/10. Thin, C cup, dark brown hair, beautiful girl. She works part time in an office as a assistant.
Now here is what happened. My friend 6 months ago came home from work early and found his brother over at his house, he was there to pick up one of my friends children, the 5 yr old boy to take him out. He thought it was cool and regretted not spending more time with his son. He said his brother had the day off and wanted to take him out to play. His wife that day he said was acting a bit strange. Now my friend is a sharp guy. It obviously entered into his mind that maybe his older brother and his wife were having an affair. He told me he puts the odds at like 1%. They get along good, but are not super close, but still obviously care about each other and help, but he dismissed it and didn't really think much of it because he did not think his wife AND brother could both betray him like that.
Fast forward to a month ago, and he came home early again and again his brother was there but dropping off his son. His brother never mentioned anything and he asked why to his wife she didnt mention anything. She said he just showed up and we are all a big family so it's ok, it's good for the boy. Now here is where my friend's life started to fall apart. His son, does NOT look like him at all, in fact he looks like his brother. He told me it entered his head that he got this suspicious that maybe his wife had an affair with his brother, and that his 5 yr old is not his but his brothers. He tried to think back and could not remember if the 9 months before the son was born if he was away.
With his wife's behavior, he went on a long shot hunch and had his son's DNA, along with his daughters and his newborn from a toothbrush, hair, and blood samples to be analyzed with his own. He then sent the samples to 2 different labs. Today he got back the results. My friends 5 year old son, and his 11 month old newborn are not his. His daughter is his only child. The DNA was a close match, but they told him, it's a relative. His brother, and his wife, have been having a long term affair and 2 of his 3 children are not his. He has not been home yet, and has not talked to his wife or brother yet. He found out this afternoon. He is a good friend of mine and I feel sick for him.
When we spoke and he was white as a ghost. There were no tears left in his body. He was very dehydrated. He was so taken back, and so depressed he told me he did not want to live. After i forced him to drink some water i convinced him to not leave his daughter and parents. He told me he was ok, and was going to stay over at a hotel. I followed him to a holiday inn, and he did get a room and go inside. I called a few of our friends and sent them over to the hotel. I then drove over to his parents house, told them everything, and sent them to the hotel.
I really don't know what I can do. His parents took over, but I feel he's going to be super fked up forever. How can you possibly recover from that? It's one thing for her to have an affair, but with his brother, AND his child he raised for 5 yrs, is his brothers, AND the newborn? I honestly would climb a bell tower if i was him. I am worried the RAGE will soon enter him. I don't really know what to do, i pray his parents take him in and take care of him. I will do everything i can, but I really don't know what i can do right now.
Should i go talk to his brother? Beat the crap out of his brother? WTF
Just got home about an hour ago, spent 5 hours with my friend who is ready to kill himself. I am sure I convinced him to settle down and think things over and relax, but could not take the chance. I went over to his parents house and told them everything because it's that or the police. I told his parents where he was and told them to go over there asap. They did. I just can't take the chance that he wouldn't stay composed. It's too serious and he is severely emotionally compromised.
So this is what happened. My friend is 30, married for 6 years. His wife is 29. They have 3 children together, a 5 year old boy, and a 3 year old girl and a 11 month newborn. They have been together since high school. All outside observations would point everything is great with them and that they are loyal to each other. All of us guys would always tease him for being such a gentleman. The guy would never cheat. Even in LV when a bunch of us went for bachelor parties the guy had girls all over him and he just pushed them away. Anyways his wife too, I thought was an angel. She is definitely an 8/10. Thin, C cup, dark brown hair, beautiful girl. She works part time in an office as a assistant.
Now here is what happened. My friend 6 months ago came home from work early and found his brother over at his house, he was there to pick up one of my friends children, the 5 yr old boy to take him out. He thought it was cool and regretted not spending more time with his son. He said his brother had the day off and wanted to take him out to play. His wife that day he said was acting a bit strange. Now my friend is a sharp guy. It obviously entered into his mind that maybe his older brother and his wife were having an affair. He told me he puts the odds at like 1%. They get along good, but are not super close, but still obviously care about each other and help, but he dismissed it and didn't really think much of it because he did not think his wife AND brother could both betray him like that.
Fast forward to a month ago, and he came home early again and again his brother was there but dropping off his son. His brother never mentioned anything and he asked why to his wife she didnt mention anything. She said he just showed up and we are all a big family so it's ok, it's good for the boy. Now here is where my friend's life started to fall apart. His son, does NOT look like him at all, in fact he looks like his brother. He told me it entered his head that he got this suspicious that maybe his wife had an affair with his brother, and that his 5 yr old is not his but his brothers. He tried to think back and could not remember if the 9 months before the son was born if he was away.
With his wife's behavior, he went on a long shot hunch and had his son's DNA, along with his daughters and his newborn from a toothbrush, hair, and blood samples to be analyzed with his own. He then sent the samples to 2 different labs. Today he got back the results. My friends 5 year old son, and his 11 month old newborn are not his. His daughter is his only child. The DNA was a close match, but they told him, it's a relative. His brother, and his wife, have been having a long term affair and 2 of his 3 children are not his. He has not been home yet, and has not talked to his wife or brother yet. He found out this afternoon. He is a good friend of mine and I feel sick for him.
When we spoke and he was white as a ghost. There were no tears left in his body. He was very dehydrated. He was so taken back, and so depressed he told me he did not want to live. After i forced him to drink some water i convinced him to not leave his daughter and parents. He told me he was ok, and was going to stay over at a hotel. I followed him to a holiday inn, and he did get a room and go inside. I called a few of our friends and sent them over to the hotel. I then drove over to his parents house, told them everything, and sent them to the hotel.
I really don't know what I can do. His parents took over, but I feel he's going to be super fked up forever. How can you possibly recover from that? It's one thing for her to have an affair, but with his brother, AND his child he raised for 5 yrs, is his brothers, AND the newborn? I honestly would climb a bell tower if i was him. I am worried the RAGE will soon enter him. I don't really know what to do, i pray his parents take him in and take care of him. I will do everything i can, but I really don't know what i can do right now.
Should i go talk to his brother? Beat the crap out of his brother? WTF
